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I'm tired of hearing some loser blame their parents for not being able to go out as a teen or missing out on the high school experience.

>I NEVER GOT TO TRY DRUGS AND ALCOHOL LIKE EVERYONE ELSE

What's stopping you from doing this now?
>I NEVER GOT TO EXPERIENCE HIGH SCHOOL LOVE
And? Is your current love life now lesser because of that?
>I WASN'T ALLOWED TO WATCH/PLAY (media)
Then watch or play it now? You're an adult.
>I SPENT ALL MY TIME IN ACADEMICS AND NEVER MADE FRIENDS
Then make some now?

It's all just cope because they now the problem lies squarely with them being lame hole in the walls and they weren't really "denied" anything which is why even in adult hood they fail to achieve these things.

I'm having my first relationship at 24 with someone much more experienced and it kinda makes it rough, yes.
I agree with you otherwise.

I guess some of us were just always going to be lame or whatever. Everything is cope and life is generally burdensome at least to me. Whatever I'll be dead one day and so will everyone else and it won't matter anymore

There's times where I feel bad I'm almost 30 and have never been in a relationship but at the same time nearly every friend and family member complains about their current and past relationships like it's the worst decision they ever made. I can't blame anyone for that though. There's nothing I find worth doing outside where I live and I don't think highly of myself enough to believe I'd get any success on a dating app.

Only thing I missed out on is being cute enough to crossdress but my late 20s ass is gonna keep doing it anyway

>>708579
I get sad and jealous when I see people talking about how they just their virginity at 14, I wish I wasn't so ugly and mentally fucked up as a teen

https://youtu.be/AXHRKa-0MsU?si=KI4XhAaRYzRXs898

>>708579
>>I NEVER GOT TO TRY DRUGS AND ALCOHOL LIKE EVERYONE ELSE
What is this made up scenario? Who blames their parents for the WOD unless they're DEA agents?

>>708579
>>I NEVER GOT TO EXPERIENCE HIGH SCHOOL LOVE
>And? Is your current love life now lesser because of that?

Actually I just ended up getting into lolisho to cope, literally better than if I hada sex life as a teen, because its pure fantasy and not beholden to the lame limits of reality.

Explain to me how you are on an imageboard and then call anyone a loser without sensing any irony.

>>708580
I did the same. It gets worse honestly. Every gf after my first has been a downgrade.


>>708708
Really?

>>708709
In my case it's bc I didn't learn proper relationship etiquette. I don't know how to be romantic, how to treat my partner any different from "my best friend who has sex with me", I'm not conditioned to give special significance to dates like Valentines Day or "monthversaries" (when we celebrate one more month together), I'm not used to text a specific person everyday saying stuff like "good morning!". It's been a bit rough, coula been smoother if I'd dated before, but I'm happy at least.

>>708711
Dated as in had a relationship. I've hooked up with people, though rarely

>>708711
Honestly anon as long as she's mostly patient and understanding with you I don't think it's a big deal. It's kinda cute

i blame my parents for giving birth to me. a lowly creature such as myself was never going to make it far in life.

>>708714
Thank you :)

>>708711
>celebrating every month
>good morning text every day
What a clingy bitch jfc

>>708720
Same feeling

>>708579
Didn't have any irl friends from ages 15 - 29. Now I have two very close friends i made in adulthood. It can get better.

WAAAAH WAAAAH GIMMIE CUMMIES NAOWW
WAAH WAHH GIMMIE MOMMIE MILKIES NAOOOWE

I missed out on spending my youth grinding art when my brain was malleable and I had infinite free time now I have to force myself to do it after the 9 to 5.

bro we already hate ourselves you are late to the party

>>708579
its stupid to blame 'parents' instead of capitalism, but experiences throughout ones life can absolutely have long lasting developmental effects on one's psychology and physical body, to deny this is vulgar idealism.

it is much more difficult to make friends as an adult with little free time and little to no 3rd spaces outside of booze based businesses that play overly loud music to try to get you to leave as soon as possible, this is true even without mental developmental issues due to lack of social experiences as a child or adolescent.

for me most of my mental and social problems are because i was raped by other kids in 2nd grade and my parents basically never let me leave the house again until i turned 18 and got my driver's license. now i am in my 30s and have never even been friends with a woman or person of color, i have been essentially stuck with the same group of cis het white male autists (i am the only non-hetero in the group) i was stuck with since high school, minus a few i had to cut off all contact with because they were abusing their girlfriends.

so basically, if you are just saying 'lol im better than people with social difficulties' then you are simply an ableist idiot without a shred of critical thinking skills and can fuck off, otherwise post some tips for making friends etc. as an adult without social experiences. but we all know anyone posting here is a closet nazi looking to justify their misanthropic self-superiority/inferiority complex by putting others down with rage-bait. thats more pathetic than anything my gay autistic sexless ass could ever accomplish lol.

Developmental steps are important OP. This dismissive attitude is dangerous, you will end up saying: so what if your child died, what's stopping you from having another?
But yes, people should know that an "it's over" thinking is not going to help them, but there's no harm in complaining if is followed by action.

>>709228
op's over generalizing but i know people that have had normal upbringings that do the "it's my parent's fault i'm like this" because mom and dad never let them go to a party or date as teens to cope for why their lives are bland

>>708579
>>I NEVER GOT TO EXPERIENCE HIGH SCHOOL LOVE
<nooo I never got to experience mutual emotional immaturity BPD retardation that lasts for a month, how will I ever be happy now!!?!
t. faggots who should get laid


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