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Figured I made a thread to share our romantic experiences – or lack of thereof, – opinions, wishes and advice. That is part of the whole LGBT experience besides the sex and gender.

I reached mid 20s with barely any experience, autism made sure of that. Kissed a drunk lesbian once, I don't even think I looked that cute for a guy in his 20s, so I was honored more than anything. Broke up a friendship with a trans girl after some hasty choices, but she was crazy anyways. Now focusing on friends, making and deepening them.

Wish I had a man I understood and was understood by, someone light-hearted and whimsical to have fun with on the short time I have here on Earth. Femboy-ish ig, not masculine, but takes care of himself, with a touch of femininity to him. Impartial on sex, willing to do it, might be fun even.

One thing I like is the idea of relations as temporary, serial monogamy if you will. I'm all for loyalty while in a relation, but that doesn't necessarily mean it must be forever and ever. People change, why shouldn't their relations? Admittedly I do see the romance in a lifelong relation, sticking with someone and changing together with them. Besides looking for a new partner every x amount of years sounds exhausting.
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>>3163
>other people are seen as vessels to engage in dialectics
i get so incredibly frustrated if a person is unable to be this.

>>3144
>want your body and soul even if temporary
I've heard relations between older women and younger boys is something to the tune of the boys acting like puppies mad for them or risk being abandoned. Don't know if that's what your experience was like, I'm curious really.

>>3157
I'm happy you were that lucky Anon. You sound like you're loving your relation I hope it continues and both you and your puppygirl be happy in it. If you don't mind me asking what's being a transhumanist have to do with your romantic relations?

>>3139
>>3139
I'm almost 30 and never had a boyfriend and had very little sexual encountera

The fact I'm an autist who never worked on his life does not help

>>3144
Are you bi?

>>3203
Same but I'm 32 and joined the military.


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lefty gay general - boyfriend edition

How do we feel about our bfs /lgbt/? I love mine lots and lots and can't wait till he gets home from work personally.
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>>3174
If I just asked him on a date I'd risk losing his friendship (I have basically no friends besides him right now) and worst-case he could spill it to a lot of people I work closely with (and they're not exactly allies).

>>3190
That's the age old problem Anon, all I can say is you have to make the choice whether you wanna shoot your shot or live in the friendzone forever. For what it's worth though I can say your worries about him secretly hating you are almost entirely unfounded. Like I said that's a really common way to feel about somebody you really like, and I've been there myself. Those fears rarely turn out to be true, especially if he has actually shown a willingness to hang out with you.

>>2230
I will

>>3191
I get what you're saying but I definitely think I need to know him better before getting to that point.

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As you got older did you find yourself caring less or more about your appearance? I understand reasons for both, and I can't judge anyone for caring less or more.
I've found myself caring more tbh, but I do admit sometimes I go overboard and I just want to scarf down a sandwich without worrying over my weight.


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Thought there would be some interest for a chasergen thread on here instead of 4chan.

QOTT1: Who is your ideal partner? QOTT2: What is a red flag in a partner?
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>>3165
qott1:just a woman that's proudly artsy or technical in some way
lol OP you beat me to making this thread

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>>3165
Are you fucking serious

no fucking way do i wanna meet someone off goddamn leftypol

>>3198
Is there something bad about this site? I doubt it's that worse that 4chan

QOTT1: Left wing, likes anime, looks up to che or lenin
QOTT2: Fascism, lack of empathy, bad taste

30, cis, international waters (near Spratly Islands)

QOTT2: being a chaser


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I have come across the most insane and disturbing thing. It's a screen recording on I found on another imageboard, buried somewhere deep with no traction or replies, of a deepweb forum called "The Playground".

The contents are extremely disturbing. People are freely discussing child rape, trading children, and discussing child murder. And beyond that, it seems like there's a whole christian fundamentalist pedo agenda ("Creating a Future for Child Lovers"), where based on some biblical stuff, child rape is normalized, and which is actively fermenting outrage against LGBT in order to prevent sex education in schools - all so that raping kids becomes easier, like it was in the times before Sex Ed. And even more disturbingly, it seems these people are in powerful positions, extremely affluent and have a lot of access to power.

The insane thing is that these are the exact people who are spreading the pizzagate and QAnon conspiracies and hysteria, and several right paramilitaries seem to be involved, eg. Oath Keepers (one guy even posts that they were acquitted for January 6th) and Proud Boys, offering human trafficking services on this board.

There is a lot of mention of the MAGA figures, Bondi, Hesgeth and Tulsi Gabbard - in her case there's even a thread ostensibly containing some sort of videos of her. There's talk of Heritage Foundation and their president Jim DeMint. There's mentions of Silicon Valley figures such as Curtis Yarvin, Musk and Sheryl Sandberg (her supposed "personal collection"). There are several references to Orban and trips to Hungary are advertised. This is just scratching the service of everything that can be seen in the screen recording, which was anonymously uploaded to archive.org by a woman that found this page open on her father's computer.

The leak seems pretty recent, dated to March 2025. I did some searches, but I can't find anything else on it, so it must be extremely secretive. It seems that this has gone completely under the radar, so I'm bringing it here for your consideration. And frankly, I'm scared, because I do think it's real. This is too far out there to be fake, I don't think anyone has an imagination wild enough to come up with this.

Here are the links to the screen recordings and screenshots of the board. There's no graphic content in the videos but a lot of graphic discussions.

https://dump.liPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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>>3177
Literally gets less attention than if it was just posted in siberia

>>3178
It's not about the quantity, it's about the quality :3

>>3133
Most pedos have insanely bad sec, like doing shit on facebook, and quite a few nazis have been caught through pedophilia stings (see one of the multiple german police sting where a pedophilia bust led investigators to discover a neo-nazi chat in a police unit the pedo was also in). But, there are a few who take actual efforts to hide themselves well.
There was a screencap I saw maybe ten years ago on a tech imageboard. Someone had taken a screenshot of a different .onion chan where a police forensic officer (they called themselves an LEA ?) says that through work, they discovered they were attracted to the child abuse pics they were investigating and was then offering opsec advice to other pedos (not just tech stuff but also child psychology shit about what ages they supposedly learn to remember or to tell others). I won't bother finding the screencap, because even though it's just text it's revolting, people discussing molestation and some edgelord in the thread keeps bringing up their hurtcore fetish for no fucking reason. These fuckers deserve a wall.
Anyway, a lot of forum hosts do get v&. When you're rightly hated as much as these pieces of shit, the small clues eventually add up in most cases and investigators find them. There are regular news stories of darknet servers getting raided and owners arrested.

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>>3195
Oh yeah, that was a few years back
https://www.dw.com/en/germany-20-police-officers-investigated-over-far-right-chats/a-57832510

Not to be confused with that time Germany found child porn in a police chat rooms
https://www.voiceofeurope.com/nazi-symbolism-and-child-pornography-found-in-german-police-chats/

note: https://nukechan.net/praxis/thread/3.html#31

nothing new. the right are degenerates.


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>kink is an integral part of pride! we were at stonewall!
where? seriously, where are they?
<no u dont get it the kinksters were just outside of the frame
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Bruh this thread. Le fagari a le tiny minority with their little israel exclusionary communities. Most people will never witness le shid you are complaining about.

>>3172
Anon, immanent critique is load bearing to the dialectical process, you can't just skip it.

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>>3169
>objectively bad
Randian schizobabble. Things exist regardless if an observer deems it true that it exists. Physics, time and the properties of objects are not subject to psychic democracy of observers. You can only ever approximate the truth by experimentation. Morals are spooks.

>>3186
The best part about people like these is that they say morality is a spook without realizing they're arguing with someone whose basically asking "why shouldn't I kill you where you stand". You're basically just saying "don't miss lol", and as far as I'm aware, there's a 99% chance you aren't enough of an outright badass to pull that shit and walk away from it. How about you consider thinking more and repeating less?

>>3186
What? I don't give a shit if morals are objective or not, it was a turn of phrase. How about I use the word ethical instead? I don't really understand the difference between the two other than semantics. Public sex, commercial sex and cross-generational sex are unethical.

Anyway morals are real. I fucking hate how people pretend they aren't, Marx laughed at morals relating to political economy not whether or not public sex should be allowed. It just means what's ok in society, its not always right but that is what morals are and they do exist because society upholds them.


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What kind of outfits are you thinking of making? I liked the skirt + dotted shirt fit Maelle can unlock in Expedition 33 so I'm thinking of recreating it. I know I look pretty good already in that kind of clothing since I've been going with black skirt + sky blue blouse recently. It's just about finding the clothes for cheap.

Apart from that I kind of need some help in doing a sufferagette themed fit. I was thinking we need to reclaim the sufferagette colours that are being taken over by TERFs. But IDK how I would pull it off. Purple skirt, white top and green scarf maybe? Or should I go with purple / green trousers?

The thing is I'm not good with complicated outfits, idk what all the technical terms for everything is. I think I could pull off victorian pilled clothing but idk.
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>early transition
For now i'm carrying over my fairly androgynous pre-transition wardrobe, will probably get more shirts fitted for women so they don't conspicously extend over my butt. Also more skinny jeans, i still have too many ill-fitting pants my parents got me 4 or 5 years ago saying "that's what a belt is for".
>>2385
>The thing is I'm not good with complicated outfits, idk what all the technical terms for everything is.
The way i see it these terms are only necessary for communicating your ideas to others. If you think it looks good on you, you should be fine.

>>2386
That sounds cool tbh. I liked those pouches on the empire soldiers. I'm thinking of getting a military bag too. Sometimes I go with military surplus green trousers than are really big and then this skintight sleeveless black croptop thing. It's really hot but idk if that's early transition material, I can only pull it off thanks to not being fat and having boobs.

Sometimes I wish I lived in AmeriKKKa so I could carry my sword around with me. It would really complete my look I think.

>>2387
It's just sometimes I think I am lacking something and don't know what to do, or I want to replicate something I saw in an anime / game / tv show and can't because its too overcomplicated. Or especially when I wanted to wear stuff I saw from historical images that looked cool. That was a massive issue before I transitioned because I was renaissance prince moding but I could never get any good clothing for cheap enough, I just didn't have access to the kind of garments I wanted.

private equity has destroyed the indie sewing community:
https://craftindustryalliance.org/parent-company-of-the-big-4-sewing-pattern-brands-sold-to-a-liquidator/
>Hamilton also pointed out a significant ancillary role that the Big 4 play in the indie sewing pattern ecosystem. “They also own the last pattern tissue printers in the country, and that is significant to all the other pattern companies that rely upon it.”
>“If the Big 4 does not survive this, it also spells the death knell for most printed sewing patterns like ours, since there will no longer be a printer capable of producing large-scale tissue sheets.”

does anyone have a pattern so I sew a guillotine?

>>2399

i wanna do one on each side tho, if shtf when im having a coffee with my bf i can now store 8 looted smg magazines! or 4 bcus i'm probably carrying random shit on the other side

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i had dinner with someone who was wearing those big plastic demonia boots and she was telling me how they had literally just arrived before she got there, and then as soon as we left the restaurant they broke. the comedic timing was impeccable, it was like a homer simpson gag

i felt bad for her ofc but if you actually hold those things in your hand they feel like theyre made of recycled nerf darts so yknow it helps to do your research first


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How do I force myself to lose weight? Every time I am on my way to a decent physique I get hit by a depressive period and end up eating the sad away. I yearn to be intimate with someone but because I am too fat I lack confidence, cant imagine getting naked in front of partner.
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Stop buying snacks to bring home, never have snacks at home. Always eat homemade food or at a proper restaurant, never delivery food or fast food garbage. Quit drinking soda unless it's zero sugar. Quit drinking beer and wine. Find another form of escapism that doesn't involve eating, like drinking a buttload of coffee to cut your appetite.

If you find yourself asking for delivery, delete the apps and contacts. If you find yourself buying shit on the street, see if you can restrict your spending while outside (it's not feasible to leave without money as everything works on the phone these days but do try to create friction like locking the bank app behind a long password, lock your card to a pin like the old days etc).

Try creating an appreciation for water. Cold water. Drink it all the time until you don't crave other liquids anymore. You can do this to other food like rice, learn to appreciate rice instead of industrial slop. Good cooking skills go a long way here.

You don't need to do this all at once because you might not take it. Try one of these pieces of advice first, then add another one and see how manageable this becomes. Changing habits can take you the whole year. When you relapse, remember that it's normal and your progress isn't back to square one as long as you don't quit for too long. Keep at it.

One last thing: exercising is great for your health and regulating your appetite but it's not very efficient at weight loss. You need to change your diet. If working out + dieting is too much for now, cut the working out part because it's less urgent.

Go for a chubby chaser

for your mood, do cognitive-behavior therapy (google for a CBT workbook pdf)

for diet, try using resistant starch
> adding resistant starch to the diet resulted in an average weight reduction of approximately 2.8 kilograms (kg) and enhanced insulin sensitivity among individuals with overweight.
<Resistant starch occurs naturally in many foods like oats, cooked and cooled rice, grains like sorghum and barley, beans and legumes like black beans, peas, pinto beans, etc, raw potato starch or cooked and cooled potatoes, green bananas, and more

Go vegan and cook your own food. That is the fat hack.

smoke


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uhh i am doing a digital antropology work on grindr with my bestie, and my work involves not only explaining the online community but also the sexual desires and the seek for dominance and pleasure done by men, which i have to find academic papers or books, but i am too shy and autistic to search, can you all please find for me 🥺🥺 i would be so twaankfwulll :3
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>>3069
if you want to suffer through a bunch of gonzaloids i can invite althrough i am only a member

>>3071

thats cool send the invite i wanna get in to more brainrot communities

>>3075
fbi.gov/W4VVqjp4

just google random keywords + "neoliberal"
https://scholar.google.com/scholar?hl=en&as_sdt=0%252C5&q=neoliberal+dating+app+masculinity

>Bareback Porn, Porous Masculinities, Queer Futures: The Ethics of Becoming-Pig
<This book analyses contemporary gay "pig" masculinities, which have emerged alongside antiretroviral therapies, online porn, and new sexualised patterns of recreational drug use, examining how they trouble modern European understandings of the male body, their ethics, and their political underpinnings.
<This is the first book to reflect on an increasingly visible new form of sexualised gay masculinity, and the first monograph to move debates on condomless sex amongst gay men beyond discourses of HIV and/or AIDS. It contributes to existing critical histories of sexuality, pornography and other sex media at a crucial juncture in the history of gay male sex cultures and the HIV epidemic. The book draws from fieldwork, interviews, archival research, visual analysis, philosophy, queer theory, and cultural studies, using empirical, critical, and speculative methodologies to better think gay "pig" masculinities across their material, affective, ethical and political dimensions, in a future-oriented, politically-inflected, reflection on what queer bodies may become.
<Spanning historical context to empirical and theoretical study, Bareback Porn, Porous Masculinities, Queer Futures will be of key interest to academics and students in sexuality studies, film, media, visual culture, cultural studies, and porn studies concerned with masculinities, sex and sexualities and their circulation across an array of media.
I love how every time I look up some weird academic bullshit, someone has already uploaded it on Library Genesis lol

>>3140
thank you, i has been researching freud in the mean time so i will fw me with my friend


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so i grow coarse red facial hair and i used to use a cartridge razor but i switched a long while ago to a safety and i can get a closer shave, but it still irritates my skin and its annoying to shave all the time and still have a shadow+fucked up skin. i use veet for my body and it works better than shaving but i still get a lot of ingrowns, however i just have like permanent red bumps on my legs that wont go away so idk maybe i have to see a derma or something. i cant afford laser and im afraid to try waxing or anything like that because of my sensitive skin :(
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I just apply foundation on my upper lip with a sponge until I can't see it anymore

>>1521
A simple moustache is honestly the best way to go. They're low maintenance, don't look like a nest of pubes when not properly maintained, and still make you look like an adult. RIP if you have a bad jawline though.

being trans and med is a fucking curse

>>2852
>it actually does grow back stronger
As far as i know it temporarily stimulates hair growth in the area, but does lasting damage to the hair follicle. If the hair you're tweezing is just long enough and ripped out at the right angle, you can actually see it bleed. Speaking from personal experience, i've already killed or whitened most of the hair between my lips and my chin over the course of this year. I've only started doing it on my cheeks and below my chin a few months ago, but it's already thinning compared to my throat and sides. My experience with anti-androgens is that they only reduce the diameter of hairs, not their darkness, and slow growth in every area.
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Are foil razors any good? Rotary electric razors give me bad razor burn so i normally use cartridges, but they’re expensive and also give me razor burn if i’m not careful


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how do i prevent the effects of DHT on the body without transitioning, i dont want to look like my dad
feels like the only ones that exist are targeted to balding men
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How Do I get the effects of DHT for clit growth while still remaining feminine? I want to do the opposite of OP. What’s it sold under? What topical options are out there? I don’t want to buy anything through a doctor. Fuck big pharma.

>>2737
From what I learned from lurking on 4chan's /lgbt/ board, pooners who want to keep their boypussy functional and wet rub estrogen cream in there so I assume the opposite is true for you and you need to rub test cream on your clit
Also: https://www.reddit.com/r/GrowYourClit/

>>2619
Take a dht blocker

Everything in this thread + don't get fat, stay active

>>2619
It's pretty easy to get finasteride.


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