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How come I'm still incel if I'm 6'0"? I thought lookism was real?

From what I hear most guys aren't getting laid. But I don't know I hardly leave the house except for work and the few guys I work are married at least most of the ones that are 30 or over. The younger guys might largely be single. I myself am single and over 30.

>>680229
So why is this happening again?

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>>680231
Oh, that.. I don't know how to do that.

Because you lack conversation. Read more books (not just Marxist)

Maybe you are a dislikable retard like LowTierGod that all you have going for you is your height ?.
unironically touch grass, books, and the world.

>>680230
Women are generally more sought after and don't have to do as much to initiate a relationship as a guy. There seem to be many strategies to get women as a man but they generally involve men being able to read a woman or take a risk that may or may not pay out. Women generally just need to put out subtle signs and either accept or decline offers. For most of guys being timid or shy won't get you anywhere unless you get really lucky and if you are timid and shy you might just end up missing signs of interest a woman might give off anyways. And another thing being 6 ft is probably not that impressive in the greater scheme and while it does help to be taller to be attractive from what I see a lot of guys are at that height or taller o it's not that uncommon and also the without charisma or knowledge it won't help you much

>>680232
Just say what's on your mind (that isn't related to doujin porn, etc.) and more importantly ask questions to the other person, people love to give their opinion on things

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>>680230
The number of men seeking a monogamous relationship with a woman is much larger than the number of women seeking a monogamous relationship with men, so even if the dating market were perfectly efficient there would still be a large quantity of single men. The dating market is obviously a million miles away from being efficient, and is becoming less efficient over time because the median person has fewer friends every year so the number of single men is actually even higher.

>>680239
The only possible long-term solutions to this would either be to return to pre-modernity levels of poverty and squalor so that relationships become an economic necessity again, introduce a widespread norm of polyandry where women are encouraged to have more than one partner while keeping the taboo on polygyny, or mandating that 9/10 babies are born female via IVF so as to simultaneously lower the fertility replacement rate (which would also be good for the environment) and cure male loneliness. Obviously I recommend option 3.

>>680240
>Obviously I recommend option 3.
Kek


>>680236
Young women are sought after
And even then, only the curvy skinny-thicc light-skinned ones.
Women over thirty five, dark skinned, brawny, etc have to work hard to prove their worth.


>>680229
Irony is, bachelorhood after thirty is becoming increasingly common

>>680239
For what it's worth, people don't know how to appreciate monogamous relationships properly.
They end up getting bored and seek other partners.

>>680240
>I choose option three

Of course be cause you're a covert misandrist
And no don't start with "men are expendable" because then women are too. Women's sexual value declines with age.
Also, theres alot of female angst concerning prolonged single hood after thirty.

Also, option one is straight up chudsville.
Even the most miserable incel wouldn't want to degrade the human condition for some hypothetical chance to get pussy.

Option two is the only remotely ethical option.
And even then, it should be equal for both sexes

The economy being in the shitter has a negative effect on all of society, this includes dating.
The real key tho is just getting out there and doing stuff out of your house.
Also the world doesn't owe you sex.

>>680363
>much economy
there are guys out there with no job or education fucking multiple women at the same time. sleeping at their apartments playing Mario Kart World and NBA2K all day.

>>680228
I mean, you're here instead of trying to have a relationship with someone, so that's ONE of your issues.

>>680371
This.

>>680228
You are incel? It is over for you then

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>>680228
every male is an incel, women gatekeep sex.

6ft is like the bare minimum :^). I already height mog you

Honestly though someone significantly taller than me is just a bonus for a male partner I am interested in for other reasons. I know a lot of men who are less attractive with their height if anything because they develop a narcissistic attachment to it and feel insecure or like they have something to prove because of how society treats them for it (I know this myself as a tall woman). Whereas a lot of confident shorter men are if anything more chill and happier to have me as a partner due to my height

the nucleus is in cell

>>686626
me thanks for the uplift

>>680228
> I thought lookism was real?
Never was.

Do you even go outside? I see manlets and ugly balding dudes with gfs pretty much everyday, I'm fucking chopped too and I recently got a gf

It is real, but satisfying a single condition is not enough, you have to be perfect in every way. Being tall is necessary, but not sufficient.

>>680366
If getting women is dependent on traits like confidence and security and performance of masculinity, then your low socio-economic station making you feel like shit is going to reflect in your ability to display those traits. You shouldnt think about this in terms of clear cut-offs, but probabilities. If you are short you are less likely to have woman interested in you, if you are shy, if you are poor, fat, bad haircut, not enough opportunities to meet women. There can be a person in exact same situation as you that get different outcomes, but that does not make your chances any better.

most men in the newer generations are incels. they prefer to stay home and soyface while playing incel anime games than talk to women. whatever, more women left over for me

>>686743
What kind of LARP is this? If you actually went outside you’d see couples in their 20s everywhere. There’s no inceldom crisis.

>>686779
A lot of it is based around shaming suboptimal males or at least males seen as suboptimal . Also some of it maybe about shaming women for not producing enough offspring

>>686743
Then there would be a lot more femcels in the newer generation.
This sentiment is copium made by slightly older guys who think everything is a contest to them.

But if what you say is true, then you'd be even a bigger incel because youre older unless you're rich.

Young women are showing less interest in dating
Young men see this and stick to "incel" games and anime.
Dating is not what's it's cracked out to be.

Too much time and money wasted.

>>680366
Those guys are outliers.
Why do anons keep repeating anecdotes of successful NEETs getting laid?


They probably got with junkie whores or women who wanted some novelty for one night and probably regrettes it within a month.

Also this is bad advice, low-key encouraging laziness

>>686779
I think the inceldom crisis is overblown

>>686779
>>686784
younger women are all dating the same chad or going for older men. the vast majority of young men have never been in a relationship before

>>686790
Again, do you have evidence to back this up other than "le vibes"?
This whole "women only go for chad" and "young men are sexless/romantically deprived" is more due to social treatment rather than any active dating phenomenon.

Most young women by that right haven't been in a relationship either

Young women aren't all beauty queens nor actively seeking romance.

I think society hates male self-value
Society hates individuality.

>>686790
Alot of the older men these you g women are dating are often just convenient hosts.
These you g women will move on from them once they find something else.

What about older women?
Why aren't you including them in the conversation?
Why all this attention toward young women?

>>686801
>>686802
You only say this because you're forever alone

>>686804
Again can you provide proof of what youre saying?
Also, a lot of older people I meet, both make and female are "forever alone".

getting a partner takes work.
Building a relationship takes an even more huge amount of work.

If you aren't getting the companionship you seek, yes there may be external factors that contribute. But only you can change that.
Unless you have like a severe facial deformity as long as you have a wining personality and get out of your room, you absolutly will meet some one.
Im evidence of that. I'm engaged to be married. To a woman no less!

>>686820
I think that what people are depressed iver is not being appreciated as a single person.
Relationships are good and all but the thing is, couples always get more automatic sympathy just because society thinks them as more "selfless".
Irony is most relationships are mutually exploitive.

Most partners expect the other to do all the work in one area of the home and the other does another area.

Women expect their men to do all the hardware work while men expect the women to do all cooking and cleaning.
God forbid that both sexes do cross training


The thing about relationships is that they're business contracts.
Our post scarcity era has removed the element of utility from relationships.
Lol and behold, people have a hard time finding viable partners.

But nobody wants to think themselves as workers.
They wanna think themselves as royalty.


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