I went to a fair yesterday with my friends and got depressed because I saw how far behind everyone else I am. Everyone was with their partners, talking about work, and I'm a NEET autist. My best friend ended up flirting with a pretty girl for the first time in his life, and I was there and left pretty early. When I got home, I literally felt nauseous, didn't sleep at all, and today I've been crying constantly.
Not only I feel repulsive and that no one will ever like me, but also I feel like I wasted my life, I don't know what to do. I'm 24 and still a virgin and even though I kissed several girls I still feel I'm chopped.
>>689244I will stop being obsessed about it. Also the most I've ever done is eating pussy.
But anyways I'm still a loser
>>689247>I will stop being obsessed about itAnon, with this mentality, I guarantee you won't!
Anyways, you clearly hate yourself. There's two broad categories of solutions to problems:
1) Learn to simply accept it so it's not a problem
2) Change the situation
Category 1 is only really suitable for 'unfixable' problems (i.e. loved ones passing away, debilitating accidents etc). You don't like being a NEET? Then try to stop being a NEET. Go learn a trade. Pick up a social hobby.
>>689239Welcome to the real world buddy, here is the gist of it:
They are all traitors who got their share of the "social contract" through climbing over yourself. If you don't act, you will become fodder for your betters in all respects. you will be the lower status person, the guy who delivers their food, the wretch who makes their shitty person attractive by comparison, the poorfag, the druggie, the loser. And you don't want that, I presume. So get in control of your life, and fast. It sounds to me that you got here downcurrent, thinking not where life was taking you until the retrospective got too grim to ignore and the future too shitty to scry. So, take control. You are a NEET, presumably in no immediate need for money. That alone is an immense privilege that has safed you from being actually stuck to one of those shitty futures. Make use of your privilege and youth while you can.
My only tip is thus:
Get
really fit, somehow. Figure it out. Make it your obsession to be in control of your bodily functions and abilities. The looks privilege alone will skew every single social interaction in your life to an extreme degree. And even the ugliest motherfucker can look good with sufficient bulk and grooming.
No really. I bet you thought about killing yourself, and all that shit. It's natural, you are only now coming to terms with how alone, truly alone you really are. But think about it this way: If you are willful enough to kill yourself, you should be willfull enough to try real hard at this one thing. Fitness is one thing that will demand nothing of you but dogged persistence to get a body in the top% of attractiveness and health. Get there and the person you will become, would be so radically changed, you couldn't possibly see though their eyes right now.
>>689274It's due to increased liability laws limiting industrial and social prospects for young people.
And older people still complain about society being "youth-oriented".
Soon, the age of majority may have to moved up to twenty-five thru thirty.
>>689301Thats not a good thing.
Also a lot of women can be lumpens as well.
But it's not talked about because women aren't really required to prove themselves as much.
>>689332This sounds like copium
Being a NEET isn't good.
Also just because OP feels left out for not having a gf doesn't mean everyone else who got lucky is a cut throat. This mentality is tall poppy syndrome which is the heart of reactionaryism.
Leftists are once again not beating the allegations of jealousy/entitlement.
>Get really fit, somehow. Figure it out. Make it your obsession to be in control of your bodily functions and abilities. The looks privilege alone will skew every single social interaction in your life to an extreme degree. And even the ugliest motherfucker can look good with sufficient bulk and grooming.This is typical chud logic
Looks can get you only so far.
OP needs to also have some trade skills.
>>689247>>689239>I'm 24 and still a virgin and even though I kissed several girls I still feel I'm chopped.
>Also the most I've ever done is eating pussy. >But anyways I'm still a loserBruh, you whining about being a loser and you managed to kiss and eat out pussy?
Did you have to pay for it?
If not, you're lucky.
I'm sick and tired of these "incels" who think that just because they only kissed a couple girls that they're unloved.
Jesus Fucking Christ.
You dont have to deal with disgusting old family men having to go down on your dick.
>>689263Why not?
Incel ≠ ugly bastard.
That's a common impression sold to justify hatred against low prospect males.
>>689250I feel miserable too but I feel more miserable when I see/hear old friends whom have had their lives flipped upside down for the worst
Id rather live in a world where I am the only loser rather than live in a universe where everyone else is also a loser.
>>689253>>689304C'mon man. Have some self-respect.
It's ok to feel miserable about not having a nice career but misery over being a bachelor?
>>689337I find nothing more empowering and self-esteem building than plucking tall poppies. There is an infinite supply of people deserving of hurt and you can tell without being acquainted or having a motive. Those too, but alas, can't touch those without asking for trouble.
I didn't mean fitness to be the end goal. But it's an adequate starting point for someone who evidently has the privilege of time and financial stability without working. I agree on learning a trade, and there is a whole world of changes that would come to happen. As I said, one can't possibly project ahead of a big personal transformation and I'm giving one possible starting point.
>>689341>>>689250I feel miserable too but I feel more miserable when I see/hear old friends whom have had their lives flipped upside down for the worst
Id rather live in a world where I am the only loser rather than live in a universe where everyone else is also a loser.
I'd rather live in the opposite world. Hearing about someone's else's successes doesn't do much for me. Fortunately or maybe unfortunately I don't have many social connections . Although if something really horrible happens to someone I won't feel so good but not having connections to many people makes me feel more indifferent most of the time
>>689350>I find nothing more empowering and self-esteem building than plucking tall poppies. There is an infinite supply of people deserving of hurt and you can tell without being acquainted or having a motive. Those too, but alas, can't touch those without asking for trouble.That's the same kind of thinking that chuds have.
Why else do they shoot up schools?
No offense but not all people deserving of misery are upper class.
Believe it or not, success takes a lot of work. And a lot of people who look like they're down on their luck are often those who had it good but fucked it up.
Besides, you would also be deserving of suffering as well.
If you were successful after busting your ass and someone put a hex on you, how would you feel?
>>689352>I'd rather live in the opposite world. Hearing about someone's else's successes doesn't do much for me. Fortunately or maybe unfortunately I don't have many social connections . Although if something really horrible happens to someone I won't feel so good but not having connections to many people makes me feel more indifferent most of the timeAnd this is the same modus operandi that capitalism thrives on
Indifference towards others suffering, but anger towards others success.
This is the same kind of mentality that leftists cry about.
>>689354Three is too late.
Try a quarter-year
>>689358Be glad you're good looking and invisible.
I find that being ugly gets more attention than being pretty, especially nowadays. It's not even positive either. In fact, there's more negative attention than positive attention
You're more likely to be famous for an off-color remark than making cool concept art
>>689371I stopped doing that a long time ago.
I'm just talking about when I had sexual desire for real people before reserving it for porn.
I didn't like having those ugly ass boomer males but I knew it was the only thing I had. At least I charged them to get me weed. I ain't fucking them sober.
>>689350What's empowering is spite.
Not jealousy so much but rather spite
Not against others for being successful but for fucking me over.
Positivity is useless. I find that people who live on positivity die off early. Those who live in spite tend to live a long time.
>>689352>Hearing about someone's else's successes doesn't do much for me. Actually, there's something that's far more worthless than hearing about others' success when you're down in the dumps.
You know what that is?
Words of encouragement.
Motivational platitudes are the most annoying and cruel thing ever. Especially if they're coming from religious people.
>Suffering builds character >Iron sharpens iron>Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger>Winners don't quit/quitters don't winPeople often spout out these verbal crapshoots as a means to patronise others.
These people either never went through any suffering or they're coping with loserdom themselves
The former, when they encounter suffering will become the most rabid doomsday preachers.
The latter, when/if they're given a whiff of success will do a total one-eighty and look down on suffering as weakness.
>>689383I have no respect for men like that because they're all out of shape, excessively hairy, and don't do their job as fathers and husbands.
They just want the wives to do all the heavy lifting for them
If they were anime DILF characters like those in Naruto (ie Hiashi Hyuuga, Fuguke Uchiha, young Hiruzen Sarutobi, Minato Namikaze, older Naruto Uzumaki) it would be a different story.
>>689386Yea.
I only felt disgust afterwards.
I do regret it altogether.
I should have just stuck with porn
It's funny because I made personal resolutions to myself in my teen years to never bother with seeking sex, just stick with porn
Never bother with socializing just stick to yourself.
I violated both rules by age twenty one.
And look where that got me
People say that wisdom comes with age, but methinks a lot of that wisdom is just epiphany of childhood/adolescent sentiments that couldn't be articulated at the time.
Tupac was correct in his 1995 prison interview about "Trust Nobody".
>>689352Living in a universe where you're the only winner is just being a porky.
That's an inverted curse.
People hate you, and rightfully so.
All the effort they put in to their projects and they get shit in one hand and air in the other hand.
You either become arrogant from complacency or become miserable from guilt and self-hatred.
Prosperity should be shared.
Misery should be subtracted
>>689394Leftists on here will complain about wage labor, demanding that every one should work for free whenever they want.
Yet, when they themselves are NEETs, they could not bother to do any volunteer work.
>>689398>demanding that every one should work for free whenever they want.wat
>>689399>force me to work like in the USSRcivil conscription is the future.
>>689357>Besides, you would also be deserving of suffering as well.>If you were successful after busting your ass and someone put a hex on you, how would you feel?I would feel like I feel in any other time I am wronged. The world is already amoral and it takes no notice of kindness and dispenses no justice or protection. That's what makes it sweet to go for the sheltered winners. Their worldview does not explain why bad things happen to them. Their wellness is so unearned that they believe it intrinsic they have no frame of reference beyond prejudice. The well dressed guy isn't going to randomly mace them in the car park. That's just not how life works, until it does.
Although,I hear you say, "of course people don't expect randomly getting assaulted by a schizo with an axe to grind! That's just antisocial behavior! It is not permissible for coexistence." And I agree, but you see it's the permissible shit that hurt me. That same, assumed order of things , of community, of neighborly living, of civics and fiscal responsibility. That normalcy did not give a shit If I was miserable, insolvent, or dead. So anyone who abides by it, is free game.
I imagine in America this would end with me getting shot by a flailing loser or meeting the wrong jumpy schizo. Thankfully, I do not live in the US.
>>689406>I would feel like I feel in any other time I am wronged. So, you would feel upset about getting fucked over by low prospect folk if you were high prospect but you have no problem fucking over high prospect folk because you are low prospect?
This is seriously chud logic on here.
I wouldn't want you around me.
>The world is already amoral and it takes no notice of kindness and dispenses no justice or protection. That's what makes it sweet to go for the sheltered winners. Their worldview does not explain why bad things happen to them. Their wellness is so unearned that they believe it intrinsic they have no frame of reference beyond prejudice. The well dressed guy isn't going to randomly mace them in the car park. That's just not how life works, until it does.This sounds like rationalizing killing others who have not hurt you. This is exactly what chuds use to shoot up schools
Also, most winners are not sheltered unearned folk.
They had to bust their asses to get to where they are. Sure alot of it was criminal but it was efforts, not handed to them.
>Although,I hear you say, "of course people don't expect randomly getting assaulted by a schizo with an axe to grind! That's just antisocial behavior! It is not permissible for coexistence." And I agree, but you see it's the permissible shit that hurt me. That same, assumed order of things , of community, of neighborly living, of civics and fiscal responsibility. That normalcy did not give a shit If I was miserable, insolvent, or dead. So anyone who abides by it, is free game.So if some one raped you, you should not complain.
"The world doesn't owe you anything".
This logic is just sore loser vibes.
>I imagine in America this would end with me getting shot by a flailing loser or meeting the wrong jumpy schizo. Thankfully, I do not live in the US.Of course, America is the only place with problem people.
And you saying this while wanting to harm innocent people for being more successful is just hypocrisy
You're just mad at not getting what you wanted in life.
Guess what? Most people don't get what they wanted out of life.
>>689413>They had to bust their asses to get to where they are. Sure alot of it was criminal but it was efforts, not handed to them.And now they are choking on the ground, three floors up a carpark. And my day is made brighter, good cardio too. It also takes effort to find the right conditions to avoid risk and such. But I am not judging anyone or anything, there is no "deserving" here beyond me wanting it so. I deserve alone. I am owed alone. I take what I can, when I can.
I have a good life now. I just kept living by the same individualist rules that fucked me before. OH that's immoral or unjust or whatever? Don't care. I didn't make the rules, I just got better at the game.
>>689239Stop identifying as the deformed frog for starters. Being a part of that 'pepe' club is a huge turnoff for normal people. You're basically announcing that you side with those people and share their beliefs about the world.
You probably don't have frog shirts that you wear to parties, but they can still probably smell it on you if you can't act like a normal person. You probably scowl at females and generally exude bitter virgin energy whether you realize it or not.
Like Cassandra asked Garth: "Why don't you just go talk to her?"
And 'crying constantly'? You're 24, man. Come on now. You can get to first base, you've gotten your foot in the door.
I hate to suggest this after my own problems, but ALCOHOL may be the key. At least for a little while.
You can do it. I'm sure you feel like an old man whose life is over. I didn't get pussy until I was 20 myself. You can do it. Stop crying and stop posting the frogs. Separate yourself from that entire attitude and persona ASAP.
>>689247You're OP? Fuck you for making me reply. You've eaten pussy. You could have fucked that night. You're in. Quit your gay crying. You're in a land of people who can't even speak to women at all, lol. Poor bastards.
Real slick humblebrag post. I like it.
>>689435Keep your anti anime sentiments to yourself, you pansy.
Jesus Christ, nobody cares about your moral obsession.
>>689434Wrong. The cheapest easiest drug is booze.
And I don't drink.
I have seen and heard too many peculiar incidents with booze.
>>689429>Stop identifying as the deformed frog for starters. Being a part of that 'pepe' club is a huge turnoff for normal people. You're basically announcing that you side with those people and share their beliefs about the world. You probably don't have frog shirts that you wear to parties, but they can still probably smell it on you if you can't act like a normal person. You probably scowl at females and generally exude bitter virgin energy whether you realize it or not.
>hate to suggest this after my own problems, but ALCOHOL may be the key. At least for a little while. >You can do it. I'm sure you feel like an old man whose life is over. I didn't get pussy until I was 20 myself. You can do it. Stop crying and stop posting the frogs. Separate yourself from that entire attitude and persona ASAP.Loser patronising another loser
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