I need some advice. I pay for essentials for my bf, new glasses, food, medical stuff. (He can't work due to autism). He has told me that he feels like a parasite, that he's taking advantage of me and that I can't see that he's abusing

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Anonymous 20-05-25 17:20:25 No.667377

I need some advice
I pay for essentials for my bf, new glasses, food, medical stuff. (He can't work due to autism)
He has told me that he feels like a parasite, that he's taking advantage of me and that I can't see that he's abusing me.
I don't think he is, money is just paper and having him around is worth any cost I could encoure.
Why does he assume because I pay for his stuff he's a parasite? How can I prove to him that having him around is worth it's weight in gold.

Anonymous 20-05-25 17:23:11 No.667379

>He can't work due to autism
ive seemn people with down syndrome work

Anonymous 20-05-25 17:25:43 No.667380

If I were you're boyfriend I would've kept my mouth shut

Anonymous 20-05-25 17:33:45 No.667382

>He can't work due to autism
He could become a software engineer.

Anonymous 20-05-25 18:18:01 No.667402

>>667377
>How can I prove to him that having him around is worth it's weight in gold.

Maybe you can just tell him such a thing if you haven't already.

Somthing like:
Without you, it's all sorrow and torment for poor me, if you leave me thinking like that, what would I even do.. money wouldn't ease the pain..

Anonymous 20-05-25 18:20:12 No.667407

>>667377
>he feels like a parasite
He objectively is, lol.

Anonymous 20-05-25 20:40:03 No.667467

He should be your cooking, cleaning, dick sucking househusband
I would be

Anonymous 20-05-25 20:52:00 No.667471

>>667379
wtf kind of country you live in where they extract labour value out of people with downs

Anonymous 20-05-25 20:52:40 No.667472

>>667402
i came from that poetry

Anonymous 20-05-25 20:54:49 No.667473

>>667471
Usually I think they're in programs that provide with some sort of employment. Its kind of done to get them out of the house to do things. I've heard of their paychecks often being severely docked while in the programs though. Though I don't have any proof of that at the moment

Anonymous 20-05-25 20:57:28 No.667475

>>667473
Plus I think that a lot of people with developmental disabilities want to help and be useful so this type of employment helps them attain that

Anonymous 20-05-25 20:57:42 No.667476

Oh god, please dont tell me you are the same twink who kept previously posting about how much he loves his fat hairy BF.

Anonymous 20-05-25 21:52:37 No.667498

>>667476
Why would you say this?

Anonymous 21-05-25 02:52:19 No.667606

>>667377
Obviously his cock is worth it?

Anonymous 21-05-25 02:56:12 No.667607

Tell him to shave and lose some fucking weight you disgusting weirdo.

Anonymous 21-05-25 03:09:54 No.667612

You should tell him to get a job, pension, or keep the house tidy. Not that you need it (you clearly don't), but doing anything he can will help with his self-esteem. Maybe he just needs a little push and some guidance.

Anonymous 21-05-25 05:16:56 No.667627

>>667377
>money is just paper
deep, almost like its objective function is determined by the main mode of production

Anonymous 21-05-25 06:00:54 No.667635

>>667606
Yes, it's big and I like to… Well you know

>>667607
No I won't, I like him big and hairy.

>>667627
Reading into it to much, I know what it represents it's just worth nothing compared to the life of this man.

Anonymous 21-05-25 06:13:50 No.667638

Do I have to get fat to find someone to love me?

Anonymous 21-05-25 06:16:24 No.667640

>>667638
You also need a big dick and maybe also be gay

Anonymous 21-05-25 06:17:55 No.667642

>>667640
How big?

Anonymous 21-05-25 06:20:05 No.667643

>>667642
I don't fucking know. I'm an incel and I'm not gay. But I'll take a stab in the dark and say at least 6 and a half inches minimum

FinkStinger 21-05-25 07:23:11 No.667654

>>667643
>I'm an incel and I'm not gay.
🎶 I lurk all night and I sleep all day 🎶

Anonymous 21-05-25 18:49:40 No.667858

>>667382
thats unironically one of the least autist friendly jobs in the world
plus its very hard to find a job in tech because its flooded with people who read somewhere that programmers make a lot of money (however, like most jobs, only the top 1% are making all that money, most people working in tech make just above minimum wage)
plus most tech workers will be fired as 80% of tasks are automated in the future by AI

Anonymous 22-05-25 06:07:49 No.668053

>>667858
That same mentality is what drove college loan debt

Anonymous 22-05-25 06:21:52 No.668059

>>667377
He's a man. He's been trained to think that his only worth is a provider. These brainworms are extremely difficult to fix.
>>667379
Autism has like 80% unemployment rate. As an autist myself, the reason is likely that level 1 autists seem normal enough to just pass for a "weirdo" rather than a person with a mental condition, making it more likely to not make it out of the interview. Additionally, problems with executive function are super common as well as problems related to sensory overload.
There's also masking related burnout: autists are burnout just from having to interact with normals.

Anonymous 22-05-25 06:48:34 No.668061

>>668059
at this point, as an autist, may as well do trades or communal living. thats what im thinking about doing

Anonymous 22-05-25 07:22:59 No.668069

>>667377
>Why does he assume because I pay for his stuff he's a parasite?
If hes sick its more than natural to help him. I think this is cultural where men are expected to be the providers and he feels bad because of this. I would too if I was in his situation but autism is not something you cure with medication only make symptoms a little less severe.

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