/siberia/ - Off-topic

i was today years old when i realized women's virginity is not as pure as i thought, the whole hymen thing is a meme, it does not break only with penis in the bagana, it can tear way earlier than sex when a girl is very athletic and flexible, women bleeding on their first sex with a man is just a concept, it's not always ONLY like that, i was taught from playing Rance games and other nipponese horny games and it's not always like that in real life, girls can lose their hymen from dildos too or tampons, or from riding fucking bikes or jumping on trampolines, not just from penises only. i thought dildos were made from plastic and therefore can't "unvirgin" a vagina without pushing it really hard

also also, when i was a kid i thought men can physically lose their virginity too, uncircumcised dicks lose their virginity when the penis enters a vagina, a chemical reaction would pull the foreskin fully forever until it looks like any average circumcised dick, this was before i started using the internet so don't laugh

if this is how it works, how do lesbian girls define what a virginity is? do they count any thing below the belt?, can a girl consider herself a non virgin even if she never did anything penetrative with a woman? do they not give a fuck about virginity or hymens at all? based if true