/siberia/ - Off-topic

>>670106
This has to be a troll post or an unironic chudette.
Never mind that men are always the ones who have to pay for everything and get strung along

>>670420
>It's the second time I have a fling during a travel, and I tend to get attached way too easily. I think I'm not emotionally built for casual sex, once I have a whiff of pussy, I believe it's the start of a new love story, but it's hardly like this these days. I guess I just wasn't made of these times.


Using a Beach Boys song to accentuate "TFW no gf" vibes is kinda bit irritating.

Im also tired of this kind of low key subconscious romantic entitlement thats projected into a "sign of the times" ordeal.

>>670651
probably has something to do with none of them posting here,but what do I know

>>670653
I think we're at a point where we have to say all romantic/sexual outcomes are correct and good unless there is rape.

>>670705
What about STIs?

>>670712
I'd classify that under rape since the guy likely did not warn his partner that he is diseased. If they both knew and took the risk, then the outcome is correct.

>>670420
last time i got a holiday fling at the beach, my dad pressured me into getting her contact info. i creeped her the fuck out but she gave me her info anyway. i messaged her on msn messenger for three days after arriving home then i couldn't bear the shame. she had large tits so my dad bragged about it during christmas dinner, even though we didn't even kiss. i think it transformed something in my brain because i couldn't romantically talk to anyone else until like 2 years ago.

>>670420
Bro you missed your chance. If you don't fuck, that sort of girl moves on.

>>670695
Any pictures of this guy abusing his asshole?

>>670652
>Never mind that men are always the ones who have to pay for everything and get strung along
This is my filter. If a girl doesn't offer to pay on the second date, then she's not worth it. It means she's either not into you or seriously entitled.

>>670861
Do you often get opportunities to apply that filter?

>>670861
youre going to filter out every woman, sorry

>>670867
I can usually get 2-4 first dates a month off the apps when I'm looking.

>>670873
Bro you're getting taken advantage of.

>>670861
They are actually filtering you.

>>670875
>Bro you're getting taken advantage of.
literally no woman will ever pay for a date.

>>670861
You're not going to find a lot of women who think you're interesting enough after one (1) date to go along with this. It's just the meta, why bother with somebody who'd make you pay when there's plenty of options who will pay for you?

>>669413
Grip exercises, especially ones that learn toward endurance/cardio.

>>670881
What are the endurance/cardio grip exercises?

>>670876
>>670879
>>670880
Genuinely confused, have (you) never had a girl offer to pay? Usually I do coffee date first because it's cheap and I don't drink. Second date most women I've met will at least offer to go dutch. Had a few hookups where where they got takeout, paid, and came over.

>>670886
Low body fat is all that matters for that. Hands built for grip strength aren't attractive.

>>670727
Or maybe the girl has itand doesn't tell anyone?

STIs aren't always intentional either.

playing furry dating sims makes me realize it never even began for me

What did you goon to today?

>>671025
Demon Mika

>>670242
Go back to your old site, newfag.

>>671098
What are you talking about?

>>671076
You understand that the thirst traps posted here are in fact not posted by men depicted on them? Everybody is aware of that.

>>670290
>>670281
Mid thirties is still young. You need to hang out with actual elderly people. Also, most people feel entitled to some consolation for losing their youth.

>>670282
>>670287
Life does have meaning but not the fatalism shit that religion/mysticism pushes.

>>669378
>>669388
This sounds more projective tbh. Even without patriarchy men can still find wives. In fact I would say patriarchy is affecting mens self value by giving it all away to women.
What's happening is that women are not choosing men because women are still patriarchy minded.

>>667841
Is it just me or does the AI man look like a CG reconstruction of an animal from the Permian period?

>>671167
She sounds really annoying but so do most people in my opinion. I think personally male attractiveness isn't promoted as much as female attractiveness and if males do put more effort they're considered gay unless they just muscle up and then they still might be considered gay. If you don't hit on ladies you'll also be considered gay and women probably won't date you anyways since you're not approaching. Women are also put on pedestals so they're generally seen as more as attractive and men easily become simps thinking that's the way to a woman's heart. Ultimately this is just rage bait and if you take it too seriously you'll just be told to go out and touch grass. I guess I should go touch grass but I won't

>>671191
>Ultimately this is just rage bait
Why does it make you feel anger?

>>671192
It shouldn't I don't date anyways and am not on any apps. Seeing this clip is further reason not to as I'm pretty sure one of the many unattractive guys she's talking about. I should just stop watching this stuff but whatever

Following from >>670420
So basically:
>I see her again that night soon after the post and we start talking about everything for hours again (psychology, how therapists need to go the therapist, birth control pills and IUDs, abortion, Trump, K-holes, …)
>At some point I ask her about traveling with her and admit I went back to the hostel just to see her again
>"I was afraid of that *laughs*… Sorry I want to travel alone because my ex-bf used to plan everything for me, and I want to feel in charge of my life for once […]"
>I respect her decision but still ask her to reconsider till the next morning, even if it's just for a few days
>Only have a hug because I was too much of a beta pussy to try anything more, and we go to sleep

Then that Castlevania II textbox appeared
>Can barely get any sleep because I keep having nightmares and waking up every couple of hours full of sweat due to that goddamn blanket
>But in between these nightmares, I come to the conclusion I should also go travel by myself alone, and stop being somewhat clingy
>In the morning, she is tired, we talk to different people, then start talking again for a couple of hours about dreams, etc., and I tell her that "I can see you don't want to travel with me, but I came to the conclusion I also need to go my own way" and she smiles
>We even play a bit of music together before packing our bags
>We go to the bus station together because the city's public transport system is confusing as fuck
>In front of her bus, we hug shortly, I say "I will miss you", she says "I understand, but I need to go my own way for some weeks, but you always have my contact" and she does caress my arm a tiny bit this time
>I overpay for a bag of chips and a couple of beer cans to drown my sorrow
Goddamn hippie girls.

I wasn't feeling very well since then, had a ball in my stomach, until today when I did what a man in this situation have to do: go hike up a mountain where there was absolutely no one. I still cried a bit on the way but it was absolutely liberating and I felt proud of myself. As a bonus, I now have a ton of pictures and a place to recommend to her for her trip.

Also, this old /trv/ thread from 2014 healed my soul because every situation in it is so understandable, and people were much kinder and way less bitter on imageboards back then: https://archive.4plebs.org/trv/thread/843527/

>>670432
It's more the realization that I'm not such a fucked-up person as I thought as I was that makes me feel better, that some people can still desire someone like me even though I have a load of unresolved problems to deal with.
The little sex we had just made me yearn for some more, and now I regret not annoying the whole hostel to put my dick inside her, but it was only a fleeting moment and now it's gone, and even if it had happen, that moment would be gone too.
Most women in my city who may desire me either already have a nice stable bf, or they quickly freak out when they start to understand how fucked up and cynical I can be.
With this hippie girl, even if I enjoyed making her pants wet with my fingers one night, the more important part for me was bonding with her during a few days and how she was more understanding than most psychopathic humans out there.

>>670433
You were absolutely right anon, dubs speak the truth.

>>670776
That's kinda fucked up. I think your dad wanted to get you out of there in the world and get a kiss to "become a man", but by being so brash, he fucked you up.
Some experience not unlike that when I was a kid fucked up my ability to become more than a friend with women, I somewhat got over it but not completely. I lost so many opportunities due to this it's not even funny.
I just hope you will continue the process of slowly getting over it too, anon, but I warn you: I will take a while, and you will have to take risks at some point if you truly want something.

>>670856
I honestly think you are right, she wanted the D, I gave her something but not the whole lot of it because I was afraid of waking up the whole hostel — really I'm sure she is the loud kind of woman, which is fine in your own home, but… — and now all I can get is her friendship, and maybe a tiny bit of romance way later on if we message enough and see each other during another trip, which probably won't happen because these things are ephemeral, but in the meantime, she describes herself as "pansexual", brings condoms with her, she is very sociable and talk with others pretty easily, I mean, the conclusion is pretty clear: someone is going to give her the D and it won't be me.
It's kinda painful to think about it, and I'm trying to slowly getting over it, but I think the logical conclusion is to think more like a hippie like her: who knows what might happen? The future is always full of surprises, which might involve her or not.
That said, there are a few hints here and there that she likes me at least as a person, and I want to travel more and visit Central Europe again, so, maybe I will meet her again one day…

>>670653
Are you Newgene?
Pet Sounds is a rather melancholic album, maybe Caroline No was more appropriate, but I don't see the problem, when my travels go to shit I listen to Sloop John B for the "I wanna go home" line.
My favorite tunes today were Chopin's Nocturnes, perfect sad contemplative music, the No.15 in particular, but No.13 (couldn't stop crying when I first heard it) and No.21 are also good choices.
But maybe you would have preferred Beautiful Child by Fleetwood Mac, because I fell in love when she was only 10 (well 14 but that's close enough), and she is not a child anymore, she is tall enough to reach for the stars.
Smog did a really nice cover of that, but a song of his that would be even more appropriate would be Chosen One, because she is a wild horse on a collision course with the sun, and I wanted to ride that wild horse into the sun, but I no longer think she is my chosen one, and I no longer think I'll ever find a chosen one, woooohwooooh.
But my favorite guy this year is John Cale, so enjoy this one: Thoughtless Kind. It's the first song I've listened after we parted ways. You will enjoy the lyrics I'm sure.

Sorry Newgene, but I can't take your opinions seriously, you need to go outside a little bit and engage more with actually existing people instead of being bitter about generation wars and romanticism on niche imageboards like you have done for years by now. It seems like you only get your opinions on life from scrolling TikTok and saying hello to elders while going to the bakery. You will be a very sad man on your death bed if you keep going on this way. At least I still feel emotions, strong ones, even if they sometimes they suck, a lot. There is nothing wrong with a little romanticism every once in a while in such a mechanical world.

>>671308
ye forgot the song

>>670046
That match could take many months or years or even never especially if he doesn't pay for a subscription. He only deserved it because he paid first.

>>671191
this isn't even rage bait. this is incoherent yapping of a random person.

I wish I was attractive enough to date down and still get with a decently cute girl.

>>671319
>but I think the logical conclusion is to think more like a hippie
No anon. The logical conclusion is accepting that you were not up for a meaningless fuck. You should not beat yourself up over it.
If anything, investigate the following: why were you not up for it? Introspect. Learn about yourself.

The girl you describe sounds like all these girls i met at raves. Sure, fun to talk to while on molly but i guarantee you: neither is this specific individual 'one of a kind', nor are such people good at leading long term relationships.

>>671196
>It shouldn't I don't date anyways and am not on any apps
Even if you don't use them you'll still wind up with women who do. I reached back out to a woman I met on there years ago, and she wasn't at that time. The moment I left because I hit it off with a friend of mine I thought would be a better partner (she wasn't) and came crawling back she was hooking up with some guy off the app and sent me photos of their dates. She lied about it being with friends, but it was super obvious because you don't use the apps unless you don't have friends. We're still together but it pisses me off thinking about it even though I had a situationship going with that other girl at the same time, especially because we don't fuck as much anymore because she's on crazy pills that made her way less horny.

>>671319

>It seems like you only get your opinions on life from scrolling TikTok and saying hello to elders while going to the bakery. You will be a very sad man on your death bed if you keep going on this way. At least I still feel emotions, strong ones, even if they sometimes they suck, a lot.

Bruh you guys post screenshots of TikTok or Twitter and argue about what's going on in 4chan when you're not moping about how the world deserves to burn for rejecting socialism.

Also, I don't post "I wanna kms bcuz I wasn't some epic revolutionary" or "the no gf"


You guys keep posting on about the same mundane depression over not getting laid or not being born in a utopia.

>generation wars
You guys whine about boomers and zoomers.

>Romanticism

You guys also criticize romanticist policies from liberals

>>671191
This. Beauty is wrongfully over-assigned to women.

Men are not allowed to have any sort of self-value.


>>671319
>It's more the realization that I'm not such a fucked-up person as I thought as I was that makes me feel better, that some people can still desire someone like me even though I have a load of unresolved problems to deal with.
The little sex we had just made me yearn for some more, and now I regret not annoying the whole hostel to put my dick inside her, but it was only a fleeting moment and now it's gone, and even if it had happen, that moment would be gone too.


This sounds like humble bragging. Also, that could just as easily go wrong, ending you up with a sexual harassment charge.

>Most women in my city who may desire me either already have a nice stable bf, or they quickly freak out when they start to understand how fucked up and cynical I can be.

This sounds like more humblebragging

>With this hippie girl, even if I enjoyed making her pants wet with my fingers one night, the more important part for me was bonding with her during a few days and how she was more understanding than most psychopathic humans out there.

I hope this isn't just the desperation talking.

>>671536
This.

wish me luck lads

>>671655
Goated profile
You'll be drowning in pussy in no time bucko
Nice job

anyone else feel like talking to people just feels like a rehash of a previous conversation youve had before?
i also always felt like i would be a good actor, considering how much i have to play pretend when talking to people

The worst policy liberals advocate for is gun control. We have massive cartels from the criminalization of drugs and horrifying mobs during prohibition when Alcohol was banned. Chuds should be banned from owning guns, not everybody.