/siberia/ - Off-topic

>>674013
I'd rather have a nice place to live in than some bleak shithole.

>>673987
>A lot of them. That's one of their biggest problems is they have very feminine personalities.

Oh boy. Another guy who defines "feminine" as "masculine defective".


> I don't know, I guess even men too sometimes need validation from their peers, but overall I think it's a very womanly behavior. A man should stand on the strength of his own convictions.

I beg to differ.
Sometimes men do need validation from his peers. Not everything masculine has to be always self-neglect.

>>673972
>>673974
>>673969

It's all entitlement syndrome from both sides.

>>673966
>Women deciding to remain single and child free is a sign of delusion.

>>673969
Just like those volcel red pill types

>>674017
The post was written by a w*man.

>>674018
Why do people think living quarters with minimal furniture is ontologically derelict?

>>674023
Not even poor people live like that, they just own shittier decaying furniture instead.

>>674024
Maybe in first and second world countries. Idk you may be right.

Human urinal.

its mostly just important to find people who are mature enough to understand that is honestly way better to be with someone different than you that maybe doesnt share every single hobby you do, but respects your interests in them regardless and viceversa

>>673569
>>673997
whats the point of going to the club I kinda dont get it like whats the enjoyment u get out of it. I feel like you need to be on drugs for it to be fun

>>674066
I like dancing, sober, tripping, stoned, it doesn't matter I just like to move. Meeting other people who like to dance and dancing with them is fun.

>>673997
>Literally me. Last time I went out and had *a* drink I became suicidal
Don't drink then stupid. I don't because it makes me feel bad. Other substances don't.

>>673974
Do you think that woman would marry a guy making $50k/year?

>>673169
I'm fine with my junk, thanks. Taking hormones isn't the solution to everything. I think I'm rather good looking for a 30yo man really, the long-haired "sensitive artist" type you know? I wouldn't pass as a woman, I don't need another struggle in my life.
>>673189
Literally who?
>>673224
Mainly due to me drinking too much alcohol, and saying things that should be left unsaid outloud. People are patient at first with your mistakes, then it eventually wears thin. Everyone has flaws, but sometimes you don't need to let them know what they are, they yap a little then they eventually want a kiss to validate both of your existences. Those two ex-gfs are still good friends, but I've inadvertently turned one of them into a hardcore feminist 😓.
>>673818
Forget this post even exists, I'm just venting, there is nothing to gain from that shit. It's fun to travel alone, but you eventually need to say some shit to someone. You should read Eclipse of Reason and that's it.
>>673825
I don't like that way of describing me, but that's probably accurate.
Yes, I can't keep a secret, I won't tell it to the cops, I can handle that kind of pressure, but I will tell it to the wife.
I'm trying to learn to not go stream-of-consciousness on people all the time, some friends give me shit for that, but it's a daily struggle. I want to tell everything to the hippie girl, but as open-minded and gentle as she is, she probably doesn't need to know absolutely everything.
>>673884
Hey come on, that's unfair now. I'm suspicious of everyone who doesn't have vices. They are the normal quiet coworker at the office, then next thing you know, they go to Pattaya bang some 19yo single mom for 1000 baht. They always do that shit behind your back because they are cowards.

>>673979
it actually is the same shit incels do. incels just had a headstart, so to say, because as a guy you are a 'loser' when you do not get your d wet in your teens. combined with the rise of social media over the last ~15 years, the incels simply were able to forment their deranged world view for a bit longer. now that millenoids are well within their 30s, suddenly the females have to rationalize their singlehood, while their peers have families.

looking at >>673658, the behaviour is comparable. there is no actual analysis, nor introspection. instead, there is an echo chamber of an 'in group', her girl friends, likely all to share comparable socio economic background, education, careers. their conclusion is:
>we fine
>reality doesn't match expaction
>it's men not reaching the standards
>some mumbling about emotional intelligece, no further explanation
>switch topic

>>673993
same shit here.
>i don't think i'm asking for something from a man that i can't give myself
yeah well then - whats the point?
>i went to therapy, read books, listened to podcasts
wow. astonishing achievment
>man must at least earn as much as i do
revealing

so to sum it up in a cynical way:
from these two normie millenoids, what i gather is that i'd have to earn as much as they do and to be 'emotionally intelligent' (code for 'dealing with my instability and neuroses').
incels ask for mandatet waifus, these millenoids ask for mandated therapists.

>>674165
I can understand a bit the "emotional intelligence" thing because some men are really dumb. I know, because I've been such a dumb man. Saying things that should be left unsaid. Being insensitive. Not caring enough about what the other person thinks or her own passions and hobbies in life. Thinking I won the game when the game had only started, that kind of things.

However you are right, they are really vague about this "emotional intelligence" stuff. It's also entitlement on their part, because despite making six-figures, they don't seem mature enough to deal with shit when it hits the fan.
They want shiny furniture, a cat and food being delivered. And think about it for 2 seconds: would you want to date such a woman called Ashley from fucking San Diego? She is probably the epitome of a vapid Californian woman. She thinks she is a really deep person for going on vacation in Florence during the high season. She reads slop about some woman having conflicting feelings, the kind of books they sell in airports. None of us want that here.

>>674172
What you describe is more about being empathetic. A skill a lot of women themselves lack severly to be quite honest. We still live in a deeply sexist society which naturally is engrained into children in their upbringing. Consequentially, quite a lot of men are emotionally stunted and lack emotional intelligence, because they never were taught this stuff. On the other side of the spectrum, women are allowed to be emotional, quite over the top sometimes. But honestly, crying because of whatever shit (i'm polemic) isn't a sign of emotional intelligence, either.

As to your second paragraph: agree. These women experience total alienation. They now are first and foremost part of the proletariat (in their case likely labor aristocracy), with all the alienation and vapid meaninglessness that entails.

>>674196
Good post anon, I don't have much to add.
And I say this as someone who loves to cry over sentimental romantic songs, but that's not when I'm the most "emotionally intelligent", it's when I'm able to take a step back and say "alright, this situation is obviously going to shit, how can we fix it with what we have on the spot before I flee like a coward", and I don't think Ashley would be able to handle that, she would still cry about that Uber Eats driver being mean to her.

>>674167
i'm happy for his gainz but his taste in music is shit

>>674162
>I think I'm rather good looking for a 30yo man really, the long-haired "sensitive artist" type you know? I wouldn't pass as a woman, I don't need another struggle in my life.

Thirty isn't old nor ugly. Why do people keep promoting this? If feel or look old/ugly at thirty, you have shitty genetics or shitty diet.

>Hey come on, that's unfair now. I'm suspicious of everyone who doesn't have vices. They are the normal quiet coworker at the office, then next thing you know, they go to Pattaya bang some 19yo single mom for 1000 baht. They always do that shit behind your back because they are cowards.

Not all vices are the same. Some are ok, some are not so ok. It also depends on the personalities. But yea, the seemingly normal upstanding teacher pet types are often the ones with the biggest secrets or they're often the biggest victims.
Anyone who watches true crime documentaries would know.

>>674196
>>674172
For Al the talk of emotional intelligence that women claim themselves to be good at, they themselves have serious flaws. But, polite society makes it impossible to criticize women without being accused of misogyny.

(Actually, women are only permitted to get away with murder if they're young, docile,and slim. Otherwise they have to be rich or something.)

Of course men have problems with emotional intelligence but they're always called out on it and mocked for it.

>>674200
Sentimentality is far too often mistaken for emotional intelligence.
Men are actually very sentimental beings, even more so than women.
And look at the results of that.

I hate how society assumes academic/artistic skills are a sign of moral conscience.
A lot of these bohemian types always wanna complain about the filth of average modern society yet they themselves indulge in more filth than the average "sheeple".

>>674196
>As to your second paragraph: agree. These women experience total alienation. They now are first and foremost part of the proletariat (in their case likely labor aristocracy), with all the alienation and vapid meaninglessness that entails.

Yes and no.
I wish people would stop treating relationship status as the definition of social health.
Just because you cannot find your knight in shining armor or your sweet innocent damsel as a mate doesn't mean society is crumbling.

"Tfw no gf/bf" has turned into some sort of semi-conscious form of entitlement.

>>673972
Those men are an outlier because most men would prefer to be childlessin this socioeconomic climate

>>674165
>now that millenoids are well within their 30s, suddenly the females have to rationalize their singlehood, while their peers have families.

Millennials have been in their thirties since the mid-2010s.
Also, I think it's dumb for people to have to rationalize being single after thirty.
I hate how society uses age numbers as rigid goal posts.
There's people who marry and procreate in their twenties but that's a crime nowadays.
But then these same people who think twenties is too young for marriage and childrearing are the same ones going into premature midlife crisis at the end of their twenties when they find it's difficult to find a mate to do these things.

You cannot have it both ways.
"Enjoy your youth" or "commit".

Imo, people should choose one, not both.
The problem in our society nowadays is that people wanna try to do both and the people who do often are the most miserable.

>>673658
hot take but they are fine with being single because marriage is pretty shitty to begin with and for centuries women had been marrying not out of love, but to enjoy a reasonably financially stable life. this person isn't in a hurry to marry because she feels set for life. this, for one, goes to show that marriage is an outdated institution that will naturally be abolished as soon was wage labor is abolished. but also shows that this woman is retarded, unable to identify that what she really dislikes is spending her rest of her life with a partner who sometimes gets angry or whatever AKA "lacks emotional intelligence", but she also somehow has a masters degree. insane.

>>674279 (me)
also if the financial crisis deepens, people like her will marry anyway, if only to access stuff like credits available only to couples, so don't be surprised if the proud millennial single women of today become tomorrow's happy committed millennial wives

I'm running out of clothes that are not tainted by rape. He always gets me when I'm in my comfy clothes so then I can't wear that set of clothes anymore so then I turn some of my nice clothes into comfy clothes but then they become ruined too. I have a closet full of clothes I can't wear without feeling vile.

>>674284
Have you thought about not getting raped?

1 year. she had to go 1 year without chads cock and you think this is funny? this is actual violence. its inhumane

>>674479
So that's an average of about 1 new dick a month. Not bad.

>>674479
>4000 right swipes
<from a "woman"
Must be trans. Yes, even two right swipes a day is too much for a cis female.

>>674520
>Cis women are too pure
>Only men and trans women are sexually active


LertyPol may as well be RightyPol

>>674521
They're not too pure, they are just very picky and in my experience others are not because even I have managed some success.

>>674520
She has more not matched than matched, so it is very possible she isnt particularly attractive and as such has to lower her standards a little.

Pic related only happens to Chad. It's over…

All sex under a patriarchal system is exploitative and intrusive. Socialism should ban sex.

>>674571
This is the only solution really

>>674571
Good thing we live under a capitalist "system" instead.

this thread is proof that women of the white variety browse leftypol

>>674561
Darn nobody cared about my destructive Chad-pill post?

I don't remember the last time I got a real hug. Even my mom barely hugs me anymore because she's old and feeble and probably hates me too. I have practically zero physical touch with anyone.

>>674608
Your mom might be the only person that wants a hug from you. But yeah if she is fully angloid-pilled she does hate you.

>>674608
Hug yourself
>>674607
I care enough to say I don't care

>>673974
The girls in >>673993 and >>673658 are the ones who hold the patriarchal views in question. Both said they won't accept a guy who makes less than them.
>but the guys-
They are not relevant here, these girls are the ones who have power over their own lives. The contradiction brought on by development is caused by the fact that women are increasingly economically equal to men, so yes, as much as half of women will have to stay single or get a long-term partner who earns less than them, and that clashes with the patriarchal values they absorbed growing up.

tomorrow im going out all on my own because i deserve it and i have money.
i might watch a movie or just eat something nice in the mall, walk around looking at whatever they have there. its a pretty big place

>>674635
sex with prostitute sex or happy ending massage sex

>>674639
im not gonna have sex though

>>673044
>>673618
>>674561
>>674607
>chad this chad that chad these chad those

sorry chad but this is real life, the fat retard gets the girl when your time is frozen

What kind of fetishes do dengoids have?

>>674684
findom on western powers?

>>674684
edging and orgasm denial. they need to wait until 2050 when xi presses the cum button

>>674684
regular gooning