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>>677469>>683292eh, she kinda looks like me if i were a shorty
>>683293triggered much?
>>683294wasn't my plan but idk
>>683485So you don't really socialise with people outside the proletariat? I suppose here would count, but I didn't think of that because you can't really tell someones status online.
>>683487We need to start ridiculing people for being too tall, call them giants and bully them and stuff, height worship has gone on long enough.
>>683519The world was always like this. Also shame on the dad for his lack of gratitude. But that's the thing with dads. They're empathetically deficient.
>>683516"Not all young lads are dirty predators"
Backhanded compliment if I ever heard one
Irony is, most of those creepers are usually older and situations like those often the fault of the female
But I think it's fake.
>>683487I don't understand this fetish of girls for height.
I can understand women liking men who are a bit taller than them, you know, they must feel they have a tall strong bf who can protect them and so on (though short boxers are often better at boxing because their center of gravity is more stable), but if the bf is too tall, they can't look into his eyes while having sex in the missionary position, the girl can only look at his shoulders or chest, it must be disappointing really, there is nothing like looking at your partner in the eyes while you are fucking.
>>683838>>683827Wrong. Being fat and short is a repellent not being black.
But if you're fat short and black, it's a double whammy
>>683876This
What makes winners isn't so much effort but getting results.
People like to say "winners don't quit/quitters don't win" or "If you don't succeed, try try again".
But people forget that time and money are limited.
Society likes to ensnare the youth into idealism that ends then up in ruins and they end up as reactionaries.
>>683907>The problem though is that your still beholden to those more powerful than yourself so even if you want a quite peaceful life away from them they'll still find a way to mess with your life. That's true. But the biggest oppressors aren't your bosses but rather your folks. There's a reason why alot of people choose to live alone in old age.
Having to deal with family well after age eighteen kinda makes you realize how draining relationships would be. People look down on friendship as chump change but friends do far more for you than family and lovers.
A good indication of someone being romantically competent is if they have healthy family/friend relations.
>Remember we all have to live a society still. It might've been nice if I had had relationships when I was younger but I think it'd be way more stressful at my age and given I live with my parents much less likely to occur even if I tried.This.
It's ironic that even at your age, there's alot of people that still seek relationships especially those that are divorcees.
Imo, if you're still single after forty, you should make peace with it. After forty, there's nothing but bodily aches to look forward to and that's gonna take a good chunk of your paycheck. How the hell are you gonna make time for love when you have health problems to look forward to?
Alot of elder abuse is often result of lonely rich old people seeking love only to end up swindled, drugged, or killed by their newfound love matches.
>>683967Idealism begets expectation
Expectation begets entitlement
Entitlement begets indignation
>>684001Blind love is the worst kind.
It's what encourages deadbeats to breed.
If love is supposed to be blind, humans would e died out as a species long time ago.
That is, if love is supposed to be the incentive of sexual reproduction.
>>684025>Anything that points out potential reproductive harm due to adult carelessness is "muh Nazi eugenics"Ngmi.
At this point, I think "eugenics" is just an indignatory slur not unlike "this is 1984"
>>684140Cmon seriously?
You dont know what anon meant by that?
>>684085…i broke my streak, today
…to see if i still feel
I focus on the Looks
The only thing…. that's real
The jelqing tears a hole
That old familiar sting
Try to blackpill it… all away
But I remember everything…
What have I become?
My sweetest chads
Everyone I mog.
goes away
In the end
And you could have it all
My instagram of reels
I will let you down
I will make you cope
I built this halo…of thorns
Upon my chiseled square
it's full of broken bones
I cannot repair
underneath the stains of time
The hunter eyes disappears
You are someone else
I am still right here
What have I become?
My sweetest chat
Everyone I knew, dies like chad
In the end….
And you could mog it all
My empire of looks
I will let you down
I will make you rope…
If I could restart again
A million miles away
I would keep my face…
I would find….a way
>>684134no i mean socialist in general
ive literally never met a socialist irl, ever
>>684310now that's a preposition I'm afraid of. Thanks for scaring the life back into me.
>>684311Victory. I want fucking victory. I am weary after a lifetime of loss.
>>684257This subreddit is fascinating. Depressing but fascinating. It seems like the American race will go extinct in one hundred of years, and it wouldn't be a problem if only you didn't export your collective neurosis and social media hysteria to the whole world.
Now we end up with Newgene telling us it's easier to start a petit bourgeois smol business than dating a girl, and you get smug about being it. Go approach that bitch called Lindsay ffs, because otherwise you fucking deserve the nukes.
>>684385>Now we end up with Newgene telling us it's easier to start a petit bourgeois smol business than dating a girl, and you get smug about being it.Not Newgene.
> Go approach that bitch called Lindsay ffs, because otherwise you fucking deserve the nukes.Who?
>This subreddit is fascinating. Depressing but fascinating. It seems like the American race will go extinct in one hundred of years, and it wouldn't be a problem if only you didn't export your collective neurosis and social media hysteria to the whole world.It's only right. America just isn't a place, it's a state of mind. All of you Americanized bastards going extinct with us is only fitting.
>>684414looks also matter
which one do you think has better luck of getting a woman's attention when talking to her? young ho chi or young biden?
>>684414As much as guys like to talk up how they chase women like they have some secret sauce the current dating environment has women as the sexual gatekeepers. If she likes you she'll make it easy for you. It really is just approach women escalate and don't give them the ick.
>>684463>Stick your dick in crazy, bros, but always have an exit plan.Truth.
>>684469>As much as guys like to talk up how they chase women like they have some secret saucewhich is to divert the competition
>the current dating environment has women as the sexual gatekeepersand this is the distraction
>>684365so this is the post that got
>>684385 all in a tizzy.
Honestly I agree with
>>684365 more though
Relationships are less stable especially nowadays.
You may end up with estranged children who become social retards and then become school shooters or some reactionary pundit.
There is no summer romance, I thought I was flirting with a fat girl, but she later told me she is lesbian and when I tried to put my head on her shoulder as some kind of free therapy, she freaked out and started walking away. We were both very drunk so I don't feel bad about it but it's so fucking over.
>>684588Most relationships don't end up with children, and capitalists like Elon Musk are seething about this, the fertility rate stuff. At this point, baby making is kinda a mistake when you have sex, and if your gf is crazy enough to want to keep it, congrats, you are a dad now. Or it's American men wanting to control women with "this is my house, therefore my rules" bullshit. I don't know, I just wish happiness to all the children of this cursed world.
>>684620>At this point, baby making is kinda a mistake when you have sex, and if your gf is crazy enough to want to keep it, congrats, you are a dad now. Or it's American men wanting to control women with "this is my house, therefore my rules" bullshit. I don't know, I just wish happiness to all the children of this cursed world.Parental rights should be mediated with mandatory third-party adults. Most parents either smother, coddle, abuse, and/or neglect their kids.
Parents cannot and will not ever raise their kids to be well rounded independent adults without any trauma or hangups.
Also, baby making is more intentional nowadays.
A lot of people often visit fertility clinics and get involved in dumb holistic practices for "smarter " offspring.
>There is no summer romance, I thought I was flirting with a fat girl, but she later told me she is lesbian and when I tried to put my head on her shoulder as some kind of free therapy, she freaked out and started walking away. We were both very drunk so I don't feel bad about it but it's so fucking over.You were kinda wrong to do that.
Also, sounds like she may be lying about being a lesbian. She probably says that to repel cishet males.
Also, trying to hit on girls at the bar?
Cmon man.
>>684677Yes, I was kinda wrong to do that, when I say I don't care, it's only cope, I actually think I was stupid to do so.
But I'm probably never going to see this woman ever again, and we still kept talking after the incident, I don't think she is mad at me so whatever.
I don't think she was lying about being lesbian. It's a possibility, but she looked like that big lesbian archetype you know? Those big girls who are probably dominant in lesbian dynamics.
However I think she wanted to flirt a bit with me to feel validated, and feel cute in the eyes of someone else. And indeed I think she was cute, with her little nose and blonde hair.
>Also, trying to hit on girls at the bar?>Cmon man.What the fuck I'm supposed to do? Create a profile on a dating app and go through a process akin to a job interview in order to get into someone's pants? Fuck that. I might still do it one day but flirting at a bar is more fun, even if it leads to nothing.
>Parental rights should be mediated with mandatory third-party adults. Most parents either smother, coddle, abuse, and/or neglect their kids.My problem with such kind of plans, or anti-natalism for example, is that adults will keep having sex and women will keep wanting to have children, and they don't give a fuck about what should be the perfect way to raise a child according to online people, they will just do it.
I do agree that raising children in a more communal way would be more beneficial for them, instead of the nuclear family, but I don't think it will happen during our lifetimes except in hippie communes.
>>683290Bruh this is borderline creepy.
I'm surprised your parents have not thought about putting you on criminal watch.
>>684879>If you don't blindly accept me for not appealing to your physiognomic preferences you're a NaziThis is entitlement.
Romantic rejection should not be put on the same level as being rejected for jobs, housing, or food stamps.
>>684886Wrong.
Being fat is not mental illness.
Can we stop referring to any aesthetic flaw as mental illness?
Methinks mental health is being overused as a diagnosis for plain old lack of self-discipline
Alot of people whom are chaste can have mental illness, but you'd never know it.
>>684876Irony is, this sentiment is what makes people think you're a weirdo. Unless you're hot and have talents, ain't nobody gonna tolerate this sentiment
>>684918In the old days, people were shunned from their villages for any physiognomic flaws.
If rejecting someone as a romantic partner for physiognomic flaws is entitlement to you, maybe dating isn't for you.
>>684913People cannot control their physical age either. But we don't accept adults trying to court toddlers do we?
>>684929Standards are not as high as you think they are nowadays.
It was way more back in the old days.
It's just that as peoples standards of living increased, people feel like romantic love should be guaranteed with little to no effort.
>>684938Most gay sex is often straight guys hooking up with each other out pure convenience
Now you know how I feel about older out-of-shape married men wanting to hook up with young guys.
>>684926That's one thing to watch porn with the buddies but it's another to romantically long for a jack off buddy.
>>684943I have no problem with hooking up with other guys as long as theyre in shape, not hairy, not too old nor married
>>684925Unfortunately so.
These same people who whine about eugenics are the same people who want to send people to gulag for not agreeing with their liberal takes to a T.
"Eugenics" is the left wing version of whining about "1984" whenever someone is told that their edgy jokes suck.
>>684961his ass muscles were hard to fit through but after using my fingers to seperate the cheeks it was worth it
if girls want chad i take chad from girls. tyrone is next
>>684957Sexual/romantic attraction isnt the only form of validation.
This mentality you have is part of what's wrong with modern sociology.
Also, a lot of "ugly" people get lucky.
Theres far more to life than sexual/romantic validation.
We used to have people born with missing limbs or have scurvy.
Nowadays people are going on semi-homicidal rampages just because nobody wanted to touch their erogenous zones?
>>684957Your logic proves that man is not above the animals.
Romance is a psychological incentive for sexual reproduction.
You're just a slave to the sexual reproductive process.
Man doesn't deserve freedom because they want favor from nature, rather than be free from their biological drives.
>>684945You're going full retard in the other direction.
There are actual far-right eugenicists who wield a huge amount of power right now. It's not "whining" it's paying the fuck attention.
>>684987>Sexual/romantic attraction isnt the only form of validation.but it seems to be the most looked after form of validation. due to how low it has become
im intrigued in your logic. if you were born hideous, or had a genetic defect, or were extremely short. or better yet if you were normal, yet no one saw anything in you they're after
sure, no one is forced to be romantically attached to you if they simply do not find your body attractive, but then. how would you live with that thought in your head? you're off putting even without scurvy. or with an average looks, money, or personality?
>just because nobody wanted to touch their erogenous zones?bit of an understatement. there's also thinking you're undeserving of love alltogether, romantic or physical
>>685034>bit of an understatement. there's also thinking you're undeserving of love alltogether, romantic or physical>but it seems to be the most looked after form of validation. due to how low it has become
>im intrigued in your logic. if you were born hideous, or had a genetic defect, or were extremely short. or better yet if you were normal, yet no one saw anything in you they're after
>sure, no one is forced to be romantically attached to you if they simply do not find your body attractive, but then. how would you live with that thought in your head? you're off putting even without scurvy. or with an average looks, money, or personality?It's funny how it's considered wrong for teenagers to desire love but adults are encouraged if not mandated to yearn their livelihood in search of love to the point of ruin
Maybe teenage love should not be discouraged.
>>685043Have you considered that a lot of terms popularised by certain subcultures have pre-existed said subcultures?
>>685038That won't happen unfortunately.
Romantic love and sex are sold as adulthood entitlements.
>>685034The reason why romantic love is prioritised is because people don't appreciate others as platonic members.
Friends and family are the core foundation of ones development.
Yet friends are dismissed as comical relief or bad influences to be cut off.
Family is normalized as dysfunctional hell raisers whom are supposed to "teach you to accept being cringe".
Anyone who doesn't have good relations with friends nor family are often terrible at romantic relationships.
>>685051Regardless.
"Simp" was a black slang term in the 1990s
>>685062I feel a lot of accusations against good looking people being assholes are confirmation bias.
I see more average looking people being complete assholes.
In fact, I notice that average people are the biggest assholes towards both the suboptimal and exceptional.
>>685068>>685070>>685093>>685100what i collected on a paper in my desk rn
1 just be beautiful. beautiful people are desired and there's nothing wrong with that.
2 if things out of your control like height face breasts or a disease. or things you didn't control with dicipline like weight and teeth are a turn off for others, a deal breaker, or a reason for them to belittle you. accept it. they don't have to treat you as they treat attractive people.
3 if you're not loved or feel "valued" for being chopped facially or poor or what not. accept it. women or men will never swarm to you or act kindly to you or just treat you better simply because you're unattractive. be humble about that or be the incel and femcel everyone ignores
4 not all good looking people are bad. in fact some are good, it's the average. both those who worked to be beautiful and the plain average who are bigger assholes towards everyone. if an ugly person is bullied that's too bad. if a good looking person is bullied. they're probably jealous.
trying to decide between tossing this paper in the fire or hanging it on a wall
>>685118Toss it into a fire. This is garbage! It's this melancholic half-admission that yes you are objectively oppressed for being conventionally unattractive, but without any attempt to provide a solution. A half-assed surrender. No, how are you going to fix these problems? Relegating yourself to suffering is not a solution, it's a temporary answer given to get more time.
>>685100People naturally see attractive people as having more agreeable personalities. You are objectively disadvantaged IRL if you are unattractive
<t. attractive hermaphrodite thingy>>685070>>685093it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. attractive people need to make it clear that ugly people are human too, ugly people need to stick together because being socially connected objectively improves your physical attractiveness [see: the cheerleader effect]
>>685062>>685068>>685073Average people would have a likelihood to hold significant neurosis because they aren't "bad" to disqualify themselves mentally from a category, but they aren't "good" enough to be considered "good".
>>685048<i'm totally not a fascist >>685140Yeah actually, a black ethnonationalist butchering some random for saying a word? We're not talking an outright act of bigotry, we're not talking "you're a stinky fucking ape lookin spear-chuckin basketball dunkin' white-woman rapin' uyghur!" - i'm talking a grown ass man murdering a 15 year old white kid for singing along to a rap song. Yes, that's fascism.
>>685138The solution is what I said. Make friends, spend time with them. Be a human being with a social life.
>>685153>>685147>>685122I think it's sad that we have elderly and disabled people rotting away in group homes with no friends nor relatives to visit them and all they need is a buddy to take them outside and have lunch and a promenade
And yet here you guys are, wanting to offer yourselves over not having a gf.
>>685100It's always the second fiddles whom are more toxic than the boss bitch in the clique.
>>685007Who are these far right eugenicists you speak of?
Too many people throw around the word "eugenics" around here as some self-pity party.
>>685153Would you be willing to befriend elderly, disabled, or troubled children?
They're the most vulnerable members of society.
They could use a good friend
Someone that won't use them for financial gain.
>>685122>it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. attractive people need to make it clear that ugly people are human too, ugly people need to stick together because being socially connected objectively improves your physical attractiveness [see: the cheerleader effect]I love how Leftypol pushes for mass-socialisation while cursing apolitical/liberal people in the same breath.
>>684357Lel, the study was done by psicologists no? psychiatrists are more dry. What a way (a great one btw) to describe a good relationship. Fills me with a novelty type of happiness just to read it
>>684405I once read a maoist in his memoir describe the relation of how homosexual men were send in rafts to the ocean as punishment (during the cultural revolution lol), glad to see that it was isolated and no longer the way (almost obvious of course)
>>684417Depends on the taste
>>684543Honoring a real one fr
>>684943Before the spanish arrive in my little piece of land babies with deformities where thrown from ravines. In a world pre modern medicine where the modus of production is tied to the land and its work can't blame them
>>685171>I love how Leftypol pushes for mass-socialisation while cursing apolitical/liberal people in the same breath.I don't personally condemn liberals nor apolitical folk for that alone, I do dislike the beliefs but not the people. Leftypol is not a monolith.
>>685170Yeah that sounds cool until you ask how much you have in common with an old person - much less one you're unrelated to. Maybe the old person needs help, sure, but the person who
hasn't lived an entire life kind of needs priority as well, in their own rite, and I don't think a geriatric mandated fren is meeting any of those priorities.
>>685155Okay?
>>685239
>So you're trying to imply that a tall girl dating a short man is equivalent in morality to pedophilia,?Bad analogy..
>There's a difference. Height difference relationships have no moral quandaries, pedophilia is explicitly amoral as children cannot consent.I love the dumb logic you guys make of my posts.
You're the one who makes a deal about women choosing men over basis of height and treating it like a crisis.
I never said daring people shorter than you is pedophilia.
But ironically, alot of people think young adults dating older people is "pedophilia".
Also, pedophilia is immoral, not amoral.
>>685223>Yeah that sounds cool until you ask how much you have in common with an old person - much less one you're unrelated to. Maybe the old person needs help, sure, but the person who hasn't lived an entire life kind of needs priority as well, in their own rite, and I don't think a geriatric mandated fren is meeting any of those priorities.Why do you people treat age numbers as metaphysical virtue points?
You know that you can share commonalities with older people based on similar experiences of siblings, hobbies, etc.
Also, I did say to befriend troubled children and disabled folks.
>>685263Not newgene but what am I saying that's wrong?
You're the one who needs to fuck off.
>>685198Goddamn this is tough… I'm honestly sorry for you anon, I don't know what to say. As I get older, some people I appreciate die but it's mostly from natural causes or because they were addicted to drugs. I guess you need to find a way to cope with the fact that nothing is eternal in life. And don't feel like the suicide is your own fault, that's what people tend to think, that they didn't do enough, but it wasn't your own decision, far from it. Speak about it to someone else, even if it's not your closest friend, one of my best friends became such because he told me how his gf died during a nature trip and I simply listened. Listen to Elliott Smith or Low, cry your eyes out, then watch a movie that reminds you there are good things in life, like Only Yesterday. I truly have no idea, it won't be easy for you anon, you inevitably need to mourn, but maybe this is an opportunity to change something in your life you are unhappy about, eventually. I wish you a lot of courage, anon.
>>685220Hey come on, not all psychiatrists are Serbian war criminals.
This guy was an "alternative medicine" crook on top of that, some alternative medicine is okay, but he practiced the "take this herb, don't worry my friend" kind that doesn't work.
I think we should strive to cure mental problems with the fewest pills possible, but some people need pills otherwise Jesus starts telling them ISIS is planning a terrorist attack in Sarajevo and they are the chosen one to stop it or something.
>>685305Thank you for the theory, I love this kind of easygoing faux-transgressive reddit books unironically.
>>685338This subreddit is also fascinating and depressing. So many lonely people who rightfully complain about loneliness and saying dating apps suck, then once you scratch the surface, you have women complaining that "men are not planning real dates" (you are an adult human being too, girl, not a toddler, maybe you have the cognitive capacity to help plan a date as well ffs, dating women with no sense of intiative is boring) or saying "you should ask a woman if you can talk with her" (lmao, as if it wouldn't be awkward af, I just strike a conversation with anyone I want when it feels right, and if they tell me to fuck off, I fuck off).
Sorry if I sound chuddy, but I feel like women want the bitchy aspect of feminism, but none of the "strong independent woman" aspects who can state in clear words what they want. "He tried to kiss me after I agreed to go his place, yikes", no shit Cinderella you thought he would really make coffee at 10 P.M.? vs. "He didn't try to kiss me and ghosted me later", I don't know maybe you should have tried to kiss him?
I can understand why women are choosy, one sperm cell at the wrong time and they have to raise a child for the rest of their lives or abort if it's even possibility which can be a traumatic experience, but I get the feeling that people has gotten so risk-averse and everything has to be stated in clear unambiguous terms officially yet no one wants to do it and no one thinks it's sexy to do so. Add social media on top of that and everyone is now a freaking neurotic, including myself.
>>685400fuck
back to square one
>>685238If you define love to mean exclusively sexual/romantic, then go off yourself, then.
>>685354>Sorry if I sound chuddy, but I feel like women want the bitchy aspect of feminism, but none of the "strong independent woman" aspects who can state in clear words what they want. "He tried to kiss me after I agreed to go his place, yikes", no shit Cinderella you thought he would really make coffee at 10 P.M.? vs. "He didn't try to kiss me and ghosted me later", I don't know maybe you should have tried to kiss him?>I can understand why women are choosy, one sperm cell at the wrong time and they have to raise a child for the rest of their lives or abort if it's even possibility which can be a traumatic experience, but I get the feeling that people has gotten so risk-averse and everything has to be stated in clear unambiguous terms officially yet no one wants to do it and no one thinks it's sexy to do so. Add social media on top of that and everyone is now a freaking neurotic, including myself.That's because the feminism we have to deal with is descended from chivalry.
And chivalry was a result of Northwestern European ethnocultures.
It again goes back to Late Modern commodificiation of adulthood as a consumer rewards program along with stranger danger
>>685480Again, this is what I'm talking about.
People think that male woes need sex or romance for cure
>>683516Real talk, went drinking on a Friday and made friends with some strangers, later an 18yo and her friend winggirl approached and started chatting. Ended up helping them out when they got separated and phones weren't working, and just because of how the night went, we didn't end up doing anything.
On the walk back to the train station, her friend flat out says "I like you, anon. You don't try to rape people"
Fuck, the absolute state of society. Gettin none kinda sucks but I'd rather that than be one of the many fucking nasty abusers. I was unfortunately around 20 when I finally realized that having a good night out is far more important than focusing on getting laid, and I reckon incels tend to be the ones who never made that realization at all.
>>685765>there's nothing to refutethere's nothing to refute anywhere in here, this is an arena of vibes and volume. it's just that i creatively present my opinions, is all.
>>685789reminder that 90% of all sexual assaults against women are done by already known parties. this idea that random rapists are coming to get women is literal propaganda from female abusers trying to get eyes off of them, the classic lady protesting too much.
That person you met was likely a traumatized person and her statements do not reflect the opinions of 99% of people.
>>685810The statistic refers to all forms of sexual violence. And you seen a guy try to aggressively hit on women, and then accepts their virulent rejection?
<oh but you can't do thatyou know what I don't fucking care. That guy would get killed if he did that to someone's woman, and probably was assaulted later that night. Women get penetrated with penises, men get penetrated with knives. That's the world we live in, it's horrifying for everyone.
>>685807they seem to be traumatized by everything, and it seems to be correlated with economic factors. as in, richer women seem to have much much much more trauma than poor women.
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