Melted Marine Edition
>>807184Would you be willing to date a trans girl?
>>807188
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I'm genuinely fucking stressing over the possibility of a babytrans seeing that image. Mods do your fucking job.
>>807185Giving him an escape fantasy is the worst kind of enabling. How about he just touches grass instead of a mortar?
>>807184You can't. They don't exist in large amounts of numbers.
>But in China/Vietnam/North Korea/Cuba/Nicaragua/etc.Even in socialist countries the percentage of women serving in the armed forces is low. Also the general personality/psychological profile of a woman attracted to serve in the military or police or firefighting or any other profession involving intense physical fitness and which is typically perceived to be a "male" thing to do, usually also inclines them towards lesbianism so even on the off chance that you do run into such a person they're probably not even interested in men.
>>807266I agree, he's gay.
>>807196What was that about?
>>807266Women are not into those kind of jobs. For all the preaching about gender equality, women don’t wanna be real life superheroes. They just wanna play as superheroes in movies and TV/web episodes.
(Nurses and doctors are exceptions)
>>807273>Women are not into those kind of jobs.good. if only we could convince men in the first world to also not be into those kind of jobs as well
>>807274This.
Unfortunately, men are too weak to chivalric impulse to overcome, especially if women disprove of them being self-preservationalist.
Women love to look down on men for being suicidal superheroes but then they will accuse men of being cowards for not falling into that role.
Conservatives and liberals both will morally harass young men into being expendable warrior-jesters for their appeasement.
>>807279Don't forget about the older demographics wanting to "straighten" the youth by traumatizing them with military service
>>807185Cubans are mostly cucked, so are Venezuelans as you said. Cambodia is a monarchy, Vietnam sold out to liberalism, just like China. I don't speak Burmese so my only options would be to join the FARC as you said or maybe the Communist Party in Peru or Ecuador, which are Maoist. But even then I have no money to travel there.
Honestly, I don't mind if she doesn't engage in combat as long as she supports and likes to read about MLM, asking for more would be hypocritical as I myself don't engage in armed struggle either and spend all day shitposting about Gonzalo.
>>807266>They don't exist in large numbers.Let me have hope…
>>807280That’s also what I meant.
But yea, they’re the most hypocritical because a lot of those kind of elders usually never did fight in any military action. Or if they did, they weren’t active combatants.
Older people who wanna mandate religion or military service onto young people are usually miserable assholes who don’t like seeing young people being culturally autonomous
The elders themselves aren’t even strict followers of their own morals
I had a dream where I was married (or about to marry) this middle eastern woman (she looked like a mix between Aubrey plaza and this Kurdish girl i met in community college ) and we were both surfers
It was a nice dream
Reminder: Glowanonymous posters making threads with a pictures that are disgusting, disturbing or otherwise unpleasant to look at is a purposeful demoralisation tactic aimed at driving users away from the site.
>>807183even if you put a bag on this dude's head during sex, you'd still know his horribly disfigured face is there, in the darkness, looming at you. I wonder if she was enough of a trooper to handle it.
>>807308Apparently not since they divorced. He actually seemed better looking than her before the accident, at least in the face. Maybe he shouldn't have joined the military.
>>807308>>807310Irrc he killed him self also a bad deal maybe the worst deal in the history of deals
>>807308>>807310>>807326This goes back to what I said in
>>807279 They married because -
>1. Expectations to marry a conventionally strong man
>2. Make men think that blind patriotism gets you chicks
>3. Feeling sorry for his permanent injury and hoping that marriage (a social construct invented by the Abrahamic religions) could be a band-aid to the unspeakable trauma that one goes through.
Consider this.
>as a man why are you into shaved pussy? that gives off pedo vibes not gonna lie, only a pedophile won't accept women can have hairy parts from too much loli brain frying, take the pussy hair pill
<men who have no body hair on the chest arms legs are attractive to women anon, just stop being a hairy chimp, look at my anime pretty boy and K pop idol
again, why do i see both of these takes on siberia? nothing grinds my gears like making female sexuality less perverted and more refined just because its for girls
>>807518You’re forgetting the take that men with no facial hair are considered “pedophilic”
>>807494This is why I say that singlehood is a blessing that too many people don’t appreciate.
Unironically, being a lonely gooner is a much better fate these days.
>>807518 they're right doe (not only that it really depends on gender expections you can't be 5'somethingbelow9 and buff and hairy jfl)
>>807583How are they correct?
Why do people on here have such a problem with smooth hairless skin?
Not everyone wants a woolly mammoths for a gf.
And men shouldn’t have to be hairy mammoths either.
>>807518Anyone who thinks shaved pussies are pedophilic have never had to deal with getting your dickhead chafed by stray public hairs.
You never had to deal with the awful gunk and smell that comes with it.
>>807578Some of that requires steroids.
Exercise alone isn’t enough.
Either that or live on a farm or some workshop where heavy lifting is the norm
>>807589>>807590I don't think most people have a problem with being hairless per se. I think most people prefer it in fact but it's just the extra work to maintain it especially if you're very hairy to begin with and also if you're a guy since it's not expected like for a woman and also guys tend to be hairier generally compared to women. Also it might be considered kind of gay for a guy to do it even if it's less socially stigmatized compared to what it used to be. Although I think gay guys may be less grossed out by excess hair compared to hetero males.
>>807589 nice strawman that's not what I'm saying at all retard
>>807590 I personally think whoevers genitalia that is needs to take care of themselves more
>>807594In the mid-twentieth century, excess body hair on men was considered faux pas.
Also, not all men are hairy mammoths.
Hairyness in men seems to be more a thing in Europeans and Middle Easterners
Also, has anyone ever went to school with Hispanic schoolgirls? They tend to be hairy as a mofo.
But that’s usually the more light skinned ones.
Also, the assumption that gay men are less intolerant of excessive body hair is just due to the minority of bear-lovers.
I’m sure a lot of gay dudes wouldn’t go down on a sausage that’s nestled in shrubbery.
Imagine wanting to give head to the best dick you’ve ever encountered in your life and having to deal with stray hairs always found down your throat.
Or having to deal with your lover nuzzling his beard on your neck when you’re cuddling.
Why do women gravitate towards men who beat them?
Daily reminder that if you're married to a bald man, youre a fucking pedo and you get the wall.
>>807900If you’re a cishet male, everything you do/like is “degrading” towards women and LGBT.
>>807902Wait, why? I thought it was being attracted to men with a head full of hair that was pedophilia.
>>807988because a bald head looks like a babby
>>807990stop gaslighting people just to win an argument
>>807991Do whatever it takes to win.
>>807989>>807991>>807902This obsession with “pedophilia” seems to be more hatred for youth or smooth skin
>>807902Anon are you ok?
Do you need meds?
Why do see “pedophilia” in everything that doesn’t involve children?
>>807201Nah. Touching grass isn’t gonna fix it.
Lots of people like that anon touch grass all the time.
If anything, touching grass may encourage him to go sperg out on a killing spree.
May as well let him go kill himself with his martial fantasy before he goes Call Of Duty on innocent civilians
>>807578first one is achievable natty. you may have to commit to wrastling big sweaty men thoughever
>>808062but i don't live in turkey
If your girlfriend or wife drinks milk, there's no other explanation: you're a convicted pedophile
>>807987I don't know what life situation prompted you to even have that thought, and then post it, but I hope it improves for you.
>>808324It’s not a “situation”. Cishet male preferences are always looked down upon these days.
>>808328What did I say that was wrong?
Cishet male preference is looked down upon.
Lots of critique about all media constantly complains about “pandering” towards cishet males
>>808326Comrade, no, that's exactly what I mean.
You're in a situation where you think cishet preferences are always looked down on. That's not something I've encountered for the last 5 years, unless you count my weird conservative porky uncle.
If you're seeing this through news and social media enough to think that its normal, get the fuck out of there.
>>808330Fair point. Tbh the biggest critiques of cishet male media are from conservatives themselves.
Or rather their vitriol is more nitpicky
* And I hope I didn't come across as too rude, presumptive or forward, but it's important to keep realizing how manufactured 'normal' is. All of mainstream society and culture is invented, and influenced by the ruling class who have the biggest megaphones.
>>808334Tbh the real normal is relative. And I think most of those manufactured narratives do have some basis in socially organic bias
The ruling class don’t invent propaganda out of thin air. Propaganda is always based on pre-existing biases
reminder sexlessness is as much of a problem as a kid not getting an xbox for christmas, you don't have any real problems if not getting laid is your biggest problem.
construction workers that have a family to support and work 12+ hours a day have it worse than whiny neet incels.
>>808395Facts.
In fact, if any of these neet incels were to have a gf, it would end up in them getting sprung into becoming baby daddies
And they would raise a new generation that would be far less competent than them
I’m glad these incels aren’t getting laid. Natural selection is taking care of business
If you wanna get laid, get a fucking job, get some social skills, and maybe some cooking skills as well.
>>808396>get a fucking job, get some social skills, and maybe some cooking skills as well.no incel has all 3, I guarantee it.
>>808397These men are not incels
Incel actually means “INVOLUNTARY CELIBATE” which means any man who suffered from a neurocognitive, mobile, aesthetic or autoimmune disability that renders them unable to properly socialize to get laid
The only true incel I have found so far on here is that history buff anon that’s autistic and has been smothered by paranoid parents.
Everyone else is silly relatively Allistic able-bodiedpeople whom had modest sociophysical exposure to peers but have a major disconnect from everyone else and has contempt for “normies”. They’re too stuck up and lazy to really bother see other people as fellow human beings. They don’t have any arts-and-crafts for hobbies or homesteading skills that could amuse a potential partner.
They don’t have any appreciation for women as platonic beings.
They don’t even appreciate the women that are over forty, chubby/husky, have blemishes, aren’t girly-looking, aren’t soft-spoken, etc
Yet they wanna cry about “lookism” making “average men” invisible.
>>808400I don’t believe I will be an “incel” anymore once I am completely independent from my parents in 3-4 years (once I get my masters in history and start teaching history at a community college while I live in a cheap studio apartment), as I will be forced to have better social skills that will make it much easier to get a girlfriend. I will start improving my social skills now, but I know that it will probably take complete independence to get them completely normal. It is quite sad that I did not meet the cute girl from the theatre class when I am completely independent with better social skills that could have made me more appealing to her. Once I am completely independent, I will be ready to accept any girl that wants to be with me (I will probably have to scrape the bottom of the barrel on dating sites) in order to avoid being a lonely “incel” (I really hate that term being applied to me because it is associated with fascist sexist freaks) forever, lol.
What advice would you give me to improve the tiny chance of me being able to have successful small talk that could lead to a friendship that evolves into a relationship with the cute girl from the theatre class? What do you think would be the best ways I could try to improve my social skills in the short term while I am still living with my parents? Finally, what would be the best ways for me to get a girlfriend (assuming it flops with the cute girl from the theatre class) once I am completely independent in a few years and have improved my social skills?
>>808404Get some culinary skills. And maybe some basic home repair skills.
Stop using pussy as your motivator to socialize/autonomize
And maybe show more appreciation to physiognomically-challenged women
Also:
>I really hate that term being applied to me because it is associated with fascist sexist freaksStop being a wuss. Fascist freaks hijacked that term. Look up the original definition of that term. You fit it to a T. Awkward men who quietly bide their time doing hobbies with no female interaction being indifferent about it
>>808404>I don’t believe I will be an “incel” anymore once I am completely independent from my parents in 3-4 years (once I get my masters in history and start teaching history at a community college while I live in a cheap studio apartment), as I will be forced to have better social skills that will make it much easier to get a girlfriend.Getting your own place is half the battle
And I would be leery of any woman showing interest in you immediately upon learning that you have your own place. You’re severely autistic and have no hobbies/talents, right?
No woman is gonna want you right off the bat, even if you have your own place.
In fact, if anything, they may use you just for a convenient rest stop.
Your dad failed you on how to watch out for potential leeches.
>Once I am completely independent, I will be ready to accept any girl that wants to be with me (I will probably have to scrape the bottom of the barrel on dating sites) in order to avoid being a lonely “incel” (I really hate that term being applied to me because it is associated with fascist sexist freaks) forever, lol.Are you ready for being potentially matched with a woman who may have serious personality flaws?
I hope you’re not gonna be hyper focused on looks.
Having personality flaws doesn’t make anyone willfully malevolent, but I hope you’re able to tolerate it
I hope you know that relationships aren’t just about getting laid and cuddles. It’s about being an emotional tampon at times
Even if you have your own place and get a gf with good looks and good behavioral traits, you may not be good enough for her because your emotional affect may not be good
Suppose if you get a girl who loves you for you but she doesn’t give you sex.
Would you still want her?
>>808408I agree that culinary skills are definitely a good thing to learn for when I am independent, but home repair skills seem like a bit of a waste considering that I am going to be living in a small apartment, not some giant suburban McMansion, lol.
>>808410To be fair I technically have the hobbies of being a history nerd, leftist politics, and being an extremely amateur guitarist who can play a couple depressing songs about loneliness and relationship issues (for this reason I haven’t been playing much lately), lol. My Marxism hobby sort of grew out of being a history nerd which is why I found leftypol, though my crush on the cute girl from the theatre class has partially moderated my political views due to the whole concept of revolution becoming much less appealing to me due to fearing that it would put her in danger. I am honestly fine with being a girls emotional tampon, as long as she would be accepting of my mildly autistic personality. Though once I am independent I will hopefully have improved my social skills enough that my mild autism will not be as noticeable. Now to answer your final question, what I really want from a future girlfriend is just a moderately attractive younger female companion who lives with me, keeps me company, has engaging conversations with me, and that I can kiss, hug/cuddle, and lay in bed next to at night. Sex in and of itself is not the primary objective (unless you view kisses and hugs/cuddles as equivalent to sex), though if she was interested in sex I would have no problem doing it, lol.
>>808418Just to add, when I say younger I do not mean she needs to be younger than me. I just mean under 40, or at least looks under 40. When I say moderately attractive I do not mean a supermodel, I just mean not morbidly obese (mildly chubby is fine) or severely deformed, lol. I would say I am desperate enough for a girlfriend that my standards are probably lower than 99% of men, lmao.
I've said this before and I'll say this again: mentalcel is the only truecel. If you don't have any mental issues you have no excuse to not get laid.
Even the poorest ugliest subhumans are having sex but if you have autism it never began.
>>808420>would say I am desperate enough for a girlfriend that my standards are probably lower than 99% of men, lmao.Wrong. Men are on average more flexible with physiognomic preferences
>>808432Wrong. Mentally ill people with average to above in looks get laid more than neurotypical ugly people
>>808459Do you have any studies or personal anecdotes to back this up? Maybe make something up?
>>807183She looks so happy before he melted. She definitely didn't want to marry him lmao.
>>808471she chubbed a little in one of the after photos, probably comfort eating.
>>808482It looks like she actually lost weight at around the time they got married and maybe got fatter afterwards.
i wonder what this one glownonymous wife's bull is up to. i hope he didn't put glows collection of pokemon cards into the washing machine again.
>>808400There's no such thing as an incel since celibacy is inherently voluntary.
>>808775based? give them a real pounding sometimes too though dont be mean
>>808558>celibacy is inherently voluntaryHow so? It is totally possible to try to establish a relationship but perpetually failing at it
>>809142Can we just accept that youth is sexy already and stop pretending people are nonces for liking teens
>>809143>Can we just accept that youth is sexyWe can, we did, we never stopped.
>But I saw a tweet that said…Tone down your persecution complex.
>>809145It's not just Twitter, basically the entire media ecosystem is wedded to this delusion
>>809142I was an ugly uyghur at 19 anyway.
>>809142i'd be pissed if my student was eating grapes during the piano lesson
>>809156Much munch munch munch *gulp* *licks lips like a dog*
>>808439Probably fake but the world is too depressing as is so I'm going to believe that it's true.
>>807184if you're talking about the first girl, much superior to the stinky revisionist gonzaloist, i think you will find that most girls who like brazilian reales are in brazil
>>809123Celibacy is a vow. Your failure to get sex is just that: A failure to get sex.
>>809246as a biCHAD I approve of this
>>809143why? why should we accept sexual attraction towards teens from adults? why cant we throw rocks at you instead?
Why is it so hard to attract pussy I stg
>>809268My wife often cheats on me with Black Bulls while on work trips too. In fact she does it even when not on work trips when I am just outside the house. And sometimes she does when I'm in the house too.
She's been trying to mainly fuck our Black Bulls of a weekend but that isn't going too well!
>>809353Post your side profile with your forehead and ears visible.
>>809353Dating people from orgs isn't sexpesty, how else can you meet other commies that actually go outside. Don't listen to the "never ever approach anyone in person" psyop
>>809353Also if someone is a liberal you can just convert them. Unless they're sone deranged NAFOtard neolib, their political views probably aren't that strong and they're probably basically good people, you will probably eventually drag them leftward
>>809353>I dont really wanna date ppl in the orgs I'm currently in, that just seems sexpestyYou are a heterosexual woman. Trans or not, nobody will think of you as a sex pest for hitting on men.
>>809285if he was elected in the conclave would he become a papal bull
>>809354I dont got a brow bone, why would that matter
How do normies resist the urge to cheat on their partner (with hookers)?
>>809611Many don't. Many keep it secret and others just ignore in order to keep the peace. Those that do are either too broke or ugly or otherwise off putting to find someone else. And some actually really love their partners.
>>809261>>809365This unfortunately. In fact, this idea of teens as secondary infants was primarily an Anglo thing that was invented around the seventeenth century and has rapidly spread globally through their cultural imperialism
>>809268I find it funny that cheating is considered a okay if not easily forgiven but it’s considered wrong to be terminally single, sexless and attracted to fictional characters
>>809401Make a BL version
>>809631>Anglo thingRead Phillipe Aries.
>>809705He says that kids were treated like miniature adults historically
>>809710That’s kinda related to what I mean.
The seventeenth century saw a shift in pedagogical treatment
>>809715Although kids were later forced to work in factories for long hours
I like fat immobile men.
This cunt has some of the worst takes ive ever heard
https://www.tiktok.com/@haileyvanrenen?lang=en>>809718Yea I think that’s where the “kids are small adults” gets a bad rap.
>>809729Why are you posting indignatory bait from a site that everyone complains about?
>>808418>but home repair skills seem like a bit of a waste considering that I am going to be living in a small apartment, not some giant suburban McMansion, lolWait until your doors start creaking and being unable to close properly
Or when your cabinets start rotting.
Or when your appliances start acting up
>>809142Nineteen is an adult
>>809245When you fill official papers and register your familial situation as celibate, the adminoistration doesn't give a shit about oaths Anon.
>>809783Accurate. Official ranking goes
>femboys/twinks >masc muscular jock guys>thicc curvy cis women>scrawny mentally ill tgirls>conventionally "attractive" women>fat people >>809886What about BBC Kings? Are they included in jock guys?
>>809353I don't care about communism, the working class or organizing, I just want to fuck your tight whitey boypussy until I make you cum hands free from prostate stimulation.
btw I saw your penis on cam, I wish you would let me fuck you, I could change your life and view of the world, you would stop caring about meaningless bullshit like politics and live a happy life as my boywife
>>809958The average woman, especially female redditor, has an incredibly inflated sense of self. They depict themselves as attractive women but they're really obese landwhales that Chad wouldn't even pump and dump
>>809958The same could apply for femcels and feminists. Feminists love shittingon men for not being as glamorous as female preferences want.
The point is, “loneliness” is just people having a romanticized view of socialization and romance
>>809968It’s not that they view themselves as more attractive than they really are. It’s more that they view themselves as more empathetic/profound than they really are.
Also, most aren’t landwhale.
They’re more likely to be plain looking girls who at most have some pudge on them.
They’re the mirror of their male counterparts
>>809886For masculine muscular jock guys, I hope you don’t mean the chubby hairy bear type
>>809976>most aren't landwhaleThe majority of the us population is obese, 1/3 of the european population is obese
>>809968almost like the average incel who spends his day pseudposting and patting himself on the back for being so much smarter than the sheeple
>>809958Romance is impossible without an egoless other. Which is entirely unrealistic.
>>809980jannies should ban BIBISI posting
>>810042I didn’t. Why you so mad about it though?
If it were females, I wouldn’t be hearing any complaints
>>810037This isn’t BBC posting though but yea I feel yea
>>810019People throw around this word a lot.
There’s a difference between overweight and obese
There’s a lot more slim people in America and Europe than you realize
>>810056 because it's ai generated and artifacty and devoid of soul
Is it even possible to have a girlfriend while you are still living with your parents? I am the autistic history major with the crush on the cute girl from the theatre class. I will realistically not be able to be completely independent for another 3-4 years, once I get my masters in history and start teaching history at a community college while I live in a cheap studio/one-bedroom apartment. I am asking this question for the small chance that I am able to have successful small talk (when I run into her at the university coffee shop next semester) with the cute girl from the theatre class that actually leads to her being friends with me (ie. being able to start texting her and arranging meetings with her on/off campus), and also for the fact that even if it dose not work with her, I don’t know if I can wait 3-4 more years to get a girlfriend, lol.
>>810072>>810074>muh literally everythinvmeep meep :-D
>>810078It is pretty normal while you are still in education. 'Tism is going to be a much greater hurdle to overcome than not having your own place.
>>809958anti incels and antiblackpillers hate the concept of a looksmatch.
thats it, just one word, looksmatch.
if a man and a woman are on the same physical beauty level the man is still highly disadvantaged.
I'm attractive and tall, it's normal to expect women on my looks level to not treat me like human garbage, but all I get is ugly women with an attitude, stop deluding yourself.
>>809958>>810102 anyone can get a relationship = anyone can find a job
>the job can be shit, pay little and have long hours, but you have no right to complain because at least you have a job! why do you think you are above shoveling shit for 1 dollar an hour? it's a job!nah dude I objectively deserve better, I put the work in, I exercise everyday, I take care of myself, I drink water, I meditate, I will not be seen in public holding hands with a fat woman.
your shaming tactics don't work if you can't see my face either, that shit only works irl because women work in covens.
>>810096To be fair my autism (more accurately aspergers) is extremely high functioning, and I never found it to be an impediment until I had the crush on the cute girl from the theatre class, as that is what truly made me realize how shitty my social skills are. That is because she was the first person I truly put any effort into trying to make friends with, as all of my previous social interactions in college/high school were with teachers/professors or students that I was grouped with for various class projects/assignments that I never had any emotional feelings towards and never really wanted in my life beyond their role in helping me get high grades, lol. It is very easy for me to have scripted conversations with people that I don’t care about and have no serious desire to engage with. Instead my shitty social skills blatantly reveal themselves when I am trying to talk to the cute girl from the theatre class that I have strong romantic feelings (crush/love/limerence) for and truly desire to have in my life first as a friend and eventually as my girlfriend.
Another question that I would to ask is if it would help me improve my chances of having successful small talk with cute girl from the theatre class that could lead to a friendship would evolve into a relationship, if I joined history and/or politics clubs and tried to socialize with people that share common interests with me. I am sort of torn about this, as I know that she will not be in any history of politics clubs because she is not majoring in either subject and dose not seem to have much interest in either area (she is more of an artsy type). I also have had some mixed feeling about both history and politics due to falling in love with her, with me even questioning my political views due to my fear that the material conditions required for Marxist revolution would put her in danger (this has made me move more towards social democracy). On the other hand, I feel that joining a history and/or politics club and actually trying to socialize with people that I share some common interests with, instead of just scripted conversations with classmates, could potentially improve my social skills and make it easier for me to make small talk with her. However, the fact that she will almost definitely not be at either club (The history club is only for history majors, so I know she won’t be their because she is not a history major, and the politics club is a generic left-liberal/social democrat one, and though I suspect that she probably agrees with most of those political views I would be very shocked if she cares enough about politics to join a club about them, lol) means that it may not really help much with talking to her. A depressing way to look at it is that if it doesn’t work with the cute girl from the theatre class, I could try to find a girl at the history of politics club that I share more common interests with, and see if talking about something we’re both interested in would make it much easier to create a friendship that could potentially evolve into a relationship. The irony is that though I don’t share many common interests with the cute girl from the theatre class, she is the only girl that I am really attracted to and have any real desire to have a friendship and eventual relationship with. In contrast, the thought of it not working with the cute girl from the theatre class and me instead making friends with and eventually having a relationship with a girl who shares my same history/politics interests honestly sounds sort of boring, though I would still go along with it because I want a girlfriend so badly. The fact that the cute girl from the theatre class is so much cuter then every other girl on campus and that she has such an innocent/charming personality and does not share my narrow history/politics interests and is in to more creative artsy stuff is what makes her so much more appealing then every other girl and why I am so desperate for the miracle that I can actually have a relationship with her.
>>810102The concept of looksmatch operates under false assumption of equal distribution of attractiveness between genders, which is provably false. If an average woman has plenty men attracted to her, and average man hardly anyone, than they are not of a same attractiveness. The only valid measure of attractiveness is
are people attracted to you?, not a specs chart made by an imageboard user. If all you can get is ugly women with attitude, then that is your looksmatch, if you fail to attract then you are by definition not attractive.
>>810121nah man its even beyond that, its reciprocation between the sexes.
i see it all the time too, people used to joke most couples have the woman hotter than the man but now im seeing in younger people the opposite, the man fairly taking care of himself, clearly to an obsessive degree (saw one korean plastic surgery enthusiast once with his girl) and their girlfriend isn't as glamorous, won't even say always ugly but few look plain or hellbent on taking care of their face or "genetic lottery winners" as the guy
it can only mean one thing, that anon is attractive, but not attractive ENOUGH for his looksmatch. he should go higher, girls have too many options that he should asppire harder to stand out and not be rejected for not being attractive enough to the type of girls he's after
>>810121>>810124this is just saying hypergamy is real
>>810078Yeah kinda especially at your age it is
possible. If in 10 years in you're in the same position (also very possible) then it will be impossible.
>>810078when does next semester start, bro. i am deeply invested in your petty teenage drama
>>810127It is foolish to treat it as some sort of deviation, when of course a person is going to pick the hottest, richest, most successful, most charismatic partner available to them, why the fuck wouldnt they? Hypergamy is not common in practice. Majority of women seek out monogamous relationships, majority of people end up with someone of comparable socio-economic status and looks.
>>810124are you guys sure you aren't generalizing a deranged southeastern asia phenomenon
>>810157Same boat man, eastern europe, mentally ill, economically at the bottom, but older. All I can tell you in terms of advice, dont give up, actively try to do what you can, looksmax, dress nice, get out of your comfort zone, try to meet people and do things and live an interesting life. 23 if a good age for getting your life together, no reason to despair yet.
>>810157I guess you just have to get used to it. Go online and just scream into the void. That's what I'm doing. It sucks actually but life generally seems unpleasant.
>>810166I think this is why i subconsciously started to fetishize violence and eventually acted on some of it and spent time in a forensic psych prison. My entire life until like 19yo was spotless and i was a model citizen but now i constantly think about doing crime for the crime's sake. Im not gonna shoot up a school or harm random people but i just get an urge to break the law and wreak havoc to regain some sense of power. Im trying to push those thoughts to the back of my mind because im trying to get my life together after 16 months in the schizo bin and becayse i dont want to spend the rest of my 20s in and out of jail even though even that feels alluring sometimes.
>>810157>95% of the dating pool innacessible to me>bisexualjust date a gay man?
>>810178I want to and i will but i would ideally want to settle for a woman one day to be my lifelong partner
>>810175>My entire life until like 19yo was spotless and i was a model citizen but now i constantly think about doing crime for the crime's sake.bro this you
>>810179it gets easier to get a "lifelong partner" at 30, despite what this board wants you to think. of course your partner won't be nearly as attractive as you wish it would be.
I've taken like 4 improv classes now, and I can safely say it went like shit. I've met four women, two of them are completely out of my league, one of them seems to be dating a literal hunk guy who does "professional coaching", and finally a blonde one is clearly slightly annoyed by my uncanny autistic presence. The lady who is dating the "professional coach" asked me to build her an agent to auto-apply to linkedin jobs (?). Outside of women, there's a guy who is also a software dev who is going with her SO, he's super chill, but the other day I started rambling like a maniac about the stuff I do at work which may have violated an NDA. There's a gay guy who is also super chill, the aforementioned coach who talks non-stop about AI agents. I think it would be fine, but the classes are ending and want to move to improv 2, which I don't even feel comfortable with improv 1 stuff yet, so I dunno if I should change to another hobby course or what, maybe something more oriented towards public speaking? it's clear now that I'm just not a funny lackadaisical comedy guy who just lacks confidence, so it might be time to put that delusion away and do something else.
>>810189>The lady who is dating the "professional coach" asked me to build her an agent to auto-apply to linkedin jobs (?).Please don't dude. I've known a lot of dupes who do pro-bono work for women who they are "just friends" with. You know this woman wouldn't lift a finger to perform some pro-bono service for you. These women know exactly what they're doing. It's not a real friendship, they just think you're enough a loser orbiter that they can get the man-slave perks of a boyfriend without giving you anything but gifting you with their presence. If you acquiesce all it will do is kill your self-esteem further because you'll realize the truth that they never saw you as a romantic prospect or even a friend.
>>810189>>810191grow some balls man. do a back of the napkin calculation how long it will take you to set up such a system, name your hourly rate and for the lulz giver her 10% off because you know each other. tell us how it went.
>>810157blackpillers were right all along and you people wont face the truth because you don't wanna be outed as the bad resentful guy that doesn't get pussy.
you need the lie because you think believing the lie will make you fit in with society.
>>810191>>810193>I've known a lot of dupes who do pro-bono work for women who they are "just friends" with.no, i will build a proof of concept to show that you, technically, can log in through a scraper and pass instructions to an LLM. i already explained that it's way more complicated than she envisions and there are no ready-made alternatives for her to use. also that she should measure her expectations and that linkedin may ban her. she seems to have gotten the picture, i hope.
>>810194And how exactly will "embracing the blackpill" help me? Being surrounded with people telling me how over it is and how i need to "know my place" and that i should kill myself is definitely going to help my mental health.
>>810196i mean - thats already a lot of 'pro bono' work a more scummy 'consultant' would bill several hours in the hundreds for. i get it though, being nice and honest while doing shit (thinking about the PoC) you enjoy.
as for your question in>>810189:
if you don't enjoy improv as much and feel you are not up to it - do something else. ultimately, putting you out there and getting to know different women is the only thing that will increase your chance at meating one you 'click' with anyway.
removing all the right wing woman hating bullshit black pillers are 100% right, life is not fair and it never was.
if life is not fair financially (privilege, inheritance, support networks, family connections, etc) why do you think life is fair sexually?
the same principles apply to both things, sexlessness or not being sexually fulfilled is like being nutrient deficient but for your mental health, and the same way food is being thrown away while people starve women are denying an increasing percentage of men of wellbeing by being too picky.
>>810201>meating one you<meetingi'll leave it because i think its funny in the context
>>810197I'm not saying that, just know that you are a victim of sexual starvation by the part of women and it's not too fucked up to see them as perpetrators of emotional damage.
>>810204>>810202This can all be a reasonable conclusion but what turns me off from incels is that these conclusions always lead to the discussion of the need to oppressing women in horrific ways to "fix" the dating market and make life fair for men.
This does not at all align with my leftist beliefs and is repulsive to me.
>>810206that findom support subreddit smells like a scam to me
>here are girls right now making 400K off findom through the virtue of just being born girls & attractive (not that hard, most men find half women attractive anyway)why are you not doing it RIGHT NOW, huh? it's not like you need to be an actual girl, just download one of the chinese imagegen models and get busy
>>810210
>these conclusions always lead to the discussion of the need to oppressing women in horrific ways to "fix" the dating market and make life fair for men.yeah that is where the retarded part starts, forcing it is wrong, women need to realize the damage they are doing by themselves and make their own efforts to fix the problem they created.
>>810221It may be slowly happening though as research has shown left wing women care less about heigh and are less biphobic because they value "traditional masculinity" less
>>810211lmao i can't even afford a camera in this economy, imma need to just pretend im one with a reddit account. its ogre the moment they ask for a picture of your masculine foot or your toilet
any advice on keeping your feet delicate?
>>810233>>810189I felt the need to chime in because I used to be the "bad" guy. A literal fucking rich girl wanted to marry me at 22 when I only had $100 dollars to my name. Another older woman who was attractive and well off wanted me and only me when I was a bum, but I ignored her.
Here's what I've noticed between guys like me and guys who are career driven and have everything except for a woman. I'm not trying to sound rude and don't take offense over this, but it's the fact that many guys of the latter lack a spine and mostly live a fake life. Yes, a fake life. I don't like using the term beta male, but when you're living the life you don't want to live and only doing it to appease others, then you are not confident and you are lying to yourself. Do you love your career, or is it because mommy and daddy told you to do it?
Women subconsciously pick this up. They see this guy who is career driven, but they HATE the fact that this guy has no ground to stand on and only wants to please. Even the most feminist women hate that shit deep down because women expect you to take the lead. There is no such thing as a "soul mate." There is this lie in society where you have to "win" the girl, but in reality you are already the prize—it's the woman who has to keep you. PUA sites, dating advice, movies, video games, and even general online forums distort this simple truth. Instead, they lie and tell you that you need to "win" the girl. In reality, it's a numbers game, and you need to find a woman who you connect with the most. The ones that like you will make it so obvious you'll even get fucking sick of it at some point. I never simped for a woman. The only time I did was in 8th grade, and that was over 14 years ago.
>>810240>There is this lie in society where you have to "win" the girl, but in reality you are already the prizei picked up this mentality even when i was a hopeless romantic, i still believe in lookism and think im not enough yet no matter what i never spoke to girls, even men like i needed anything from them or that i need their permission to say or do shit.
i don't love myself persay, but i don't act like im tainted, like women's idea of a virgin. (still remember when we used to call it redditor and m'lady neckbeards)
>>810240>I'm not trying to sound rude and don't take offense over this, but it's the fact that many guys of the latter lack a spine and mostly live a fake life. Yes, a fake life. I don't like using the term beta male, but when you're living the life you don't want to live and only doing it to appease others, then you are not confident and you are lying to yourself.No offense taken, this is something that I've been trying to internalize. May be a bit stupid but part of the motivation for taking improv is to slowly peel away these layers of shelter and I figured improv would let me "expose myself" in a safe environment where everyone is also going through this exercise of "exposing themselves". You know my type, so you know this wasn't a spontaneous decision, it was carefully deliberated, I researched the sort of shit they do on an improv class, the sort of kindergarten exercises meant to throw you off and keep you aware, and I figured it would be a good initial step.
Hell the initial impulse wasn't even me, an artsy girl I have a crush on worked this idea on my brain, she told me the story of this scruffy stray cat she feeds that had taken a habit of mating a different female cat nightly on her rooftop, she told me something about how there was something about this aloof confidence that she found appealing. Her words were "it makes me shed all the feminism in me", she's describing someone exactly like you, and exactly someone I am not. I felt it like a deep jab, I don't think she fully intended it, maybe somewhat. I'm not even that interested in her, it's just something that shook me to my being, she seems like a whole person, like someone who is actually living life to her fullest, I think it made me jealous, perhaps even angry a little bit.
>>810254see, what you describe is exactly what glowanon advises against. stop caring so much about what other people seem to expect from you. stop doing shit because other people (seem) to expect it from you. be yourself and be confident about it.
>an artsy girl I have a crush on worked this idea on my brainfuck this shit. do stuff because you want to do it. given, i do not know how close you and said girl were, but in general you should the circle of people whose advice you take serious pretty damn small.
>taking improv is to slowly peel away these layers of shelterit may help you to overcome your social anxiety to a degree. what helps more is understanding that in the end most people actually do not give too much of a fuck about you or how you behave (unless it is accutely out of the norm or actually anti social behaviour).
>>810240These stories you’re writing about are outliers.
Also, there’s a reason why guys choose careers over women.
Not all male priority involves pussy.
In fact, prioritizing Pussy over career is not a mature adult.
Women only want men who have something going for them.
Also that post you’ve written seems like a copypasta.
>>810247>>810257>>810254That post you’re responding to is a copypasta
The advice he’s giving only works for men who already have established attributes.
If you’re plain with no hobbies or prospect it’s not gonna work
>>810206Those findon people you’re mentioning are outliers and they don’t make that amount of money in a steady go.
>>810223Women value men whom are glamourous regardless if theyre “trad” or not
>>810157“Incel” doesn’t mean antisocial bitter Allistic cishet male”. It means a man suffering from neurocognitve/mobile/immunological disoders who are unable to land a date
>>810124>i see it all the time too, people used to joke most couples have the woman hotter than the man but now im seeing in younger people the opposite, the man fairly taking care of himself, clearly to an obsessive degree (saw one korean plastic surgery enthusiast once with his girl) and their girlfriend isn't as glamorous, won't even say always ugly but few look plain or hellbent on taking care of their face or "genetic lottery winners" as the guyMost couples have the man and woman being generic plain looking. The woman isn’t that hot and the man is not butt ugly
>>810102Looksmatch is often distorted by redpillers.
Please stop using the word “blackpill” for socio-sexual matters. It’s shallow.
>>810078>Is it even possible to have a girlfriend while you are still living with your parents? I am the autistic history major with the crush on the cute girl from the theatre class.Yes it’s possible to have a gf while still living with family. It happens all the time in non-western countries or in ethnic Anglo American communities
Your problem is that you’re autistic
>>810104You can simply choose to opt out of the dating market.
Unlike having a job, having a romantic partner isn’t necessary for living
Contrary to what people on here will say, your quality of life will not deteriorate just because you’re single.
>>810268you don't need to earn more money if you can afford food and basic necessities, stop complaining!
>>810273False equivalency. You can always use more money when it comes to living.
Health insurance, car insurance, home/auto maintenance, etc
If anything money helps more than a partner
Unpopular opinion: lookism is based on dating
Redpillers and feminists are lookists in denial. They’re not upset about lookism they’re upset about not getting the perfect partner with 10/10 ratings in looks, wit, and talents
update on the comr8 talking about an objectification friend: we met yesterday, turns out they're chill af and a pretty normal person outside of kink. Communication is smooth.
>>810392STOP THINKING AND EMBRACE THE COCK
>>810157To start off with, pretend you're straight when dealing with women.
>>809880That's single, not celibate.
>>810230>its ogre the moment they ask for a picture of your masculine foot or your toiletjust get one of those pay as you go AI service and then you can edit your foot to be a woman's foot for 0.001 usd the picture lol
>>810639ah right English differentiate between the two my bad.
>>810663Yep. I have sex with a 'friend with benefits' (so I'm not celibate) but I'm not in any romantic/serious relationship (single).
* (not that comrade, by the way)
>>810548Yes.
Imagine hating someone's hair. What a waste of perfectly good hate.
>>810548Bruh, that haircut is handsome.
It’s way better than some of these ghettofab haircuts or cracker haircuts we have in Anglo America
>>810687That's pretty much what you mainly see in those places. It's just a basic hairstyle that's very common. No more no less.
>>810206Honestly man? 99% of chicks who try this won't make any real money. It's the same with OF where a tiny portion of the top creators make bank and the rest of them just let everybody see their buttholes with nothing to show for it.
t. Has findommed people before
>>810750>showing appreciation for male beauty in a platonic setting means you’re homosexual>>810819I’ve said the same thing to that anon in the other thread in /lgbt/
>>810829No, but thinking that shitty haircut is beautiful is exclusively a homosexual opinion.
>>810834>liking shitty haircuts is homosexualHow is it shitty? Why is there so much animosity towards male causual aesthetics?
And why are cishomo males used as a slur or metaphorical faux pas on here despite complaining about homophobia?
I swear, this place is really misandrist, both towards homo and hetero males
>>810896Homomoids are just like hetero ones, minus the salubrious female influence the latter are exposed to in their romantic life.
>>810945By women, do you mean grannies or only docile pretty slender prime age women?
Also using women as some divinational emotional guidance for men is objectification.
Once again, Leftypol only defends LGBT for feminine genderqueer folk
>>810223>research has shown left wing women care less about heighThose are all self-reported which is highly unreliable because people often lie. Of course women will claim to prefer personality over commodified looks when asked—they don’t want to be perceived as shallow.
>>811033Idk why would you doubt it, doesnt say they dont care about height, only that they care less compared to women with more rigid gender norm preference, makes perfect sense.
>>811047Still is kinda faulty
Being a leftcel is valid. Hypergamy is bad and marxist women shouldn't engage in it.
>>811051>Hypergamy is badWhy?
>>810210The violent nature of "incel ideology" is by design. It’s a horizontal conflict manufactured by the state/superstructure. You, as the liberal, as the feminist, as the "bluepiller" are supposed to react with disgust. Whereas, the incel, the "MGTOW," and the "redpiller" react with approval. Bifurcation and false consciousness are the goals; keep the retard proles arguing and panicking over ideals while never addressing where their grievances truly come from.
Be that as it may, the incel is reacting to real material pressures. The co-option of feminism by the state/superstructure coupled with the integration of women into labor-power have basically rendered the average man sexually obsolete. The average man can’t trap women into marriage with his money anymore—women are thus able to be more selective in who they sleep with. So it’s no surprise that most women choose to chase "Chad" (i.e., commodified looks) while young and "settle down" with a "betabux" (i.e., the submissive husband) after her sexual prime has passed. A woman’s Chad phase is simply her exercising her liquid capital in the sexual market. The betabux phase is her pension plan—a submissive male caretaker who absorbs her post-prime depreciation costs. Just like in capitalism, the dialectic for the average man is to either play into this gynocentric dating market or withdraw entirely. To play means the man must sell his labor to a capitalist, and at the same time sell his emotional labor to a wife who has zero obligation to him. However, just like in capitalism, playing the game is always easier because withdrawing means social and economic isolation—you become an outcast and can’t keep up with the demands of capitalism.
Modern women and Chads are pretty much the petit bourgeoise of the sexual economy—they don’t own the means of production, but they *administer* the means of social production. The incel is the lumpenproletariat of the sexual economy—zero life prospects and so isolated that he’s completely useless for organizing any sort of revolution. For the ruling class, the incel’s purposes are to consume commodity slop (video games, social media, porn, fast food, etc) and serve as a scapegoat for women and liberals.
>TL;DRIncel ideology is fake and gay, but it’s a response to a very real set of material circumstances. The ideology misdirects by scapegoating women as a species rather than analyzing the circumstances that shaped women into the way they are.
>>811065>the circumstances that shaped women into the way they areThe way they are, by your own description, is wanting to have sex with hot guys.
>>811065If that's true, then in a moneyless system they wouldn't need to settle in the end, they would just stay with the hot guy (and why wouldn't she really ? Are we gonna scream about people being attracted to other physically ?)
The problem thus is not about not having a romantic relationship, but about the isolation and economic pressure that it causes, but incels want to fix the former
>>811051>hypergamy is real555-cope-faggot
>>811074Human sexual selection is biological, but how it’s mediated is determined by material circumstances and pressures. The feelings themselves—the arousal and love hormones—are biological. What triggers those feelings is not. During hunter-gatherer times, a man was considered "hot" generally based on, well, how good a hunter he was, typically manifested through attributes such as physical vitality and leadership. During feudalism, he was considered "hot" generally based on whether he was pale and in good health—anything that signaled he lived a life free from backbreaking manual and outdoor work. And during pre-sexual revolution capitalism, he was considered "hot" generally based on his education, occupation, social status, et cetera—anything that signaled financial security because women were materially incentivized to live off their husband’s labor-power.
Current gender dynamics, created by the co-adoption of liberal feminism (and thus the necessity of dual-income households) mean that men’s past provider status has been effectively devalued, changing the material basis of male desirability. This means, in the short term, the sexual market is structured by visual commodities, not by economic dependency. In this domain, the most desirable figure is the most visually commodified man—what incel subcults call "Chad." In the long term, this means a man can no longer offer his labour-power as the household’s sole economic foundation. What he has to offer instead in the long-term markets for dating and marriage is his emotional labour—often in the form of the wishy-washy, pussywhipped "happy wife, happy life" guy. He does this to avoid the social and economic isolation that comes with inceldom, which the petite bourgeoise women and the superstructure readily scapegoat to the masses as what type of man NOT to be. The wife also sells her emotional labor in the form of tolerating her husband who does not fit the commodified version of a man (because capitalism increasingly necessitates dual incomes). The wife is thus subconsciously performing a cost-benefit analysis on her own marriage—when the benefit of being single or "chasing Chad" is greater than the benefit of tolerating the husband for stability, she leaves the marriage (which is why around 70% of divorces are initiated by women). In sum, for women, short-term desire is organized around visual commodification; long-term commitment is organized around emotional labor, which liberals euphemize as "kindness" or "personality." Modern dating is basically the centripetal force of stability/emotional labor exchange (keeping her anchored) versus the centrifugal forces of visual novelty and autonomous singlehood (pulling her away).
>>811102You make a good point. Inceldom will still exist even under a communist utopia, just without all the negative social and economic consequences of today. My point is that the "Chad" look that women currently lust after is just another form of commodity fetishism. Decommodify the look and the material conditions for female attraction will change along with it. The social mediation that turns Chads into a sort of universal currency for physical attractiveness is thus rendered obsolete.
>>811102there would be less incentive to "stay" in a relationship in a moneyless society, especially for women. there would also be way more opportunities to getting fit and stuff for men. i'm not saying it would be a fuck fest, but i dont see why it wouldnt lead to more action., hotter bodies for both genders, just a general improvement in terms of sexo having.
>>811288You’re confusing physical attractiveness for romantic attractiveness
>>811303Romantic attraction is just as transactional as physical attraction.
>>811333Intent is why people engage in transactions, not the mechanical exchange itself. So no, I’m not stretching the definition to mean everything.
>>811333Are transactions transactional?
Why do we have transaction but not cisaction?
>>811288If "Chad" ceases to exist then Incels too.
>>811439
You live in bumfuck Florida, over here dating standards are a little higher than "doesnt look like he smoked crack in last 12 hours".
>>811459I love how you're allowed to look down on poor and working class people on this website as long as you pretend you're talking about a location
>>811463I am talking about standards for sexual/romantic partner, saying those differ location to location is hardly controversial. Like imagine if he tried this is LA or something, unlikely it would go the same way, because people there are just a lot hotter.
>>811470
>6'5"
Nevermind then, I did not know you are tall. It does completely undermine your advice to not be neurotic, as if that is a deciding factor here.
>>811476
>but i am non binary
Last time I saw a photo of you posted here you had a beard.
How long until the narrative turns into "Anyone who likes sex is a pedophile?"
>>811477Non binary doesn’t mean specifically mean only feminine traits. Also cis women can grow beards or stubble
>>811395Women will only flock to men with resources just for convenience not out of any genuine sexual attraction
But if said men with resources are good looking they’d choose him over an ugly dude with resources
>>811459Florida isn’t all ex convicts living swampland
Also, LA is overrun with druggies
>>811463People on here look down on working class people. There’s been posts referring to proles are inherently reactionary retards that need guidance from “enlightened” revolutionary leaders
>>810152I wouldn’t take any word from imageboards as fact especially when it comes to dating
>>811522I acknowledged this in my write-up.
>>811526It can’t be worse than the advice you would get from women or normies.
>>811525I never said "inherently reactionary".
>>811662True. This is why all advice should be compared based on the demographics you give them and reality
>>811673It’s the common sentiment
Feeling physical unease around my gf lately. We had a massively rocky start and I thought things would get easier, but I still think about it sometimes and I never trust her in my gut. I'm trying to figure out if I can really be with her against my intuition and it sucks. Lately (past year) has had a few bumps, but intellectually it seems great. Can't help but feel I'd throw something good away if we broke up.
>>807266My ex did some mandatory PLA thing in college. She showed me a photo she was kinda cute in her uniform. Overall she just liked the rising quality of life in China. I'm sure they have lefty-nerds there too, but most CPC supporters who aren't members are just about the results. Sometimes I miss her. She treated me better than any of my other gfs, but she wouldn't let me hit raw or give head consistently. That with escalating demands on my time and wallet built up too much resentment for the relationship to work out.
As I get older I feel more seething resentment towards everyone. I also feel hornier but further away from ever getting laid ever. Of course I don't try and that's obviously a big part of it but I feel that if I did my resentment and bitterness would boil over that I'd make a scene in public that I would never be able to live down which would just make me more bitter and resentful. Maybe I should spend less time on the internet or something or at least spend less time on relationship advice places when all it does is make me feel worse. Although honestly I've been a fairly bitter and resentful person since I was kid so I can't really see things changing much whatever I do.
Should false rape accusations warrant the same severe punishment as rape?
My wife has plenty of experience with large African snakes if you get what I'm saying 🤣😂😅
>>811778>She treated me better than any of my other gfs, but she wouldn't let me hit raw or give head consistently. That […] built up too much resentment for the relationship to work out.What the fuck am I reading?
>>811738I really hate this common assumption that going out to clubs on occasion automatically means degeneracy.
Most people aren't all gonna fuck their brains out or get wasted at the clubs.
Also "smoking weed all the time" can be the same as smoking tobacco all the time or occasional after-hours drink
>>811787People always say that your childhood and adulthood selves are different people, but that seems to be a purely relative thing
For alot of people like us, we were miserable in our youth and are still miserable and will continue to be into senescence
>>812016>I really hate this common assumption that going out to clubs on occasion automatically means degeneracy.Why?
>Most people aren't all gonna fuck their brains out or get wasted at the clubs.They do. Those things are complementary goods to those nightclubs.
>Also "smoking weed all the time" can be the same as smoking tobacco all the time or occasional after-hours drinkSo? All three of these activities is degeneracy commodified by capital.
>>812036>Why?Because it involves dopamine. I never find much stigma against bars. It's only dance clubs that get alot of stigma
>They do. Those things are complementary goods to those nightclubs.Only in the more seedier ones is it more common.
>So? All three of these activities is degeneracy commodified by capital.Degeneracy is when there's excess
>>812040>Degeneracy is when there's excessCapital always demands excess. The alcohol industry wants you to be a drunkard degenerate because it means you’ll buy more alcohol.
>>812012There's more to relationships than just sex, but sex is high priority for me. I think if I'd met her now it wouldn't have been a big issue. I bet if I'd brought up getting on birth control while she still loved me instead of building resentment and letting the relationship fall apart it could have worked out. She could cook like nobody's business, and we were more politically aligned than any westoid girl I've met.
>>812042Actually you're wrong on the second sentence.
Consumer industries don't want addicts. Addicts are unreliable money sources.
They want functioning devotees.
Alcohol companies make more money on moderate consumers buying a cold one a couple times a week than an excessive consumer
>>812043It's probably for the best it didn't last
>>812048>Consumer industries don't want addicts. Addicts are unreliable money sources.Capital absolutely wants addicts, provided they have money. Addicts have inelastic demand, which means they’ll pay much higher prices to avoid withdrawal. I thought that was obvious in my last reply.
>>812052There's so many industries that depend on whales it's insane. It's well known that the luxury restaurant industry lives off the occasional spendthrift that blows like 5k in overpriced wine
sorry I need to vent a bit, not necessarily looking for advice but whatever.
so my gf of +11 years has been on antidepressants for about 6 months and she got leave from the doctor so she has been home this entire time.
And honestly, it's really to starting to piss me the fuck off. It's been months and she is always at home, she might as well be part of the decoration. Not to forget I was holding her crying daily more then a year before that. I've been supportive all the time, shut my mouth and went to my shit job everyday, paying for everything, taking care of the house, garden and doggo.
I get it's hard for her, I get that it's on doctor recommandation, I really want to see her better but I just can't anymore, I'm just supposed to fucking plow through every day and doing everything I can to help her, but it's too much, nothing is changing the situation despite her medication clearly working. (have a long history with depression,suicidal thoughts, etc as well). I've never felt this alone in my life, I know I am coming off as a selfish prick but it's getting too much, I'm going completely insane.
Also, ofcourse the antidepressants have completely fucked her sexdrive.
Fuck
I finally got my first nude from a girl and I didn’t even ask for it. This is me with a pointy hat <:P
I finally accepted that I am a volcel. I could get a gf, but she will be trash. That is still a choice I made even if the options are fibroid ridden, hormonally imbalanced, yeast infected, obese single mothers or my hand.
>>812416Look, comrade, I don't know your situation but have you tried talking?
I'm not being condescending or anything, I've needed that advice too. I've bottled up and exploded before over shit that could have been solved if I wasn't too cautious and polite to talk about issues earlier.
>>812416Have you checked the economy lately? Even if she was a goddamn robot designed to only look for jobs the odds of her finding one in the past 6 months are pretty damn low.
I do understand that it feels terrible for you though. My practical recommendation is to be gentle but dominant in getting her to wake up with you, you have a basic (very basic), 'sense' of where she's at as you leave her and then again a
basic check again for small, incremental progress when you get back (this is for you to not get a wrong impression but also to actually practically help her not spiral downwards but rather upwards, back into ability to manage herself mentally as well as economically).
>>812496>Goes online, cant wait to sow division, hurt, atomization at every opportunityYou are a miserable psycho.
>>812502What’s psycho about telling someone to leave a person causing them unnecessary mental distress?
>>812502>her finding one in the past 6 months are pretty damn lowSure, but she can still startat her old job again.
Anyway, we had a talk yesterday and now everything feels even more fucked tbh
>>812416>>812611Friend who married his highschool sweetheart was in the same situation. She was NEETing while he did everything. They divorced. Your girlfriends psychologist is a quack if hes prescribing time off for depression. Sitting around at home is the worst thing you can do. Even a shitty job gets you out interacting with people.
Another grieving process for a girl lost ;-;
>>812689How much does that make? 1? Well you got me beat.
>>812685Honestly, taking time off due to depression is not bad. What is bad is mooching off your spouse who has no other support but themselves
>>812697Maybe that’s a naive suggestion but as far as I know activity is the best aid to overcome depression. Her not doing anything will likely perpetuate the condition.
>>812691Several girls honestly. Why don’t you put yourself out there? Not ending up grieving is arguably worse than never having tried.
Another lonely night listening to dommy mommy crushing my balls ASMR. *sigh*
>>812707Upload the file here
>>812709Sorry, I was just being funny. I actually listen to bratty loli ASMR but didn’t want to admit it.
>>812697Time off is good especially if your job sucks. Sitting at home all day waiting for your partner to come back while you pop SSRIs isnt
So I am in my early twenties and my exes and past situationships are currently hitting their 29y/30y age threshold without being in a committed relationship and hitting me up with nostalgia messages. I just received a second one today within the last 3 months.
What do? Should I hit them up for an easy lay and then fuck off for good? Or just ignore?
>>812738>>813143IGNORE Holy fuck, do not engage, your life is about to get ruined.
idk who needs to hear this but if you're thinking of doing some crazy looksmaxxing shit for fuck's sake start getting good consistent sleep first. it makes you look normal in ways you wouldn't ever have thought possible. if you're still ugly after that then sure go ahead and start hammering that chin
>>813184babe it's been 5 minutes time for another ejaculation
>ghosted by the girl I cheated on my gf with
Glad I didn't get in deep enough to catch feels for her and break up with my gf.
>>813269>she just posted a handwritten note calling her "beautiful" and "my love"lmaoo explains the whole "dont leave any marks" her ass was probably cheating too. "it's been a while" yeah probably a whole week.
>>812738Should the same apply for school? Especially if you're experiencing bullying?
The fall semester starts in two weeks, so I am starting to get really anxious about what I should say to the cute girl from the theatre class when I run into her at the university coffee shop. Right now I am planning to ask her “hi, how was your summer” and hope she says something substantive. If she doesn’t say much then I will elaborate on what I “did”, though I really did not do that much at all because I was so depressed that I could not be around her or at least text her. Then I will ask her if she did anything interesting and hope that she electorates and I can have a real conversation with her about that. I also have thought about asking her what classes she is taking and hope I could have a conversation about that. Do any of these ideas make sense or are their other things I could/should try to talk to her about?
It really pains me that I have her number but I cannot call or text her without risking her blocking my number or accusing me of harassment. I really would like to know how much successful small talk I have to have at the coffee shop before I can ask her if I can text her. If I could get her permission to start texting her I could really develop a real friendship (right now it is at the minor acquaintance stage) that could develop into a relationship because she spends a lot of time staring at her phone and I would be able to get her attention even when I am not even on campus (I live with my parents), lol. I could even arrange meetings with her at the university coffee shop and eventually at off-campus coffee shops and restaurants which would be essentially like going on dates with her. If the first time I run into her at the university coffee shop turns into a serious conversation should I find a way to ask her if I can start texting her, or should I wait until I run into her again? My fear is that I won’t run into her as many times as I need to and that if I actually have a serious conversation with her in one of the times I run into her, I need to ask her about if I can text her then, because I don’t know how long I will have to wait for another opportunity. But I am scared that she will find me asking that to be invading her privacy and will not want to talk to me again, lol. I plan on study in that coffee shop multiple times every week for a couple hours at a time to maximize my odds of running into her, but I need to act as normal as possible in order to avoid acting like a creep when I walk up to her, because the last thing I want to do is make her uncomfortable. Do any other anons have any advice on how I should approach these attempt at small talk with the cute girl from the theatre class in order to maximize my odds of starting a friendship with her that can gradually evolve into a relationship?
>>813361>It really pains me that I have her number but I cannot call or text her without risking her blocking my number or accusing me of harassmentI feel there is something you're not telling us
>Do any other anons have any advice on how I should approach these attempt at small talk with the cute girl from the theatre classjust go with the 'ol "hey how's it going hrmheh"
>>807187How feminine is your penis?
>>813364I have basically told you guys everything about the situation, except any information that would doxx me (ie. where I live, what university I am attending, etc.), lol. If their is anything I am leaving out it is probably that I probably acted a little creepy around her in the theatre class because of my shitty autistic social skills, and the fact that I was so excited to be paired with a cute girl. I stared at her a lot while I was sitting next to her, and I hope she did not notice, though the fact that she stared at the phone means she probably didn’t. I also waited for her outside the building one time before class (this was the day I was doing a scene with her), and she asked me “what are you waiting for”. I covered it up by saying that I was just looking my lines before I went inside the class, and that I wanted to go over them again with her. There also was a situation that I have not mentioned before because I didn’t think it was important to mention. The theatre professor was having students do a lot of weird stretching/relaxation/breathing exercises before we would try out scene work. One of the times he was doing this he told everyone to have one partner lay on the floor while the other one lifted the leg of the partner on the floor up while they exhaled. The cute girl I was paired with did not feel comfortable laying on the floor while I lifted her leg up as she exhaled so she asked the professor if she could do something else with me. He told us to stand “back to back” with each other so that we could “feel each others” backs, and me being autistic I took that literally and put my hand on her back, and then she quickly told me that was not what he meant and I quickly told her that I was extremely sorry, lol. I was really freaked out when this happened thinking she would complain to the professor but she seemed completely unaffected by it and probably understood that I am an idiot who didn’t understand the instructions. That is the only thing I didn’t mention because I thought it was an innocent mistake and I don’t think it really mattered much, lol. Though maybe she was creeped out by me more than I think and that’s why she stared at the phone so much and the small talk didn’t go very well. I probably shouldn’t say this because it will probably sound very inappropriate but it felt really good being back to back with her (we were so close we could feel each other hearts beating and our breaths inhaling and exhaling), as that is closest I have ever been to an attractive young women, and from that moment onwards I realized that my life will never feel fulfilled until I have a girlfriend.
>>813376Additionally, the idea of me having a girlfriend was always in the far back of my mind, but I kept it suppressed for a while because I though it was unrealistic because I am an autistic bookworm that lives with his parents. The main reason I took the theatre class was to be able to have an opportunity to possibly talk to a cute girl and see if I could make successful small talk with her, develop a friendship and see if that evolved into something more. What caught me by complete surprise was how deeply I fell in love with the cute girl from the theatre class, and how this went from just a causal experiment, into my primary goal in life. I have now resolved that I will make myself completely independent from my parents in the next 3-4 years (once I have my masters in history and can start teaching history at a community college while I live in a small apartment) in order to have a girlfriend. I just hope it can be the cute girl from the theatre class, but I know the odds of it working with her are less then 1% and that really breaks my heart.
>>813376the tism is strong in this one
>>813376Sorry but this is creepy
>>813376>>813382you dont know her uygha, you just developed a crush on her because shes physically attractive (a normal reaction) but youre letting it turn into an obsession. you have never talked to her, dont know shit about her, how can you love someone you dont know? and worse, she has already given you multiple signs of not being interested, which you ignored even though people have been pointing it out here for weeks
movies and social media have warped males ideas of relationships to such a point its not even funny.
>>813388That’s why I did not want to mention it, but it is not as bad as it sounds. Honestly, I think the professor was sort of creepy with all the weird exercises he had us do, lol. I really did not understand what “touching each others backs” meant and I was really scared that I made her uncomfortable and told her sorry multiple times. I am obviously an autistic retard and did not mean anything bad by it, but being really close to a cute girl did make me realize how much I wanted a girlfriend, lol. I would never do anything that would make her uncomfortable and if she tells me to stop talking to her then I won’t ever talk to her again. I just think she is really cute and really want to be in a friendship and eventually a relationship with her, but I accept that she probably dose not want that with me which makes me really sad and breaks my heart. Eventually I will have to find another girl that actually wants to be with me, though this probably won’t happen until I am completely independent from my parents in 3-4 years.
>>813361>>813376>>813382>>813391Negative rizz energy. Also oneitis.
>>813413Agreed, she isn't the only one and if you put that much tought into it you have already lost.
The fact that serial killers have gfs proves all men are entitled to gfs
>>813541Do you have a bigger version of that lust inducing image?
>>813604That you think that is exactly why you don't have one
“Listen, Morty, I hate to break it to you but what people call ‘love’ is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle, Morty. Rise above. Focus on science.”
>>813632Can't Rick just create some kind of machine that you get strapped in and live out your sexual desires? Some kind of gooning chamber maybe?
>>807183i had seen this man at some sentimental motivational speaking event years ago and i had try not to laugh. all i could think was how that poor wife has to sleep next to that fucking thing. that its impossible for her orgasm or to feel attracted and socially validated by a fucking thumbtato… well, it made me really glad that i never joined the military. we all have to live within our choices. i guess that was the most motivating thing about that event, is that only attractive people are seen as human and you should do everything you can to be attractive or you will be looked over no matter how hard you try and how "good" you are. i would rather kill myself than look like that, and it looks like he did.
>>813645>attractiveThere is a limit between being bad looking and being completely disfigured and make people scream if they see you in dim light
>>813604Only a fraction do.
The serial killers with gfs are because those men were charming and handsome.
And because infamy.
Also saying all men are entitled to a gf:
That means then that you’re limited to luck of the draw. You will have to contend with having landwhales and single moms
>>813390>movies and social media have warped males ideas of relationships to such a point its not even funnyWomen were the first victims.
Tbh romance media only works for good looking witty people. Most people are plain in their looks and wit so they should get good instead
>>813541No. We need to start recognizing that “incels” don’t exist. Just cal them pseudo intellectuals
Unpopular opinion:
“Be yourself” is the worst advice that anyone under 25 can get unless they’re worldly and suave and talented
I think that awkwardness and innocence are overpromoted as the hallmarks of youth which has caused sociocognitive disability.
People are unironically saying “it’s important to have a cringe phase in youth otherwise you turn out horrible”
Yet, it’s the normalization of awkwardness and cringe in youth that sets people back.
It’s what causes a lot of hangups and depression.
>>813686killua is cute (not in a pedophilic way)
>>813604LMAO. you are entitled to your hand little buddy
>>813762Political Men are the same way
BBC
>>813762Is luffyposter an incel?
>>813785Is it true that you are not white?
>>813674>“Be yourself” is the worst advice that anyone under 25 can get unless they’re worldly and suave and talentedbe yourself is just wrongly worded advice, the idea is to stop being self-conscious which naturally leads to being suave, just letting things flow accordingly. don't pretend to be anything else because you're just making yourself even more self-conscious. yes, this is a skill, and it needs practicing.
>>813780i'm a leftfemcel btw
>>813803>Commie>JewThe joke wrote itself
>>813413>>813439You guys don’t understand how cute she is due to her very unique facial features (she is a white girl that is vaguely asian looking, and I have never seen anyone who looks like her before), her straight black hair, the cute dresses she wears, and the innocent vibe she gives off. She literally looks and acts like a real life anime character, and she sort of reminds me of alunya (without the cat ears and tail, obviously), lol. I have talked to her more then any other student at my university, partially because we were paired together for a scene in the theatre class, but also because I made sure I always sat next to her and always tried to start small talk with her. She is the only beautiful young woman that I have ever had any serious interactions with in my entire miserable life. I honestly don’t feel like it is going to be easy to find a girl that will fill the void in my heart that will exist in the 99% chance that it doesn’t work with the cute girl from the theatre class, which is why I will try as long as possible to make it work with her. I will not stop trying to make small talk with the cute girl from the theatre class in order to create a friendship that will gradually evolve into relationship with her, until she either tells me to stop talking to her or I graduate from college without getting it to work with her. Any future girlfriend I have that is not the cute girl from the theatre class will be a major downgrade, but I will still accept her (and love her) in order to escape from a life of loneliness and misery.
>>813435I should do this maybe if I'm ever single again.
>>813674Popular opinion: you're weird as fuck
>>813831>show an autistic moid basic decency>he falls in love and won't leave you aloneHappens too often. You have to put down autists or they construct delusions that you like them. Maybe (you) will find your "major downgrade" gf, but that girl clearly isn't interested anon. Quit harassing her and digging yourself into a hole.
>>813820I'm tired of conventionally attractive women giving any life advice
>>813843I think the cute girl from the theatre class is mildly autistic as well because she did not really talk to that many people in the class and seemed to spend a lot of time on the phone. I have seen her talk to a couple girls that seem to be friends of hers that probably live in the same dorm, but she seems much less social then most other kids. Honestly, the fact that she is so cute (she is a white girl with pseudo-asian facial feature and straight black hair that looks like an anime girl, particularly alunya) combined with her very innocent and shy/possibly autistic personality is what made me so strongly attracted to her.
>>813673but pseudo intellectuals are not necessarily incels and incels are not necessarily pseudo intellectuals albeit
>>813820>I'm a mother and I have a partnerimmediately stopped listening, because this person is unavailable and therefore my entire headcanon of meeting her, hitting it off, and then having a fantasy romance with her was crushed, and I'm upset about that, even though I'm also still lusting after her.
…
en serio tho, this girl sounds like she's got a good head on her shoulders. you can't be someone's everything, unless you're both on the same page about it, and even then, it's sort of unhealthy to have that sort of co-dependency. she's also correct in saying that socializing is a skill that you need to learn to develop, and even autistic motherfuckers can do it, too. only, she's very attractive and so I imagine that's a huge factor she's not considering, that attractive people are just "better" at making friends because they don't have to deal with the baggage that comes with being a fat uggo. it hurts but it's true, but it's still true that even a fat uggo can be a rizzlord and get the girl + a social circle if he really wants to. you're a real alpha chad if you're a fat uggo and you just don't give a fuck, but it takes a special kind of person to be like that, tho.
>>813834What’s your problem man?
>>813857Incels tend to overlap with pseudo intellectuals. The first major sign is self-proclaiming as an incel.
>>813843Most autists aren’t weirdly clingy like that though. If anything most tend to be afraid of affection just for this reason alone.
>>813852Listen man, can we stop labeling others as autistic just because they’re not social butterflies?
There’s a lot more asocial allists than asocial autists.
>>813862>it's still true that even a fat uggo can be a rizzlord and get the girl + a social circle if he really wants to. you're a real alpha chad if you're a fat uggo and you just don't give a fuck, but it takes a special kind of person to be like that, tho.That’s because it takes WIT. Looks are often overestimated for romantic attraction.
>>813804The only for that to happen is to get some hobbies though. And maybe stop caring so much about scoring.
>>813874social proof > rizz > looks
>>813874I wasn’t trying to make fun of her. I adore her more then anyone else on the planet despite knowing that she doesn’t care about me, because that is how much I love her and want to have a relationship with her even though I know the odds of success are probably less then 1%. I was just trying to find something I could possibly have in common with her. This is because if we are being honest, the vast majority of kids that are “diagnosed” with level 1 autism/aspergers, are just kids that are nerdy book worms with shitty social skills that get labeled and made fun of by both teachers and peers for not being “social butterflies”, lol. I don’t think my autism/asperger’s would have even been a problem if my parents weren’t control freaks that used it as an excuse to scare me from socializing with other kids. I was trained at a very young age how to mask my autism when I was forced to interact with teachers and peers in school. I became so good at masking that I was never officially “diagnosed”. A doctor told my parents when I was four years old that I probably had high-functioning autism/aspergers, so my parents had me stop seeing that doctor and started training me how to hide it when I was in public. This was both a blessing and a curse, because while it protected me from receiving an official diagnoses, it made me avoid developing normal friendships with peers my age and just focus on academics in order to avoid blowing my “cover”, lol. So while I am highly effective at staged/scripted low-level social interactions, I have shitty social skills for developing real friendships and relationships. However, the glimmer of hope in this fucked up situation is that I don’t think it is really my “autism” that is holding me back, but the fear my parents instilled in me from a young age of being outed as “autistic” by peers, primarily because they couldn’t accept their kid being diagnosed with a mental disability, lol. Once I am living on my own, I feel it will ironically get a lot easier because I will be forced to interact with people all the time without my parents hovering around (I can drive to class, but my mother often comes with me, and it feels like their always looking over my shoulder, lmao) and I will probably just admit to them that I have mild autism and then the fear will subside and I can actually have a successful relationship.
The sad thing is that I found the cute girl from the theatre class when I am still living with my parents and have not developed my shitty social skills enough to have serious non-scripted conversations. I only mentioned if the cute girl from the theatre class might by autistic just because some of her behavior looks like it might be labeled that way. Also, if she was autistic maybe she would be more understanding/accepting of my shitty social skills and if I can have some successful small talk with her at the coffee shop, maybe I could eventually admit to her that I have mild autism. If I could let her know why my social skills are so shitty, and she has similar issues, maybe I could even use that to create something we could bond over. However, I would not be comfortable revealing that to her until I thought I was actually making serious progress developing a friendship with her (multiple successful meetings at the coffee shop that could lead to her letting me text her), because I would not want to freak her out and have her judge me as a creepy retard, especially if I am wrong and she is not autistic. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do considering everything I have said?
>>813902Nice fantasy, looks are primary.
>>813969>The big man JE in the background.Nah too much of a memester.
>>813969This is a meme video especially with the Jeffrey Epstein photo
And him saying “fake bisexual”.
>>813902Looks are social proof
>>814014this is a direct result of the bolsheviks failing, I'm sure of it.
>>813931>I feel it will ironically get a lot easier because I will be forced to interact with peopleI hate how socially maladaptive people use the term “forced to” whenever talking about socialization. Youre not being “forced to” socially interact with people. You’re choosing to interact.
I especially hate how people wanna implement mandatory socialization for kids to project their own vicarious impressions of childhood.
>without my parents hovering around (I can drive to class, but my mother often comes with me, and it feels like their always looking over my shoulder, lmao) and I will probably just admit to them that I have mild autism and then the fear will subside and I can actually have a successful relationship.Smother moms are the worst. I had to deal with that all my childhood and earl adult life.
What’s especially bad is how society sympathizes them and accuses you of being “ungrateful” for not wanting your mom snooping in your business all the time
“Your mom loves you, you should be grateful.
I wish I had a mom like that, I was forced to do it all on my own”.
These same people will then accuse you of being dumb and lazy for not conforming to the perfect adult due to mom infantilizing you.
>However, the glimmer of hope in this fucked up situation is that I don’t think it is really my “autism” that is holding me back, but the fear my parents instilled in me from a young age of being outed as “autistic” by peers, primarily because they couldn’t accept their kid being diagnosed with a mental disability, lolSuch sweet self-delusions. Granted, parents can make autism worse with their smothering but don’t think for a second that you’d be easily accepted by neurotypical peers is you were autonomous in childhood or worse yet, forced to socialize with neurotypicals.
>Also, if she was autistic maybe she would be more understanding/accepting of my shitty social skills and if I can have some successful small talk with her at the coffee shop, maybe I could eventually admit to her that I have mild autism. If I could let her know why my social skills are so shitty, and she has similar issues, maybe I could even use that to create something we could bond over.Another sweet self-delusion
Neurotypicals don’t get along despite having things in common. What makes you think autists will automatically accept each other as their own?
Also, girls expect the guys coming in to them to be worldly or prospectful.
>This is because if we are being honest, the vast majority of kids that are “diagnosed” with level 1 autism/aspergers, are just kids that are nerdy book worms with shitty social skills that get labeled and made fun of by both teachers and peers for not being “social butterflies”, lol.And that’s a major problem. Autism is a NEUROCOGNITVE disorder not a social one.
This is a major consequence of our post-Cold War pedagogy hyperfocusing on”socialization” as a moral compass of youth.
>>814014oh shit they met at 17 and it's her only couple. damn i predict a really messy divorce, nasty work.
>>814026Those are outliers. I bet the average Slavic woman isn’t that pretty nor the average Slavic man that ugly
>>814032
i think 17 year olds are woefully unequipped to take lifelong decisions. that and there are possibly huge financial implications since she's a world famous pornstar. those are my biases, your honor.
>>814030You sure about that? Funnily enough, most couples that end in nasty divorces are usually married past their mid twenties.
Why do you people have a bias against people marrying young and keeping the same partner?
Not everyone likes to jump through hoops in the dating game. Dating sucks the youth out of you. Too many people treat having an umpteenth spouse by age forty as par for the course.
>>814034>You sure about that?not sure, it is a prediction after all. i mean my mom and dad married young so i have anecdotal evidence to the contrary but that was like 3 decades ago and my mom isn't earning millions of bucks per month nor is one of the most desired women on the planet.
>>814033>i think 17 year olds are woefully unequipped to take lifelong decisionsAnd yet we expect kids to choose their future careers in schools. We harass kids about “what they wanna be when they grow up”
We even make kids sign up for military jobs before graduation.
Also, not everyone is infantilized like in western society. Outside the west, teens are treated more or less like adults and so are able to make serious decisions
In the west, people in their twenties and thirties are incapable of making good life decisions due to social conditioning from school and a shitty job market.
>>814037I remember when I was like 10 or 11 at summer camp and some 40ish year old man bullied me for not knowing what I wanted to do when I grew up. Retrospectively, a really weird thing for an adult to do and it’s strange how so many adults actively bully kids. They anlso greatly exaggerate how difficult adulthood, and even teenagehood, is. It seems a lot of adults who gravitate toward working with kids are weirdos, not even discussing pedos.
>>814036>not sure, it is a prediction after all. i mean my mom and dad married young so i have anecdotal evidence to the contrary but that was like 3 decades ago and my mom isn't earning millions of bucks per month nor is one of the most desired women on the planet.Have realized yet that marriage after a certain age becomes about strategic decisions? Looks and passion fade. So all you have left is each other. The main reason why a lot of couples don’t divorce isn’t because of “revived love” but because you realize that in our senescence, you’re gonna need a caretaker. That and the grandkids.
>>814030Also she said they met at seventeen not that they began dating or marriage at seventeen. People forget that romantic relationships don’t always start at first encounter.
Plus, she’s not ethnoculturally western. So it makes sense.
>>814043That’s because adults comicalize childhood far too much. People often say kids are cruel and shallow but the way adults treat kids as pets or live action cartoons, it’s no wonder why kids bully each other.
A lot of media portrays kids in a self deprecative manner. Adults even talk about kids based on their looks.
>lil tommy has a peanut head>lil Sadie looks like a polka dot cloth with her frecklesYet, they would never talk about adults in that manner.
Even teachers do this obnoxious thing where they force kids to do group activities as some sort of social intervention because said kids don’t conform to the pop cultural stereotypes.
A lot of adults often take offense to kids being monotone or flat-affect or not having exuberance.
Or they get upset about kids having precocious/worldly interests that don’t involve playing make believe.
>Kids these days no longer act like kids because they’re not interested in dumb lame shit like pretending to be superheroes >>814037>And yet we expect kids to choose their future careers in schools. We harass kids about “what they wanna be when they grow up”i agree that's dumb, luckily you're arguing with me and not with society's liberal beliefs at large
>>814045>Have realized yet that marriage after a certain age becomes about strategic decisions? Looks and passion fade.are you even disagreeing with me
>>814043>They anlso greatly exaggerate how difficult adulthood, and even teenagehood, is. It seems a lot of adults who gravitate toward working with kids are weirdos, not even discussing pedos.A lot of adults do this because they suck at adulthood. These same people who say adulthood sucks are surprisingly very fond, I’d not grossly self-indulgent of adult amenities.
And teenage hood is exaggerated especially because adults want think that teens are supposed to be pets and get upset when they have preferences of their own.
That’s why a lot of adults label teens as “rebellious”. It’s because teens have their own shit to deal with like homework and career aspirations. Parents want to still smother them like they’re toddlers and get upset when teens say “no” to that.
Humans are the only species to smother their young like this. In other species, when you come of age, parents will do everything in their power to make you independent.
>Plus, she’s not ethnoculturally western. So it makes sense.
russia has one of the highest divorce rates in the world lmfao
>>814050I’m disagreeing with the generalization you’re making. I’m just pointing out the cultural conditioning that makes your bias possible.
In our post-boomer culture, young people are barred from worldly affairs except academia. They’re not allowed to be cynical or analytic without being seen as disaffected.
“Let kids be kids” has become a draconian rule to bar any autonomous maturation.
>>814052And people accuse America of being unappreciative of marriage.
Also,isn’t Russia somehwat western? In the sense of European cultural conditioning?
>>814053>I’m disagreeing with the generalization you’re making. I’m just pointing out the cultural conditioning that makes your bias possible.no, you're actually pointing out the obvious contradiction in western liberalism that just ends up supporting my point.
children are urged to pick their careers as early as possible while western education does not incentivize critical thinking because western liberalism is more concerned with the market logic of creating workers, than with the purported goal of forming politically active citizens, this is rather obvious and supports my point that children are unequipped to take lifelong decisions and no one should expect high school to define the next 40 years of their lives. same for marriage. speaking particularly of sweetiefox, she has the means to divorce whenever, so if she ever feels ever so slightly regretful of a decision she took before 25, she can just do it. i hope you understand my point this time, instead of chasing ghosts. i dunno why denounce the market logic education while tacitly defending what's essentially an economic unit that reinforces the same structures of labor specialization and division of labor that you condemned literally a sentence ago when complaining about children being forced to choose a career path.
>>814062>so if she ever feels ever so slightly regretful of a decision she took before 25, she can just do itScientists are now saying brain development ends at thirty-five. Also, people can divorce at any time they want to. Most of the time, people choose not to divorce for economic reasons. Because single people get taxed more or don’t get as much benefits.
>because western liberalism is more concerned with the market logic of creating workers, than with the purported goal of forming politically active citizens, Why do people always say this? Schools have a strong contempt for industrial realism. In fact, there’s been propaganda against kids having part time after school jobs.
Blue collar skills are non existent in academic discourse.
Kids are fisher only abstract theoretical things. If schools wanted students to be adept workers, they’d at least have vocational skills as general curriculum. In addition, a lot of college graduates are rejected from employment because a lot employers look down on young college graduates as “out of touch”
A lot of what you learn on the job contradicts what colleges teach.
>this is rather obvious and supports my point that children are unequipped to take lifelong decisions and no one should expect high school to define the next 40 years of their lives.Not saying no, but I think kids should be allowed to take control of their own lives without adult interference.
>i hope you understand my point this time, instead of chasing ghosts. i dunno why denounce the market logic education while tacitly defending what's essentially an economic unit that reinforces the same structures of labor specialization and division of labor that you condemned literally a sentence ago when complaining about children being forced to choose a career path.Can you clarify? I’m talking about how kids are forced to choose life paths due to paternalistic coercion.
>>814068>If schools wanted students to be adept workers, they’d at least have vocational skills as general curriculum.this is merely a reflection of the US being transformed into a service economy. schools don't teach vocational skills because the US does not need more people working blue collar jobs, migrants do this. thus there are lots of vocational schools in, like, mexico. the market logic has just translated workerism into credentialism to adapt to this reality.
>Can you clarify? I’m talking about how kids are forced to choose life paths due to paternalistic coercion.oh you mean the same paternalistic coercion that exists in nuclear families? the same institution that expects marriage to be a lifetime commitment. that coercion? why, it's almost like marriage and nuclear family rather reinforces existing market logic. also i like how you are somewhat able to think in systemic terms for everything EXCEPT family, which has been completely reduced to your dad. very revealing, you wish to speak more about this?
>>814037>You guys don’t understand how cuteSo it's all looks isn't it?
>innocent vibe she gives offWithout crying nonce, I think the reason this appeals to you is because you yourself are inexperienced and lack "worldliness". You're projecting both a fantasy onto her and treating her as an empty canvas which she probably isn't.
Maybe she's been through a lot, maybe she had bfs before, maybe she's from an abusive family, or an only child or her cat died last month. Or she doesn't know what she wants in life yet and is just figuring things out. Maybe she's not interested in any guy right now for whatever reason. Maybe she's not straight.
You don't give the impression you know much about her, her interests, what she does when you don't see her and so on. Nor that she has any interest in you.
One thing you learn growing up is that relationships with people who aren't into you aren't worth pursuing, and doing it anyway can easily destroy you mentally in the long run. And two, if you have any emotional intelligence at all, don't assume people have nothing going on in their lives, or that a woman is an innocent empty canvas because of her looks or because she's shy. Or simply because you're into her.
Save yourself from throwing your early adulthood away because of oneinits (speaking from experience).
I'll also give you a pro-tip; having no obvious friends gives a lot of women the ick. Being with another dude or woman as a friend, makes you look a lot safer and more appealing. Probably also makes her more likely to say yes if you suggest she tag along eventually, and makes it more likely she'll join you in a conversation when you're among a group of friends.
You wanna pull? Stop being a dork. Be social, and be interesting. (and stop focusing on her for a while and making her uncomfortable)
Does it hurt to have sex when your dick has phimosis?
>>814075no but phimosis increases the odds of stuff like balanitis i think so if it hurts you may want to see a doctor
>>814014She does porn with her husband. Holy shit. Ropefuelest of all ropefuels.
I think becoming a parent may be the most reactionary thing you can be. Not all parents but plenty of them use the excuse of "protecting the children" to support the most reactionary policies. Although this may eventually lead to population collapse since the more reactionary parents typically want to restrict what their kids do which makes it harder to be sufficiently social to eventually seek out romantic partners to continue the cycle of procreation. Unless those societies practice arranged marriages and relationships but I don't think that will help it forever.
>>814073You mean to reply to>>813831
Also, “cute innocent vibes” isn’t “noncery” inherently. Idk what’s up with people constantly finding cuteness as a defect.
>>814105Most adults think of children as pets
A lot of parents are especially obsessed with controlling kids lives down to T.
Parents get pissy about kids not wanting to be dragged around, they get upset about kids learning about worldly affairs, they get upset about kids not having interest in playing make believe, adapting new fashion, new media, new slang , etc
It’s not enough for kids to do their home work and chores anymore. Adults are now talking about mandating extracurricular activities for kids for “personal enrichment”. Academic aptitude is now measured on “socialization”. If you’re a smart kid that doesn’t like mingling with your peers, teachers will label you as antisocial.
>>814072>this is merely a reflection of the US being transformed into a service economy. schools don't teach vocational skills because the US does not need more people working blue collar jobs, migrants do this. thus there are lots of vocational schools in, like, mexico. the market logic has just translated workerism into credentialism to adapt to this reality. And that’s why the American job market is so shitty for native-born Americans.
“We don’t need blue collar jobs anymore” is a ruse to keep Americans as dependent consumer-only entities.
Right now, any native born American going into trades has better economic prospects than those going in for service industry work.
>>814111>And that’s why the American job market is so shitty for native-born Americans.it's just the price to pay for being at the top of the supply chain, my good bitch
>>814114That’s not a “price to pay”
Actually competent imperial counties will still have their native populace have a stronghold on trades.
Competent Imperialism doesn’t rely solely on ethnic foreigners doing all their work.
Having ethnic foreigners doing all your infrastructural work is something that even poor countries have.
>>814118>Actually competent imperial countiesuhhh no, retard, that's at odds with the logic of maximizing profit. hey, look at the bright side, most of the third world is stuck being semi-proletarian, or outright lumpenprole. families in the third world barely scrape by through informal labor, which is why becoming first world proles is an improvement, and the mechanism through which salaries are kept low.
>>814111You can be cute without being innocent. Attraction to innocence itself however vibes like noncery to me. There's the implied lack of wordiness, independence and sexual experience associated with being a kid. Often with shyness (being an implied pushover) put on a pedestal too.
>>814120>um akshulay you’re wrong all imperial systems make their natives only do customer service work.>>814124Fair point. The biggest lie however is the assumption that innocence is a default state of youth. There’s been a lot of historic worldliness that kids used to have. This assumption of unworldlyness as a childhood default is a modern invention.
Do you really think a kid from three centuries ago would be the same type of naïveté as kids of post-WW1?
Shyness isn’t the same as innocence though.
>>814073I will admit that her unique cute looks (being a black-haired white girl with pseudo-asian facial features which makes her look like a cutesy anime character) are a big part of my attention to her. I also know a lot more about her then you think from both the few small talk conversations I had with her in class that were mildly successful and from skimming through her social media over the last several months. I know that her family is wealthy (not millionaires or billionaires but high six figures) and educated (post-graduate education), though I will not elaborate on what they do for doxxing/privacy reasons. She is also a very good student who gets high grades in all of her classes and is on the provost list. I know that she is a literature major and is very much into anything “artsy” and “creative”, as seen by the fact that she did a much better job in the scene work then me, lol. She seems to have had a boyfriend in high school that she doesn’t seem to be with anymore (she only vaguely alluded to him once on her socials so it doesn’t seem like much happened, lol), because she went to an out of state university. Overall she dose not seem to have a very dysfunctional background, which is just another reason I like her so much. I get where your coming from that me not having any friends may not help me achieve success with her, but as I said a few weeks ago, I am not really interested in hanging around dudes (I have a subconscious fear that they will make fun of me for being mildly autistic) and she is the only woman I have any interest in. However, I have mentioned joining either a history or left-wing politics club (the only “leftist” club at my campus is a young democrats chapter, as marxist/communist views are basically non-existent here, lol) at the university in order to develop better social skills with peers in an atmosphere devoted to areas that I have a lot of knowledge about. Do you think that joining a history and/or “leftist” politics club would be a good idea for me?
>>814028When I meant being “forced” to socialize I meant that once I am completely independent from my parents and teaching history at a community college while I live in a small apartment, I will no longer have the option of letting, or being lured/coerced into, my pare doing everything for me, lol. This means that I will have to take much more responsibility which will naturally put me into situations where I will have no option but to have better social skills, thus making them improve. Something else I haven’t mentioned yet is that I let my mother know all about the situation with the girl from the theatre class. I originally tried to hide it from her, but I had a big emotional breakdown over it on my spring break and because I spend a lot of my time around my mother (I don’t have any friends or take part in any extracurricular activities but playing the guitar a little, posting on leftypol, and thinking about the cute girl from the theatre class), I ended up telling her all about it. She was much more accepting of it then I thought she would be, as I was initially scared that she would be angry at me for wanting a girlfriend. My father did not find out about for another few months (when I had a emotional breakdown in front of him) because all he does is work (he has a really good work ethic and makes a decent income, but the downside is that he doesn’t really seem to care about anything else) and come home and stare at the phone, take work calls, or watch TV/sports, so he doesn’t really give a shit about what me or my mother are doing. When he found out about he didn’t get as upset as I feared, and seemed much more accepting then I thought (I feared he would lose it on me and tell me to drop out of college if I keep on trying to talk girls), but I think that is probably because he doesn’t really think about anything but work and probably forgot about by the next day, lol. I think part of the reason my mother is more accepting of me trying to start a friendship and eventual relationship with the cute
girl from the theatre class then I thought, is because the girl is a good student and comes from a wealthy educated family. If she came from any non-wealthy/educated background and/or was not on the provost list, I know my mother would hate her, lol. This is another reason I want it to work out with the cute girl from the theatre class because it will be a lot less stressful trying to be with a girl my mother likes then one she hates. My mother has even said she would try to befriend the cute girl from the theatre class by running into her at another coffee shop she frequents near the university. My mother is a psychologist so she is very good at playing mind games with people, lol. The only danger of this is that I don’t want the cute girl from the theatre class to figure out that mother is trying to befriend her in order to make it easier for her son to have a friendship and eventual relationship with her, lol. I also am concerned that my mother is egging me on in order to have me fail really bad and get really depressed and fall back into just wanting to be stuck with my parents forever. Thus, my mothers seeming “acceptance” of my wanting to be with the cute girl from the theatre class could be a trap, lol.
>>814192>If she came from any non-wealthy/educated background and/or was not on the provost list, I know my mother would hate her, lol. That’s the kind of bias I hate. Adults judge others children based on their social standing.
>This is another reason I want it to work out with the cute girl from the theatre class because it will be a lot less stressful trying to be with a girl my mother likes then one she hates. My mother has even said she would try to befriend the cute girl from the theatre class by running into her at another coffee shop she frequents near the university. Is your mom also religious? Mine is. Point is, I like to keep my social life separate from my mom because she likes to nitpick and interfere needlessly. Very intolerant of casualness or slight vulgarity.
Domineering Moms are like that. They hate worldliness in young people. They think it’s a gateway to delinquency.
>My mother is a psychologist so she is very good at playing mind games with people, lol. The only danger of this is that I don’t want the cute girl from the theatre class to figure out that mother is trying to befriend her in order to make it easier for her son to have a friendship and eventual relationship with her, lol. I also am concerned that my mother is egging me on in order to have me fail really bad and get really depressed and fall back into just wanting to be stuck with my parents forever. Thus, my mothers seeming “acceptance” of my wanting to be with the cute girl from the theatre class could be a trap, lol.What is up with white collar/ super-educated adults being such control freaks in their kids lives? No wonder why upper middle class kids get a bad rap of being ungrateful.
Their parents are obsessive control freaks.
>>814192>When I meant being “forced” to socialize I meant that once I am completely independent from my parents and teaching history at a community college while I live in a small apartment, I will no longer have the option of letting, or being lured/coerced into, my pare doing everything for me, lol. This means that I will have to take much more responsibility which will naturally put me into situations where I will have no option but to have better social skills, thus making them improve. Something else I haven’t mentioned yet is that I let my mother know all about the situation with the girl from the theatre classI think your primary concern is getting some survival skills. Learn how to do taxes and get a trade or vocation.
Social skills are nice and all, but they can only do so much.
>>814185who are you quoting, you fucking simpleton
>>813970Literally touch grass, go outside, look at couples in the park.
>>813811why do polfags even come here
>>814192>Controlling and smothering mother>Distant father>No (older) siblings>No friendsChecks out.
Do yourself a favor and get a social life, hang out with guys, go to clubs, get drunks. And
don't involve your mom. Don't let her drive to school with you, don't even let her know who you're hanging out with, or who you have a crush on. Keep some distance. Stop caring what she thinks. That is, if you don't want to end up like some Hikikomori still living with your parents until you're 40.
>But I have autismBeing treated like that, having no friends, no siblings, helicopter parenting can also make you socially retarded.
>>814026That woman looks AI.
>>813831>She literally looks and acts like a real life anime character, and she sort of reminds me of alunyats nga is genuinely starting to piss me off. this is either the dumbest nga on this website or the most masterful ragebaiter alive
you dont even know her name dumbass nga. everything you mention about her is her looks. how tf are you in love with someone u dont know? name her favourite colour, or food, or what her hobbies are, or what movies she likes. u dont know any of that bc
- u dont know her
and
- she has shown multiple signs of being uninterested which anons are pointing out in this thread and you promptly ignore it
just move on and stop obsessing over this poor random girl whos just trying to study
>>813820I hate this person
>>814284Have you taken into consideration that she is very pretty?
>>813820>socializing is a skill that you have to learn, like any other skillthey hated her because she told them the truth
>>814221Most aren't ugly. They may be plain looking
>>814275>No (older) siblings Older siblings aren't a virtue within themselves. They're already having their own lives and if they show interest in you will act more as a secondary smother parent
>>814036my mom and dad never married and didn't raise me but I've been with the same partner since 17 (I am mid 30s). sometimes I think generations zig zag.
>>814290It's a skill alright but it's often overestimated in virtue in itself
>>814276nah, the photo just looks staged. like she's a model in designer clothes or something. but not AI. maybe photoshopped the old fashioned way.
>>813831Bruh you haven't described her personality. All you do is glaze her looks and mannerisms.
>>814278I think anon is being sincere. No masterful ragebait could capture this essence so well unless it was from past experience.
>>814372Cap
>>814373>but it's often overestimatedif anything i think it's being underestimated. like seriously my dad is a social butterfly and he can get away with virtually anything because he's just a fun guy to be around
What's with the flood detection rn?
>don't cheat on gf
<gf has cheating dreams
>cheat on gf
<gf has cheating dreams
Funniest part is that she was such a hoe at the start dating and repeatedly blew me off to see other guys. I've come to the conclusion that I'm with her because I can cheat on her (which I have on my past partners as well) and feel righteous while doing it.
>>814428That's a picture of a Russian man with his harem of women btw. I've heard that's very common in Russia.
>>814278Of course I know her name, I have her cell phone number, was paired with her for a scene in my theatre class, and was trying to make small talk with her my entire spring semester, but I would never say her name here in order to avoid doxxing her or me, lol. I was able to text her a few times about meeting right before class (right outside the building the class was in) about the scene we were doing (I successfully met her twice their), and I texted her how much I enjoyed being paired with her when the semester was over, but I had cold feet on texting her throughout the summer for fear she would find it too intrusive and block me. I do know some hobbies that she does, which are related to her literature/creative writing major, as she loves to write short stories but I will not elaborate too much on what she writes for doxxing concerns. I even have an idea what movies she likes from skimming her social media accounts. I don’t know what her favorite food is, but the fact that she is super skinny means she is probably not that passionate about food, lol. That’s a good thing, as I would be really sad and worried for her if she gained a bunch of weight. I have a pretty good gauge her political views from all the above information about her and some other stuff that I won’t reveal here, as I asses that she is a left-liberal democrat, though I can’t tell if she is a centrist democrat that only cares about cultural issues (ie. abortion, lgbt rights, etc.) or if she is a leftist bernie/aoc style social democrat. My suspicion is that she only cares about cultural issues because I don’t see anything explicitly political on her social media and her family has money, but she might larp the bernie/aoc/dsa stuff because that is hip on college campuses. I can almost guarantee that she is not into far-left marxism/communism, as though she could probably tolerate the watered down dsa version of “marxism” that is just about winning elections and medicare for all, the real thing that existed in the ussr and maoist china would scare her. This is because her family has money and she would probably view it as too violent/authoritarian and that would definitely scare her and this website would definitely freak her out because of all the edgy/retarded violent threats and non-pc jokes/insults, and I can’t blame her for that because it honestly bother me too, lol. About her appearance, I would never show a picture of her on this website for doxxing concerns, but if you could see what she looks like and how she dresses, you would notice that she is very “anime like”. This is because she is a white girl with a very unique/rare facial structure that almost seems pseudo-asian (ie. partially slanted eyes, higher cheekbones, broad face, slightly wider nose, etc.), and I really don’t know the origin of these features because both of her parents are white (neither are asian as they have generic waspy names and neither were born in east asia). I notice one of her parents has a similar look (she has pictures of them on her socials), so maybe she has a little asian in her from several generations back, so I guess asian features are very dominant genetically if they can last that long in a family. She also has straight black hair which makes her look more asian/anime looking, and sort of like alunya because she keeps her hair in a similar style.
>>814275I know that I need to improve my social skills and start doing stuff without my parents involved, lol. Do you think the history or politics clubs I mentioned would help my situation, because at least I would have something in common with the people their, and the fact I know so much about those topics could lead to me socializing a lot with them and improving my social skills when I try to have small talk with the cute girl from the theatre class?
literally 100% are victims of bad parenting and parents that didn't prepare you for the world.
don't hate women, hate your mom and dad, your mom and dad made you into the freak you are today, they are at fault for making you into a fucked up freak, don't be ashamed to hate them for it.
>>814554It’s more than just parental incompetence.
Schools are also a problem.
Public schooling doesn’t do proper socialization. They restrict kids’ recreation into small time blocks. There’s not enough diverse types of group activities other than sports or plays.
>>814384>social skills are underestimated Nah. They’re overestimated. I know what I said. People act like social skills by themselves are “make-or-break”
As for your dad, he’s just very witty and funny. There’s a lot of people whom are social butterflies that aren’t witty nor funny.
Socialization only works in tandem with recreational or industrial activites
Most people are socialized in school yet these same people end up with typical mediocre job prospects with dwindling luck in the dating market.
There’s been an overfocus on “money doesn’t buy you happiness” as a sociocognitive rule.
And the “beauty is skin deep”.
Or the whole “it’s the thought that counts” when it comes talent and wit
While these are all true, they’re often used as subconscious coverups for personal mediocrity.
You often go on Reddit or Quora and read OPs about people struggling with finding friends or sex/romance partners and they all admit that they’re not good in their looks, talents, or wit.
All the replying posters all say “It’s okay you will find someone who will love you for you”
These same people will then use awkwardness and singlehood as a comical insult towards people they don’t like:
“You’re such a pathetic lonely virgin!”
Or they portray people they don’t like as physically ugly and awkward.
Even describe them as such as well.
Again, these are the same people that act very sympathetic towards people whom are shy/awkward/overlooked.
There’s been a major overfocus on socialization in academia since the 2010s. “Social skills” are now part of the curriculum as if though being drilled on math, science, and literacy wasn’t enough. Parents are now getting obsessed with signing kids up for extracurricular activities for the sake of “personal enrichment”
Now, kids are told that college acceptance is based on how many social clubs you were part of.
Yet, these same kids when they graduate high school, will call flat on their face because they’ve never been taught about any industrial skills.
>>814408>you’re dumb because you disagree with my gender chauvinism >>814593>Yet, these same kids when they graduate high school, will call flat on their face because they’ve never been taught about any industrial skills. Sounds like you're trying to generalize based entirely on a personal incompetence. You're the child left behind I guess.
>>814593You're retarded because you think a joke is representative of someone's actual opinion. You are severely handicapped in your ability to read people
>>814601Least painful way to die bros?… I'm seriously upset and high and drunk right now
>>814601>>814602Is this what people call oneitis? Maybe you should try diversifying your portfolio in regards to females but I don't know I've never tried rizzing up the ladies. Although I have felt brutally crushed about not attaining the female I desired although in my case it's for lack of trying.
>>814601there's other women out there anon
I don't hate my parents, but i do resent the fact that they were older when they had me.
>>814617I wish my parents had been a Chad and a Stacy instead of Mexican immigrants. Or at least the Mexican versions of chad and stacy.
>>814618Doesn't mean they wouldn't give birth to el goblino
>>814671
There’s not much difference between millennials, zoomers, or alphas
>>814594Ok then. Why do so many people who graduated high school are stuck in dead end jobs? Why are so many college graduates unable to find jobs appropriate for their degree?
A lot of people do say that what their respective jobs taught them runs counter to what was taught in high school and college
>>814597>it’s just a joke man why U so dumbYet you will complain about “misogyny” and “racism” in edgy humor.
Curious
>>814597People often will hide behind jokes as sincerity of their opinion.
You know that, so don’t try to gaslight me.
>>814617Honestly, there needs to be liability laws concerning people having kids too late in life.
Having kids past your prime makes them more likely to suffer developmental disorders.
And especially since so many people are forgoing childrearing until their late thirties/early forties, after a whole medical history of junk food, psych meds, and casual drugs, the resulting embryos may not have good biophysical development.
If you’re not mature/stable enough to have kids before thirty-five, it’s better to adopt.
Especially since infancy stage is hella tricky for a lot of parents.
And due overpopulation.
>>814603Oneitis is a bitch but so is diversitfyijg your portfolio.
Again, dating sucks the life out of you. You’re putting emotional investment into others. That’s not something that can be divested easily.
“There’s plenty of fish in the sea” doesn’t mean that compatibility is plentiful.
Maybe there’s a reason why we had arranged marriages in the past
>>814684>>814685I give up on you
>>814671trvke
>>814688>Oneitis is a bitch but so is diversitfyijg your portfolio.???? Literally just go out to shit you like and get number or insta of cute girls. Most will just be friendly. If you're looking for something casual throw dating apps in the mix, but never let them be your primary source.
>>814705Spare me the paternalism
Go back to whining about “chuds” whenever someone says “woke” in a bad way.
>>814671
lmfao
the obsession with having no power dynamics in relationships is actually reactionary and nonsensical, literally every relationship will have this. We are like 2 degrees removed from people being against interracial relationships (progressively!) due to this power dynamic neuroticism.
>>814847>not wanting power dynamics makes you an islamophobeClassic
>>814847The irony is, there’s far greeter power dynamics in economic differences than with age.
People often marry into families with more money to get a step up in life and end up in abuse and misery
I just thought y'all should know that my ass has a tear in it.
>>814847This is true in a vaccuum but the fact that it's coming from you is very sus, esp. after you post how much you want to groom early 20s marxist girls
Things that are misandry
>Thinking a man is a pedophile or rapist simply because hes a a man
>Saying that its ok for a woman to end a relationship without notice for any reason whatsoever
>Saying mens feelings don't matter period
>Saying its ok for women to cheat and manipulate men because of the patriarchy
>Saying that men can't be victims of rape and/or pedophilia
>Thinking its ok to make false accusations against a man because of the patriarchy
>being a TERF
Things that aren't misandry
>A woman having a boyfriend/husband when you have a crush on her
>A woman rejecting you
>Being a lesbian
>Being pro abortion
>Women not wanting to date you in general
>A woman calling you out for shitty things you actually did
>>815325I should write this down so I remember.
>>815325>Saying that its ok for a woman to end a relationship without notice for any reason whatsoeverThe fuck you want, 3 month notice? Of course it is ok, the same as it would be for a man.
>Thinking its ok to make false accusations against a man because of the patriarchyLiterally nobody thinks that.
>>814927insane amount of pickme energy
>>815345>pickmeThis term is used exclusively by women with horrible personalities to push down women with non-horrible personalities.
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