/siberia/ - Off-topic

I wonder what they thought kids were like before they made them

Maybe they had a breeding fetish but didn't actually want to have kids? I know sometimes I like to imagine myself just cumming buckets into some chick to knock her up but I dread having children and think life isn't worth it. It all stays in my head anyways but these people do it for real.

>>712991
None of this would happen if we simply banned video games

>>712991
your mistake was to go on leddit

>>712996
>thought
They didn't.

>>712991
>Mu son is a punishment from God
No, ma'am, he is the punishment from your shitty parenting.

I think the toddler one is fake, they don't usually sleep until the morning.

>>712996
>>713014
>>713015

work in childcare and ask this question on a semi-daily basis, I'm convinced some of the parents only have kids out being retarded pro-lifers who couldn't wrap that shit up considering how they seem to actively hate having kids and don't take an interest in parenting past the food,water and clothing aspects. They just sit there kid in front of screen, never talk to them, discipline them or even spend quality time with them and then wonder why there kid is a maladjusted attention seeking brat. Not to mention roughly half of the so-called troublemakers at some sites are just copying the surburboid karenite entitlement of there parents aggression towards random service workers when having a temper tantrum. Its a learned mentality of "I am the special exception to every universalizing rule and institution who will never be told no". It's reddit so a bunch of that shit is prolly creative writing but they're are genuinely parents like that who only have kids to have kids and aren't actually interested in the idea of raising and socializing another human being. The number one predictor of if a child is well-adjusted, treats others with some respect and decency and can hold a decently intelligent conservation in my job so far has been if there parents actually enjoys spending time with there kid.

>>713067
Pretty much. I'd add learning with your kids after school is an incredible intellectual boost for the kids. And you don't even have to be teaching them or know the answers to their questions either. Saw a vid of an indian mother who was raising her daughter alone and asked the kid to teach her reading and writing because she was illiterate since she never went to school as a kid due to poverty. Naturally the daughter is excelling in school, because she feels like she can sneak something interesting or new to her mom and enjoys the attention and being treated as a little know it all adult.

God damn, people, learn with yo keedz

>>713079
I'm going to let the streets teach my children

>>712991
This has to be bait by some anti-natalist nerd. There are terrible parents everywhere but no way they would express like this about their children on a public forum.

>>713086
I think some parents would.

>>712991
>pic 1
It's crazy to have a kid who holds you in such high regard and would do anything for your approval and love and to just look down on them like this. Like imagine being so self-centered that you can't even enjoy the flattery of your kid caring so much what you think…

>>712996
They are just following a script of what milestones you are supposed to hit in life. They didn't really think about it in advance.

>>713079
A lot of kids' learning is just the parents' responsibility. In the US it's increasingly a problem because so many parents neglect to teach kids how to read or count or ANYTHING and teachers have to pick up the slack, remediating students who lack any ability to interface with the material they're supposed to be teaching them.

>>713086
My parents expressed it like this to my face. I'm glad you were lucky though.

i don't think most breeders are redditors, let alone this type of redditor. this isn't even the most popular parenting sub

>>713127
Most of them are lame. I mainly liked the breeders on the breeding fantasy sub. I'm assuming they were just pretending to want to be bred. I thought it was hot

it's just post-partum hormones going crazy and a little bit of millenial narcisism.

>>713079
The most efficient way to learn something is trying to teach it to someone at any age. Since you have to revise what you have learned from the principles and not just decorate key words.

>>713092
>It's crazy to have a kid who holds you in such high regard and would do anything for your approval and love and to just look down on them like this. Like imagine being so self-centered that you can't even enjoy the flattery of your kid caring so much what you think…

In nature they would be punished by having their genetic line extinct for neglecting their kids so they wouldn't survive, but alas, modern civilization stopped natural selection.

While the cis straights aren't doing alright mentally in general, the commonality in your examples is they're redditors. Go touch digital grass.

>>713140
this is why i always flex knowledge immediately when I learn it, even if it makes me look like a dumbass or the response i get is asshole shit like "duh, everyone knows that" or "don't care, didn't ask"

>>713067
You described my family and the way I was raised and even the way I was a couple of years ago. Holy shit.

>>713144
>"don't care, didn't ask"
most of the time they also did ask and you're just the only person who think "sure why not search for it" instead of thinking it's rethorical (because beint anti-intellectualism is still cool)

You just know that it's white people making these posts.

White people have kids and don't raise them, kick em put at 18 too

>>712991
I thought hormones were supposed to take care of this such that you're endeared by any and all of your child's stupid antics

>>713158
yea glorious black people would never

>>713165
lol.
/board

>>712991
It's not a breeder problem, it's a nuclear family problem, children used to be raised by the extended family or even tribe. Besides only the very naive about human nature think children are bundles of joy only.

>>713165
>>713185
Yeah forgot, white people are perfect. A lot of angloid suburbanoid white families are just associates of each other. The children are just affectations to both parents. Black people tend to be closer to their families even if dysfunctional.

Im just glad all the people who hate kids are going extinct. Nothing of value was lost

Aren't something like 40-60% of all pregnancies worldwide are unplanned and at least a third are unwanted? Maybe if we licensed marriage and pregnancy and only let a small part of population have kids, this wouldn't be a problem.
A good chunk of people either don't like, hate or don't want kids; I'm convinced only something like 20-30% want a family and another 5-8% are prolific breeders who don't want to stop at 1-3 kids.
We should force most of the normoids to be childfree and also to be gay and gender non-conforming, seems like being a gender conforming cishet baby factory literally breaks your brains lol.

>>713141
If it contributes to the destruction of the United Snakes of AmeriKKKa isn't that a good thing

>>713218
They'll always be people who hate children. Some of them will even have children since breeding goes beyond liking or disliking children

>>713141
>evolutionary psychology
reactionary nonsense
parenting skills aren't a genetic trait, and even if they were, nuclear families are a modern invention. this is as absurd as saying that a person has a genetic predisposition to buy a brand of cereal instead of the other

>>713224
no. the answer to this has always been socialized upbringing. abolish the nuclear family, leave education and care to educated professionals, and never encounter this problem again. the state could regulate the number of childbirths through economic incentives for the mothers and thus solve the problems of both overpopulation and aging demographics depending on the circumstances

the only problem is that it would be insane to trust the bourgeois government (or private companies) with this task

>>713141
Very debunked