Womanhood implies that one is able to raise children, regardless of neurodivergence or disability, without bourgeois shrink tools like ABA or PECS to "lessen the burden" as humanity is a K-selected species, after all. This is prerequiste not just to womanhood but humanity itself; The lack of high-quality childcare would cause the loss of language via natural selection, as we see in many of those victim to behaviorism.
So most "women" who identify as "autism moms" are less womanly than transwomen as the former is a mere breeder, not an actual particpent in human or eusocial reproduction.
Hating transhumanists is slave morality