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I have seen so many Cishet Anons (including me) ask questions on this board but create new threads in doing so. So I decided to make this thread so we don’t have to clutter up the board.
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There seems to be this general hostility towards cishet male aesthetics beyond sex.

Anything that’s assumed to be popular with them is automatically considered shallow/tainted

Cishet males showing any sign of sexual/romantic interest in LGBT people is seen as bad.

Yet LBGT people lust after good looking nuanced men whom are cishet

>>9551
Trans men issues are discussed thoroughly you’re just in the wrong circles. Trans women are discussed more because they are the current target in most media outlets. Transphobes usually believe that trans men are just hysterical innocent wombyn so they’re ’not a threat’.

Femboys are hated because the femboy community has an alt right infestation + massive transphobia problem. Feminine men are usually treated differently. The label of femboy in specific has a lot of baggage.

Idk

Radfems are cliquey reactionaries who believe that they have perfect AFAB victim souls and that any outgroup is an enemy. They do tend to like butch lesbians as long as they agree with their cult.

>>9560
>Femboys are hated because the femboy community has an alt right infestation + massive transphobia problem. Feminine men are usually treated differently. The label of femboy in specific has a lot of baggage.

Trans people are also complicit in the alt right pipeline.
A lot of hate for femboys seem to come from jealousy or animosity over “hogging all the male attention”

Alot of complaints against femboys are easily applied to bears and trans women.
But those groups aren’t given much flak for their flaws because they’re not seen as attractive.
Alot of their chasers seem to be bitter men who canno score well with women so treat them as convenient alternatives.

>>9561

Implying that femboy hate is over hogging male attention is insanely weird, no it’s not about male attention. Are you forgetting that not all trans people are into men? Not even all femboys are into men.

Trans women have criticized femboys for using trans specific slurs and transmysoginistic charicatures. That has nothing to do with wanting male attention lmao
Are you out of your mind? Not everything is about wanting male sexual attention.
And yes, bears and trans women can also obviously be alt righters, but that’s not what anons question was about.

>>9565
>Are you out of your mind? Not everything is about wanting male sexual attention.

Then why are there complaints about men chasing after femboys in cishomo male spaces?

And yes, bears and trans women can also obviously be alt righters, but that’s not what anons question was about.

Bit of a deflection but okay

>Implying that femboy hate is over hogging male attention is insanely weird, no it’s not about male attention.


It is a factor albeit not the only one

>Are you forgetting that not all trans people are into men? Not even all femboys are into men.


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Is the only choice for GNC amabs to just go on estrogen? Seriously? I don't want breasts or my penis to stop working. I've already nuked all my DHT with favorable results but it feels like I've only postponed the inevitable. Maybe consider going Bowie mode…
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>>9460
Go back to where you came from bordigger.

>>9460
Seriously, just explain what you mean, "gnc amab" can mean many things.

>>9455
if you do not want to masc out (beyond what aging inherently does) p much yea

>>9455
besides possibly holding back the balding, would there even be a noticeable difference in facial appearance if you started taking hormones after puberty? feel like it'd be more productive to try to stay fit and unstressed to keep the effects of aging at bay. even then, it comes for everyone eventually.

>>9566
This. It seems that genderqueer folk seem to think that femininity is inherently and permanently youthful and that masculinization doesn’t have youthful features



 

So, i realized i want to be a mom a while ago, which had me crying a lot for days til i spoke to a therapist, and my endocrinologist.

And so i had to temporarily stop HRT and i feel like i'm dying, currently in a state of induced menopause for a couple of months more and my god, the cold sweats, my throat closes because of the anxiety, depersonalization and disociation makes it hard to do anything besides bedrotting and playing fast paced shooters that let me keep my brain in a constant state of focus in such tasks

and i swear to god, the only thing keeping me from letting me fall apart right now, since my mother decided to stop talking to me because i refused to boymode for her, it's my boyfriend and our future together raising our children in Spain and having them visit their grandparents in México- which hopefully won't go to hell because my brother's gen decide to elect a right winger as president of México to fuck everything up and sell everything to Israel and the US.
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>>9505
Do you have any cute meme boys?

>>9522
>chud

Can you define what you mean by this?

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>>9505
Off topic but I like Marina she cute

>>9563

she literally me

(beautiful lady😍🥰ed out then went back to her old home which is now full of ghouls and goblins)



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Do trans people (essentially trans women) ever feel guilty about their fetishes?
I for one dont know if I’m trans or not but I still get a weird feeling when ever I think about something that makes me horny, kind of just makes me feel like a stereotypical perverted trans woman
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>especially trans women

Why is there always an overfocus on trans women in transgender discourse?

>>9214
Then why is loli and shota pathologized so much then?

>>9536
Most of this Puritanism isn’t exclusively American.

>>9541
because transmen are normal, duh

>>9543
They aren’t considered normal.
They’re liked down upon as freaks due to height and having a pseudo penis.

Trans men experience more desire to de-transition than trans women.

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>>9542
I doubt lolisho would get as much hate as it did if it wasn’t so popular with alt righter degenerates who insist on optics nuking themselves tbh
Puritans would pathologize any kink, lolisho is just the popular thing to hate on. To be clear, I don’t feel any way about lolisho, I don’t love it or hate it. I certainly think it’s fair to criticize it in art. It’s hard to remove it from the politics of the outside world. Nothing exists in a vacuum after all.
That being said… an individual person’s sexual fantasies can’t hurt anyone (as long as it’s not real kids, obviously, but that goes without saying)
I hope this makes sense, I’m stoned rn



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transness as an economic symptom
men are seen as the breadwinners, value determined by money, finances, economic power
more and more men are unable to access this value, this causes gender dysphoria, and seeing that the economic power of women is stronger than men, seek to gain that economic power via transitioning. this only accounts for a small but noticable percentage of trans people, and does not imply that all trans people come from this logic, only that this logic does to some degree create trans people, and if economic opportunities were better, there would surely be less trans people. This is also why the bulk of new trans people are trans women. Women don't really need to transition to a man to access the economics that womanhood innately brings. The inability to perform the role of man, which is fundmentally an economic role, leads to men transitioning.

would you be trans if you had a good job making 120k a year? if you had the ability to support a family? I wouldn't be.
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Is there legit like even a single reason to NOT transition from male to female? Almost nobody likes males, your SMV is basically always boosted by transition. So life experience as a male is nobody likes you, women expect money from you, you are expected to w*rk all your life for pennies, in many places you are conscripted to the army because you are male and not a free person. Males are legit lower in the hierarchy in every imaginable way, their lives are worse in every way.

>>9408
>No they don't, there are 50yo+ dominatrixes charging barely less. And let's be honest, if at these income levels she doesn't have enough to not have to "work" anymore ever she must borderline mentally retarded, I think those that do it at that age just enjoy it.

Those older dominatrixes are all on Botox or other cosmetic procedures.

>And on beauty: any ugly woman is valued infinitely more than the average male (who is not valued at all) and can charge just as much.


Ugly women are only valued as convenient meatbags. And those ugly women charging to have sex probably don’t get as much customers as you think.

Also, average men are valued a lot more than you think. In the cishomo community, average looking adults are well received and liked. Even cishet males looking to blow off steam will get an average looking guy to lend a helping hand.

>I've seen escort profiles where it's basically the female version of Chud and she charges $400 an hour (again, it's someone's monthly wage here). Sis, if you were male with these looks, you'd never get to touch a woman, you'd be bullied at school, you'd likely hang yourself by the age of 20-25 due to loneliness. Yet here you are, blessed with a vagina


Girls like her probably are bullied a lot. Those kind of women do end up with kids but have no husband in sight.
You’re forgetting that customer service jobs usually hire based on looks.
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>>9408
>Btw this all is exaggerated even more in poorer countries. I live in the outskirts of eastern europe and a dominatrix will still charge $200 as the bare minimum, and I've seen them charging close to $1000 too. That's one thing when it happens in the west, although even there that's absurdly much, but here it's even more absurdly much - like come on, $300-400 is already someone's monthly wage, so an unfortunate man legit wakes up every date at 8am, goes to his wagecage, gets humuliated by management, phyiscally tired and emotionally drained, gets back home after 6pm, and this all month long only to get $300-400 for a month of this soul-draining slavery, less than a woman gets an hour or two at worst for having her feet licked or smth like that. So a month of a man's life is worth less than an hour of woman's. Just how dehumanizing is that?

That explains a lot about your solipsism.
Anon, have you ever really hung out with prostitutes? Have you ever really looked into their finances and how they live?
Most of them are broke as bitches.

Those women who get paid a few hundred dollars an hour for sexy times? They don’t often get customers that can splurge that kind of money.
Also, you’re forgetting that they have to spend money on medical checkups and rent.
Also, most women have to toil under shittt management for hours per day while getting paid in Pennies.

>>9535
You’re exaggerating.
Nobody likes males as erotic sexual creatures but that doesn’t mean men aren’t valued.
Also, womens SMV is shaky at best, so trans women have even less stable SMV.
There’s a lot of trans women that don’t pass. They’re constantly rejected for dates:

Also, there’s places that do conscription for women as well, not just men.
Also, women are not valued as people either. They’re expected to be pretty and docile and are demanded to pay their way just like men are.

You’re only looking at social value from purely the sexual prospect angle.

Men and women both aren’t valued as people.

Yes, mens lives are worse in the sense that they’re expected to be meatshields
But women also have it worse in that they’re seen as sentient sex dolls.

>>9408
>I couldn't even start earning $400/hour out of nowhere. Any woman can, it's basically zero effort.


Not true. If you hung out with whores, they will tell you that four hundred dollars an hour doesn’t mean it’s constant. It usually means that you’re lucky enough to get one client within a fortnight period that has four hundred dollars to spend in an hour.

>Take a party yacht: men who end up there either had to have generational wealth or build their own business, taking risks and luck in the process. Women on that same yacht are just typical girls from poor families in Ukraine or some place like that who didn't have to do a goddamn thing to end up there, nor have any generational wealth. Very different requirements for men and women to end up in the same boat, literal or proverbial


Again, not always true. Women often come from generational wealth as well. And some women do actually earn their own money or had to get connections to get on that yacht.
Also, you’re familiar with straight guys having DL male lovers?

It’s more common than you think. In fact I would say there’s more men fudge packing other men on the yacht than there are women getting bred in the yacht especially nowadays



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Figured I made a thread to share our romantic experiences – or lack of thereof, – opinions, wishes and advice. That is part of the whole LGBT experience besides the sex and gender.

I reached mid 20s with barely any experience, autism made sure of that. Kissed a drunk lesbian once, I don't even think I looked that cute for a guy in his 20s, so I was honored more than anything. Broke up a friendship with a trans girl after some hasty choices, but she was crazy anyways. Now focusing on friends, making and deepening them.

Wish I had a man I understood and was understood by, someone light-hearted and whimsical to have fun with on the short time I have here on Earth. Femboy-ish ig, not masculine, but takes care of himself, with a touch of femininity to him. Impartial on sex, willing to do it, might be fun even.

One thing I like is the idea of relations as temporary, serial monogamy if you will. I'm all for loyalty while in a relation, but that doesn't necessarily mean it must be forever and ever. People change, why shouldn't their relations? Admittedly I do see the romance in a lifelong relation, sticking with someone and changing together with them. Besides looking for a new partner every x amount of years sounds exhausting.
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rank best to worst dating apps for lgbtq+ people? all people ever mention is "grindr", "grindr", "grindr" but clearly that is dominated by cis gay men. What about all the rest? wouldn't make sense to go on grindr if I was looking to date a transwoman I guess?
>inb4 tinder
i don't wanna date any of the pb scum that are on tinder, trans or any other.

>>9537
Transgirls do use Grindr, dunno what others there are

There's Barq if you're a furry lol

Nah anons, Grindr fucking glows ("uhh they all do" - no, more than average) and it is one year younger than Android (the fucking operating system). I see Grindr was brought up a little bit earlier ITT too.

I mean I just skimmed this shit and it's almost laughable (if it weren't serious), this may be worse than the standards on the Match Group-owned apps:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grindr
>Headquarters: West Hollywood
>location-based
>The app has been criticized over moderation, privacy, and safety issues, including its handling of racist and discriminatory content, including a former ethnicity filter that was removed in 2020 following complaints. It has also faced privacy and security concerns, including vulnerabilities that enabled users' precise locations to be identified through trilateration, and its of extensive sharing of user data (including HIV/AIDS status) with advertisers that resulted in a €10 million GDPR fine in Norway. Researchers and human rights groups have also raised concerns about the app's use by drug dealers, the risks it poses to younger users because of limited age verification in certain regions, and its exploitation by criminals and state authorities in anti-LGBTQ regimes to entrap, extort, or assault users. In addition, the company has faced allegations of unfair labor practices in the United States.
>In the early 2010s, Grindr was criticized for not taking sufficient action to moderate the display of racist language by some of its users.[63] In June 2014, when asked about hateful speech on Grindr, the app's creator Joel Simkhai said in an interview with the Israeli newspaper Haaretz that he "didn't like it" but he "[isn't] a sixth grade teacher" and it "[isn't his] job to police such things."
>Labour union complaint: In 2023, the Communications Workers of America (CWA) filed two lawsuits alleging unfair labor practices with the US National Labor Relations Board.[40]
>User location trilateration: In August 2014, it was reported that Grindr's relative distance measurements could facilitate trilateration, thereby pinpointing individual users' near-exact location.[70] A proof of concept was published, and more than 2 million detections were pPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

Found this:
>Unstar analyzes negative iOS App Store and Google Play reviews for clusters that improve apps. We write about ASO, app reliability, and consumer software quality.
https://unstar.app/blog/lgbtq-dating-apps-grindr-her-scruff-feeld-taimi-ranked-2026
>1-3 star reviews of Grindr, HER, Scruff, Feeld, and Taimi: bots, outing risks, verification gaps, ads, and each app's hidden paywalls.
Feeld and HER get the best ranking.
Grindr got worse placement, next to Scruff and Taimi.

>>3144
Women are more discriminatory about looks than men are. Have you seen romantic media made or preferred by women? The male candidates are always hunks. The average looking guys are dismissed as shallow horndogs.
Also, women want men to be their butlers and secondary fathers.
Just like how men want women to be secondary mothers

>>3201
I think it’s more because young men aren’t romantically valued as much. Or that cishet age gap relationships with the male being the junior isn’t given as much glamorization when it’s the female being the junior.


>>8059
This. Idk why people think men having any platonic shared space is consolidated homosexual but they never do it with women as much.

>>3753
“Wanting is not the same as having” as an old proverb says. The truth is, people only want romance due to the thrill of the hunt.



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QOTT: Were you expecting this?

• Help, advice, guidance on meds and dosages
• HRT related medical experiences and research
• Availability and pricing of medications
• Rational and scientific discussion

▶ FAQ: https://pghrt.diy/
▶ Info Directory: https://diyhrt.info/
▶ MTF Vendor index: https://valerie.vg (Formerly https://diyhrt.market/)
▶ Articles/literature: https://transfemscience.org/
▶ Estradiol simulator: https://estranshumanistai.se/
▶ TransDIY: https://www.reddit.com/r/transDIY
▶HRTGen Template (use for new posts) https://rentry.co/hrtgtemp
▷ Pill ID: https://www.drugs.com/imprints.php
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Thanks for making the thread!



 

Hera HRT:

the banner of their website currently reads "We are aware of issues related to packages being stuck on pre shipment are are [sic] investigating the situation now". i havent ordered from them recently so i have no idea what this is about but i thought it was important enough to mention. their new logo and labeling is super cool tho (https://standby.herahrt.com)

Symphony Labs:

symphony labs now sells transdermal estradiol spray. they have also listed other esters for sale (literally useless). according to diyhrt.coffee (i personally am a bit wary of this website) they had stock of 10mL 40mg/mL EEn in the UK for 40 minutes. it was another day ending in y, so their website was temporarily down.

Celestial/Proleta/Serapharma:

nothing happened with celestial
nothing happened with proleta
serapharma has stated that their package was lost in shipping for testing on their newest batch

diyhrt.market:
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>>9062
website owner attempted to astroturf on reddit and they use ai generated product images and they try to give the impression of a real pharmacy and they give out prescriptions despite having the wrong licenses to do so, and they know this

Anyone know if prog gel capsules with a listed expiry date in 2024 would still be okay to take? They don't have any smell or discoloration so I've been using them for like a week, I bought them a long time ago then never used them.

>>9084
the oil in the capsules goes bad before the prog itself, so if they smell ok they're fine

how the fuck do you know you're not getting lead poisoning from any of these diy products

>>9349
worth it



 

Transexualism is the capitalist expression of people who want to change their sex. It has only been able to exist in capitalism since it is only now we can change our sex. Before now there have only been "3rd sexes" or genders such as the Hijra. But these are patriarchal constructs and represent pre-modern economic forms. We should defend them when they are under threat from reactionary, patriarchal, or imperialist forces, but they are not what we should aspire towards. Transexualism is bourgeois in the positive way, but like capitalism itself it has become necessary almost since the day it started existing, and now we must move forward.

Transexualism cannot be resolved in capitalism (or at least it can't be in the modern day) because there will always be people who cannot access sex change resources such as bottom / top surgery, hormones and for trans women FFS, which are all necessary. Even in the hypothetical most 'accepting' world ever where everyone has their gender respected these necessary things cannot be given to everyone because there will always be colonized people since capitalism requires imperialism. Trans welfare will never be able to be shared to everyone, and today things like FFS remain achievable only to the bourgeois and the highest section of the working class, leaving most trans women to suffer.

Transgenderism is a pysop in order to prevent the movement to resolve the contradiction of sex. It takes away the truly revolutionary demand for sex change / abolition with a phony acceptance, which is really just harmful. Gender is a patriarchal idea. Toxic woke stabs me in the back worse than others do because to them the end goal is me being unable to complete my transition. It is pure bourgeois idealism that must be combatted in order to achieve true revolutionary transexualism. It is even more harmful to non-binary people because only through surgery will others actually perceive them as non-binary. They are trapped by CIA idealists in their biologically sexed bodies.

Revolutionary transexualism understands that now we have the technology to resolve the contradiction of sex, and the only issue is that it is not distributed fairly. We must dismember the bourgeois imperialists and expropriate and extract their body modifications to share with the people. Sacrifice the oppressors on the altar to progress and let us be free as we are splashed by the blood from their still-beating heart. Gender idealism must also be Post too long. Click here to view the full text.
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>>9481
define sex then

>>9471
sex is biological, gender isnt

>>9511
Gender is an ephemeral term that cannot exist without sex.

>>9468
Isn't that guy cis?

>Only once we have smashed the evil imperialists with the immeasurable power of the working class, the lumpen-proletariat and other allies, and the oppressed people in colonised countries,
Not a single Third Worlder wants to die for some beautiful lady😍🥰 in the first world to finally get his dick chopping surgery, what the fuck are you on uyghur?



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hi just wondering if any transfems know about whether infertility from hrt can be reversed? ik that tgel can be used to regain function but can you go like fully infertile and not be able to regain function?
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>>9517
Even in secular households, a lot of parents are still dysfunctional, although religious households tend to be hyper dysfunctional.

Regardless, adults in general, even the most empathetic kind, cannot and will not ever bring themselves to respect children as individual persons.

Even if we made a metaphysical drug that made childrens cognition on par with adults, adults will still conjure up some excuse

>>9518

so it's the solution to just stop having children?

>>9514
>auntie nat

jesus christ….

>>9521

i finally have a reason to use this image!

>>9520
Unironically yes. But I know that this will never sit well with most adults.
Even though we have climate change, dwindling labor market, and geopolitical conflicts, people still wanna bring kids into this world and then complain about how raising kids is a drag.

Motherfucker and bitch, you CHOSE to mix your procreative cells together to make a baby. Nobody forced you to do that.
Yet, breeders are given all the sympathy in world for doing the one act that they were forewarned about countless times and aren’t even pressured into doing anymore.

I have less sympathy for childrearing as a choice the older I get.



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