/lgbt/ - LGBT

>>4986
>trans men are inherently transphobic
you are part of the issue

>>4988
not inherently, just very often for contingent reasons

>>4989
>>4988
also it's not that they're often transphobic but transmisogynistic

>>4988

i never claimed to be part of the solution either

>>4986
Oh so the left character is supposed to be a trans man?

>>4937
That’s a really nice towel

>>4936
>>4937
I've got the same flecktarn jacket also you're a qt and I doubt you lost much progress from only half a year

>>4951
its to wipe my whiteboard I swear

>>4958
That’s a really nice alarm clock

>>4936
update: went back on original dosage, and already feel and look better, skin is going back to normal and so is hair quality

>>4843
What did happen afterwards, did he become embarrassed and shy about it when he realized?

>>4881
I just guided him towards his actual bed and he fell asleep.
When he woke up he had no idea what happened, I just told him he was black-out drunk and I had to get him over to his bed. Debated telling him more but decided against it.

Good ways to meet guys apart from Grindr? I've never been to a gay bar (except once when I was in a het relationship) and I've been thinking of going soon, but apart from that what would you guys recommend?

>>4933
Only apps and gay bars really, maybe saunas
Flirting with randoms at the streets is a way of asking to get assaulted by some hetero

>>4897
London?

>>3900
hardest photo i've seen all day

>>4898
brazil

>>4898
Btw are you that londoner I engaged in 4chan lgbt some months ago? I did find him quite hot kek

>>4756
I'm gonna guess the one on the left tops more often but they switch.

>>4756
Has you ever heard of vers? Gay men are not heterosexuals

what if im a femboy but im also a top? then what?

>>4803
Whoever is shorter must be the sub

>>4942
i swear i seen so many posts in all femboy communities asking can i still be a cute femboy/boymoder if im 6ft+, a 6'4 bottom transgirl is not something i knew i wanted

>>2570
There isn't anything I can do but sending hugs

>>2570
I'm sorry :( it's so fucking scary existing in this world as a trans woman but we do matter; otherwise they wouldn't be trying to take that away.

>>2570

i just keep repeating myself that if i kill someone first they can't kill me

(same anon as before)

not trying to sound sexist here but what is up with some cis women harassing or being creepy toward anyone who is trans? i remember when my grandmother sexually harassed me because i was a tomboy and genderfluid who mostly hated dressing girly at the time. i still live with her to this day and she’s still a piece of shit to people like me. she also got upset because at first i thought i was transgender ftm but then realized i don’t bother with gendered labels (aka unlabeled) and i want to present myself as androgynous and gnc at the same time and view myself as ambiguous thanks to hange from aot. and its probably the result of my autoandrophilia, although, sometimes i question if im really a trans man because of my autoparaphila, despite me already deciding im either transmasc or trans neutral at best

At first gender doesn't exist. There's no gender segregation yet, only sexual division of labor. Birthing ape bodies birth, dicking ape bodies dick. Simple and just.

As society becomes more tightly integrated, people start feeling discomfort at casual nudity. Too much anatomical diversity is an information overload. But after we've covered ourselves up, we experience a deep loss: Of the simplicity of knowledge of what to do with each others bodies. We no longer know what to sexually expect of one another. So we develop gender markers like mannerisms and dress to impose on each other, as to signpost what our genitalia are. But it's a fake, imperfect solution, because there's no restoring that bond of immediate knowledge.

We've irreversibly abstracted away from our bodies. The moment we started signposting the sexes, anyone could start adopting either signpost because they're infinitely culturally transmissible. Now you can come up with any excuse to treat a man (gender) one way and a woman (gender) another way, because you no longer have to justify it by anatomical difference. A deep, arbitrary gender segregation begins.

The process continues to this day. Some compulsively want to undo the damage by reverting back to a genderless time. They become porn addicts.

Some want to go back to "when the signposts were used accurately", a time that never existed because gender became transmissible immediately. They're upset about the "broken social contract" that was broken the moment it was written. That's the guy who needs to know what junk you have. His barely-human brain is literally stuck in the paleolithic

>>4964
all British communist parties are giga TERFs though. (The CPGB-ML in a fun crazy cult way, the CPB in a "this is literally not-social-just-fascist Labour government policy with 'communists demand' taped on front")

>>3345
Trans people are often alienated from society and thus they become introverted and terminally online, leading them to adopting more radical ideologies.
The fact that the right-wing is obsessed with hating trans people is also a major factor.

>>4966
Honestly think there must be something in the water in the UK to make them like that.

>>3345

probably because communism is based and they won’t be killed for being a commie. although i am worried about those who are as extreme as the right, or aka “tankies”, some might say. despite that term being tossed around a lot

although as a black person myself, i am genuinely curious as to why most communists i came across so far are white, and there’s barely any black communists or communists into black liberation. cause i remember when i came across a twitter post that jokes about how most white people are maoists, and most republicans are black, and this make me come to my senses because most white leftists are somehow less conservative than black people.

but that could just be me and my survivorship bias and i apologize if i come off as racist or colorist here too since that was never my intention and it’s just morbid curiosity

>>4965
i love deleuze and mark fisher because i have issues in general

Sneedboymoder

>ya'll really just wanna fit the annoying white woman mold so much it's unreal
You probably know the answer already. It's about power or more precisely its representation, for the exact reasons this mold exists in the first place. Conversely, to consciously diverge from this mainstream, western conception of femininity is an active renunciation of power, moreso than the act of transitioning itself. Except, i myself have neither the socio-cultural prerequisites, nor the exclusive attraction to males and other psychological traits women are profiled for, to convincingly adopt this demeanor. Gaining a more nuanced understanding of women was a necessity for me to even consider social transition.
>>4921
I've seen multiple definitions:
>special needs hon
>cringy r/tra blahaj meme babytrans
>insufferable /tttt/ nu-channer who has an agp avatar in f:nv

Is Fiona gon transhumanist out or what?

>>4948

supposedly shrek's one of shreks babies turned out to be trans because the only baby with brown eyes was amab?

idk but Shrek is mexican coded

>>4921
Nonsense
https://youtu.be/tUbo0IeWTY4?si=dZsMGlLlyubA1G7g

>>4954
Let me guess, this "internalized transmisogyny" is just them not adhering to your self-love hugboxxer beliefs.

>what was for a long time ground zero for the alt-right and other neo-fascist movements
2015-2016 isnt a long time. and it certainly wasnt anywhere near as bad as 8chan.

You just want to demonize tttt as a reactionary response to it being on a site with a bad reputation.

>>4956
damn girl you must be an HSTS to post something this stupid

>hugboxxing
I literally mention in my other post >>4950 that reddit transhumanist culture is a separate transmisogynistic phenomenon but it is nonetheless just as much of a problem. arguably I would even defend /tttt/ slightly over reddit transhumanist culture because at least on /tttt/ they have DIYer threads.

>anywhere near as bad as 8chan
>You just want to demonize tttt as a reactionary response to it being on a site with a bad reputation
<mfw I admitted to being an 8chan oldfag but somehow think the problem is specifically that 4chan is problematic
<not that it inevitably reproduces its reactionary culture in nominally non-reactionary spaces like happened to leftypol on 8chan

>>4956
>self-love hugboxxer
<insane, literally delusional…Stockholm syndrome shit
yeah that's you, what the fuck even is a hugbox? Brother you are a neoliberal subject living in a pod like The Matrix, you have been trained by Alan Greenspan's low interest rates to flinch at any normal human societal interaction lol
>a site with a bad reputation
4chan is a website dedicated to anime (Japanese neoliberal pedo content) made by the PMC hacker class who literally did the holocaust with their fancy IBM computers

>>4957
I dont even know what point you are trying to make atp. You believe in HSTS and AGP shit yet dont use tttt, you claim to hate tttt for being transmisogynistic (which its not) while also claiming to hate hugboxxing for being transmisogynistic (even though hugboxxings whole deal is being so opposite of transmisogyny to the point of making any trait of a trans person out to be an inherently positive trait)
Its like you are a walking contradiction.

>>4959
What kind of psychosis is this