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>>664498>>672550nta but do liberals actually think this is a convincing argument?
loneliness is fake btw, much like "anxiety". these are made up words to describe boredom
>>672564what a pointless question. the answer might be
>>672574 or
>>672588 or even something nice like "too many to count and I always said it back and meant it" but it doesn't matter because it doesn't measure anything.
>>672541>it feels again like a job applicationTHATS WHAT I BEEN FUCKING SAYING!
and i hate applying for jobs, so thats why i gave up on dating
>>672541>>672600That's the point of dating.
It's about assessing the person you're gonna spend your money, body, and other activities with.
>>672608Romantic relationships where both parties are mutually mature adults are rare. Usually it's some toxic parent-child relation or sibling rivalry
>>672614>That's the point of dating.It's about assessing the person you're gonna spend your money, body, and other activities with
Then I hear people on places like reddit say that you shouldn't look it at that that it's just supposed to be fun or whatever. It seems to me that you have to pretend like it's not like a job interview but totally treat it like one just don't call it one
>>672617>Then I hear people on places like reddit say that you shouldn't look it at that that it's just supposed to be fun or whatever. It seems to me that you have to pretend like it's not like a job interview but totally treat it like one just don't call it oneYea I know. People like to make things sound more profound than they really are.
Especially romantic relationships.
You're not allowed to be criticize the aspect of it without being accused of inceldom.
Yet, time and time again, people always whine about being cheated on being bullied, being bummed off,etc
>>672649Don't you guys already spite each other all the time with soyjaks and greentext and BBC posting?
But ok go ahead but don't get upset when I criticize millennials
>>672646Based.
This thread is just the whining general at this point. Posts like
>>672541 are on-topic, but most of the time, it's "women are le bad", essentialism and Newgene seething about millennials and telling you you shouldn't have fun romantic relationships, that only a gray family life with your kids working at the local fast food is acceptable. I'm a millennoid, and I WILL fuck 25yo zoomers, and seething about it here won't change a thing.
If you post about an actual sexual experience while not outright depicting yourself as a megaultragigachad, it's humblebragging and people get outright hostile toward you. It's like a mini /r9k/.
>>672617thats a lot of things in life, if you think about it. the average person tends to ignore the way that things really are and instead choose to perceive it in a specific romanticized/ideological way
like working, instead of admitting that its just a waste of time where theyre making someone else richer, people like to believe that theyre making a difference or whatever
>>672791no joke ive seen so many stories on reddit where the cucks asking for advice because his wife wants to leave him after he forced her to do degenerate cuckold shit
i dont understand how so many men can ruin a perfectly good relationship for the coom. like, just have normal sex
>>672929>his taller wife would wrap her arms…and hang on to him until his grip gave outstrangely wholsome i wish i had somone support me like that to the end, fuck it i wish i had someone to support in his dysmorphia like that
btw i saw an image like pic related where the chenchen says she looks like she fucks short manlets! and the rest say agreed, couldn't find it again
>>672987Ask someone else
>>672989That's why she's a single mom. Maybe she'll find single dad that'll be willing to take her
>>672993no
>>672992actually I have a friend who is a single dad that I might try to set her up with
>>673063Based.
>>673081It's funny until you meet one of them IRL, then you realize it's just the result of childhood sexual abuse and sad.
>>672776Ok, so, first of all, I will say that being good at sex isn't truly an individual skill, but depends on the partner you have. If you are with someone who has anorgasmia, you will always feel like you are terrible at sex, and that won't truly be your fault.
Now I'm gonna assume you have relatively sensual partner who is into you, and I will assume it's a woman.
The main trick is pretty simple: make sure you spend quite a while doing foreplay before going all in.
So that means kissing, caressing your partner body a bit everywhere (shoulders, elbows, thighs, legs, butt), licking and biting ear lobes gently perhaps, licking nipples in a circular motion then in a vertical motion, caressing the crotch with underwear/clothes still on, and so on, then ultimately putting your hand inside.
For fingering, you should focus on the clitoris first, then you put one finger, then two, later. I think quite a few women like it when you caress the upper side/wall of their vagina, because that's near the G spot, but some might not, perhaps.
That's the thing about sex, some woman are more into clitoridal stimulation, some more into vaginal, some like it when you do this, some don't, everyone is different. So it's important to communicate
even if I think too much explicit communication can kill a vibe, whispering "do you like it when I do that?" for example, that's sexy.
Then you will have to go down there, with your tongue.
Unless she doesn't want to, and she doesn't, well she might have her reasons, but that's a bad sign.
Before doing it, I like to kiss her belly a few times because it's cute :3
It might stink a bit but generally it doesn't, and it won't kill you unless she has some badass diseases I haven't seen yet.
So again, like fingering, focus first on the clitoris. Change the way you lick it every once in a while: going up-down-up-down, or only up, or circular, you need to have fun and moans will guide about what is good and isn't. You can lick it slowly with long motions, or fast with small motions, you can do something in-between, you have to modulate that.
It's kinda like guitar playing, right-hand technique (or left-hand if you are a lefty), depending on the strokes you do, you get a different attack. Well it's the same thing. It's more fun to vary the motions than not to.
Then there is the rest of the whole apparatus. If she has long lips, you can lick them too, or even suck them a bit in-between your mouth lips, why not? Feel free to experiment a little, as long as you are respectful and
gentle.
I personally like to put my tongue inside the vagina every once in a while, because I've read a pornstar interview where she was complaining that men never do that and only focus on the clitoris, and it's funny because as a teenager I initially thought that's what cunnilingus was all about lol. One man told me not to, but I don't trust them.
If you did this long and well enough, and she is receptive, she should be very wet by now, perhaps already had an orgasm, so it's time.
What is there to say about it?
At first, obviously, enter slowly, this thing is fragile, be
gentle.
Like cunnilingus, vary the parameters of the way you penetrate her: go slow first, then faster, then faster, then you calm down, then go fast, and so on, that kind of thing. You can do short motions, you can do long motions. This thing is fragile, but once lubricated and expanded to accommodate your junk, it can handle a lot of friction.
I don't know, man, your brain should be on autopilot mode at this point.
About endurance: Sometimes it happens that we can only last 1 or 2 minutes because we are too horny and that's okay. You can do it again later in the night, and the next time you will probably last longer.
Sometimes it also happens that we cannot cum. It happened to me several times after drinking a lot. Well it can be fun for the girl, but at some point it stops being fun (usually after 30-45 minutes, tho it can be further than that), and she tells you "man, I had enough", or you are tired and you still have a boner but no more energy left. Well that sucks, but we can't always win in life.
The optimum duration I think is around 20-25 minutes. 10 minutes is still fine. Said like this, it might not seem like much, but if you did enough foreplay, it's fine really, and penetrative sex is quite a physical activity.
And again, you can cum several times in a day/night, you know.
Okay, I've said enough. I will end this post just like I started it: your partner is as important as you, in every sense of the word. That means, if she sucks at sex, the sex will be bad and the above tips won't work. If she is good at sex, she will teach things you will never forget for the rest of your life :)
Enjoy!
>>672792>>672769>seething about millennials and telling you you shouldn't have fun romantic relationships, that only a gray family life with your kids working at the local fast food is acceptable.One, this board whines about zoomers all the time.
And two, most fun romantic relationships end up as grey full family life where the kids end up working in fast food for livelihood because nobody taught them about trades or whatnot.
Besides, romantic relationships are incentives for humans to breed
>>672971This is bait made make incels and their sympathisers seethe.
Although, with these kind of women we have nowadays, I won't put it past them.
>>672981>>672989This is why I have no respect for "reformed" degenerates.
I hate how society allows men and women who fooled around in their prime a "second chance" (being a dysfunctional spouse/parent).
People complain about skut shaming but virgin shaming is much more prevalent
Single childless virginal males get far less respect than dysfunctional tainted males
>>672793Women do the same thing too.
Most people look down on plain vanilla sex.
They always feel entitled to more "spicy" things.
>>672829>>672773The worst part is that people actually start to believe their own copium.
Thats why we get reactionaries
Idealism is worse than any drug addiction.
In fact, idealism is what motivates drug addiction tbh.
>>673144Foreplay is the most important part of sex.
In fact, you can have sex without any penetration if you do it right
>>673147>Foreplay is the most important part of sex.>In fact, you can have sex without any penetration if you do it rightDamn I finally agree on something with Newgene, nice!
Indeed, once you get the hang of it, it can be as pleasant if not more than the penetration. At first it might be awkward though, but we all have to learn, and we never stop learning.
I have a fond memory of such foreplay during a birthday, spent a whole afternoon cooking moussaka (ladies find this hot, protips: grate cheese on the upper layer at the end, and use a lot of olive oil when cooking the eggplants and the tomato sauce, Med cuisine is actually pretty greasy), by then after digestion and some drinks, I was too drunk to get it up, so I licked her pussy on the floor like there was no tomorrow. Man, I miss her now. She was one of the only two girls with whom I had a real connection, the thing when you start flirting intensely, then once you start having sex, you can't stop doing it again and again and again, and in-between, you talk about everything in life there is to talk about. When you have such a relationship, do everything possible to keep it, otherwise you will never stop thinking about the "what if?" and "I messed up".
Ok, enough
humblebragging. I realized I forgot to mention something really important in my post: rhythm.
Sex is like a dance, it's all about rhythm and moves. Really, if you want to get good, you need to see that way sometimes. I doesn't hurt to dance IRL to music, to get some feeling of you should do. Think about it, people sometimes flirt when they dance, simply because they are dancing and like each other style.
Oh and obviously, you can lick a pussy and finger it at the same time, but y'all already knew that, right? It's not a either/or situation.
If I have kids, I will force them to study Russian literature and write a PhD thesis on Gogol. Then once they will understand everything there is to understand about 19th-century Russia, they will get a comfy HR job at an useless office.
It's never to late to learn a trade. I'm thinking about becoming a locksmith these days, because the corporate world sucks, and everyone needs locks, and the lockpicking community is fascinating, even if I suck at it.
Newgene, I disagree on reformed degenerates. I think unless you do something terrible like murder, you deserve a second chance, once you stop being an annoying cunt. Our lives are already shitty enough as it is, no need to put us downer than we already are.
And drug addiction, I could talk about it at length, but that German bus company fucking scammed me, and now I have to hitchhike to my next destination. Don't use FlixBus in the Balkans.
Let's just say I don't like how /leftypol/ uses idealism to say "having convictions", "being optimist" or "having ideas about how the world could be better", because otherwise, communists are literally idealists in that sense.
When Marx (or Lenin, or Nietzsche for that matter) criticized idealism, they refered to a specific philosophical position, which posit the superiority of Ideas over Matter. To give a concrete example, it's typically Plato's theory of forms, Berkeley's absolute idealism, or Hegel thinking there is an absolute Idea which advances history in a dialectical fashion, or some shit like this. Materialism posits the inverse: ideas stems from the material conditions of humanity. That's all really, it's not that deep. Read the first few pages of Max Horkheimer's Eclipse of Reason to better understand idealism if you are interested.
Thinking a lot of about "society ought to be more like this" might have played a role in my alcoholism. But I think the more important factor was that I was bullied at school when I was a young kid by both schoolmates and my step-dad. I'm an anxious person and alcohol calms that little annoying voice who tell me to worry about literally everything. I eventually need to get treatment though because I won't have a stable girlfriend and a calm gray family life if I keep drinking 5-6 liters of beer a day and chain smoking like a burning forest.
Alright, the venting therapy is over, time to hitchhike now. Take care, y'all.
>>673164>Newgene, I disagree on reformed degenerates. I think unless you do something terrible like murder, you deserve a second chance, once you stop being an annoying cunt. Our lives are already shitty enough as it is, no need to put us downer than we already are.Of course you'd say that.
When I say "reformed" degenerates, I don't mean actual repentants for serious crimes.
I mean the typical mundane shittiness of people who "turn a new leaf" out of social convenience.
I'm sorry but if you fooled around too much in your prime, you should just live with that.
I don't think it's right for such people to be allowed a spouse and kids.
They're already tainted.
Also, most people's lives are shitty due to degenerates always being enabled to wreak havoc.
People like to say "forgive and forget"?
Fuck that.
Always forgive, but NEVER EVER forget.
As much as I hate to say it, but I think the only relationships that can work are people who are mutually virginal or have a body count of three at maximum.
Also you tell me to stop being an annoying cunt when you say stuff like this:
>If I have kids, I will force them to study Russian literature and write a PhD thesis on Gogol. Then once they will understand everything there is to understand about 19th-century Russia, they will get a comfy HR job at an useless office.And you accuse me of "soft eugenics"?
What's up with people wanting to impose their unfulfilled fantasies onto their hypothetical offspring?
IMO that's worse than any "soft eugenics".
In fact at this point I think "eugenics" is just an indignatory rebuttal used by mediocre people who feel entitled to pass off their genes with no forethought.
>Thinking a lot of about "society ought to be more like this" might have played a role in my alcoholism. But I think the more important factor was that I was bullied at school when I was a young kid by both schoolmates and my step-dad. I'm an anxious person and alcohol calms that little annoying voice who tell me to worry about literally everything. I eventually need to get treatment though because I won't have a stable girlfriend and a calm gray family life if I keep drinking 5-6 liters of beer a day and chain smoking like a burning forest.At this point it's too late. All that booze and emotional trauma you have isn't gonna make you be that wonderful husband/father you dream of becoming.
Most people who have psychological baggage often end up as dysfunctional spouses/parents.
Also, as an alcoholic, you will never be held in contempt as much. You will always be sympathised.
I've had enough of dealing with booze heads. Always loud and obnoxious and pinking all over the place.
Either that or they walk too slowly due to being hammered all the time.
Also, bullying is taken far too lightly. Adults shrug it off as "kids being kids" until one of them ends up dead or bleeding from their orifices.
And you had a step-dad?
Was it because your real dad died or was no good or what?
>And drug addiction, I could talk about it at length, but that German bus company fucking scammed me, and now I have to hitchhike to my next destination. Don't use FlixBus in the Balkans.This is why I always prefer air travel.
Busses are ground based so anyone is allowed in. Which means: drunks, sexual predators, druggies, delinquents, unruly children, etc.
With air travel, they cannot afford any stupidity so they have to screen. And they cannot afford to be willfully careless with baggage.
>Let's just say I don't like how /leftypol/ uses idealism to say "having convictions", "being optimist" or "having ideas about how the world could be better", because otherwise, communists are literally idealists in that sense.If communism isn't idealism, idk what is.
Especially here on LeftyPol where people propose the most outlandish ideas of how their communist society would run
Most suggestions I see here are just capitalism revised with leftist lingo
>When Marx (or Lenin, or Nietzsche for that matter) criticized idealism, they refered to a specific philosophical position, which posit the superiority of Ideas over Matter. To give a concrete example, it's typically Plato's theory of forms, Berkeley's absolute idealism, or Hegel thinking there is an absolute Idea which advances history in a dialectical fashion, or some shit like this. Materialism posits the inverse: ideas stems from the material conditions of humanity. That's all really, it's not that deep. Read the first few pages of Max Horkheimer's Eclipse of Reason to better understand idealism if you are interested.Most philosophy is just idealism.
Irony is most of those historical philosophers that modern folk praise were often self absorbed pricks who thought plebians were dummies who don't deserve education.
>>673541Believe it or not, it's possible to be witty and clever and still go home without pussy.
It's much harder to be sexless if you're good looking though.
>>673575Why are men against buying furniture?
It took me 3 months to convince a friend to get a table to eat at instead of the floor or his bed, which was just a mattress on the ground
>>673605Maybe because they live in crummy apartments?
Otherwise men aren't against buying furniture.
>>673606This.
Irony is. Most young women nowadays don't do physical sex. It's all cybersex. They will charge ten dollars for a handful of pics
>>673601>>673576Smart men would never put their dicks inside women.
They wouldn't waste time with women. They would stick to porn.
Or invest in VR
>>673616Smart men would invest in their own livelihoods like the women are. Women have the common option of finding a man who will financially support them. For men that is much less-likely, yet the women are the ones making sure they are investing in their careers and such.
I'll tell you from experience that just having a place and such is all you need. You can find women to fuck that just want a place to crash at. I wouldn't trust them. Better check your ring doorbell lmao, but just keep your household together and you can find whatever woman that wants to play house with you.
>>673628This. Even as a kid, I always felt like that platitude is pure copium.
If anything, it's better to never love at all because relationships cost money, venereal health, and potential reputation.
The worst part about dysfunctional relationships are the kids that result from it. Theyre the ones who have to a shitload of therapy to overcome
>>673614>Maybe because they live in crummy apartments?This, I did not like my first apartment all that much so I never
invested in it. I left 95% of my stuff at my parents' house.
>>673605because it makes cleaning harder, not only do they gather dust and enable hoarding, they give insects and rats sanctuary. recently I have been selling all the stuff I don't use and my life has never been better, I don't need a wardrobe when all my clothes can fit in a duffel bag or a bed when the mattress can simply be on the ground. I have been thinking of removing the mattress and just sleeping on the floor but this place is too cold for that and I don't have a reliable and cheap source of cardboard. needless to say, I can vacuum this entire place in like 30 minutes because I don't have to wrangle and wrestle the furniture around
I was homeless for a brief period of my life and one thing I learned is that I don't mind not having a table
>>673772Fucking this. Part of why alot of homes are dirty is because too much furniture being put by corners and whatnot.
Women love to complain about men having no taste in fashion or house design but these same women will buy a shitload of shoes and trinkets and let them sit in their closets for years, don't even touch them
Society has become more hypercritical of male nunaces, assuming them to be automatically dumb just because men arent expected to these cutesy dolls
>>673787That's dumb reasoning.
Men like nice things too. Not everything men do is for female approval.
This kind of reasoning is self fulfilling prophecy.
>>673789nta but he didn't say anything about all men nor about being a man himself
but it is crazy that you think people are acting out just because they don't like having shelves around
>>673825Just like those teachers pet sibling types who tell s mom every single incident you get into.
Hey,for some weird reason,they have serious vices that they hide until police intervention comes.
>>673979A lot of them. That's one of their biggest problems is they have very feminine personalities. I don't know, I guess even men too sometimes need validation from their peers, but overall I think it's a very womanly behavior. A man should stand on the strength of his own convictions.
But I guess most of these incels don't even have IRL friends.
>>673984True, true.
I think there is a difference because even in incelish spaces like this thread, people will tell guys to suck it up and deal with reality and make it work for them if they want to get laid/get a gf whatever. The worst possible is being like this woman and trying to rationalize her behavior that doesn't get her what she wants.
>Pat M., a 31-year-old woman based in Chicago, Illinois, has sparked discussion among viewers on TikTok after sharing the reason why she has chosen to remain single.
>While the idea of being coupled up by one's thirties is frequently glorified online, Pat, who works in a corporate job, wants to focus on herself. Her post from January 22, in which she explains why she is not being "picky" by decentering dating, has since been viewed over 721,000 times and liked by more than 103,000 viewers. TikTok users were able to see Pat sitting in her car, speaking candidly into her camera lens about a recent conversation with her 63-year-old father, who had questioned whether she was becoming "too picky" in love as she grew older.
<"I'm 31, and I've chosen to remain single at the moment," Pat told viewers on TikTok. "I have standards, and they're not high standards.
<"I don't think I'm asking for something from a man that I can't give myself."
>The video resonated widely, especially among women, as Pat emphasized the therapeutic and educational work she had done to become emotionally intelligent and self-aware—and her expectation that a potential partner would have done similar work.
<"I have taken so many years to get an education, to build a career for myself, and I am at a disadvantage in comparison to a man," Pat said in her video. "If you start off with an upper hand to me, there should be no excuse as to why you can't at least meet me where I am."
>Pat told Newsweek that she had faced a grueling few years of setbacks: losing her home, her career, her relationship, and her sense of direction. Despite these challenges, the trials ultimately fortified her sense of self over the past few months.
<"At 31, I had a very solid understanding of who I was and, most importantly, who I was not," Pat, who had since started a new job, told Newsweek. "I know magnificent men exist because I exist, and I truly believe I am an incredible woman that has so much to offer."
>>673987>A lot of them. That's one of their biggest problems is they have very feminine personalities.Oh boy. Another guy who defines "feminine" as "masculine defective".
> I don't know, I guess even men too sometimes need validation from their peers, but overall I think it's a very womanly behavior. A man should stand on the strength of his own convictions.I beg to differ.
Sometimes men do need validation from his peers. Not everything masculine has to be always self-neglect.
>>673972>>673974>>673969It's all entitlement syndrome from both sides.
>>673966>Women deciding to remain single and child free is a sign of delusion.>>673969Just like those volcel red pill types
>>674066I like dancing, sober, tripping, stoned, it doesn't matter I just like to move. Meeting other people who like to dance and dancing with them is fun.
>>673997>Literally me. Last time I went out and had *a* drink I became suicidalDon't drink then stupid. I don't because it makes me feel bad. Other substances don't.
>>673169I'm fine with my junk, thanks. Taking hormones isn't the solution to everything. I think I'm rather good looking for a 30yo man really, the long-haired "sensitive artist" type you know? I wouldn't pass as a woman, I don't need another struggle in my life.
>>673189Literally who?
>>673224Mainly due to me drinking too much alcohol, and saying things that should be left unsaid outloud. People are patient at first with your mistakes, then it eventually wears thin. Everyone has flaws, but sometimes you don't need to let them know what they are, they yap a little then they eventually want a kiss to validate both of your existences. Those two ex-gfs are still good friends, but I've inadvertently turned one of them into a hardcore feminist 😓.
>>673818Forget this post even exists, I'm just venting, there is nothing to gain from that shit. It's fun to travel alone, but you eventually need to say some shit to someone. You should read Eclipse of Reason and that's it.
>>673825I don't like that way of describing me, but that's probably accurate.
Yes, I can't keep a secret, I won't tell it to the cops, I can handle that kind of pressure, but I will tell it to the wife.
I'm trying to learn to not go stream-of-consciousness on people all the time, some friends give me shit for that, but it's a daily struggle. I want to tell everything to the hippie girl, but as open-minded and gentle as she is, she probably doesn't need to know absolutely everything.
>>673884Hey come on, that's unfair now. I'm suspicious of everyone who doesn't have vices. They are the normal quiet coworker at the office, then next thing you know, they go to Pattaya bang some 19yo single mom for 1000 baht. They always do that shit behind your back because they are cowards.
>>673979it actually is the same shit incels do. incels just had a headstart, so to say, because as a guy you are a 'loser' when you do not get your d wet in your teens. combined with the rise of social media over the last ~15 years, the incels simply were able to forment their deranged world view for a bit longer. now that millenoids are well within their 30s, suddenly the females have to rationalize their singlehood, while their peers have families.
looking at
>>673658, the behaviour is comparable. there is no actual analysis, nor introspection. instead, there is an echo chamber of an 'in group', her girl friends, likely all to share comparable socio economic background, education, careers. their conclusion is:
>we fine>reality doesn't match expaction>it's men not reaching the standards>some mumbling about emotional intelligece, no further explanation>switch topic>>673993same shit here.
>i don't think i'm asking for something from a man that i can't give myselfyeah well then - whats the point?
>i went to therapy, read books, listened to podcastswow. astonishing achievment
>man must at least earn as much as i dorevealing
so to sum it up in a cynical way:
from these two normie millenoids, what i gather is that i'd have to earn as much as they do and to be 'emotionally intelligent' (code for 'dealing with my instability and neuroses').
incels ask for mandatet waifus, these millenoids ask for mandated therapists.
>>674165I can understand a bit the "emotional intelligence" thing because some men are really dumb. I know, because I've been such a dumb man. Saying things that should be left unsaid. Being insensitive. Not caring enough about what the other person thinks or her own passions and hobbies in life. Thinking I won the game when the game had only started, that kind of things.
However you are right, they are really vague about this "emotional intelligence" stuff. It's also entitlement on their part, because despite making six-figures, they don't seem mature enough to deal with shit when it hits the fan.
They want shiny furniture, a cat and food being delivered. And think about it for 2 seconds: would you want to date such a woman called Ashley from fucking San Diego? She is probably the epitome of a vapid Californian woman. She thinks she is a really deep person for going on vacation in Florence during the high season. She reads slop about some woman having conflicting feelings, the kind of books they sell in airports. None of us want that here.
>>674172What you describe is more about being empathetic. A skill a lot of women themselves lack severly to be quite honest. We still live in a deeply sexist society which naturally is engrained into children in their upbringing. Consequentially, quite a lot of men are emotionally stunted and lack emotional intelligence, because they never were taught this stuff. On the other side of the spectrum, women are allowed to be emotional, quite over the top sometimes. But honestly, crying because of whatever shit (i'm polemic) isn't a sign of emotional intelligence, either.
As to your second paragraph: agree. These women experience total alienation. They now are first and foremost part of the proletariat (in their case likely labor aristocracy), with all the alienation and vapid meaninglessness that entails.
>>674196Good post anon, I don't have much to add.
And I say this as someone who loves to cry over sentimental romantic songs, but that's not when I'm the most "emotionally intelligent", it's when I'm able to take a step back and say "alright, this situation is obviously going to shit, how can we fix it with what we have on the spot before I flee like a coward", and I don't think Ashley would be able to handle that, she would still cry about that Uber Eats driver being mean to her.
>>674162>I think I'm rather good looking for a 30yo man really, the long-haired "sensitive artist" type you know? I wouldn't pass as a woman, I don't need another struggle in my life.Thirty isn't old nor ugly. Why do people keep promoting this? If feel or look old/ugly at thirty, you have shitty genetics or shitty diet.
>Hey come on, that's unfair now. I'm suspicious of everyone who doesn't have vices. They are the normal quiet coworker at the office, then next thing you know, they go to Pattaya bang some 19yo single mom for 1000 baht. They always do that shit behind your back because they are cowards.Not all vices are the same. Some are ok, some are not so ok. It also depends on the personalities. But yea, the seemingly normal upstanding teacher pet types are often the ones with the biggest secrets or they're often the biggest victims.
Anyone who watches true crime documentaries would know.
>>674196>>674172For Al the talk of emotional intelligence that women claim themselves to be good at, they themselves have serious flaws. But, polite society makes it impossible to criticize women without being accused of misogyny.
(Actually, women are only permitted to get away with murder if they're young, docile,and slim. Otherwise they have to be rich or something.)
Of course men have problems with emotional intelligence but they're always called out on it and mocked for it.
>>674200Sentimentality is far too often mistaken for emotional intelligence.
Men are actually very sentimental beings, even more so than women.
And look at the results of that.
I hate how society assumes academic/artistic skills are a sign of moral conscience.
A lot of these bohemian types always wanna complain about the filth of average modern society yet they themselves indulge in more filth than the average "sheeple".
>>674196>As to your second paragraph: agree. These women experience total alienation. They now are first and foremost part of the proletariat (in their case likely labor aristocracy), with all the alienation and vapid meaninglessness that entails.Yes and no.
I wish people would stop treating relationship status as the definition of social health.
Just because you cannot find your knight in shining armor or your sweet innocent damsel as a mate doesn't mean society is crumbling.
"Tfw no gf/bf" has turned into some sort of semi-conscious form of entitlement.
>>673972Those men are an outlier because most men would prefer to be childlessin this socioeconomic climate
>>674165>now that millenoids are well within their 30s, suddenly the females have to rationalize their singlehood, while their peers have families.Millennials have been in their thirties since the mid-2010s.
Also, I think it's dumb for people to have to rationalize being single after thirty.
I hate how society uses age numbers as rigid goal posts.
There's people who marry and procreate in their twenties but that's a crime nowadays.
But then these same people who think twenties is too young for marriage and childrearing are the same ones going into premature midlife crisis at the end of their twenties when they find it's difficult to find a mate to do these things.
You cannot have it both ways.
"Enjoy your youth" or "commit".
Imo, people should choose one, not both.
The problem in our society nowadays is that people wanna try to do both and the people who do often are the most miserable.
>>674279 (me)
also if the financial crisis deepens, people like her will marry anyway, if only to access stuff like credits available only to couples, so don't be surprised if the proud millennial single women of today become tomorrow's happy committed millennial wives
>>674608Hug yourself
>>674607I care enough to say I don't care
>>673974The girls in
>>673993 and
>>673658 are the ones who hold the patriarchal views in question. Both said they won't accept a guy who makes less than them.
>but the guys-They are not relevant here, these girls are the ones who have power over their own lives. The contradiction brought on by development is caused by the fact that women are increasingly economically equal to men, so yes, as much as half of women will have to stay single or get a long-term partner who earns less than them, and that clashes with the patriarchal values they absorbed growing up.
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