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>>618934>>644026the website i linked in
>>620123 seems like a good starting point. recently i also read Kitanai Kimi ga Ichiban Kawaii and it was a whole thing… well written though and made me cry at times.
>>644122I got my husband a Zippo.
I recommend knives.
Pic related what I got from him
Also god fuck I love men, I like how big they are.
If you wouldn't mind,
I think someone within the LGBTQ+ community would be capable of answering a question I posed here
>>644183 best
It is in regarding hetero/bi sexuality and forming romantic relationships with enby/transwomen
Thanks
>>644190Answered.
>>644205Circuit is out. Grindr is in, but hookups are out, contradictory. Next on the agenda is expanding gay networks.
>>644157He might think the knife is cool, iirc he has a pocket knife he likes to play with so maybe he'd like a new one. Thanks for the suggestion.
>Also god fuck I love men, I like how big they areI'm the big one in our relationship I'm like 6'3 and he's 5'6 lol. Just a teeny lil guy <3
>>644161He does love plushies, he's got like 20 of them crammed onto his bed lol. I've gotten him those just for fun though, so I'd like to get him something more special for his birthday. I'll get him the Gameboy if he hasn't gotten it for himself by then, but otherwise I'm thinking maybe some other piece of vintage tech, or possibly a model car or something.
>>645706We're all queer here. Feminism is a touchy subject since many here are more radical than what feminism has to offer.
>>645765I'm a Stalinist, whatever that may mean.
>>645768Identity politics, in this case, presenting as NB as a political statement or what not, is retarded through and through. NB makes sense historically because gender roles have never been weaker in centuries but at the same time genders are strongly demarcated by society. The end result is that genders stop making sense and people are like wtf am I supposed to be, gender-wise. Of course we must support people presenting as however they want, but gender isn't abolished by these actions, but rather by the material conditions that gave rise to gender in the first place.
>>645768>>644226>>644212I’ve never met a non binary person that doesn’t come from a middle class/upper class background. There’s no nb prostitutes or homeless. To me, non binary is a grift cis middle/upper class queer people use to take resources meant for trans people for their own personal gain.
>>646031QED.
>>647715For me, transness is about survival, realizing yourself and changing your position in society. If these aren’t your goals in transition, which it never is for nb, then it’s not the same struggle as me and I don’t relate, therefore can’t say we’re in the same "community". I don’t fuck with people that are just in it for the fun/fuck gender!!! crowd. This is real life and these expressions have consequences, that which is most fatal for trans women. NB rarely deviate from their birth gender’s expression, not to mention no one even knows what NB is.
To most, it’s just queer fashion and style trends accompanied with a “they,” which is not the same as changing your gender. You aren’t not considered trans by most because they lack the knowledge to even consider your identity, to be treated as cis is a privilege regardless of your personal feelings. In my experience, non binary have dominated trans spaces, take resources from trans people, spread harmful narratives about transness and commit violence towards specifically trans women. I have countless anecdotes of these moments.
Like this
>>644212 is just the average enby anywhere.
>>646556Depends on where you live but here you can.
>>647617>To me, non binary is a grift cis middle/upper class queer people use to take resources meant for trans people for their own personal gain.I regret nothing. The cute boys must flow.
>>648506Anfem? Gay misandrist?
What's this about women being automatic empaths to LGBT?
>>644212>>648444I always felt it was just white people wishing they felt a modicum of adversity and identity nonwhite have
if they manage to be leftist then I don't care thougher
>>648751An exception to the rule
Whereas hetmoids being hateful violent psychopaths to lgbt folk is the norm
I don't think its true that most nbs don't transition. Lots of the transmascs I know (who are on T) are nonbinary, even though they go by explicitly male names. I think in an ideal world I would be nonbinary.
TBH I hate some parts about traditional femininity, some of the parts that lots of people associate with being a woman. I hate party dresses, high heels and women's shoes in general (which just feel like mobility restrictors). It's all just about social capital. That's the deal with that ugly over the top makeup too, its not about looking good its about showing off how much effort you put into it. I HATE romance that doesn't have a plot. Idk how people can only read romance, it's unironically a psyop. Women are only allowed to write Romance, not sweeping narratives about politics and history. And I think most of all I hate the kind of way lots of women socialise. I'm not explaining it properly but anyone that has experienced it knows. Idk but there is something very awful about some 'female' spaces and groups especially at like work.
I mean on the other hand I do fit into some other stereotypes about feminitiy. I like hugging people, I care about fashion, have stuffed animals, and I generally care a lot about my friends. I cry very easily. But tbh none of these things were parts about myself that I was not pre-transition. I was always very sentimental and cared about aesthetics, liked cooking etc., and liked being the 'care giver' I guess. Some things I did have become 'cute', like being nerdy and kind of autistic. But also like I am not any different from before I transitioned other than that I am now more into women than before when I was mainly into men (and I identified as a gay guy). I guess fag to fag transition. I'm still traditionally masculine in the ways I always was, I like doing physical things like climbing trees, martial arts, being really into hobbies, being anti-pop music (and especially tailor swift and rappers), being pro-violence, personally austere, highly materialist, wanting to be a martyr to a political cause and wanting to die young. Though my template for that chaneged to like Joan of Arc, and tbh maybe thats not much of a male thing, my idea is more like being a beautiful, almost angelic in death martyr.
Maybe in the end 'masculine' and 'feminine' are kind of horseshit. That's where I came to the nonbinary conclusion. By the way I live as a woman, wear dresses, I'm not ugly but I don't pass, I'm not coming from this as like a perennial boymoder or she/her who looks like a fat man.
Maybe I'm just in the same kind of thought tunnel as the straw man of the 'theyfabs', where I actually do want to be percieved as a woman but just hate some parts about it. The not associating with women's friend groups and social things might just be because I don't identify with most social things in general, or that I'm trans and didn't grow up with them. I don't think I would like that shit anyway though, I hate male social groups too, they are even worse. Most of my friends are women anyway. If I was nb I would be almost completely female presenting but like with male hobbies. And what even is a male or a female hobby, what is the difference. There is none, it's just horseshit. The only reason there even are male hobbies is because the men in them are so sexist that it drives everyone else away. Like really in practice I am just like a modern feminist rather than really rejecting gender norms.
In the end I do think most people deep down identify with one of the two genders, me included. These genders are very deeply rooted in our society. Obviously they can, like any social construct, be taken down. But that would be further in the future than nations being destroyed. Maybe gender abolition has to follow the laws of historical development, where they will only go away when the technology reaches a certain point. I actually think that point is not when everyone is born as genderless cyborgs, but instead when artificial babies overtake natural ones. Then the economic basis for gender will dissapear, and what sex organs you are born with will just be like what hair colour you have. That's going to happen quicker under socialism.
>>649356>being anti-pop music (and especially tailor swift and rappers), being pro-violence, personally austere, highly materialist, Hating pop music is the most shallow thing ever.
It really is.
Also, traditional masculinity also favors emotional intimacy with friends, but not the way trad femininity do it
>>649404>Wtf is histrionictheyre probably referring to histrionic personality disorder, the "female hysteria" of the current dsm
basically theyre calling you a woman and dismissing your post
>>649761The current hysteria is BPD, not histrionic.
>>649713You're the retard, lmao. Religion is a very embedded aspect in people's lives. If it were so easy to lose it, nobody would believe in that shit.
>>649502>Hating pop music is the most shallow thing ever.>It really is. True. The most basic bitch shit there is. Learning to enjoy oneself even in spaces where lab grown cheap ass gay pop is playing is an improvement of one's life. It opens up the horizons of what you can do and where you can be. Bitches be out there segregating themselves in an already segregated segment of society to feel special. Lmao. Can't be me.
>>649767>True. The most basic bitch shit there is. Learning to enjoy oneself even in spaces where lab grown cheap ass gay pop is playing is an improvement of one's life. It opens up the horizons of what you can do and where you can be. Bitches be out there segregating themselves in an already segregated segment of society to feel special. Lmao. Can't be meIrony is,most underground music is often just spiced up versions of mainstream slop anyway, and it bases it self far too much on "old school" pop music. Even the lyricism is the same. They always wanna sing about how angsty they feel or how everyone else is fake except them. Or they talk about getting high.
And most "anti pop " musicians often are the biggest hedonists and control freaks
Cannot even finish an album without having beef with their band mates or record label over certain song placements or having drug induced frenzies.
>You're the retard, lmao. Religion is a very embedded aspect in people's lives. If it were so easy to lose it, nobody would believe in that shit. Wanna know a secret? Most people don't believe in God as an actual sentient being. They believe in God as a concept, or rather, treat God as a psychosomatic effect.
Listen. To how people talk about God in such a vague yet personalized manner.
>>649770You're right most music is just pop music but with a different name. I hate all of that music too. I used to tolerate punk because I thought it was cool. But none of this music is actually good to listen to. All modern music is a psyop unironically except some types of electronic music and maybe some types of metal. Everything descended from pop is bad. The only good modern pop music was the Beatles and stuff from that time period. And it sucks. I don't understand how people can like any pop or rock music, it's just boring. It has no heart or emotion.
I think most culture nowadays is pretty good, like I don't think books or films or books or games are worse and in fact they are better in many ways. But music is 100% worse than it was 100 years ago. Classical music has also gotten so pretentious, I can't stand radio 3. That's why I unironically listen to a lot of film soundtracks and game sountracks, I think its the next stage of ballet and opera music, which weren't so prestidgious back then but now are held in high regard, because that is the kind of music meant for entertainment. Though this stuff is obviously worse than the best opera and ballet music from back then. Classical and orchestral music is much more beautiful.
I HATE 'gay' music. I forgot who these 'artists' are but I hate them. It's all so vapid and nothingy. There's no emotion here. It's the musical version of one night stands. Vapid, meaningless. Love music nowadays isn't trying to express it through the actual sounds, using the actual medium. It is just the lyrics of "I love you baby I want to own you baby you are my property", or "I love fucking bitches, I am the bitch owner". We're even at a worse point than when it was three chords, because nowadays it doesn't even sound good, there is no chord progression it is just like in Cardi B it is duu duu duu. It is barely music anymore.
Rap was a psyop by whites to destroy actual black music.
Also I sometimes wish people would listen to folk type music again. That's the kind of simple music I think is good. Socialists need to start making more folk music again I think.
>>649770>most underground music is often just spiced up versions of mainstream slop anywaynot really
i guess underground rock is a little dumb to be super proud of since its basically descended from elvis/beatles/rolling stones pop music (i dont think any avant garde white person was at the original rock music parties…)
but even in those cases, taking a popular form in a unique artistic direction that deconstructs its modality is still pretty cool
anyways, as for pop music itself, obviously theres good and theres bad
>>649564the issue of discord is that theres an attachment to a name, even if its just within a server. i prefer being anon and detaching from my individuality. Discord with a profile, and friends, and a username, creates a virtual individuality. On an image board i am fleeting and just another voice in the crowd, i like that. either way, discord is just obtuse, there's a level of gatekeeping to information in it, and it doesn't lend itself properly to posting so much as talking.
>>649563t. girl who never actually posted on /tttt/ or /s4s/
>>650767>>650767/repgen/ master race
Simply put the dysphoria is not bad enough to justify the social cost. I only care about achieving power, and money. Ive made peace with the masculine role. Male privilege is too good to give up the goose.
>>650772>t. girl who never actually posted on /tttt/ or /s4s/Lmao, sounds like you never posted there. /tttt/ was literally filled to the brim with
-2016-era gamergater or Nazis that at one point in the last 10 years noticed they liked frilly dresses but kept all their racist views
-Unironic military contractor programmer tgirls
-followers of all kinds of reactionary online communities
-the 'let's genocide all brown people because they are homophobic' type.
>>650736This is what we've always been fucking saying! The petit-bourgeois both have more free time and the energy to waste on things like religious fanaticism
and have actual reasons to engage in capitalist competition so they resort to things like nationalism, racism, sexism, transphobia, etc. to get ahead of others. The proletariat in their immiseration doesn't have the time nor energy to waste on shit like this beyond some basic prejudice nor do they have anything to gain in doing so like the petit-bourgeois does. There's materially more in common between proletarians of vastly different identities than between two people of the same identity but different class.
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