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>>672550nta but do liberals actually think this is a convincing argument?
loneliness is fake btw, much like "anxiety". these are made up words to describe boredom
>>672564what a pointless question. the answer might be
>>672574 or
>>672588 or even something nice like "too many to count and I always said it back and meant it" but it doesn't matter because it doesn't measure anything.
>>672541>it feels again like a job applicationTHATS WHAT I BEEN FUCKING SAYING!
and i hate applying for jobs, so thats why i gave up on dating
>>672541>>672600That's the point of dating.
It's about assessing the person you're gonna spend your money, body, and other activities with.
>>672608Romantic relationships where both parties are mutually mature adults are rare. Usually it's some toxic parent-child relation or sibling rivalry
>>672614>That's the point of dating.It's about assessing the person you're gonna spend your money, body, and other activities with
Then I hear people on places like reddit say that you shouldn't look it at that that it's just supposed to be fun or whatever. It seems to me that you have to pretend like it's not like a job interview but totally treat it like one just don't call it one
>>672617>Then I hear people on places like reddit say that you shouldn't look it at that that it's just supposed to be fun or whatever. It seems to me that you have to pretend like it's not like a job interview but totally treat it like one just don't call it oneYea I know. People like to make things sound more profound than they really are.
Especially romantic relationships.
You're not allowed to be criticize the aspect of it without being accused of inceldom.
Yet, time and time again, people always whine about being cheated on being bullied, being bummed off,etc
>>672649Don't you guys already spite each other all the time with soyjaks and greentext and BBC posting?
But ok go ahead but don't get upset when I criticize millennials
>>672646Based.
This thread is just the whining general at this point. Posts like
>>672541 are on-topic, but most of the time, it's "women are le bad", essentialism and Newgene seething about millennials and telling you you shouldn't have fun romantic relationships, that only a gray family life with your kids working at the local fast food is acceptable. I'm a millennoid, and I WILL fuck 25yo zoomers, and seething about it here won't change a thing.
If you post about an actual sexual experience while not outright depicting yourself as a megaultragigachad, it's humblebragging and people get outright hostile toward you. It's like a mini /r9k/.
>>672617thats a lot of things in life, if you think about it. the average person tends to ignore the way that things really are and instead choose to perceive it in a specific romanticized/ideological way
like working, instead of admitting that its just a waste of time where theyre making someone else richer, people like to believe that theyre making a difference or whatever
>>672791no joke ive seen so many stories on reddit where the cucks asking for advice because his wife wants to leave him after he forced her to do degenerate cuckold shit
i dont understand how so many men can ruin a perfectly good relationship for the coom. like, just have normal sex
>>672929>his taller wife would wrap her arms…and hang on to him until his grip gave outstrangely wholsome i wish i had somone support me like that to the end, fuck it i wish i had someone to support in his dysmorphia like that
btw i saw an image like pic related where the chenchen says she looks like she fucks short manlets! and the rest say agreed, couldn't find it again
>>672987Ask someone else
>>672989That's why she's a single mom. Maybe she'll find single dad that'll be willing to take her
>>672993no
>>672992actually I have a friend who is a single dad that I might try to set her up with
>>673063Based.
>>673081It's funny until you meet one of them IRL, then you realize it's just the result of childhood sexual abuse and sad.
>>672776Ok, so, first of all, I will say that being good at sex isn't truly an individual skill, but depends on the partner you have. If you are with someone who has anorgasmia, you will always feel like you are terrible at sex, and that won't truly be your fault.
Now I'm gonna assume you have relatively sensual partner who is into you, and I will assume it's a woman.
The main trick is pretty simple: make sure you spend quite a while doing foreplay before going all in.
So that means kissing, caressing your partner body a bit everywhere (shoulders, elbows, thighs, legs, butt), licking and biting ear lobes gently perhaps, licking nipples in a circular motion then in a vertical motion, caressing the crotch with underwear/clothes still on, and so on, then ultimately putting your hand inside.
For fingering, you should focus on the clitoris first, then you put one finger, then two, later. I think quite a few women like it when you caress the upper side/wall of their vagina, because that's near the G spot, but some might not, perhaps.
That's the thing about sex, some woman are more into clitoridal stimulation, some more into vaginal, some like it when you do this, some don't, everyone is different. So it's important to communicate
even if I think too much explicit communication can kill a vibe, whispering "do you like it when I do that?" for example, that's sexy.
Then you will have to go down there, with your tongue.
Unless she doesn't want to, and she doesn't, well she might have her reasons, but that's a bad sign.
Before doing it, I like to kiss her belly a few times because it's cute :3
It might stink a bit but generally it doesn't, and it won't kill you unless she has some badass diseases I haven't seen yet.
So again, like fingering, focus first on the clitoris. Change the way you lick it every once in a while: going up-down-up-down, or only up, or circular, you need to have fun and moans will guide about what is good and isn't. You can lick it slowly with long motions, or fast with small motions, you can do something in-between, you have to modulate that.
It's kinda like guitar playing, right-hand technique (or left-hand if you are a lefty), depending on the strokes you do, you get a different attack. Well it's the same thing. It's more fun to vary the motions than not to.
Then there is the rest of the whole apparatus. If she has long lips, you can lick them too, or even suck them a bit in-between your mouth lips, why not? Feel free to experiment a little, as long as you are respectful and
gentle.
I personally like to put my tongue inside the vagina every once in a while, because I've read a pornstar interview where she was complaining that men never do that and only focus on the clitoris, and it's funny because as a teenager I initially thought that's what cunnilingus was all about lol. One man told me not to, but I don't trust them.
If you did this long and well enough, and she is receptive, she should be very wet by now, perhaps already had an orgasm, so it's time.
What is there to say about it?
At first, obviously, enter slowly, this thing is fragile, be
gentle.
Like cunnilingus, vary the parameters of the way you penetrate her: go slow first, then faster, then faster, then you calm down, then go fast, and so on, that kind of thing. You can do short motions, you can do long motions. This thing is fragile, but once lubricated and expanded to accommodate your junk, it can handle a lot of friction.
I don't know, man, your brain should be on autopilot mode at this point.
About endurance: Sometimes it happens that we can only last 1 or 2 minutes because we are too horny and that's okay. You can do it again later in the night, and the next time you will probably last longer.
Sometimes it also happens that we cannot cum. It happened to me several times after drinking a lot. Well it can be fun for the girl, but at some point it stops being fun (usually after 30-45 minutes, tho it can be further than that), and she tells you "man, I had enough", or you are tired and you still have a boner but no more energy left. Well that sucks, but we can't always win in life.
The optimum duration I think is around 20-25 minutes. 10 minutes is still fine. Said like this, it might not seem like much, but if you did enough foreplay, it's fine really, and penetrative sex is quite a physical activity.
And again, you can cum several times in a day/night, you know.
Okay, I've said enough. I will end this post just like I started it: your partner is as important as you, in every sense of the word. That means, if she sucks at sex, the sex will be bad and the above tips won't work. If she is good at sex, she will teach things you will never forget for the rest of your life :)
Enjoy!
>>672792>>672769>seething about millennials and telling you you shouldn't have fun romantic relationships, that only a gray family life with your kids working at the local fast food is acceptable.One, this board whines about zoomers all the time.
And two, most fun romantic relationships end up as grey full family life where the kids end up working in fast food for livelihood because nobody taught them about trades or whatnot.
Besides, romantic relationships are incentives for humans to breed
>>672971This is bait made make incels and their sympathisers seethe.
Although, with these kind of women we have nowadays, I won't put it past them.
>>672981>>672989This is why I have no respect for "reformed" degenerates.
I hate how society allows men and women who fooled around in their prime a "second chance" (being a dysfunctional spouse/parent).
People complain about skut shaming but virgin shaming is much more prevalent
Single childless virginal males get far less respect than dysfunctional tainted males
>>672793Women do the same thing too.
Most people look down on plain vanilla sex.
They always feel entitled to more "spicy" things.
>>672829>>672773The worst part is that people actually start to believe their own copium.
Thats why we get reactionaries
Idealism is worse than any drug addiction.
In fact, idealism is what motivates drug addiction tbh.
>>673144Foreplay is the most important part of sex.
In fact, you can have sex without any penetration if you do it right
>>673147>Foreplay is the most important part of sex.>In fact, you can have sex without any penetration if you do it rightDamn I finally agree on something with Newgene, nice!
Indeed, once you get the hang of it, it can be as pleasant if not more than the penetration. At first it might be awkward though, but we all have to learn, and we never stop learning.
I have a fond memory of such foreplay during a birthday, spent a whole afternoon cooking moussaka (ladies find this hot, protips: grate cheese on the upper layer at the end, and use a lot of olive oil when cooking the eggplants and the tomato sauce, Med cuisine is actually pretty greasy), by then after digestion and some drinks, I was too drunk to get it up, so I licked her pussy on the floor like there was no tomorrow. Man, I miss her now. She was one of the only two girls with whom I had a real connection, the thing when you start flirting intensely, then once you start having sex, you can't stop doing it again and again and again, and in-between, you talk about everything in life there is to talk about. When you have such a relationship, do everything possible to keep it, otherwise you will never stop thinking about the "what if?" and "I messed up".
Ok, enough
humblebragging. I realized I forgot to mention something really important in my post: rhythm.
Sex is like a dance, it's all about rhythm and moves. Really, if you want to get good, you need to see that way sometimes. I doesn't hurt to dance IRL to music, to get some feeling of you should do. Think about it, people sometimes flirt when they dance, simply because they are dancing and like each other style.
Oh and obviously, you can lick a pussy and finger it at the same time, but y'all already knew that, right? It's not a either/or situation.
If I have kids, I will force them to study Russian literature and write a PhD thesis on Gogol. Then once they will understand everything there is to understand about 19th-century Russia, they will get a comfy HR job at an useless office.
It's never to late to learn a trade. I'm thinking about becoming a locksmith these days, because the corporate world sucks, and everyone needs locks, and the lockpicking community is fascinating, even if I suck at it.
Newgene, I disagree on reformed degenerates. I think unless you do something terrible like murder, you deserve a second chance, once you stop being an annoying cunt. Our lives are already shitty enough as it is, no need to put us downer than we already are.
And drug addiction, I could talk about it at length, but that German bus company fucking scammed me, and now I have to hitchhike to my next destination. Don't use FlixBus in the Balkans.
Let's just say I don't like how /leftypol/ uses idealism to say "having convictions", "being optimist" or "having ideas about how the world could be better", because otherwise, communists are literally idealists in that sense.
When Marx (or Lenin, or Nietzsche for that matter) criticized idealism, they refered to a specific philosophical position, which posit the superiority of Ideas over Matter. To give a concrete example, it's typically Plato's theory of forms, Berkeley's absolute idealism, or Hegel thinking there is an absolute Idea which advances history in a dialectical fashion, or some shit like this. Materialism posits the inverse: ideas stems from the material conditions of humanity. That's all really, it's not that deep. Read the first few pages of Max Horkheimer's Eclipse of Reason to better understand idealism if you are interested.
Thinking a lot of about "society ought to be more like this" might have played a role in my alcoholism. But I think the more important factor was that I was bullied at school when I was a young kid by both schoolmates and my step-dad. I'm an anxious person and alcohol calms that little annoying voice who tell me to worry about literally everything. I eventually need to get treatment though because I won't have a stable girlfriend and a calm gray family life if I keep drinking 5-6 liters of beer a day and chain smoking like a burning forest.
Alright, the venting therapy is over, time to hitchhike now. Take care, y'all.
>>673541Believe it or not, it's possible to be witty and clever and still go home without pussy.
It's much harder to be sexless if you're good looking though.
>>673575Why are men against buying furniture?
It took me 3 months to convince a friend to get a table to eat at instead of the floor or his bed, which was just a mattress on the ground
>>673605Maybe because they live in crummy apartments?
Otherwise men aren't against buying furniture.
>>673606This.
Irony is. Most young women nowadays don't do physical sex. It's all cybersex. They will charge ten dollars for a handful of pics
>>673601>>673576Smart men would never put their dicks inside women.
They wouldn't waste time with women. They would stick to porn.
Or invest in VR
>>673616Smart men would invest in their own livelihoods like the women are. Women have the common option of finding a man who will financially support them. For men that is much less-likely, yet the women are the ones making sure they are investing in their careers and such.
I'll tell you from experience that just having a place and such is all you need. You can find women to fuck that just want a place to crash at. I wouldn't trust them. Better check your ring doorbell lmao, but just keep your household together and you can find whatever woman that wants to play house with you.
>>673628This. Even as a kid, I always felt like that platitude is pure copium.
If anything, it's better to never love at all because relationships cost money, venereal health, and potential reputation.
The worst part about dysfunctional relationships are the kids that result from it. Theyre the ones who have to a shitload of therapy to overcome
>>673614>Maybe because they live in crummy apartments?This, I did not like my first apartment all that much so I never
invested in it. I left 95% of my stuff at my parents' house.
>>673605because it makes cleaning harder, not only do they gather dust and enable hoarding, they give insects and rats sanctuary. recently I have been selling all the stuff I don't use and my life has never been better, I don't need a wardrobe when all my clothes can fit in a duffel bag or a bed when the mattress can simply be on the ground. I have been thinking of removing the mattress and just sleeping on the floor but this place is too cold for that and I don't have a reliable and cheap source of cardboard. needless to say, I can vacuum this entire place in like 30 minutes because I don't have to wrangle and wrestle the furniture around
I was homeless for a brief period of my life and one thing I learned is that I don't mind not having a table
>>673772Fucking this. Part of why alot of homes are dirty is because too much furniture being put by corners and whatnot.
Women love to complain about men having no taste in fashion or house design but these same women will buy a shitload of shoes and trinkets and let them sit in their closets for years, don't even touch them
Society has become more hypercritical of male nunaces, assuming them to be automatically dumb just because men arent expected to these cutesy dolls
>>673787That's dumb reasoning.
Men like nice things too. Not everything men do is for female approval.
This kind of reasoning is self fulfilling prophecy.
>>673789nta but he didn't say anything about all men nor about being a man himself
but it is crazy that you think people are acting out just because they don't like having shelves around
>>673825Just like those teachers pet sibling types who tell s mom every single incident you get into.
Hey,for some weird reason,they have serious vices that they hide until police intervention comes.
>>673979A lot of them. That's one of their biggest problems is they have very feminine personalities. I don't know, I guess even men too sometimes need validation from their peers, but overall I think it's a very womanly behavior. A man should stand on the strength of his own convictions.
But I guess most of these incels don't even have IRL friends.
>>673984True, true.
I think there is a difference because even in incelish spaces like this thread, people will tell guys to suck it up and deal with reality and make it work for them if they want to get laid/get a gf whatever. The worst possible is being like this woman and trying to rationalize her behavior that doesn't get her what she wants.
>Pat M., a 31-year-old woman based in Chicago, Illinois, has sparked discussion among viewers on TikTok after sharing the reason why she has chosen to remain single.
>While the idea of being coupled up by one's thirties is frequently glorified online, Pat, who works in a corporate job, wants to focus on herself. Her post from January 22, in which she explains why she is not being "picky" by decentering dating, has since been viewed over 721,000 times and liked by more than 103,000 viewers. TikTok users were able to see Pat sitting in her car, speaking candidly into her camera lens about a recent conversation with her 63-year-old father, who had questioned whether she was becoming "too picky" in love as she grew older.
<"I'm 31, and I've chosen to remain single at the moment," Pat told viewers on TikTok. "I have standards, and they're not high standards.
<"I don't think I'm asking for something from a man that I can't give myself."
>The video resonated widely, especially among women, as Pat emphasized the therapeutic and educational work she had done to become emotionally intelligent and self-aware—and her expectation that a potential partner would have done similar work.
<"I have taken so many years to get an education, to build a career for myself, and I am at a disadvantage in comparison to a man," Pat said in her video. "If you start off with an upper hand to me, there should be no excuse as to why you can't at least meet me where I am."
>Pat told Newsweek that she had faced a grueling few years of setbacks: losing her home, her career, her relationship, and her sense of direction. Despite these challenges, the trials ultimately fortified her sense of self over the past few months.
<"At 31, I had a very solid understanding of who I was and, most importantly, who I was not," Pat, who had since started a new job, told Newsweek. "I know magnificent men exist because I exist, and I truly believe I am an incredible woman that has so much to offer."
>>673987>A lot of them. That's one of their biggest problems is they have very feminine personalities.Oh boy. Another guy who defines "feminine" as "masculine defective".
> I don't know, I guess even men too sometimes need validation from their peers, but overall I think it's a very womanly behavior. A man should stand on the strength of his own convictions.I beg to differ.
Sometimes men do need validation from his peers. Not everything masculine has to be always self-neglect.
>>673972>>673974>>673969It's all entitlement syndrome from both sides.
>>673966>Women deciding to remain single and child free is a sign of delusion.>>673969Just like those volcel red pill types
>>674066I like dancing, sober, tripping, stoned, it doesn't matter I just like to move. Meeting other people who like to dance and dancing with them is fun.
>>673997>Literally me. Last time I went out and had *a* drink I became suicidalDon't drink then stupid. I don't because it makes me feel bad. Other substances don't.
>>673169I'm fine with my junk, thanks. Taking hormones isn't the solution to everything. I think I'm rather good looking for a 30yo man really, the long-haired "sensitive artist" type you know? I wouldn't pass as a woman, I don't need another struggle in my life.
>>673189Literally who?
>>673224Mainly due to me drinking too much alcohol, and saying things that should be left unsaid outloud. People are patient at first with your mistakes, then it eventually wears thin. Everyone has flaws, but sometimes you don't need to let them know what they are, they yap a little then they eventually want a kiss to validate both of your existences. Those two ex-gfs are still good friends, but I've inadvertently turned one of them into a hardcore feminist 😓.
>>673818Forget this post even exists, I'm just venting, there is nothing to gain from that shit. It's fun to travel alone, but you eventually need to say some shit to someone. You should read Eclipse of Reason and that's it.
>>673825I don't like that way of describing me, but that's probably accurate.
Yes, I can't keep a secret, I won't tell it to the cops, I can handle that kind of pressure, but I will tell it to the wife.
I'm trying to learn to not go stream-of-consciousness on people all the time, some friends give me shit for that, but it's a daily struggle. I want to tell everything to the hippie girl, but as open-minded and gentle as she is, she probably doesn't need to know absolutely everything.
>>673884Hey come on, that's unfair now. I'm suspicious of everyone who doesn't have vices. They are the normal quiet coworker at the office, then next thing you know, they go to Pattaya bang some 19yo single mom for 1000 baht. They always do that shit behind your back because they are cowards.
>>673979it actually is the same shit incels do. incels just had a headstart, so to say, because as a guy you are a 'loser' when you do not get your d wet in your teens. combined with the rise of social media over the last ~15 years, the incels simply were able to forment their deranged world view for a bit longer. now that millenoids are well within their 30s, suddenly the females have to rationalize their singlehood, while their peers have families.
looking at
>>673658, the behaviour is comparable. there is no actual analysis, nor introspection. instead, there is an echo chamber of an 'in group', her girl friends, likely all to share comparable socio economic background, education, careers. their conclusion is:
>we fine>reality doesn't match expaction>it's men not reaching the standards>some mumbling about emotional intelligece, no further explanation>switch topic>>673993same shit here.
>i don't think i'm asking for something from a man that i can't give myselfyeah well then - whats the point?
>i went to therapy, read books, listened to podcastswow. astonishing achievment
>man must at least earn as much as i dorevealing
so to sum it up in a cynical way:
from these two normie millenoids, what i gather is that i'd have to earn as much as they do and to be 'emotionally intelligent' (code for 'dealing with my instability and neuroses').
incels ask for mandatet waifus, these millenoids ask for mandated therapists.
>>674165I can understand a bit the "emotional intelligence" thing because some men are really dumb. I know, because I've been such a dumb man. Saying things that should be left unsaid. Being insensitive. Not caring enough about what the other person thinks or her own passions and hobbies in life. Thinking I won the game when the game had only started, that kind of things.
However you are right, they are really vague about this "emotional intelligence" stuff. It's also entitlement on their part, because despite making six-figures, they don't seem mature enough to deal with shit when it hits the fan.
They want shiny furniture, a cat and food being delivered. And think about it for 2 seconds: would you want to date such a woman called Ashley from fucking San Diego? She is probably the epitome of a vapid Californian woman. She thinks she is a really deep person for going on vacation in Florence during the high season. She reads slop about some woman having conflicting feelings, the kind of books they sell in airports. None of us want that here.
>>674172What you describe is more about being empathetic. A skill a lot of women themselves lack severly to be quite honest. We still live in a deeply sexist society which naturally is engrained into children in their upbringing. Consequentially, quite a lot of men are emotionally stunted and lack emotional intelligence, because they never were taught this stuff. On the other side of the spectrum, women are allowed to be emotional, quite over the top sometimes. But honestly, crying because of whatever shit (i'm polemic) isn't a sign of emotional intelligence, either.
As to your second paragraph: agree. These women experience total alienation. They now are first and foremost part of the proletariat (in their case likely labor aristocracy), with all the alienation and vapid meaninglessness that entails.
>>674196Good post anon, I don't have much to add.
And I say this as someone who loves to cry over sentimental romantic songs, but that's not when I'm the most "emotionally intelligent", it's when I'm able to take a step back and say "alright, this situation is obviously going to shit, how can we fix it with what we have on the spot before I flee like a coward", and I don't think Ashley would be able to handle that, she would still cry about that Uber Eats driver being mean to her.
>>674162>I think I'm rather good looking for a 30yo man really, the long-haired "sensitive artist" type you know? I wouldn't pass as a woman, I don't need another struggle in my life.Thirty isn't old nor ugly. Why do people keep promoting this? If feel or look old/ugly at thirty, you have shitty genetics or shitty diet.
>Hey come on, that's unfair now. I'm suspicious of everyone who doesn't have vices. They are the normal quiet coworker at the office, then next thing you know, they go to Pattaya bang some 19yo single mom for 1000 baht. They always do that shit behind your back because they are cowards.Not all vices are the same. Some are ok, some are not so ok. It also depends on the personalities. But yea, the seemingly normal upstanding teacher pet types are often the ones with the biggest secrets or they're often the biggest victims.
Anyone who watches true crime documentaries would know.
>>674196>>674172For Al the talk of emotional intelligence that women claim themselves to be good at, they themselves have serious flaws. But, polite society makes it impossible to criticize women without being accused of misogyny.
(Actually, women are only permitted to get away with murder if they're young, docile,and slim. Otherwise they have to be rich or something.)
Of course men have problems with emotional intelligence but they're always called out on it and mocked for it.
>>674200Sentimentality is far too often mistaken for emotional intelligence.
Men are actually very sentimental beings, even more so than women.
And look at the results of that.
I hate how society assumes academic/artistic skills are a sign of moral conscience.
A lot of these bohemian types always wanna complain about the filth of average modern society yet they themselves indulge in more filth than the average "sheeple".
>>674196>As to your second paragraph: agree. These women experience total alienation. They now are first and foremost part of the proletariat (in their case likely labor aristocracy), with all the alienation and vapid meaninglessness that entails.Yes and no.
I wish people would stop treating relationship status as the definition of social health.
Just because you cannot find your knight in shining armor or your sweet innocent damsel as a mate doesn't mean society is crumbling.
"Tfw no gf/bf" has turned into some sort of semi-conscious form of entitlement.
>>673972Those men are an outlier because most men would prefer to be childlessin this socioeconomic climate
>>674165>now that millenoids are well within their 30s, suddenly the females have to rationalize their singlehood, while their peers have families.Millennials have been in their thirties since the mid-2010s.
Also, I think it's dumb for people to have to rationalize being single after thirty.
I hate how society uses age numbers as rigid goal posts.
There's people who marry and procreate in their twenties but that's a crime nowadays.
But then these same people who think twenties is too young for marriage and childrearing are the same ones going into premature midlife crisis at the end of their twenties when they find it's difficult to find a mate to do these things.
You cannot have it both ways.
"Enjoy your youth" or "commit".
Imo, people should choose one, not both.
The problem in our society nowadays is that people wanna try to do both and the people who do often are the most miserable.
>>674279 (me)
also if the financial crisis deepens, people like her will marry anyway, if only to access stuff like credits available only to couples, so don't be surprised if the proud millennial single women of today become tomorrow's happy committed millennial wives
>>674608Hug yourself
>>674607I care enough to say I don't care
>>673974The girls in
>>673993 and
>>673658 are the ones who hold the patriarchal views in question. Both said they won't accept a guy who makes less than them.
>but the guys-They are not relevant here, these girls are the ones who have power over their own lives. The contradiction brought on by development is caused by the fact that women are increasingly economically equal to men, so yes, as much as half of women will have to stay single or get a long-term partner who earns less than them, and that clashes with the patriarchal values they absorbed growing up.
>>673658>>673993Thinking about this thing again and how funny how her logic is:
>there is a paucity of elligible husbands<this means I should bevome even pickierLmao. No winning with these women. Also pointing put afain that gen x and bokmer women were nowhere near as cunty and got divorced in less than a decadd. You would have to be insane to marry them. Fortunatelg thry will just reject you before that so no need to worry.
>>674704And remember, it's millennials who tell society that twenties is too young for marriage and child rearing.
They want to normalize extended adolescence to help "develop their brains". And they got it.
Thirty five is the new eighteen (or the new ten for the Disney Adult subculture).
Man, I would gladly fuck every ugly girl in the hostel right now. The obese Ukrainian one, the one who is probably British, the Aussie with no chin, any of them. Then I would fuck the girl at the fast food place who serves over-salted souvlaki, both of them actually. People think men don't have feelings, but they don't know the struggles. The hair, the forms, the smell, everything, it's too much feelings I need to drown in something.
>>674825Nothing ever happens, I won't change, I just want to annoy all of you, it's like the samefag on the Thailand /trv/ thread talking about his fat friend, except I don't get laid for 500 baht in Pattaya, instead I get drunk with a bald Turkish guy who wants to avoid the wife. Nothing will change, Heraclitus and the Taoists were wrong, I'm going back to where I was at the beginning, and wait Heraclitus actually talked about that, "the paths of entry and exit are the same" something like this. Once I reach [REDACTED], I will fall in love again with a Russian girl who only wants me to pay for her 5€ cappuccinos, it's all so tiresome.
>>674856I will do my little Newgene for once, but this guy will learn he won't get a second chance every time. That reddit woman seems to truly care about him, but he wanted to self-sabotage like a /r9k/ faggot. That's how you learn life.
Hippie girl gave me a second chance and I blew it up. It's okay, I have the social media of the fat Ukrainian girl, she is pretty cute despite her weight.
>>674892Won't this imply that Greta saw him naked once 😳
Ngl i can see it happening, proud girls usually have fucked up taste in men
>>674894I thought that was the case, that I would be her friend on WhatsApp until summer when I would travel again and go near where she lives, but I posted no cool pictures yesterday and told her I miss her like a beta faget. She met someone else, I'm pretty sure of it, they are camping in the forest until they aren't.
Like a dumbass I went back to the hostel where I met her, and now I get the feels. There is a couple of cute German girls, maybe something could happen, one of them smiles a lot at me (the other one seems to hate me), but I shit myself at the idea of being social with someone who isn't a 60yo divorced guy.
>>674910Anon is saying
"Shit I Wish That Were Me".
Typical socially deprived Simpson of an image board user who thinks the grass all green on the other side.
>>674961Well, anonymity on image boards is a bad idea.
It's not even completely anonymous.
I'm just saying I'm tired of the menstrual responses.
I know that you people would never talk like this in mestspace. You'd get your asses whooped.
>>674988>The guy was also 21, he can still learn and change. I like it when people think all faux pas in youth is only just that, a youthful phase.
Im sorry, but people like that rarely change for the better.
Most people who "mature" are really just giving up without letting go of bittersweet feelings
>>675000Yes, 21 is till young, but I don't approve of how people like to morally infantilise it so much. (Especially referring to twenties as "very" young. Very young would be if your age is double digit months old, not double digit years old)
Also, yes thirty isn't old.
You say you're thirty eight which is still relatively young.
Also. The reason why you don't expect sixty to have any change is because of social treatment. We allow them to remain that way because "they 'earned' it"
Not all faux pas is equal.
If someone was an uncle at twenty one, expect then to remain that way until they hit the lottery and get a glow up.
>>675007>uncle*incel
Although a lot of incels would end up as the bitter asshole uncle that nobody likes but invites out some "obligation" for consanguinity.
>>675036Be honest: the reason you hate nightclubs is because you're unable to get your pee pee wet without having to bribe some girl on the dance floor.
Yea nightclubs aren't all that glamorous but that don't mean people don't have fun.
Stop dismissing things as farces just because they don't work out for you specifically.
>>675063>>675083Furry anon, is that you?
Are you back to whining about not getting laid with a rich middle aged hebephile at fourteen despite having a GF that lives you to pieces?
If so, please kindly fuck off.
Nobody cares about your self-induced histrionic troubles
>>674950Probably, and if so, I apologize. It's 9:45 AM and I already cracked open the first beer can of the day. You should see the look on the other hostel patrons' faces when they witness it. I'm an alcoholic, 80% of the time, I'm calm and nice, feeling content, and 20% of the time, I'm a huge bitch, angry, crying, whatever. I understand people might not forgive me sometimes, but yeah, you can find solace in the fact I'm a big loser in quite a few ways. Whatever, you don't know me, and I don't know you
>>675056>Stop dismissing things as farces just because they don't work out for you specifically.Newgene, please read this sentence over and over again. I just hope some woman will fall in love with you, so you will experience being weak for a second and stop talking like a bitter alcoholic. That should be my job, not yours.
>>675264>Newgene, please read this sentence over and over again. I just hope some woman will fall in love with you, so you will experience being weak for a second and stop talking like a bitter alcoholic. That should be my job, not yours.How about you worry about you?
You're the one getting all Mooney over some opportunity of "romance". And I don't do alcohol and I'm getting fed up with alcoholics. Too much enablement.
>>675081>connecting to "scenes" is a rich person's game.That's completely false, or at the very least, it wasn't in the case in the 2000s-2010s. Connecting to the local scene is or was the occasion to barter for the entry fee and getting cheap ass beer, or even bring your own at the place, because alt people don't like bouncers, and they are just as poor as you, unemployed or working at deadend jobs, so they help poor people, including Roma gypsies.
I was a student living with 400€ a month, eating pasta with pasta the whole month, and the alt music scene was the only shit I could afford during the weekend. The people used to live in squats and dumpster dive for vegan food, so the only expenses they had were beers and paying the band. It was a glorious time, then gentrification happened.
"Gentrification is nice because it makes the city safer" they say. My ass, now the guys who stay outside all day can stab someone for 2€ or a crack cocaine rock, because they can't afford shit anymore, they were there all their lives and there is no more cheap beer to forget their worries.
I like leftypol, it has a special place in my heart, but sometimes I wish some of you wouldn't assert some falsehoods with absolute confidence like this. The alt scene was the cheapest social activity you could do, until the powers that be got tired of it since it was trendy but didn't make any money they could tax. RIP.
>>675265>How about you worry about you?Thank you, I eventually will, at some point I will need to go back to normal life and find a new job, it's nice to be unemployed with savings and no car/family expenses for a few months but it will wear out eventually. We are already behind on rent, but those roommates can't pay for shit on time, so fuck it.
>You're the one getting all Mooney over some opportunity of "romance"Yeah, because I'm feeling emotions, and there isn't much to life except this? Other people, it's kinda like the theory of value, labour/SNLT is nothing but other people.
When I was in my early 20s, I thought I was smarter than everyone else for being some kind of pale copy of Houellebecq, very rational and jaded, then at some point, a girl fell in love with me, I don't know why, and I realized it's good to feel weak in the knees sometimes. I can be independent and alone if I need so, I have been alone most of my life, my hand is my more faithful lover, but interacting with others is more fun. I know romantic love is a bourgeois concept which didn't exist until the Italian Renaissance or something, but it's fun to lie to yourself sometimes.
>Too much enablement.We are the ones who has been enabling you for a long time. A different mod team could have banned you as soon as you expounded your opinions on child labour. But it's fine, I'm starting to appreciate you like a little brother. Just appreciate how patient we have been with you, and I will do the same.
>>675266I don't want to burn the earth, I'm not an incel, I just want to feel emotions before I go back to the eternal void of nothingness, that is non-existence, death. Do you understand?
In a decade or two, I should have enough time to be a quiet old man with a few words of wisdom, if I don't get hit by a car today.
Alright, I need to stop blabbering so much, it's probably not fun for you. Maybe get into Buddhist meditation or something. I will tell you more about hippie girl, but she stopped messaging me and the German girls are liars so maybe I'm done with this blogposting shit.
>>675274>We are the ones who has been enabling you for a long time. A different mod team could have banned you as soon as you expounded your opinions on child labour. But it's fine, I'm starting to appreciate you like a little brother. Just appreciate how patient we have been with you, and I will do the same.The mods are trigger happy with bans. And there have been way worse opinions like advocating for rape of right wing women.
Also, I'm talking about how alcoholics are the most overly-sympathised group of vice-takers in this world.
>Yeah, because I'm feeling emotions, and there isn't much to life except this? Other people, it's kinda like the theory of value, labour/SNLT is nothing but other people.When I was in my early 20s, I thought I was smarter than everyone else for being some kind of pale copy of Houellebecq, very rational and jaded, then at some point, a girl fell in love with me, I don't know why, and I realized it's good to feel weak in the knees sometimes. I can be independent and alone if I need so, I have been alone most of my life, my hand is my more faithful lover, but interacting with others is more fun. I know romantic love is a bourgeois concept which didn't exist until the Italian Renaissance or something, but it's fun to lie to yourself sometimes.
Again. This is what I'm talking about.
"Emotions are the only thing we live for".
These are the kind of people that will fall in love and out of it too easily. Reduce people to emotional dildos.
Also irony is, people who make their personality around philosophy books are anything but rational. Especially if it is about rationality.
>I don't want to burn the earth, I'm not an incel, I just want to feel emotions before I go back to the eternal void of nothingness, that is non-existence, death. Do you understand?Yea sure. You say that now but when the happy feels go, what then?
>In a decade or two, I should have enough time to be a quiet old man with a few words of wisdom, if I don't get hit by a car today.In this anti-accident culture we have, you will live a long time. Unfortunately, it also enabled alcoholics like you to keep drinking until you do get hit by a car.
Alcoholics have a way of surviving anything funnily enough.
Also, anyone talking about imparting "words of wisdom" are usually sophomoric, especially if they're alcoholics
>Alright, I need to stop blabbering so much, it's probably not fun for you. Maybe get into Buddhist meditation or something. I will tell you more about hippie girl, but she stopped messaging me and the German girls are liars so maybe I'm done with this blogposting shit.You know Buddhism is mainly self-denialsim right?
It says that sentimentality is a spook.
Therefore your desire for romanticism will have to eventually die.
Also, that last sentence sounds incel-adjacent.
>>675279Why tho
>>675292You mean brothels. Women don't go to the dance floor to be harassed by any average plain dude.
>>675309Not a Calvinist.
Also I don't care too about Protestant "ethics".
And I read a lot the posts on this site.
You all advocate to genocide people for denying socialism.
>>675309The more I read your posts the more I realize you're some moony sentimentalist with warped sense of empathy.
Interesting you call me Calvinist because your behavior seems very Calvinist
>>675423A bit clumsy but could be a banger if cleaned up
Miss drunkposting on leftypol, was peak
>>675429>DrunkpostingThe copium is amazing.
This is more seethe posting.
>>675431Tbh a lot of dictators do have some internalized self-helplessness.
>>675439Theres alot of posters on here that do Reddit spacing.
Also. How could that be me?
I don't whine about women like you guys do.
I just screenshot some peculiar posts on here for posterity to remind us of how "progressive" LeftyPol is.
>>675440Handsome hunks with phat asses is the complementary
Cue "Apple Bottom Jeans" by Flo Rida.
>>675456your dad without lube, he cries on my pillow
lmao gottem
>>675299its garbage, what else do you want me to say? this is a matter of taste and i find the musical composition of most music played at the one place i'd willingly go to, to be utterly garbage. i'm fine with newer music, but outright pop music has gotta go. i do NOT want to dance to the music that my teachers in the 6th grade played at our half-assed graduation ceremony 😭 is this a hard concept to understand?
also: im becoming increasingly convinced that clubs are literally just a woman thing and a woman thing alone. why would a man want to get up and dance? dancing has connotations of youth and carelessness that men are rapidly shamed out of, and thereafter puberty dancing receives a heavy layer of sexual connotation over it - and the sexual connotation isn't a bimodal sexuality, it's just a feminine "to be desired" sexuality.
To dance rapidly becomes inferred to be sexual, and it is sexuality in a feminine manner meant to attract the eyes of the gynophilic. Think about how common it is in to hear of dancing simplified as shaking one's ass, and later as movement of the hips. These naturally are areas of the body that are affected most heavily by female puberty.
Dancing is, in at least the majority's eyes, essentially a feminine act. And you know, there is an example of masculine dancing. Disco. Think about the fucking, "classic disco moves". Lots of movement of the chest, rhythmic displays of the arms. Disco, as you may know, developed amongst gay guys - which are naturally not gynophilic, but rather androphilic. It's no coincidence then that a lot of these movements are displays of and calls of attention towards the parts of the body most affected by male puberty.
So like again - why should guys dance? Nightclubs are for women to dance, occasional self-admiring in the bathroom, thats it.
>>675467Wrong.
Those are MtM
>>675496This post is wrong in so many ways
Dancing isn't a feminine thing. You just wanna interpret it that way due to Anglo imperialism brain rotting peoples impression of gender behavior.
Dancing is a big thing amongst black amd Latino guys both gay and straight.
Men are just too hebegynophilic. And because white Angloids tend to sterilise male nature.
Next you will say that singing is exclusive to women.
LeftyPol is really just another 4chan colony.
>dancing has connotations of youth and carelessness that men are rapidly shamed out of, and thereafter puberty dancing receives a heavy layer of sexual connotation over it - and the sexual connotation isn't a bimodal sexuality, it's just a feminine "to be desired" sexuality.The pathologising of youth activities is another thing.
Irony is, adult activities have higher risk of injury.
Ballsports and gambling are considered adult and masculine.
>>675489With the exception of the first two, the rest is projection.
>>675477Sanji is a simp, but he's no pedophile.
A hebegynophile he is, but what cishet male isn't?
Any prime age human female from fourteen to thirty five years of age.
Besides, he's often romantically shipped with Zorro.
>>675496>Think about how common it is in to hear of dancing simplified as shaking one's ass, and later as movement of the hips. These naturally are areas of the body that are affected most heavily by female puberty.
>It's no coincidence then that a lot of these movements are displays of and calls of attention towards the parts of the body most affected by male puberty.uygha, you're forgetting that girls grow breasts.
And you forget that guys do grow muscle mass in their shins and thighs.
>>675500<Dancing isn't 100% inherently feminine, as you have displayed with giving an example of more "masculine" dancing<But due to the culture you were born and raised into, which is northern-Anglo, you have developed connotations that prevent you from believing that men can truly participate in dancingthank you comrade
>>675501<anon, you're forgetting that women gain pockets of fat and female-exclusive pockets of lactating glands, where men gain about twice as much, at least in size, in bone growth, muscle mass, and a layer of protective fat<and furthermore, while women gain significantly in hip girth in primarily a layer of fat, and a tendency for the hip bones to flare outwards to help with childbirth, males gain a layer of mostly lateral muscle mass<as you can see, i am very smartthank you comrade
>>672989lol, what the FUCK??? What's in it for any of her potential mates then?
>sorry, I'm not into sex anymore. I have these kids and they need a dad. Wanna have a platonic family with me??I would feel so, so rejected and shitty if that happened to me. Holy fuck that's gotta hurt. You did the right thing breaking that off. That's just fucked up for her to have done in the first place.
>>672793I'd bet all this cuckold shit is less frequently the man's idea. If it is it's just because she wanted to cheat anyway and this way he can keep it in the house.
Any man who brings the idea of sharing her with other men to his wife deserves for her to leave him. That shit is wrong.
If either partner wants an open marriage something isn't working and they aren't right for each other.
>>675562Women are selfish too.
Why should women feel entitled to have unconditional benevolence from male strangers to raise kids that aren't theres?
>>675560This And I bet she would fool around once she snags a potential mate. Either that or she be doing drugs
But I also think it depends on her livelihood.
Regardless, I think that people who fooled around and end up as single parents should accept their fate.
Im tired of society always wanting to deny/alleviate consequences.
If slut shaming is a no-no, virgin-shaming should be a double/triple no-no
>>675565Remember, it's never wrong when women want it.
If men want to do sexual kinks, he's a villain.
But if women want sexual kinks she's a heroine.
The virtuous man is the man who sticks to porn and fanfiction.
Same for virtuous women.
>>675562That woman doesn't have normal needs. If her needs are all of the baggage of a marriage and family but the kids aren't yours and you don't get sex then her needs are unrealistic and extremely selfish.
There may be some poor schmoe out there willing to take on such a job but I don't know how anyone involved could possibly respect him. Maybe the kids if they're young enough and don't know any better.
But I don't believe that woman is asexual or has no sex drive. She'll be using a vibrator or fucking someone else. I can't even imagine what someone with no sexual interest would be like to be around. That's just strange to most people I think.
>>675567Lose the absolutist always/never bullshit where women don't play fair. It reeks of inceldom. You guys need to get it out of your heads that all women are shitty. Stop paying attention to social media and other online things regarding women. None of the women I know in my life are anything like what terminally-online virgin manchildren think they are.
There are shitty people of both genders obviously, but they don't represent everyone.
>>675568>That woman doesn't have normal needs. If her needs are all of the baggage of a marriage and family but the kids aren't yours and you don't get sex then her needs are unrealistic and extremely selfish. Parenthood is the only job in the world where regulations are not only non existent but actively condemned.
And it's no wonder why we have so many junkies, sluts, and brutes birthing new life into this world.
And people wonder what's wrong with the newer generations.
"Parental rights" be damned.
No parent should be allowed around their kids without an official appointed third-party adult.
Most parents are terrible life coaches anyway, especially fathers. This is why I so advocate for mandatory life-skill training in schools.
No child should be allowed to graduate from grade school without knowing how to cook, clean, or change diapers.
>>675577If it's not typical, why then do so many men have to learn about masculinity either from that god awful red pill or from coaches or trusted elder coworkers?
The only thing dads are there for is to provide some aesthetic impression of security.
Most men who do grow up well rounded usually had uncles or grandfathers.
Dads by themselves are either negligent or domineering.
>>675579You mean I can feel free to ignore you?
Thanks.
>>675580>I think you or someone misread the post - or maybe I did. Wasn't she just turning down a one-night stand? That doesn't necessarily preclude sex within a committed relationship.And besides, she probably still does hookup with guys. The funniest part tho is how she phrased it:
>>672989>she didn't want to fool around. said she was past that phase of her life long ago<I don't want you to think I'm a hoe, <I just want you to know I used to be a hoeJesus Christ hags need some better game.
>>675593Or more like she just wanted OP to pester her for sex and repeatedly turn him down and then fuck him if he's persistent enough.
That's literally how it is with women. A lot of these incel guys are missing out on sex because they've been trained to actually think no means no. Obviously no rape, but no for most women means keep asking, keep trying, because that makes them feel desired, makes them feel important, makes them feel they are still chaste while being loose because she told the guy no four times before she said yes.
I mean it's not that strange, you ever seen squirrels in mating season, that's all sex is for males is just chasing females
>>675595Remember the Andrew Callahan and Aziz Ansari metoo cases? They got done up for having consensual sex with some woman who said she said no a few times before saying yes and having consensual sex with them.
That's how a lot of guys get laid.
>>675592She's just being super honest and saying she's not attracted to the guy. Whether she or he knows that's what's happening.
Contradicts all that "sexual prime" stuff of women in their 30s and 40s.
Any woman with kids at some point liked to have sex. To try and start a relationship with a man bringing your kids and no sex is just super desperate or clueless. Either way she's not going to find anyone who wants that arrangement with any ease. Or maybe she clocked anon for that type in the first place. Which is insulting.
>>675600>She's just being super honest and saying she's not attracted to the guy. Whether she or he knows that's what's happening.Nope. You don't speak womanese. Why would she go back to his place for drinks?
>Contradicts all that "sexual prime" stuff of women in their 30s and 40s.Lol no shit. Everyone says "we were going at it like horny teens" not like horny "30 and 40 year olds" lmao. That's got to be the worst gaslight of all time.
>Any woman with kids at some point liked to have sex. I'm sure she still does, but she has more concerns at this stage in her life.
>To try and start a relationship with a man bringing your kids and no sex is just super desperate or clueless.She just told him that she didn't want to hook up that night, and also that's fucking probably bullshit. Women say shit like that and then they'll be bitching that the guy didn't try to keep putting the moves on her.
> Or maybe she clocked anon for that type in the first place. Which is insulting.It certainly is, like I said especially the way she phrased it.
I think you guys are crazy looking for deep truths or logic in what women say. They will tell you themselves, they operate on feels. And then what they say isn't even representing of how they're actually feeling or what they'll do.
>>675619>Or you could just stop sperging.That's another piece of dating advice.
>Stop being an emotional spergIt will really help with getting positive female attention.
>>675619What do you care? Aren't you too busy having sex LMAO
The fact that you even bother to reply to my provocations is evidence enough that you are a liar. Pathetic.
>>675636Why would I post proof because you had an epic spergout? I never understand you retards,
>post handNo, I don't think I will.
Why the fuck would I post my personal conversations for you?
What do I get out of this? Are you going to pay me?
>>672541Lol maybe try to appear and talk more femgazy? Like a daddy? If you want a mommy you could try reverse to reverse freud and be a daddy
This vid is my recommendation top result
>>675598>"Fatherlessness" is a meme. Alot of estranged men grew up with dads. But the dad never engaged with them.>>675596> I grew up white, middle class, and in a small town in America. Around that area it was the odd kid out who had no dad.AHA, so this explains your solipsism
>>675602>Lol no shit. Everyone says "we were going at it like horny teens" not like horny "30 and 40 year olds" lmao. That's got to be the worst gaslight of all time.That's kinda insulting, implying that after thirty nobody has any libido when clearly a lot of clientele for whores and porn subscriptions are usually twice or thrice the age of pubescence.
>I'm sure she still does, but she has more concerns at this stage in her life.Vicenarians (twenty-sonethings) have more pressing concerns such as college enrollment and finding/switching affordable apartments and finding a decent paying job within a decent distance.
>She just told him that she didn't want to hook up that night, and also that's fucking probably bullshit. Women say shit like that and then they'll be bitching that the guy didn't try to keep putting the moves on her.Im sure she's complaining that the guy didn't try to court her to get to know her kids and whatnot.
>I think you guys are crazy looking for deep truths or logic in what women say. They will tell you themselves, they operate on feels. And then what they say isn't even representing of how they're actually feeling or what they'll do.Men are the same way too. Although to a lesser degree.
Men have to be indirect mainly because women don't really like directness especially in dating.
>>675595PUA advice incoming.
uygha probably doesn't remember that social media exists for people, especially women, to vent their indignation.
>>675606What did anon say that was wrong?
Maybe he could've worded it a bit different but the gist isn't wrong.
Women are shy and easily disgusted.
And they have every right to be
But, men also reserve the right to be as well.
I mean your reaction pic of Itachi is exactly that. Him being an Uchiha means that they're all prim and proper which means that they're easily disgusted.
Im sure if you were to date a woman from Itachi's clan you'd be rejected within ten minutes of dating.
>>675609Weebs are the least ignorant of female reaction towards discomfort.
>>675600>Contradicts all that "sexual prime" stuff of women in their 30s and 40s.Im starting to think that the whole "female libido goes up in their thirties" is just a meme used to distract men from their usual hebephilic tendencies.
The only women who have a strong libido after their twenties would be single women.
Or maybe what they're saying is that women masturbate to porn and erotica as well and being locked into motherhood kinda takes up so much of their lives that they sometimes need to vent.
>>675626>>675629>Muh weebsAnd yet you're on an image board. Also, female weebs exist. The likelihood that single moms nowadays are webs is higher than you think.
Tbh. I wish I was a weeb in terms of sexuality.
We laugh at weebs but they're smart because they don't have their lives disturbed by bipolar bitches.
The arrogant non weebs who think themselves better than that always end up with rape allegations or stuck with bastard children
>>675648Honestly, I'm annoyed at the romanticism of "daddy" figures in erotica.
>>675598Fatherlessness is exaggerated. If all male faux pas is because of fatherlessness that means fathers are useless parents. Alot of those malcontents had dads. But dads usually aren't well engaged with their kids.
>>675677>PUA advice incoming. >uygha probably doesn't remember that social media exists for people, especially women, to vent their indignation.It's not really PUA advice at all. Pretty sure PUA applies to the pickup part. So what I'm talking about was applying to where you already have a date, where you already have the woman back at your place like that guy was talking about. Also, personally I have a big ego and I've fucked myself not being persistent enough with women like that. People talk about women playing games, but it's not even a conscious thing on their party most of the time.
>I don't know what came over me>I didn't mean to do that>I didn't plan to do thatBlahh blahh. Women are very detached from their actions, or heck a better word is reaction, because that's mostly all they do is react to what the man does.
>>675692I suppose. I was talking about my bizarre dates and experiences with this woman one time and that's what she told me:
>They're probably overcome by your energy.There was this one woman I was lightly hitting on at a party one time. Her boyfriend was even there and I didn't realize because she was sitting down by herself and I sat down next to her and started talking to her and she didn't mention him. I just started talking to her about her photography, she was in school for it and blahh blahh. Then I got her number and when I contacted her afterwards, she said to me "I'm sorry I was so (shy, not talkative, withdrawn, can't remember the exact word) I'm not usually like that." Another funny related part of the story, it was my roommate who invited me to this party, and afterwards I was looking the woman up on facebook and her profile pic was with some guy, and I said to my roommate "yupp and she has a boyfriend. Why is it every time like this?" And my roommate was a real emotional, dweeby kinda guy, don't know how to explain it, he previously was trying to be a buddhist monk for the rest of his life, but then he had a mental breakdown and left that. Anyways, he said: "I don't think that's her boyfriend, why would she be giving her number out to guys at parties?" Yes, why indeed roommate. Lol. Well we kinda went on a date basically, we went on a long walk on the beach, and that's where she confirmed that she does in fact have a boyfriend, and the guy was in the room with us at the party the whole time as well. Bllah blahh she started talking about how she thinks her relationship with him is at its end and she started talking about how her main goal in life is being a mother. She said "In school, they asked us what we want to be when you grow up, and I said 'A mother!' and the teacher was telling me, that's not a profession." Anyways, that's how that is too, a lot of women are looking to bail from their current relationship to a new one. I had a woman tell me that once too "I always keep a plan B guy in the wings, because I hate being alone." Also if a woman starts talking to you about having kids and all that right away, you know she's already thinking "I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy."
Also on a related note, the dweeby weirdo roommate, he was actually kind of attractive, but a total weirdo, don't know how to describe it, but first night I moved in and was hanging out with me, he told me about how his last roommate, who was this White chick and pretty attractive, basically gave him pity sex after he bitched about his sob story enough to her, but then things became awkward between them(probably he made it awkward between them trying to get her to be serious with him) and that's why she was moving out. Same conversation he told me about how he was raped by his rabbi as a kid and also how he had tried going to a gay bar but hadn't had the courage to go through with that yet. I was like, Jesus Christ you motherfucker, you can't have a male or female roommate without coming on to them. Oh yeah and then like a day or two later, I was new in town, going to go out, and he suggested I go to this event, not with him tho, I was like, "that sounds cool, maybe I'll check it out(didn't look like my thing and was too expensive)" Then he said "My ex-roommate will be there, she'll probably try to fuck you to get back at me, don't do that please." Fucking total weirdo. I only lasted one month with him before giving my notice. That was my first roommate too.
>>675698Roommates are just temporary non consanguine siblings. IDK why society thinks moving out of your parents house to live with total strangers is some sort of badge of maturity.
>Also if a woman starts talking to you about having kids and all that right away, you know she's already thinking "I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy."In the old days, this would be normal.
But nowadays, that's a red flag. She either has some sort of neurocognitive disorder or thinks being a stay-at-home mom is an easy copout from ever having to work.
>Also on a related note, the dweeby weirdo roommate, he was actually kind of attractive, but a total weirdo, don't know how to describe it, but first night I moved in and was hanging out with me, he told me about how his last roommate, who was this White chick and pretty attractive, basically gave him pity sex after he bitched about his sob story enough to her, but then things became awkward between them(probably he made it awkward between them trying to get her to be serious with him) and that's why she was moving out. Same conversation he told me about how he was raped by his rabbi as a kid and also how he had tried going to a gay bar but hadn't had the courage to go through with that yet.Women love to self-proclaim as the "empathetic sex" but then when ever they encounter men with past trauma, they criminalise them.
Tbh, I probably don't blame her for not wanting to stick around with him but don't proclaim yourself as empathetic by virtue of biological sex.
>>675702Tbh those female erotica books are helluva read. The guys are drop dead gorgeous.
Moral of the story, friendship is always better.
If God was very merciful towards me, He would've transferred my existence to a BL reality.
And change my looks to match said reality.
>>675602>I think you guys are crazy looking for deep truths or logic in what women say. They will tell you themselves, they operate on feels.How do you process that properly? I feel like this fact makes all relationships inherently insecure and as such investing anything, even your feelings, into one is an absolutely terrible idea. More than half of people who get married get divorced later on, and this can be especially life-destroying for a man.
But this doesn't sound right.
>>675711Romantic love is inherently selfish and is motivated by a fear of irrelevance.
As I said before, romantic love is far more destructive than lust.
Lust is just blowing off steam.
Romantic love is about building up steam pressure.
>>675723Re-read it.
Notice a few things?
>>675718>whats the most you would doIn this text, what 'the most' implies?
Imagine 2 lovers slowly walked in a gloomy, abondoned hall and a sinister-looking man with a rifle shows up.
Scared of the mere idea of seperated from their love, one of them wants to kill him swiftly as possible, thats their judgement.
The other one, on the other hand, trusts in discourse and diplomacy, because it seems for them to be the safest way. Antagonizing that man might yield a tragic result!
Now, we got 2 different judgements for one sake, but how can you say one of them is 'sacrificing more / an action more dear' when those judgements' only stature pre-action is to be mere, intuitional assumptions regarding the real knowledge of reason?
>>675796This is the kind of propaganda pushed by self infanticide people.
It's nice of you to think that people never get fucked over by those within their on age group.
May as well ban interracial and inter financial relationships
>>675781>Well at least your roommate was able to get sex from that chick even if it was pity sex.Yupp, that's what I mean, even if we're not talking a pity scenario, it really is fucking persistence in asking. Obviously it depends on a lot of factors, but it really is you get like 4 nos than get a yes. Maybe their idea is they don't fuck on the first date, or maybe not even two, whatever the point is, but also being persistent in asking can get you the sex sooner. Also she may fuck other guys first because you're not persistent enough and taking no for an answer. I don't know, I've always had aversion to it myself because I guess I feel it beneath me, but like I said, a number of occasions where it would've gotten me sex. If you guys are really struggling to get laid, it might be worth a shot.
Just sharing my experience and observations, make your own judgements of what to do.
>>675856what's the point then? fake girls are always more attractive than 3DPD to begin with, what really frighten me in that the appeal is totally different, I never feel flustered in front of otherworldly goddesses here to service me, and trying to replicate the same feeling would just ruin whatever appeal the real world has in store for me
plus I'm a coward
>>6758613DPD carry diseases and bastard children. And they demand money from you.
>>675862This.
It's a shame society pathologises young men who prefer mindspace over meat space for aphrodisiac drives.
We mock weeaboos but they're the smart ones.
Meatspace enthusiasts are the dumb ones.
>>675872Oh yeah dude, definitely. Its only the regulated companies that are to blame. The wholesome petty porn producers are so much more wholesome and pure. That's the pure porn.
Watch *BKS-017 問答無用 強制子宮破壊16*, which was back when JAV wasn't under practically any regulation and any schmuck could make his own label for him and his buddies. Its a video of a girl who signed a contract thinking it was for her to pose with sexy clothes, instead getting gang-raped and physically and psychologically tortured for several hours as she screams for it to stop. Watch that then come back and tell me sincerely that homey non-corporate porn with everyday dudes is so much better than actually regulated industry porn.
>>675706>>675702>The guys are drop dead gorgeous.sad part, they have to be so you can stomach the abuse they commit in the books. they can be the scummiest fucks ever and get away with it because they look very sexy sex
the lookism manga broke me deep about this topic
>>675876What do you think of Sydney Sweeney without makeup bros
Would you join her on the collective farm in the USSA
>>676013Oh stop whining. If it were hot women you'd salivate all over them. Also, it's not just their looks but also their body language.
Even the ugly bastards aren't all that uglym
>>676016How? A small child would have more puffy cheeks.
She looks her age.
>>676015>hot women you'd salivate all over themno because i'm not an abuse person, i don't like sticking dick in crazy no matter if she looked like toga or the fat girl on the right
but yeah, this must be whining, it's just, this lookism thing, noticing it made me more conscious about my face than i want to, now my biggest insecurity is feeling ugly as shit
>>676023Just br glad that you dont have to deal with nagging partners . While I understand lookism is a bitch, please don't use that as a emotional crutch for bitterness against the world.
There are far more important things.
But this is why I say that in my next life, I want to be an astral being with my body shape being like a pinpoint of light.
Flesh and blood has caused me nothing but pain.
Physical and mental.
>>676028>please don't use that as a emotional crutch for bitterness against the world.i understand anon, honestly. but it's slowly eating my mind, to think that your social life, not just dating but work and being treated kindly DEPENDS on attractivness is enough to take it's toll with dysmorphia
no matter, i can get over it and for you i really really hope dearly you get that astral shape you desire and travel life as an energy star, hope it actually happens to you lol, from the bottom of my heart
>>676030I believe that Adam and Eve were granted inter dimensional travelling abilities before the forbidden fruit
>>676032Thanks. Man dreams of going to the stars.
But oue frail biological vessels, made of carbon-based organic chemistry falls apart too easily at the slightest change in air pressure, gravity, atmospheric chemistry, etc. We need to build so many safeguard devices crammed with too many sensors.
And let's not forget about the cost of space travel.
Trying to build a space ship that can safely traverse the depths of the cosmos without exploding.
As a being with an ethereal body, I can just glide through solar winds and sail through planetary storm systems.
I could even travel along higher spatial dimensions.
>>676055this. smell is as vital as a sexy face
if a person looks good but has a terrible body odor no girl or guy would like to stay close to that even if they had animu body
>>676013Dude on left isn't ugly.
He has weirdly shaped eyes is all.
(He has nice thick lips)
>>675887It's funny how people obsess over others personal preference of erotica entertainment, especially when it doesn't involve real people.
I like how people like you think that using real live people for porn is somehow more mature, despite the risk of STDs and emotional and physical scarring.
Or the pressuring for unnecessary unhealthy cosmetic applications onto porn stars that may ruin their bodies when they leave their prime.
It's like how people think playing video games is worse than getting rowdy over ballsports games.
>>676271Most people never evolve past middle school especially not after World War Two.
Adulthood has become purely a customer rewards program
>>676294Maybe Chad took a bunch of steroids?
>>676274Hate to be that asshole but I think you were asking for it with the way you keep posting this bait.
Mods, when are you gonna install a username registry?
>>676272Is this "theory" in the room with us right now?
You know it's called theory because it hasn't been officially successful in meatspace, right?
You know that leftism still is laughed at behind your back,right?
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>>673993This. Middle class women are insufferable midwits with no ability to self reflect or communicate outside of buzz words and whatever pop psychology is in vogue because no one ever challenges them on their bullshit. I barf whenever women mention shit like “emotional intelligence“ because what they really mean is that they expect men to read their minds. Similarly, women’s obsession with therapy, self improvement, and the like is so annoyingly self righteous. I sincerely don't care that you've adopted 10 preapproved "hobbies" ranging from a list of stupid shit like axe throwing or IPA tasting. And in a similar vein, I stg women just go to therapy to check boxes and justify their their insanity. They don’t actually grow from their experience and realistically leave it worse off as they feel empowered to throw around use pop psychology non-sense and justify their insanity because of cherry-picked blurbs their therapist told them. Again, this only works because no one calls out women on their bullshit.
Even the way a lot of women talk is nauseating. A lot talk like chatbots trained solely on redditisms. "That was a valid question." Jesus Christ. I couldn't imagine having a meaningful conversation with that girl in the last video because she doesn't even talk like a real person.
>>673853As is the case for most women, that video is heavily filtered. Literally no one has skin that clear. Regardless, her looks have already heavily declined relative to her 20s and will significantly decline within like 5 years.
>>673966The Joker got raped in his own fucking movie. Way to kill a franchise just to "own" the incels lmaooooo
>>674237Holy shit you wrote what I said but better. I am unoriginal but put too much effort into typing my shit to delete it
>>674828I feel this although you should consider fucking hookers. Thai culture generates elite-tier hookers. Beyond the sex itself, there's good emotional experiences to be had. And a not insignificant number will give you GFE and let you fuck for free if they like you.
>>675181Milfs are godsend and older women should be encouraged to fuck younger (early 20s) men.
>>675355Government's should host dating apps. Not even joking. Government (well good ones) have no incentive to prey on their userbase by flooding their apps with bots and shit.
>>676014
Stop. I can't cope.
Thanks for reading my TedTalk. I'll be back in like a week from now to scream into the void that is siberia
>>676351>I feel this although you should consider fucking hookers. Thai culture generates elite-tier hookers. Beyond the sex itself, there's good emotional experiences to be had. And a not insignificant number will give you GFE and let you fuck for free if they like you.When you put like this… I will think about it. I want to visit Asia one day. And maybe go to Pattaya if only to witness the degeneracy, befriend the bald guys while drinking beers with icecubes. Bangkok seems pretty cool too.
But I'm more interested in China. Might do a basic bitch Beijing-Xi'an-Shanghai trip when I have the money, then a more ambitious one later, starting from Hong Kong or Vietnam.
I've heard Chinese women aren't afraid to come talk to men they find attractive, and there is a societal problem where women/workers over 30-35 are deemed undesirable for some reason. But that's the age where women are hot and know how to move in bed. Teenage sex was shit, starfish vs. "what is a clitoris?" shit.
If you want to go to China, Pleco is your best friend.
This reminds me of the first time I traveled a bit far away from home, I was camping in Budapest, and I was horny as fuck, I kept looking at this website for escorts, and thought long and hard about calling one. But they seemed like they didn't enjoy escorts on the pictures, so I kept jerking off in my tent like a loser, while I could have taken a room with the ugly overly chatty Chinese girl I had met in Vienna. She was annoying, really couldn't stop talking, but I still liked her for some reason, she was fun. Alas, I was a cheap clueless fuck, so I ate bad gyros for 3€ alone. Good times.
>Milfs are godsend and older women should be encouraged to fuck younger (early 20s) men.I have a friend who exclusively fuck 40yo women. Ok, perhaps not exclusively, but I have never seen him with a younger woman, since I've first met him in our early 20s. I think he got addicted to this.
>>672533i miss my ex ava so fucking bad it’s driving me insane :BBB
that is all, leftypol
>>676375>Chinese women aren't afraid to come talk to men they find attractiveI've never been to China but my only experience with a Chinese woman outside of the US was this crazy Chinese hooker that stole like $150 from me and refused to leave my room when I refused to fuck her because she was being rude. I posted about it here before. But that prompted me to read online into Chinese women and apparently they are just like that… I was reading articles about how its relatively normal for them to throw child-like fits and slap their spouses. Apparently its supposed to be endearing. That being said, a middle/upper class Chinese woman who doesn't do that shit would be without a doubt a cool experience.
>But that's the age where women are hot and know how to move in bedMy man. At that age they're aware of their depleted sexual market place value and actually have to act like normal people. My ideal woman is probably early 30s late 20s, but up until maybe mid 40s can still be pretty good in terms of character and looks.
>overly chatty Chinese girl I had met in Vienna.Yeah you fumbled that lmao. I also somehow manage to fumble at least one girl a trip. My last trip to Greece I fumbled a French girl (wife material). In Vietnam I fumbled a local tour guide (she wasn't that hot though and was probably some degree of mentally ill).
>>676359>What about mid-late teens?Like 18-19? Or you mean mid-late 20s? 18-19 is literally the worst time group of women to pursue because they're hormonal and as egotistical as they get. Mid 20s is pretty good though I think late 20s is better.
>>676458yeah its just getting worse
and my interview postponed on me again today :/
>>676689are you on antidepressants?
regardless, tell your partner that you want to help him or her to make you cum from penetrations. Communication basically. If they can't make you cum it might mess with the overall mutual satisfaction over time. Ex couldn't make me cum, I always had to use my hand while she kissed me or played with my balls. she was terrible at head and didn't want to improve. I was on antidepressants though so ymmv. we talked about it several times and I explained that I get off on giving pleasure more than receiving it, but it still got to her. good luck
>>676764>>676760You guys call me an incel despite the fact you all whine about not having a gf or bf?
You all are coping way worse than me
>>676719For me its just, whenever I get a little anxious or bored, I put some porn on to watch in the background. Its really calming for some reason.
I masturbate as a consequence of that usually.
>>675435The greatest of them all, my good old Pinnaple face aka Amerikkkan anget Manuel Noriega. I read once that former peruvian president Fujimori electrocuted his wife and his man in the shadows Montesinos like cuckoldry (literally brought black man from the US to watch them fuck his secretary-lover from afar)
In other note, thanks yt, needed that stamina
>>676607lirly lol glowy is infamous for midwit takes but this one is particularly bad.
logically this must be ragebait, or just a fool who can’t help but speak in absolutes
>>676766>People always say this until they get a spouse and children. Then they start whining about how theyre leeching away their energythere’s no accounting for taste, anon.
we’re clearly at different points in our lives under wholly different circumstances on different strives for satisfaction in life.
can you forecast that in any relationship, there might be conflict and labor? sure.
however, writing off the idea of putting roots down somewhere with someone you love entirely because it seems overwhelming at a 30,000 foot view feels defeatist.
(assuming i’ve taken your post as it was intended of course)
in short: aren’t you catastrophizing a bit here anon?
>>677307>we’re clearly at different points in our lives under wholly different circumstances on different strives for satisfaction in life.
>can you forecast that in any relationship, there might be conflict and labor? sure. however, writing off the idea of putting roots down somewhere with someone you love entirely because it seems overwhelming at a 30,000 foot view feels defeatist.
(assuming i’ve taken your post as it was intended of course)
>in short: aren’t you catastrophizing a bit here anon?Then maybe people should stop condemning teenage love.
>>676513>Mid to late teens with older women is weirdSmh.
>>676491>>676375You know what? Im starting to think that the fetishizing of older women as genuine empaths in the sex department is mainly copium.
Irony is, I find that older women who are still interested in casual sex are very low.
The behaviors we condemn young women for are more pronounced in the thirties and forties.
Alot of older women prefer to be passive. They want men to lead so they can coast.
Irony is, younger women are more likely to be sexually ambitious and sympathize with low prospect males.
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