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 No.411853

Hey bros, lost my virginity a few months ago (21 then, 22 now) and am now in my first real relationship. Feels good etc.

The problem is I'm still a massive coomer and I'm concerned it's going to create problems in the future. Total disclosure, I probably coom like 2-3 times a day, got addicted to weird shit over covid too (Cuckold, Incest, etc.). I really personally despise this aspect of myself and I feel like it's the major thing holding me back from being a normalfag.

I've sort of tried NoFap before but got turned off by how cringe and infantile the NoFapper is on reddit, half of them are openly in porn subs while the other half babble about god. It's all very facebooky.

I have some porn blockers on my phone and tablet, but I seem to find ways around them. Are their any bros here that figured this stuff out?

 No.411856

Even in a relationship I'm still jacking it every day. Don't worry about it, it's normal.

 No.411859

Jerking off without porn is the right idea. Regular excercise can help you with discipline. When you crave porn delay the satisfaction and choose not to now and again. That way you diminish that signal in your reward system. Or shove shit up your butt

 No.412002

Jerking off is healthy even if you are also having sex. Despite what some people will tell you it's actually kind of difficult to do it "too much." Like yeah if it's taking time away from other things then it can be a problem, but to do it an amount that's actually unhealthy would require you to work against your refractory period, being tired, etc. You already have built-in safeguards for that.

Somebody else gave good advice, just use your imagination. You have probably seen enough by now to fantasize about whatever you need. Why waste time looking for something that suits your taste when you can just picture it in your head?

 No.412003

>>411859
>Jerking off without porn is the right idea.
why

 No.412008

>nofap
>normalfag
>frog
Fuck all that, but congrats on the relationship, it's nice to have someone to talk to all the time. If you're in the right place for it you should let your partner know about this problem and ask for their help. But obviously that's pretty contingent on your relationship.

 No.412009

>>411853
>Total disclosure, I probably coom like 2-3 times a day, got addicted to weird shit over covid too (Cuckold, Incest, etc.). I really personally despise this aspect of myself and I feel like it's the major thing holding me back from being a normalfag.
Feeling ashamed over this is only going to fuck you up even more. As long as you don't actually act upon your fantasies then you shouldn't really care.

 No.412037

>>411853
Step 1: stop being a frogposter

 No.412038

MOOOOOODDDSSSSSSS!!!!!! A FROGCOALER!!!!!

 No.412069

>>411853
You need to replace a negative behavior with a positive one. Do you have any outdoor interests or hobbies you could try instead of beating off?

Also, try making your phone less stimulating by turning on grayscale.

 No.412114

>>412037
>>412038
God I hate this website

 No.412115

>>411853
nothing wrong with cooming
>but muh addiction
anything can be addictive even drinking water, so do it in moderate and be at peace.. not cooming and overcooming is the problem. Coom in moderate.

 No.412152

>>412069
This^, look at the outdoor sports around you until you find one you think is cool and then give it a go. Take some classes, learn the skill and watch vids on your new hobby instead of watching porn.


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