>>2665772>Conservatives are disingenuous as fuck, but leftists are almost detached.From personal experience it seems almost generational. Like most of the older comrades I've met have been encouraging and really friendly, helps that a lot of them have families and are grandparents. Younger ones it definitely feels like they're waiting for a slip up to berate you or just completely indifferent to whatever work you do.
>>2665782Isn't the premise behind mutual aid that it's… well, mutual?
Okay, enough snark, allow me to explain a little more. No one is saying everything should be "transactional" including empathy, but the difference is that when it comes to things like charitable giving, there's usually at least something to keep you going: someone saying thank you, someone letting you know you made their day, so on. Say you decide to shovel snow for your neighbors one day, just to help them out: if they don't so much as say "thank you" then you'll feel less of a reason, I imagine, to do it in the future. If you decide that you aren't going to shovel snow for them and they're pounding on your door the next day saying "Excuse me but WHY aren't you shoveling snow out of my driveway?" You'll likely think they're entitled.
So yeah, in that particular example the dude "stopped caring" and got rewarded for it, but if that prior sense of "caring" was just individualized and he's doesn't see even an acknowledgement of that "caring" then there's a chance he'll just say "well they only actually give a fuck when I stop doing shit for them".
There's also, I think, a profound lack of grace in some left wing spaces. I said before that younger leftists often feel like they're waiting for you to slip up just to rake you over the coals for it, an example that comes to mind is one of my old coworkers was involved in some left wing orgs like the SRA and the like. Around COVID he became a kind of Vaccine Skeptic, yes I personally think that's a silly position but I didn't hold it against him. The other people in the org, though? People he knew for years and worked with? It was just instant "Well you're a piece of shit, don't talk to me ever again." He wasn't pushing it, I told him straight up I could respect his decision while getting vaccinated myself, but as soon as he bought into Vaccine Skepticism he was basically persona-non-grata among his former comrades, and I could tell it really hurt him.
>>2666849I'm surprised to see the "Catholic Church Infiltration" shtick get mentioned on here as often as it does but speaking
as a Catholic I can say it almost certainly never happened and is more or less a John Birch style mental illness. There were Catholic clergy that skirted right up to the edge of Communism, with a few wholeheartedly embracing it: Camilo Torres Restrepo for example was a Revolutionary Guerilla and a Catholic Priest who was later laicized (at his own request, mind you) but continued preaching a doctrinal fusion of radical socialism and Catholicism (one of his quotes was, to paraphrase, "Jesus would be a guerilla") and stuff like liberation theology, but there's very little evidence that the church was "infiltrated" with Communists going through seminary and becoming Priests.
It partly, I think, has to do with Fulton Sheen and the culture of The Church at the time. If I remember right he was something of Bella Dodd's sponsor (and also helped convert her) and he was a committed anti-communist. Though to be fair the Catholic Church's position on Communism at the time was in part motivated by repression against Priests during the Spanish Civil War (this is what got Tolkien to support the Nationalists' as well, IIRC) and internal struggles within the Church. Sheen himself had a quiet struggle with a cardinal over the appropriation of charitable funds (to Sheen's credit it seems he was in the right here) and both the reform process of Vatican II and the discussions leading up to it likely caused some psychic distress in conservative elements of the Catholic world.
I mean it's hard to describe how revolutionary Vatican II was at the time, it completely changed centuries of dogma and led to a minor schism with the Sedevacantists. And in periods of immense turmoil, its common to blame some "secretive" group behind it all: Masons, Communists, Jews, what have you. Communists became the perfect scapegoat for why the Church stopped speaking Latin and changed so many elements of Mass. In much the same way that "modern audiences" has become a term of scorn among right wing media consumers, reform in the name of modernism similarly became the conspiratorial scheme of some secretive cabal of Communists rather than an attempt to survive into the coming centuries.