I agree with all of you 100% and I also always have and still want to meet the love of my life in rom com irl meet cute kind of way through fate. I am sickeningly idealist when it comes to love.
I find dating apps to be inhumane, artificial and vulgar way to love.
BUT, one's ideals and principles must be able to adapt and manifest itself in an ever changing world. I was going to start hanging out in bars go to events later in 2020. Then an easily transferable airborne disease happened which can easily kill one's co-morbid parents. By the time I will get a vaccine I will be in late 20s. And even then there's a tiny chance the disease could be spread. I find this very depressing. I don't want to have my first date at the age of 30 becoming an old old man.
I live in a country where political violence is common thus being an open book is stupid and I very much understand how "free" apps want to extract value from you somehow by selling your data.
Thus, listen to my plan to execute maximum satisfaction of my ideals with most minimum harm.
Tell me if this practice has any flaws
1. NO ENGAGEMENT IN POLITICAL AESTHETICISM - no ☭ in the bio, no telling right wing women to fuck off, no virtue signaling that you're a leftist in any way whatsoever. Not only is it dangerous to expose yourself as a communist with your face to the bad people potentially but also not being able to defend your positions and views only harms the communists movement. I am still reading theory.
2. CAN'T BE MONETIZED IF YOU HAVE NO MONEY - years of playing p2w games has taught me self-discipline and how to make the system work for me thus no "premium" marketing will work
3. STAYING AUTHENTIC WHILE ALSO BEING SAFE - don't need to announce you're a communist to share one's anti-capitalist sentiments and views on politics and talk about class. Nobody is apolitical they just don't know what means what. Rightoids often pretend to be centrist and say right wing things. This is not a hard tactic to utilize. If I somehow find love on the site then I can trust the person and confess about being a communist.
Real material Good consequences
Normalized social interaction with real people
Shyness and anxiety will be numbed after numerous encounters
Tiny chance of finding true love
Safe from political violence by pretending to be apolitical and normie on main profile
Real material bad consequences:
Face permanently out on the web
Porky will know what my favorite ABBA songs are
What do you think? Do the pros outweigh the cons?