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starting to accept that one comic about shyness being a form of cope to preserve one's ego is right because every single one i've met that "came out of their shell" turned out to be your typical dickhead

This OP sounds more like a cope within itself

im not really shy, as in, having social anxiety, but i dont talk much because i recognize how annoying and narcissistic i am
so yea it seems accurate

Men, fifty fifty in my experience, some of em are just too self aware. Me, I'm too socially tired, and I get myself in trouble so I usually stay quiet just to save myself the energy.

So when women say they like shy guys does that mean they really like dick heads? But maybe not overt dick heads but dick heads who know how to hide it or maybe they think that most guys are dick heads so they figure they'd rather be with one that knows how to hide it?

>>693321
they just mean a chad who lets them go on infinite monologues without interrupting

>shyness is really covert narcissism


Smh.
Society really hates loners and aloofers

its true in a way but just like extroverted people shy people can be dicks

not shy but true for me
i want friends but never want to do things others want to do and i never go out of my way to talk to people, irl or online (even on this shithole i rarely post) because i convinced myself i'm just wasting people's time and don't have anything worth saying

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>>693330
You’re not shy, just ugly.

>>693491
Exactly. Social confidence is an unearned condition afforded to the physically attractive.

>>693491
Who is this guy? I mean it's probably more true than not but he also seems like a red pill grifter. He looks the type

>>693491
>Nah, you only have to be ugly for society to hate you

>>693495
>>693491
Have any of you ever been to a ghetto? Plenty of ugly ass folk have social standing.

>>693533
Do you think the guy in the video grew up in a ghetto?

>>693577
Nope

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>>693281
>be lonely
>do not interact with others
>do not have social norms that control one's tone and general disposition slowly beaten into you through a decade and a half's worth of half-assed "please don't do that"
>effectively have a pseudoautism
>finally start interacting with others
>pseudoautism [potentially real autism too] kicks in, come off as a dickhead
<this is now the personal fault of the person who was lonely; their character is wicked and they should be isolated further
has this not occurred to you

>>693330
It’s honestly wild that simply refusing to talk to people leads to them assuming the worst. I’ve had supervisors at my job actively dislike me simply because I don’t make small talk with them.

>>693646
I have been described as arrogant, aloof and egotistic for keeping to myself. I dont even want to, I just have miserable socials skills and anxious-depressive personality, so never fit anywhere. This is a normie modus operandi, they ostracize you for being weird and then retrospectively justify it by pretending you are the one who is actually hostile to them.

>>693652
Exactly. And it’s only gotten worse as I’ve gotten older. This never even happened to me in school.

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>>693488
>i never go out of my way to talk to people, irl or online because i convinced myself i'm just wasting people's time and don't have anything worth saying
I'm severely aspergian and can't help but think this way too, Feels like I tether on being an emotionally immature dysfunctional retard. I don't know what to do, Loneliness is gonna be the death of me.

>>693656
>>693652
It's ironic that most of our troubles are caused by the socially active folk. Even if loners are egotistical bastards, at least they're keeping their toxicity to themselves.

It's always the socializers that feel the need to spread their bullshit onto everyone

Most of our sexual predators, serial killers, money launderers, etc are socialized people


>>693656
Thats strange. Usually society is intolerant of solitary asocial youth.
Adults always complain about not having time to socialize yet, from what I see, most people over eighteen spend a lot of their free time doing favors for friends or talking on the phone with their drinking buddies or whatnot.

>>693646
>>693652
>>693656
What really sucks is that as a person, society expects you to be active in politics and/or religion.
Whether it be nagging kids to join after school clubs, forcing them to attend church, or shilling military service at them.

Any person, especially young adult males, whom are not interested in any sort of worldly nonsense are deemed as threats to society.
God for id that you just wanna play video games after working ten hours a day, four/five days a week.

>not being social in society leads to bad outcomes
wow


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