>>832119i wish i could say that you were wrong but you're not that far off, other than maybe the "most" part but who can really say? i know it is definitely a lot more prevalent than anyone wants to admit or even consider, that's for sure. i suspect that this is why these voyeuristic tv shows about child sexual abuse like "to catch a predator" and nancy grace etc. are so popular and play so well, because they reinforce the idea that the predators are all "out there" so to speak, they're like a whole separate breed of people, sort of like how the burglar is this cartoon character wearing a mask and striped prison clothes who just goes around burgling all the time, rather than your own junkie family member or neighbor busting into your house to score some dope money; it's a comforting delusion that externalizes and compartmentalizes and effectively erases the problem. people will do anything but confront the real problem when the real problem is connected to them in some way. and it may not necessarily be that they themselves are pedophiles or pedophilia apologists, but that their repressive and delusional attitudes toward sex have created a culture where kids are more likely to be victimized because there are no responsible adults who are able to talk to them about sex in a mature and pragmatic way, they either avoid talking about it at all and try to pretend that they can shelter them from it forever, or they present it to them as something that is innately immoral and dangerous and irresponsible like drug use that they must stay away from, which of course is not going to happen, so kids are left to figure it out for themselves and do their own research and learn about sex from people who most likely are the last people on earth they should be learning anything from. and society's response to the victimization is always to blame the victim, the children are the problem and we must lock them away in the basement and take away their access to the internet and sweep them under the rug, anything but question our own sanity.