>>616066THeir issue is not, "chasing tail" their issue is in thinking somehow just fucking someone is going to magically make life better and mystically fix all life's problems, it don't. Not only that, but trust me if women find you good looking enough, or begin to just sexualize you, as a quiet introvert you'd just get so eventually put off by them and by this treatment you'd simply retreat into your NEET dome anyhow, actually probably with far more aplomb and begin hitting the bottle with even more violent force than ever before as the psychological and emotional damage from feeling sexually used and discarded begins to sink in. So let me tell you one other thing, you all seem to think this would fix your problems like you're going to feel as a different person tomorrow, but it don't, you will feel like exactly the same person only being tremendously disappointed in yourself and your life depending on how it happened and with whom. Now you'll also get the joy of worrying about raising a kid with a woman that fundamentally doesn't love you and is a complete bitch, and possibly not even good looking but rather impossibly fat and bitchy at the same time, who'll openly disrespect you. No, it's the first time you find out you can kill a man that'll make you look at yourself differently, not fucking. Although in fairness, the first time you are about to kill someone is probably going to be because of a woman anyone so there is that.
>>616128With some it is just their personal rigidity and self absorption and not wishing to play well with others hence returning to the internet or some kind of asocial activities where they and their horse shittery is never openly challenged. Pretty funny now that I think about it considering how many times this type of male goes online which is the most caustic argumentative place ever and it WILL turn you into an unlikeable asshole if you wasn't one before. Like the kind of guy calling himself an autist, what he means is he is lacking in social skills and introverted and he does not like self challenge or going out of his comfort zone, those men HAVE TO force themselves outside their comfort zone and stop being so personally rigid.
Case in point
https://acidcow.com/pics/6190-worst-possible-date-ever-10-pics.html fuck sake, I know this is like, over a decade and a half old but still it just doesn't hit the same without Malodrax adding the mspaint comics nvm found it. Someone should download that before it's lost to the tubes forever. Point being, now what exactly kind of man can POSSIBLY have done a thing THAT freaking stupid. That such person. A man like malodrax. The kind of guy who'd go around filming himself making girls feel awkward. Type of man to carry a pee bottle in his backpack, simply of his own obstinacy, to, from such a traumatizing horrific experience the likes of which I'd NEVER live down in my own head. The likes of which who would, having just shat in a girl's bathtub and pissed all over the place with a pee boner, to think it a good idea to try calling a girl like that back (after she's waving a knife at him and crying no less), after all this is said and done what has he learned from this exactly? That he should have changed? Fuck no, his rigid personality demanded that his own learnt life experience from all this is not, "gee I really should have just taken a piss in the damn public washroom and gotten over myself" NOPE his conclusion is of course "I am always right and the way I do things need not ever change, the whole world needs to go around me." THAT is what these dudes meant by "autistic" and that is exactly why they can't, won't, don't get a girlfriend, because simply asking a woman out at all requires leaving your comfort zone, moreover having anything resembling a functional relationship necessitates give and take. These guys are takers. 9 times out of 10, when they say how they want their waifu what he actually means is, self indulgently pouring his affections on a woman while refusing to anticipate or understand what that woman wants from him, it makes them into emotional sponges which clearly he can't see that about himself.
Moreover and lastly
>>616001What these guys really want and need is to be understood, their problem in that is not having understood others or realizing you need to bend aspects of who you are what you are doing and how you go about things, life is about compromising and mutual self sacrifice and like I said, they are rigid, takers, lazy, and dislike leaving a comfort bubble. They don't seem to realize these things are rightfully seen by women as repellent. Responsible, likeable, self-giving but having boundaries, dignity, integrity, the occasional "practical morality" to bend or break the rules for survival of you and yours, daring, reckless and bold, charismatic, funny, charming, not easily butthurt. Like, they see and understand what they want but do not know how to get there, that problem being these guys also are lazy so when they DO get swole and successful they don't comprehend their personality flaws and character defects leads to them being cheated on regardless. Or rather, when they try acting on some of the advice of others and entering the world of, how to say, overly expressive, extroverted and emotional bydlo, they fail spectacularly.
Men like these just need to be understood and to find the right woman. My advice for a lot of these men is religion. Dead ass. The kinds of women you want are usually drawn to religion anyway, and it and its rigid set of rules and principles typically appeals to these types of man.