why are older men and middle aged guys often sought out anyways? as a woman at birth i never understood why most girls online my generation (who are still very young) often talk about them like they’re beings gifted from the gods. most middle aged to older men i talked to for sex or romance either crept me out, infantilized me like im still a child when im legally an adult (still got a free pass though cause im legally not a minor), are forceful, objectifiers, displays predatory behavior or don’t know boundaries nor how do they work at all whatsoever