No.362933
What's got you down, love?
No.362938
>>362931If things don't get better you won't live to tellt he tale. If things get good you will tell others. So they aren't lying.
No.362941
>>362939Well, you definitely need friends to have your social support system. It‘s important for your mental health. But I guess it‘s difficult to make suitable friends where you live.
No.362942
>>362939I don't think everyone hates you. You're easily the best flagposter on this site
No.362944
>>362939Finally join the communist orgs
dumbassNo excuses, stop avoiding
No.362945
>>362939wow you are me based
No.362948
>>362939Unironically get off the internet and pay more attention to statistics than to online vibes. Online vibes are liars.
No.362950
>>362939You're not ugly though, you're cute, I'm sorry you are having a bad time though, try to b.e.e. positive
I am pretty sad at the moment also but at least it you are working then you are saving up some money right? That should help you to maybe move out in the future.
No.362957
>>362939>also ive cut off all my friends So you're the asshole basically.
So tired of people complaining about how theyre so lonely and the world hates them when they purposefully shirk all opportunities and chase people away by being emo. if you make the effort then people usually return in kind
No.362958
>>362939I’m indifferent to you
No.362960
>>362957It's hard to make the effort though
No.362966
>>362957Not really. I'm happier not chasing down so called friends. I mean I guess I'd still consider some of these people friends, but that's life, years pass you change. Best thing you can learn is stop getting so attached to this person or that person. If you have thst bff forever you just click with, cool, but my experience, trying to create that with someobe can be a onesided affair for whatever reason.
I feel like if I have to start every conversation I'm only going to do it a handful of times a year at most. I'm not that thirsty.
Every relationship is better in the honeymoon period anyways.
ABC akways be courting new friends.
No.362969
>>362960Well its hard for them too, but if no one does then you end up with no one in society having friends
>>362966well no one is asking you to force it, if you guys arent compatible as friends then move and and find someone who has the same time available, interests, willingness to hang out, etc as you.
Plus it wont get any easier as you get older, people have even less time and get more boring when they get kids.
>Every relationship is better in the honeymoon period anywaysAlso not really, if you find a good friend and become besties its way better sharing experiences because you can always be more open with them.
No.362970
>>362969>Also not really, if you find a good friend and become besties its way better sharing experiences because you can always be more open with them.I suppose. I also moved passed the need for that kinda bullshit.
Circling back around to
>>362957>shirk all opportunities and chase people away by being emo. This is actually a really great point that took me a whike to learn. Stop being a negative nancy, especislly if you are always bitching about the same shit, not only is it off-putting but it becomes tedious. Get a tgerapist or something.
Bring mirth to your friends not all your stupid problems that only you can solve anyways.
No.362974
>>362939Shay your woe is me routine is tiresome. Take steps to improve your life and your living situation or stop bitching about it.
Ok so we got the incel general now. Can we also have a livejournal general?
No.362977
>>362939Don't worry, everyone who hates trans people is a moron because there's not one good reason to
No.362981
>>362980>shit you're not working to achievesuch as irrational hatred and discrimination based on the fact that you wanted to grow tits instead of a beard?
No.362988
>>362974Youre right. Its not like my complaining changes anything. Im just a bitter loser who barely works enough to afford hormones, let alone enough to move out. If i want to change anything i honestly just need to go to college
No.362991
>>362980Well it gets better, for some, because you get money and property and stop being poor, they say 'youth is wasted on the young' but money is wasted on the old even moreso.
No.362997
>>362977Youd be surprised at the transphobia that comes out of the woodwork.
>>362980>The reason it "gets better" is because you grown in wisdom and learn to be a "half glass full" kind of person. Like those kids that kill themselves over a teenage relationship, it get's better is a very true statement. Yeah it does get better because you learn to stop being bent out of shape by trivial shit(hopefully.)You wish. The idea that "age begets wisdom/maturity" is pure copium. Not to say its not possible, but its used more as a putdown against younger people. People over thirty arent really as wise or mature as they want you to believe. Especailly in this era of regressive nostalgia wherre everyone in their thirties and forties whines about "being old" just bcuz theor childhood culture isnt rembered anynore or becuase their romantoc fixations dont reciprocate.
Unless youre over at least sixty, you have no right to whine about being old.
And since the Gen X, the milestones for proper adulthood have been diminished.
Its just eternal adolescence now. And its not just recession affecting peoples ability to take care of themselves.
Im also talking about the popular culture selling adulthood as a bohemian suburbanite club, where any whim/desire you want is to be granted immediately because "fuck you, Im old enough to vote, I should have this."
Then they rush into marriage/parenthood, or throw away money to college for cushy desk jobs, or get involved in "overnight entreprenuership" programs, which end up collapsing immediately.
These are the retards that then whine about childhood was so much better, beating up on teens for venting their troubles.
>>362991Goddamn right. The constant criticism of youthful flaws is just moral projection.
>>362989> I think you'll get over feeling critisized by just getting older, doesn't mean its not an understandable feeling its just you need to learn to ignore them a bit more (though I'm not trans so idk)Obviosult youve never dealt with older men arguing with each other. People dont "give less fucks" with age. In fact, criticisng an older person for their flaws or disagreeing with them is considered "disrespectful".
No.363000
>>362988Shay, why do you want to transition so badly? By the time you earn enough to transition, you probably wont look as good as you think.
And your heart may not be into it as much.
I always say that all passions should be achieved as young as possible.
Another thing, dont obsess over social circles.
And please for Gods sake, stay away from relationships.
Especially in this postboomer era.
No.363004
>>363000Well she is taking hormones already so that should help a lot. Besides Shay needs money to move out more.
No.363007
>>363004I thought Shay was referred to as a he.
Granted Shay is transitioning but I thought Shay still wanted to be reffered by male pronouns.
No.363018
This.
"Getting better" is a luxury for the select few.
No.363052
>>363007I dunno, I thought they 're transitioned' now
No.363084
>>362997Newgene, shuddup.
No.363185
>>362997I hope that once you turn thirty you spotaneously combust.
No.363191
>>363185Why aren't you doing that?
If you whine about feeling old at thirty and complain about the newer generations like a boomer while immersing on the same pop culture, maybe that's what you need.
No.363201
>>362939>>362988You should escape into the city. Maybe get some friends and live in an apartment together. Maybe take advantage of some social program in the area that allows you to go to school for free if you have low income
>>363000>By the time you earn enough to transition, you probably wont look as good as you think.She shouldn't do that. Her gender dysphoria will make her extremely depressed and miserable.
She should just transition anyways ignoring beauty since she'll never feel beautiful if she didn't transition.
>>362948>>362957>>362977Her parents abuse her and she lives in a very reactionary town in a country where one of the two parties is turning more and more fascist and blaming lgbt for the countries shortcomings, it's pretty understandable for why shay is like this (except cutting off friends, but still).
No.363278
>>362939I can relate. I've had to move a places a few times, losing contact with my old friends. The new "friends" I end up making are almost always a bunch of dickheads. They're so vapid and fake and always try to belittle me to gain "clout" among their peers. And if this is the case for cishet men like me, it must be awful for transfems.
No.363408
>>362939At least you're not a chinlet.
No.363418
>>363278nah men just suck in that particular way
No.363523
>>363418Why is misandry a favorite pastime for leftypol?
Cishet folks can be shitty regardless.
No.363530
>>362939aw jeez look i made some bad posts on here, look just relax alright
No.363568
consider getting a fucking life. all you do is make shitposts here. like surely you can do something besides wallow in your self-pity? move out, get a job, whatever. just do something. join the fucking military. go join a commune. go be homeless. just please stop posting or start using a trip code.
No.363639
Oh for some reason I though redneck flag posters were one tripfag or mod lol
No.363645
If anybody ever tells you that itty bitty baby, itty bitty boat, they're lying. Don't believe it.
No.363649
>>363639Shay is the only one that uses it as far as im aware.
No.363661
>>363649No, I use it too sometimes. But shay uses it permanently to be a piece of shit.
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