Dating Older Woman General
post serious dating advice about older women
>>568868i dont get what youre trying to say
>>568862am i too young or would they be okay with it
>>568921>>568924>Using age numbers as personality traits.Ngmi
>>568929Consensual sexual relationships between toe parties of opposite sides of the agespan shouldn't be confused for grooming
>>568955Adress your attitude towards women, it is not acceptable for a communist to act this way. If you want to be anti-idpol you have to also be anti-sexist.
>>568977I never said anything about men and I don't think its ok to call them slurs either. Unhinged tbh, victim blaming mindset.
>>568972>Consensual sexual relationships between toe parties of opposite sides of the agespan shouldn't be confused for groomingGrooming isn't about the age gap. It's about one (or more) party's lack of maturity being exploited to
socialized them to be more vulnerable to abuse. A lot of "normal" sexual mores are in fact grooming, since they set expectations that you should allow people to cross certain boundaries.
>>569230No.
"Muh brain development" is a meme.
By that right anyone can be groomed even after thirty.
>>569092Not really.
Imo, age-based maturity has been a farce as of late.
Most people in ther thirties amd forties nowadays still dress, talk, and comsume adolescent stuff.
Ironically, theyre also age-sensitive.
>>569217You can get groomed regardless of age. Like
>>569084 defines it pretty well in it's broadness. Doesn't even have to be sexual, the whole Qanon thing and most religions are effectively grooming, and some people in as high as their 80's can fall into that.
Also I read an article about people getting groomed by AI chatbots but I didn't bookmark it.
>>569308There's a difference between grooming and just manipulation. Some 80 year old falling into a cult isn't being groomed (except in some very exceptional cases). Grooming is basically about miseducating someone regarding social behavior so their social skills are stunted in a way that makes them easy to manipulate. An 80 year old (or anyone) falling into a cult likely
was groomed to obey authority figures (cults prey on people with this mentality) but the cult itself didn't groom them. People of
can be groomed as adults, but that pretty much requires delayed or stunted socialization in general. What it isn't is just any sort of manipulation or power imbalance, which a lot of people confuse it with.
>>569247This happened to my little brother
He's married now and has a big house and a nice job and is like super happy with his wife and she's really cool too
>>569445You sure?
Maybe its not always the case
>>569445Thats a common steroetype thats promoted to discourage intergenerational relationships.
Older men date younger women and its not mocked but when itsthe opposite its pathologised.
Im also intrigued that society promotes interracial, intercultural relationships or even interfinancial but intergenerational is still considered wrong.
>>569100unironically this happens more often than you think.
Underage webcam whores get failed adult males hooked onto them and drain their wallet.
>>569806This what imageboards are all about.
Know-it-alls with little to no social experience
>>569821Imageboard users cannot tell the difference.
Theyre too self-isolated.
>>569823Not him.
>>569883>>569882ignore the derailers
>>569876here is my experience. usually with older girls they have less outright bullshit(still bullshit),more hangups,and are much more jaded. they also have a certain desperation to them i cant put my finger on. if you have any shyness, insecurity, or hesitation it is a MASSIVE turnoff(same for their younger counterparts to a lesser degree). it is very easy to strikeout. This is from my minute experience, dont act like i am a pua f a g go t.
>>569876nta btw
>>569893probably not
>>569908Yea, Hispanic, Caribbeam, and Asian female elders are theonly safe ones.
White female elders are prone to toxicity.
>>569898Thats because the older women youre referring about are middle aged.
Middle age is the adolescent phase of the adult world.
>>569919Middle age is oftem referred to as second adolescence/puberty.
Ever notice how people between thirty-five and seventy tend to be uptight and always have a chauvinistic demeanor towards the youth amd elderly?
They always use their parental status to bully customer service workers.
Notice also that most of our prominent cases of Karens are often forties and fifties?
They also try to indulge in curret generation tech/media while overpromoting oldies entertainment.
They want the respect of adulthood but they hate the responsibilities amd waste money on rejuvenation techniques.
I especially hate how theyre lumped with the elderly.
Anyone who spends enough time around the eldery (seventy and up) usually notices that theyre more chill and tolerant of new stuff.
Middle aged people are the opposite.
>>569900Transphobia has more to do with how poorly you pass imo
If most transwomen were to look like supermodels without post-HRT cosmetic surgery, transphobia would be more absurd than deadly.
>>570062(cont.)
I don't really date or have sex since I'm a /siberia/n, but from what I've been told by people who dated older but still hot women is that the women wanted a long-term relationship which freaked them out.
>>570062I think you mean stability.
They want a Mr Fixit that will fix their appliances.
>>570070>so mommy gf is a lie?not if you are lucky. currently working on one rn
>youre saying i need to actually be the proactive one in the relationship?yes
>whats the prime location?dont know i met mine through friends of family and working shit jobs
>are there specific bars full of alcoholic milfs or whati avoid bars
>>570884>noo don't compare transwomen to supermodels>posts a picture of a trans supermodel totally not in order suggest that transwomen can pass easily irlSeriously though what is it with you mfers on this site I've done my research
(using pictures uploaded to an online escort catalogue for masturbation) and I can safely say that a very large chunk of transwomen are really ugly. Like you know, still having gigachad faces while wearing a ton of makeup. Even when they pass, they aren't particularly hot (I mean that's what passing means - barely being above the minimum standard) and even the "hottest" have deficencies. That's not to mention how they probably sound like IRL. You have to be kind of gay to find your average transwoman to be exciting.
Now please get out of my comfy mommy thread.
>>570892And we all fell for it.
>>571008Fertility goes down after the early thirties.
Having children later in life raises risk of developmental disorder as the chromosomal integrity of the ovum decays.
I think its best if the state had mandatory egg harvesting of women during their teenage years.
The eggs should be put in cryogenic/vacuum storage.
Any woman who wamta to have kids shpuld undergo five years minimum of hospitality training amd have frequent drug testing.
Metabolic teating ahould also be mandatory.
>>571008Women are waiting longer because they wanna have their cake amd eat it too.
If you want to fool around in your teens, twenties, and early thirties, dont expect to have a stable epoch of child rearing.
In fact, schools should have life skill training for both males and females.
Stop treating family planning as some automatic luxury of adulthood.
>>571017>Stop treating family planning as some automatic luxury of adulthood.?
>>571017>Women are waiting longer because they wanna have their cake amd eat it too.are men any different?
>>571016>Any woman who wamta to have kids shpuld undergo five years minimum of hospitality training amd have frequent drug testing.bureaucracy is cancer
>>571016>The eggs should be put in cryogenic/vacuum storage.yes
>>571016>Having children later in life raises risk of developmental disorder as the chromosomal integrity of the ovum decays.true, yet all the the girls i meet up are not interested in having children at all. this is the new normal. if you are young and serious about having a family, the risk and tradeoff may be worth it. Would be mandatory to look into her family's medical history
>>571019>are men any different?never said they were. But it seems criticising female behavioral patter s gets an immedite assumption of misogyny.
>bureaucracy is cancerHow convenient.
When it comes to childrearing, the most consequential job in the world, any sort of competency test is comsodered "draconian".
But we want control over corporations, right?
>true, yet all the the girls i meet up are not interested in having children at all. this is the new normal. if you are young and serious about having a family, the risk and tradeoff may be worth it. Would be mandatory to look into her family's medical historyObviously having kids is expensive and too many adults nowadays are severely lacking in basic home training. Forgoing procreation is the only ethical choice.
People who choose to delay procreation rather than forgo it are selfish.
>?Children are not toys. Im sick and tired of adults thinking that kids are biological property that they "have to have" and do fuck all to raise them properly.
>>571020I have a hard time believing this.
I think this is promoted for "inclusivity" of female elders.
The women who can safely birth out kids after thirty five are those with good diet and genes.
And youre not gonma find that in NA if theyre all white suburbanites.
>>570862Not really.
But yea I can see what you mean.
>>571027Again, how can women over 35-40 safely deliver babies with ease as if though they were in their twenties?
Youre forgetting hormonal changes happen in the thirties too, not just teens
>>571024>>571024>never said they were. But it seems criticising female behavioral patter s gets an immedite assumption of misogyny.then why single out foids, comrade?
>>571024>How convenient. >When it comes to childrearing, the most consequential job in the world, any sort of competency test is comsodered "draconian". >But we want control over corporations, right?bureaucracy = aristocracy
>>571024>People who choose to delay procreation rather than forgo it are selfish.you say this as if this is abnormal
>>571024
>Obviously having kids is expensive and too many adults nowadays are severely lacking in basic home training. Forgoing procreation is the only ethical choice.doomer and blackpilled
>>571024>Children are not toys.i agree
>>571024> Im sick and tired of adults thinking that kids are biological property that they "have to have" and do fuck all to raise them properly.also agree
>>571024>The women who can safely birth out kids after thirty five are those with good diet and genes.interesting
>>571034>then why single out foids, comrade?Bruh we criticise moids all the time on here, including me. I always say that men are simps who throw away self-value for gf.
Most of the whining on here about not finding a gf are just entitled manchildren.
>you say this as if this is abnormalToo many people mindlessly choose to procreate rather than think about whether theyre competent enough.
>doomer and blackpilledThe same board that whines about he world going to hell in a handbasket because capitalism is making draconian leaps and bounds.
The black pill is the only pill I need.
Redpills are for people who think theyre above it all but secretly wish they could be accpeted by the "normies" they claim to hate.
>bureaucracy = aristocracyHow else are we gonna test the moral/ethical parametres of potential procreators?
We should make life skill training mandatory in schools.
Starting in middle school.
>>571043>Bruh we criticise moids all the time on here, including me. I always say that men are simps who throw away self-value for gf.>Most of the whining on here about not finding a gf are just entitled manchildren.i dont lurk enough
>>571043>How else are we gonna test the moral/ethical parametres of potential procreators?communal/village rearing
https://leftypol.org/siberia/res/569181.html>>571043>Too many people mindlessly choose to procreate rather than think about whether theyre competent enough.i cant dispute that
>>571043>The same board that whines about he world going to hell in a handbasket because capitalism is making draconian leaps and bounds.>The black pill is the only pill I need.>Redpills are for people who think theyre above it all but secretly wish they could be accpeted by the "normies" they claim to hate.okay, so then who will carry on the future revolutions?
>>571046>okay, so then who will carry on the future revolutions?Is that all you guys care about?
"Muh glorious revolution" as if though its like the 300 Spartan movie. This is the same delusion we condemn the alt right for having.
But then again, most LeftyPol patrons are former chuds or chud-adjacent.
You want your revolution to be successful?
Build up a community of skilled labormen.
Enough of the collegiate dross.
Unless youre enrolling in college to be a doctor or engineer, youre wasting money and time.
Stop obsessing over sex and relationships.
Those things are meant to be privileges for conpetent adults, not failed adults.
>all this yappingWtf
Love hags btw. @HagLovers is this reference material accurate???
https://exhentai.org/g/1970899/d679c99146/ >>573247I never had a sexual self-discovery/hook-up/serial monogamist phase btw, khv until 27yo focusing on minimum-wage jobs and failing to finish university multiple time.
'bout ready to kms tbh within 18months unless I can turn things around in a meaningful way.
Maybe I
should geomaxx…
>>575016This.
Age numbers are treated like horoscopic signs.
>>575030That's good
>>575016>hag thinks it is about her personalityit is not about maturity, slightly-older-than-the-ideal
set by society bodies are vulgar and erotic in a very specific way, it isn't new, millennials called it "milf". it is just porn brain
>>581116that fucking breaks my heart. i want to cry just imagining a lib millenial woman watching the election results. i just want to hug her and tell her that everything is going to be okay.
single democrat women above the age of 30 please hit me up
a milf got handsy with me last weekend
in front of her sons>>581116pour one out for the sad hags of yankeestan
>>581399>>581131Lib Millennial women are gonna forget about this.
Besides most of the older women are proTrump or were more leery of Harris.
>>581612how did it go?
what was her background?
why was she preying on you?
what quality attracted her to you?
>>581714>>581775How is it groomimg if it was a middle scooler with a high school sophomore
Jesus I just cannot with yall.
Millennias and Gen Z would make staunchier conservatives than even boomers.
>>581772only a simp would say that
>>581816nobody respect simps
also, theres a thin line betweein simping amd inceldom
>>581823between middle school and high school is two to five year gap.
Its not that wide.
I get what youre saing but itskinda dumb how its worded.
Imo conset has more to do with actual want ot desire than actual age itself.
Twelve yesr old me would love to have my first time with a seventwe yesr old girl if I was wasnt an awkward autist.
Instead I have to lose my virginity to escorts or to out of shape dadbods through my twenties.
>>581837And you think a middle schooler lacks capacity to make a choice with a high schooler?
This is the kind of infantilising logic that we use and wonder why our young people are falling behind in school and work.
>>583135Brain development is misunderstood.
What hapoens in your mid twenties is your brain starts dying.
It doesnt finish developing.
Also, our modern culture infantikises young people with excessive schooling ad liability laws.
Also,hormones are a thing in midde age as well.
Second puberty
>>583155NTA
Electives usually aren't potentially life alternating decisions like sex.
>>583157They could affect grades though.
But fr though, adultstreat sex as some mundane thing but apparently when it comes to teens society wats to treat it like a supernova.
Not unlike a kid dropping an F bomb.
>>583150Youregonnamainly end up with old ladies.
And I dont mean middle aged.
Or rather, the middle ages ones arent gonna be like what you see in media.
>Until then, [Khadijah] had refused to marry again and had rejected many suitors, but the young Muhammad caught her attention and admiration for his qualities, which made Khadijah change her mind and propose to him, despite his humble condition. The future Prophet accepted in 595, after obtaining the agreement of his uncle and protector Abū Ṭālib. It should be remembered that Muhammad was an orphan, having missed both his parents.
>Khadijah, known by her free spirit, married the young Muhammad, when he was barely 25 years old, while she was 40.
I just wanted to say i love hags so much, thank you :D
>>588336An older hagfag than benjamin franklin, waow
>>588353Hags r cool :)
>>588353The age gap discourse has less to do with actual social reality and more to do with projection.
Millennials want every young person to be as awkward and innocent and full as they were at that age.
They don't want precociousness or worldly instinct in youth
>>588471This piece has convinced me to shoot my shot with the hot 20yo
Thank you BMX
>>589146straight shota is criminally underrated.
And even when it is appreciated, it focuses far too much on the female characters.
I want a stright shota maga that focuses on the shota the way they do for female characters
>>589146so youre making fun of women for being into the same fetish as you
no wonder you tards are incels who get approx. 0 pussy
>>593180Looks like a 16 year old to me
Well all anime drawings do
>>593181I couldn't tell that drawing was a girl, it looks like a really bad Pippi Longstocking knockoff.
Is this what the chinese are up to nowadays?
>>593535That's what I've been saying for a long time
Pop culture treats thirty as some mark of senescence when it's just your third decade of adolescence nowadays
>>59353530 ís the beginning of being old
once you hit 30 you are old
>>59353530 is essentially the end of the line when it comes to youthful ambition. You know when they call it the 27 club? Because that's the peak of your youth. That is when you are the most influential, when you have the most to gain, when you should be accomplishing the most possible shit. Here's the black pill. Here's the real black pill. Once you hit 30, it's over. It is, quite frankly, done for you. Your youth is gone. Think about all the Gen Z celebrities who died before they hit 30. The vast majority of them didn't make it out, but they're more famous and they accomplish more than you ever will by the time you hit 30. The fact of the matter is that there are dudes right now who are going into their 30th birthday with a million-dollar dropshipping business, and you work at fucking Target. When I turn 30 and I'm not worth something, I'm going to kill myself, and I'm dead-ass being that. I've been thinking about this since I stepped out of high school. If I'm not worth a million dollars by the time I'm 30, I failed.
>>593665Youre forgetting one important thing: most people never make it big at thirty.
Also, thirty isnt old at all and most "youthful ambitions" are often completed after thirty due to needing time to accumulate wealth.
But, heres the thing, if your logic is to be sound it will have to require sacrificing some years from the sociolegal arbritration of childhood.
Meaning that youd have to start working and hustling like crazy at thirteen.
>>593547>>593597>>593579>>593584t. white suburban solipsism dictating lifestyle choices and perception
>>593672The problem with competition os, it assumes tgat resources are infinote amd opportunites are as well.
It also fails to account that its losers who mske competition possibke not winners
Winners are just window dressing
Its really the losers who make the system.
Power is never really taken as much as its given.
Also, most people end up losers.
The problem is everyone thinks theyre the only ones left behind.
Most of this hyperobsessive capitalist competition is a drain on skill learning.
>>593853Just goes to show that getting mad about slang is ridiculous.
Most of our common timeless language is slang terms from five centuries ago the earliest
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