>>513879Your post was a quite good application of DiaMat to sexual introspection. You should try to plan and ritualize your sessions of self-pleasure (as in giving it a specific timeframe (like 30-40 minutes) and location and sticking to it), as I believe that the application "slowness" ("festina lente" to be more accurate) to onanism can be very positive. As for jairou I will let you know more once once I spend some time with his works, but I will give the same opinion I have on mesugakis: in a purely fictional environment informed and free consent is all that matters.
Still, I have also experienced a similarly weird phenomenon of "2-day fetish": a tag that I have never considered barges into my mind, I indulge in it (if I find it morally acceptable, like exhibitionism, piercings or urination) and 90% of the time it evaporates as if it never happened.
Let the dialectics stay in motion and practice self-criticism while staying true to your values. We could call it dia-sexual materialism.