/lgbt/ - LGBT

bruh is this a sfw board or not
not even mentioning this gross chaser shit brings the vibes down heavily

>>1292
Is this ai?

>>2100
yeah

>>2099
gross to you yes
i didn't want to be a chaser i assumed lifting weights will make my transphilia go away, sorry if i sounded like a chaser in the post

>>2117
>>2099
holy shit, this 'chaser' discourse is out of hand, what the fuck is wrong with wanting to fuck a tgirl

>>2090
Fr. I've been rewarding Star Trek and Johnathan Frakes is in his late 30s at the start of the series, but are you saying he wouldn't look cute af in a pair of cat ears and an oversized sweater? Insanity, and he's not even really a twink, just pretty.

>>2092
I'll be happy to help run it, currently I'm a bit busy but I will have time soon

>>2057
You're not a real twink enjoyer. 30 y/o twinks exist and abound. If you think youthfulness is the defining characteristic of a twink then you have not understood it at all.

>>2105
Normalize old man wearing cute stuff yaoi

>>2110
This seems like a reach. Both etymologyonline and dictionary.com say that the word means "attractive, young man," admittedly I do imagine some might retain a youthful physique when they're 30 but I imagine this to be far from the norm.

what the fuck why does every trans woman I know has either BPD, CPTSD, an anxiety disorder, adhd or autism? (I have 3 of those myself btw lol)

>>2103
None of these are real.

>>2103
>BPD
>CPTSD
>anxiety disorder
>adhd
>autism

Those are 5 mental conditions you've just written nona. With that broad a net I'd wager even most cis people would fall into it.

>>1676
I always heard pansexual meant you will have sex with anything. Dogs, trees, cars, couches, etc.

everybody is born bisexual, all other forms of sexual expression are the result of childhood sexual trauma and can be cured with psychotherapy

>>1678
pretty sure everybody is born asexual

>>1679
fetuses masturbating in the womb disagree

>>1288
>im not bi, but ive met some men i would be happy dateing but most disgust me. Same thing for women
Do you think bi people are attracted to literally every member of both genders? Do you think straight guys are attracted to literally all women? That isn't how sexual attraction works for anyone lol
>What i dont understand is the hate toward the term, apart from the normal hate you get from being openly queer
Because it's tumblr as fuck and because there is no functional difference from bisexuality. Those of us old enough to remember how pan was used 15 years ago know it used to be different, it used to be that "pan" meant attraction regardless of sex or gender and bi meant attraction regardless of sex. But now you're not even allowed to be bi in that old sense anymore so what is the difference supposed to be?

>>2088
Nobody here was talking about whether they challenge gender norms. Stop trying to derail posts loser

>>1865
Petty as it might be, I like knowing there are other guys like me. I won't transition fully, but I'm partial to HRT. To me, the majority of men just look unpleasant. And I doubt it's entirely due to women being more concerned about their appearance

>>1938
>To see bodies which aren't sanitized to death
I wonder how much stress and unrealistic expectations anime characters have caused among people. Honestly, I don't blame the artist, only those sheltered so much they no longer know what an actual human body looks like in the flesh and bone.
Which kind of includes me too tbh.

I have my own thing going
>how my life went I think I might have been a lot better off if I was born a girl but I see no advantage to me in going outright trans girl particularly in my current age
>I never in past thought of myself as a girl though didnt exactly think of myself as a boy in any explicit way either. i didnt care about that but I always preferred the company of girls but social norms isolated and alienated me from being with girls even my own sister who would not spend time with me and more recently I sometimes notice I started occasionally thinking of myself like a girl other times just a guy
>I dont like my face even though I am considered attractive by masculine standards by some girls though i noticed most are bisexual, and it is especially bad now since signs of aging started hitting me after having a bad time for years and to make it worse i was avoiding looking at myself in the mirror so things changed without my gradual knowledge like my cheeks arent so full now for example changing my face shape
> I dont really like my body but I dont know what I want it to look like and what even is possible
>I think the concept of masculine and feminine are too arbitrary and vague. I dont care if my behavior is seen as masculine or feminine, just attractive and enjoyable for me.
>I just want clothes that look good on me and wish that norms were more flexible for males on the norm as it is for females so I could feel more free to experiment on looks
>I am more interested in being generally attractive and youthful so I wouldn't like altering anything in appearance if I become less attractive but I am not sure if I care more about my own view or the view of female romantic interests and I do favor more feminine forms or androgynous ones over masculine.
>I think the concept of cis, trans, and non binary are all spooks and only sometimes use such terms to more quickly communicate certain ideas.

>>1865
You sound like me when I started transition. People say, just take E and figure it out later. 'It gets better'.
Well after doing injections for 30 months I wouldn't do it again.
1 month off now. But I had to try it. I got an amazing body out of it and felt better. Malefailed etc. But I had these thoughts for so long doubting if what I'm doing is right. I just kept putting them off. Doubling down on my transition. Until one day I was finally like. No I will be him once more. Properly. Being a man does not mean being aggressive or emotionless. It is the opposite. A true man has lots of heart and is genuine. Don't listen to expectations. I never had strong body dysphoria. I lurked /cd growing up n always wanted to transition and did it eventually and I'm glad I did. Whatever you pick you have to be sure. But there's nothing wrong with going back or trying what works for you. Now I regret losing my natural body and having tits. But I also feel seeing the other side made me a stronger person. I would never be able to live with myself if I didn't make a solid effort in trying it. In the end, none of this(gender) is real and you are the only person that can make the decision. Easier said then done. I think being trans doesn't always mean you have to transition though. There is no 'trans enough' or any of that. It doesn't 'not count'. It's a decision you make. Apologies for the word salad. Look at your future and also which decision/state of being would you fight for? And if you do, be damn sure you want to sterilize yourself.

>>1865
>i dont have dysphoria am i trans
No

>>1931
Im sorry Im not the person I was when I wrote this

>>1932
Or? 😈

>>1933
Hmm nah. Im normal again

>>1905
Idk why this reply when the first image explains that proletariat women are unequal to proletariat men.

Also your second post ( >>1906 ), is just highlighting liberals in the movement and the sway/leading it has.

The problem I had was simplifying the contradictions of the struggle to just purely proletariat vs bourgeois, when it's clear that, even if they're extensions of the first dialect, they still exist.

You're misunderstanding me in thinking that I'm arguing for the solution to be derived from that liberal-feminist framework, or that a communist movement should work part within in it to satisfy those liberals.

And confused when I'm using the modern (water down) definition of feminism of being:
> When you're for the liberation of women and men from the patriachy
And saying that communism, a movement that logically incorporates it but to those less read in theory would not realize this (hence le "maga-communism"), would aim to liberate proletariat women more than just their status as a worker.

>>1931
>>1932
>>1933
>>1934
Get a room you two
you two would be cute together

>>2070
>having a job used to be a man thing
Not exactly, proletarian women just aren't as much of an underpaid labor force as they used to be, at least in the imperial core. Gender remains alive and well in other forms though, because the more intense economic exploitation constitutes only the most readily apparent part. Thus the abolition of gender doesn't logically follow from the dissolution of difference in the labor market, it doesn't stem from the inherent bourgeois need for an underclass, rather the place in the family structure women are groomed into, with all of the reproductive and emotional labor it entails.

I don't see gender abolition as asking everyone to be male. For example I'm a cishet male father and to me gender abolition involves me taking on more work that was seen as traditionally "female" like domestic labor. In my house I do the laundry, I cook the dinners, I wash the dishes, and I change the diapers. To me that's gender abolition.

>>1968
Capitalism will restrict personal expression (including as it relates to gender and sex) if that is optimal for the production of capital. Even if it is a detriment to the individual.
Corporations restrict female expression more in full time employment, but educational institutions restrict male expression more during k-12 & arguably in higher education.
The restriction is done in different dimensions, i.e. long hair, clothing primarily for women. For men, it looks like lower educational attainment across the board, worse grades, worse attendance, and worse life outcomes.
It's hard for you to fully understand the other side of the aisle here and how men are repressed. It's not quite as obvious as a hair style or skirt length.

>>2076
Hmm, many questions occur in the vast mind

For you:
Are women also unable to establish a deep bond with you due to their inherent limitations?
Would only a male with his medium could touch the deepest tides of your being?
Would you dedicate your life to your male friend in a grim situation ( such as war )? Holding his hand, until death.
Are yuo attracted to males?

>>1968
If “biological sex” is dismissed as meaningless or inherently contradictory, and “gender” is fully detached from material embodiment or social function, then what exactly is being transitioned? You can’t cross into a concept you refuse to stabilize.

Fellow transhumanists should stop reading so much philosophy garbo. Rather than addressing social organization of labor and capital, pseuds end up outsourcing liberation to technology or voting with your wallet or what have you.

>>1715
this but that fellow's eyes are green

>>1709
Eh, I tried to do the 'just lock in' method and I sounded like I was legitimately retarded and nobody took me seriously. Its fine to say that if you can do it. But I don't think everyone can easily.

>>1732
There's no way to be good at something right away. In order to become good at anything you need to make peace with the FACT that you'll suck and be embarrassed for months or years straight before you get where you wanna get.

Try voice training privately if you're too self conscious. Record yourself, do exercises, see the changes over the time. In my experience people that just give up at stuff that they want out of shame come to regret it after the years go by.

>>1702
how

>>1552
Call me crazy, but I like transhumanists with manly voices and faces https://youtube.com/shorts/Puxor3gZgLU?si=uSAme6wZqr2uMrkV

funny pb parasite memes