I need to vent I have no where to write this anonymously. If you have a fucked up family then you should gtfo out of there. Don't be a dumbass like me who thinks sticking around and helping out your family members who in truth rather get gleeful when

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Anonymous 03-06-25 20:24:30 No.673960

I need to vent I have no where to write this anonymously. If you have a fucked up family then you should gtfo out of there. Don't be a dumbass like me who thinks sticking around and helping out your family members who in truth rather get gleeful when you fall on your face. Nothing ever will change, Nothing will ever get better and your subconscious will try to shame/guilt you. I remember writing my problems on a forum, when forums were a thing, and everyone followed up with "you should gtfo and leave as soon as u can".

Now I made my hell and there is no exit signs, no escape, being a braindead doofus. Its my fault. Which eats me up. Knowing I should and could have left at 18 and never looked back, I would be 100% much better off. But theres a nagging voice in the back of my head, that keeps me chained up to this mess. And this personal Hell i made for myself.

Anonymous 03-06-25 20:32:43 No.673962

A lot of times people don't learn until they make a mistake. So you could tell someone to get the hell out of these situations but they won't know until they know first hand. Just try to go fix what you can at the moment. I don't know

Anonymous 03-06-25 20:46:33 No.673964

>>673962
things will just get worse, and "you made your bed", it is the bed I made for myself. I have no dreams, no hope, no appetite. Nothing to look forward to. Nothing to smile about. sometimes I wanna just chuck my phone away.

With how bad the economy, and how expensive things have gotten. It is a unescapable hell I made for myself. "its over". But suffering is guranteed until death.

I'm stuck because I didnt have the balls or courage to leave around 18 to 22, And just rationalize the unrationalable …

Anonymous 03-06-25 22:40:35 No.674029

>>673962
Even when mistakes are made, people still don't learn.
Also, not everyone needs to make mistakes in specific critical scenarios to learn from them.

Anonymous 04-06-25 19:46:54 No.674303

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>I need to vent

Anonymous 04-06-25 19:53:19 No.674305

I gave my toxic mother three chances and she simply showed herself to be unwilling to change. Luckily it was easy to cut contact with her, but it‘s crazy how many chances I afford people. I would have probably wondered how things would have turned out if I hadn‘t given her another chance and romanticized a scenario where she‘s different, but this and other experiences have cemented my belief that people rarely change.

Anonymous 05-06-25 23:27:39 No.674663

>>674305
>but this and other experiences have cemented my belief that people rarely change.

People do change but rarely for the better.
And changes are not always permanent.
I also hate how people assume that hardship makes people more kind.
It doesn't.

Anonymous 06-06-25 06:38:43 No.674779

I regret not killing my parents and not setting the crops on fire before leaving that hellscape

Anonymous 06-06-25 13:35:21 No.674867

>>673960
truke, as the kids say

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