It's okay to be misogynistic towards rightoid women edition
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>>701797
Any pictures of Ben Shapiro's sister getting mating pressed?
>>708795How tall is this person?
Someone post shoe on heads nudes pleasessss
>>708853They're on leftychan
>>708860Ah nah, not that shidthole….
>>708864Why is femdom so popular and considered morally correct now?
>>708855I don't look like this. I will be committing suicide shortly.
>>708866That's not femdom . That's just liking big thick juicy women
>>708870He means traditional gender roles bad, reverse of traditional gender roles good, an opinion held exclusively by a section of tumblr community which anon somehow convinced himself repressents contemporary attitudes at large.
>>708866lmao I wish
I have to hide my power level so hard on that shit, even on 4chan I know there's like a 75% chance of triggering some retarded normalfag if I post about it no matter the board
>>708866it's objectively morally correct, but it's sadly not popular (enough)
>>708907False. I do none of those things and have no girlfriend
>>708907I literally fixed the broken sink at home last week and I take out the trash every day the truck passes by my parents house and I still have no gf.
Where do I fill my complaint?
>>708929Just start watching Love Island and you'll for sure get a gf
>>708929Same, I'm way more of a handyman than my dad. I just helped someone move as well.
>>709373
She's going to stay single not because she's childfree necessarily but because she's very picky. But she'll find plenty of guys and maybe get dicked down to satisfaction from time to time but most likely she'll end up complaining about how she can't find anyone. Although I think most people are trash in some way so she probably would have point to complain. Just take what you can get and dip out when it gets to be too much is probably the best advice.
>>709412So this is deliberately cuckold themed or?
>>709412This is so weird. But seems like an easy paycheck for the voyeurs
>>709377Literally what about she wrote is picky?
>>709474I go to the childfree sub reddit sometimes and I notice that the females in particular, since it mostly seems to be female , often complain about the dating scene and how most guys want kids and they ignore the childfree part. Some of the guys on the sub reddit will point that guys will just choose as much women as possible on the apps and hope one of them works out regardless of interests. So the two sides are often operating in different ways. But maybe picky was the wrong word. Guys seem to be beggars while women are choosers.
>>709671
Was the rapist good looking?
>>709676
Sorry you went through that iknew a girl that had that trauma it hurt to watch her suffer that much
>>708795If my sister was good looking we probably wouldn't get along at all. If I was female my sister and I wouldn't get along either (her words).
>>709771So how's sex with your sister anon? I assume that's what you mean by "get along".
>>709751i want to look like this with long hair
No.
But it's okay to be misogynistic towards bourgeois women. Because the bourgeoisie have no gender, just like how they have no nation.
>>708795god i wish i looked like that
>>709771Relationships of all kinds - including friendships and sibling bonds - are mediated by looks, which determine supply and demand.
If you're are sister was good looking she'd probably have a sizable orbit of simpoids giving her professional services for free, so of course you would be considerably less important or even a nuisance to her if she was good looking.
i think im actually going crazy
>>710043Yeah why not. If you're a woman you'll find another one quickly enough and if you're gay then you'll just sleep around anyways and so will he most likely. And if you get nothing then you can always come back here to complain or talk about how less stressful it is to be single.
>>710044I'm so tired of looking for a husband though…. this was the first guy in over 3 years that I've met that has enough of the qualities that I wanted in a partner where I'd consider sex or a relationship with them. men scare me, but I still crave physical and emotional intimacy and it sucks that I felt so safe with this guy at first, but it seems we're incompatible in an ultimately flippant and surface way.
thanks for listening to me complain into the void anon I appreciate it <3
>>710046I'll be your husband
>>709751Hot, but juiced and malegazemaxxed. Sorry nattybros, but you'll only ever be ottermode.
>>710043Have you actually talked to him about it?
>>710067missing the popeyes, for some reason it is associated with white people
don't forget the popeyes
>>710068Really? I always saw it as associated with black people. The woman in their commercials is a black woman
>>710062This is clearly a joke
>>709779No, I honestly would rather be gelded than have sex with my sister.
>>709751I don't look like this. I will be comitting suicide shortly.
>>709835That fucking sucks. It so depressing to hear that we are basically best friends because we're both *-cels.
a 55 year old man dating a 22 year old asian immigrant woman is pedophilia
>>710088No it's not. It just looks like it because the dude was waiting for her to hit legal age and because she's probably tiny and looks to be about 16. But at least he waited and that's a bit admirable.
>>710094I also happen to be you sometimes. Not always just sometimes
If women don't have to work hard to find a partner, men shouldn't have to either, everything should be equal
>>710329It already is. Men working harder is what makes it equal, because they seek the greater prize.
>>710373not quite, in jail with free time he can try to get jacked, start scamming for money, save for a masculine facial surgery and come out drowning in girl and boy pussies
>>710374Would he get surgery while in jail or after?
Exercise is gender affirmative care, and I need it. I’m tired of being a lanklet
>>710379i hope you get the body you love so much you want to fuck it..i hope your body becomes so sexy you want to fuck yourself anon :)))
>>710384Honestly, height doesn't matter as long as you're lithe and thin.
>>708795I know this isn't really relationship related but this is the best place here I could think of for this.
I started college recently, and people are just.. silent. They don't interact or talk to others, they either just sit in silence or use their phone. I was in room with like 30 people waiting for a class to start and no one was speaking. And somehow, they're completely okay with this. It's almost creepy.
Anyone else having this experience? I'm pretty introverted, but I don't want to live in a vow of silence either for God's sake.
>>710401yes that's pretty normal in college when I went a couple years ago, even before covid.
I've heard from someone that young people will live with like 3 roommates and never talk to any of them either. people just live in their bubbles on their phones and don't talk to people next to them, probably for a mildly justified fear of no shared social context or mental illness or just lack of socialization growing up in general.
but yes the atomization of society sucks, and everyone does seem eerily OK with it.
>>708866Because men have become infantilized by means of service sector jobs, the bureaucracy and other social ills of a "developed society". Society today is like a 90 year old man, no vigor left, low motion, a lot of intellectual resources but senile at the same time. China is like a 30 year old grandson who will replace us.
>>710613Coconut oil, makes great lube too. Make sure to get virgin stuff without additives.
>>710603They’re chad only too
>>710603I'm way older than a typical gen zer and that sounds hot to me too.
Long time not coming to this thread
So, I talked with two girls… and the two of them had bfs!
Now because I am a moralfag it has affected me somehow
Thankfully I will move for work for a year, I bet nothing will happen, as always never does. But the strike of discovering this in 2 days is just lol. One of them a depressive christian and the other a recovering depressive feminist (why do I only get to meet girls with history of depression?) both very nice.
Fuck, time to get some of that happiness serum
>>710401Just leaved college and frankly yeah, since I shunned dating apps the few times I got closer was thanks to parties and good old Al-gul.
But I have seen connections form from other places, like clubs, study groups, lan parties. Not in my case obviously.
>>710603By family experience the wine addiction is optional, widows are wine personified. But more rare this days
>>711153Either be six feet or 8 inch dick
>>711155dick has to be it mane, what's the point of large height if your cock isn't a decent size, you got to adjust for width though, a wide average dick is better than a long thin stick
>>711158If I was taller I could more easily reach higher things. Plus if I ever bothered to date I'd want to get slightly taller than average women and six feet sounds like a good enough height for that
>>711059then wash your ass nigha. ain‘t nobody stopping you.
>>711165I'm stopping him. I find pleasure in his pain
>>711164i mean you could do it with a dermaroller and money for hair growing products, height though requires literal stroggification surgeries that are very expensive on top of it
could've been worse..hope you grow it back anon its possible
>>711168him??? and here I was getting excited over a stinky girl in this thread.
>>711173I just assume everyone here is a dude. It's usually correct. Maybe they're Trans or something idk.
What's the best dating app if i want to get laid quickly
>>711165Nah I mean Im ugly and have powerful self loathing and no self esteem
I shower at least twice a day and every time I shit I shower, my ass is fucking sparkling
>>711172Isn't that bullshit? I thought you had to get surgery and then it would still fall out again.
>>711344Yeah when you get hair transplants you have to take minoxidil or finasteride or whatever afterwards to prevent it from falling out
>>711153If I was 2 meters tall I could actually get away with being an autistic retard.
>>711352All personal problems are caused by autism, all social problems by neurotypicality.
>>711352To a lack of autism, yes.
>>711343Then have some other selling point. I still dated girls who weren‘t conventionally attractive and people often asked me if I model, so it‘s possible.
>>711436I think he wants dudes
>>711525>I want to murder godMy exact sentiment. It's a good thing god's probably not real.
>>711525>at least 1/3 of the women are in the 5'10-6'0 range>seeing women above 6'0 is not uncommonFucker landed in the Paradise and still complains.
>>711528He's complaining because he's short and ugly. At least I hope that's why. But yes taller women are hotter in my opinion and living in Sweden is about as close to heaven as you can live in this dumb world.
>>711531what about japan or some pasture in mongolia?
>>711534Neither has many 6 feet tall women
>>711534I don't think either of those places sound that heavenly. I mean Japan sounds nice but personally I'm just not that into Asian women. Plus they also get really cold although so does Sweden and that sucks. I suppose I just like white ladies more than Asians.
>>711601Yes. I'm not really used to snow and don't care to be unless I absolutely have to. I hate the heat too but I think I'm somewhat more used to it. I would rather live in one of those places where the weather is constant preferably not too cold or too hot but I don't plan on moving so whatever.
FUCK THIS DAY AND FUCK THE YAKUBIAN FLORISTS WHO CONTRIVED TO MAKE THIS DAY THE SECOND 14TH FEBRUARY
I wish I had not entered the internet today FUCK
>>711525The third world white nationalist has another schizo fantasy, listen and learn
I gotta admit I've been feeling some schadenfreude over all my female "friends" slowly realizing their chad boyfriend is a chud that thinks her reproductive rights, her voting rights, and her entire existence is nothing to him, and their entire relationship was built on the false assumption that he sees her as more than just a sex doll and baby factory.
Of course they stay with him because he makes $$$ and has a big dick so it's hopeless for me either way. But still it feels good being vindicated after warning these women for years that "centrist" men are just Republicans larping to get laid. The one nice thing about MAGA is that women are living in constant fear these days because the men around them are no longer pretending. Serves them right for rejecting me in high school.
I wish I wasn't so lonely tho.
>>708795Who is this tall amazon? Does she do porn?
>>712226That's Benny Shapiro's sister.
>>712226I wish. But I think there's drawn stuff with her in it if you're into that
>>712013For 99% of the audience that means going into a Wal-Mart and blasting unarmed grannies.
They don't realize they should go play suicide by cop instead.
Jerked off thinking about fucking this chuddy girl I hooked up with in a house that I got outbid on by some millenial trust-fund karen. What's wrong with my brain?
>>712242Probably lots of things but at least you had sex and that's what really matters.
>>712243Actually nothing is wrong with him. He had sex with a girl (female) for "free".
i want to leave my boyfriend to have gay sex. thoughts?
>>712260Is your boyfriend not gay or are you a woman?
>>711153big dick = guaranteed sex
after that, 9% bf>perfect skin (no blemishes, discolorations etc.)>more muscle>even more height>mandible improvements>cheekbones>bigger balls>way stronger pc muscle>larger/more active semen producing glands> better hair>better teeth>light colored eyes>better nose>slightly thinner lips
>>712260post the video of the lesbo sex when do it
>two years without visiting leftypol
>these threads are STILL going on
I fucked some girls in the meanwhile, before anyone ask.
>>712424But I did tho, what I didn't was manage to convince any of them into serious, long-term commitment.
Which makes me ponder why zoomettes are scared shitless of becoming housewives and haing children.
Or maybe its just me. >>712433Just have sex forget about the other stuff. It's probably not worth it anyways most of those women will probably be hard to please and will eventually get the ick about something you did or didn't do.
>>712433I'm assuming you're young, just enjoy the pussy. Once you hit your late 20s almost every girl wants a "serious" relationship because they start getting FOMO. Will they actually treat you any better than they did when just hooking up? No. Currently in a "relationship" with a girl I was FWB with a few years back. I'm only with her because I don't have the energy to date and house hunt at the same time.
>>712436>most of those women will probably be hard to please and will eventually get the ick about something you did or didn't doThis happened more than once.
>>712441>I'm assuming you're young, just enjoy the pussy. Once you hit your late 20s almost every girl wants a "serious" relationship because they start getting FOMOYeah, still some years until 30 but I will be capable of providing for two by then. While I enjoy casual flings, I must admit I'm not an emotionally-detached sigma chad and most certainly will fall hard for someone in the near future.
Hopefully not a fatal decision.
>>712452to love a woman is dangerous,to marry one is fatal
>>712472I blame Kissinger for everything that happened after '68.
>>712472>Double checks Kissinger's personal life>Man got divorced once>His next marriage was to a Rockefeller-sponsored glowieHoly fuck women have no loyalty. Even ultra powerful men will get CUCKED to death.
>>712601>kissingerabsolutely deserved
>>712595>>712601>>712605At least Kissinger got to have sex. Lucky bastard
enjoying you're no sex?
>>712712No but I can't see myself ever having sex without some extreme change that I'm not willing to make. So until then I'll just accept it and move on I mean I've made it to wizard territory already so it's pretty safe to say it won't change.
Guy who shitposts about his life and travels here. I’m about through my psychedelic treatment and it’s been life changing for my social anxiety. I never realized that I was pretty badly mentally ill this entire time—not even joking. If you have social anxiety that you can’t manage, you should really consider Iboga therapy
>>712801I would kill myself if this happened to me.
>>712802It will the more you try.
>>712801Context? So I'm guessing the guys gf ran off with the other guy. Well look on the bright side at least he had a girlfriend for a bit and maybe he had a sex which is a win in my opinion. She probably wasn't worth keeping anyways.
>>712801For those wondering what they're shouting, free translation
>You got shat on, trashbag>CUCK, CUCK, CUCKIncelism in LatAm is no joke.
>>712433>But I did tho, what I didn't was manage to convince any of them into serious, long-term commitment.do you see women as npcs or something retard? they probably didn't want to continue dating you for any number of reasons and that's why they dumped you. not because you failed a speech check or something
Psychedelics cured my social anxiety. I was Chad-lite this entire time, I was just too mentally ill to know. Women aren’t hard to get, you’re probably just a mentally ill scitzo lmaooooo
>>713050When are you going to Thailand?
>>713053In about a week. I’m already supposed to link with a crazy girl I used to fuck but I think it’s not even worth it considering that I have no qualms approaching random girls now. Maybe I can find one without the baggage.
>>712801Another /pol/fag was created that day
>>712913>do you see women as npcs or something retard?God, I wish.
I had a dream that I was fucking a girl with a vaginal fungal infection and I could smell a strong fungal scent despite the fact I‘ve never smelled a vagina let alone one with a fungal infection. Not sure what my brain was trying to do there.
>>713088wash your filthy pussy
Why do I always get asked to fuck people's wives????
>>713162Because you're lucky
>>713050Nah I'm pretty fucking ugly and not white and old.
And I don't want to deal with the trash that "matches" me. Being single is a lot better than dealing with self-imposed bullshit drama from some bald landwhale with tons of hormonal and fungal issues with her genitals.
>>713262They don't live here. You wouldn't know them anyways.
>>713050It helped at first then made it worse
>>713547you should experiment a little
>>713368So just do a little? Tracks.
>>713634This shit is kino
>>713637damn right it is
anon how'd you survive getting doxxed with this shit, not even the fbi would beat this info out of me
I never had le sex and will probably never have le sex. So sad.
Guys, i never had sex. Feel sorry for me.
Any ladies here (trans gals included) wanna do some free emotional labour?
Do you guys think women in porn are actually turned on?
>>713645Probably not but I don't care too much. I would hope they would be though and they'd probably be more turned having sex with the typical poem actor than with me.
>>713634>That second pic. What the fuck do they even talk about?I don't think they're doing much talking unless it's pillow talk.
>>713645Definitely not anything studio made, but you can find women on onlyfans just filming having sex with their boyfriend and stuff like that.
Do trans women get erectioms how to know my trans wife is turned on?
Guys, i hope most of you arent sex havers. This is a safe space for incels. Should be
I will die alone in this wretched world without ever having le sex
>>713680Most people have sex. Amazingly even the people here. I don't and a significant chunk don't but apparently some do somehow.
>>713710>Most people have sexI hate this wretched world.
>even the people herethey should DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE
>>713733I'd want a hot big titty demon girlfriend
I want it to work with my off and on gf, but I just don't feel any romantic desire for her after all the times she's dumped me or lied and gone on dates with other guys. She's hot and the sex would be good if she'd stop procrastinating getting on birth control, but I just don't feel romantically attracted to her anymore. I used to but that feeling has been completely drained by her actions.
>>713934Maybe she just wants to get knocked up by some guy. She's just shopping around until she finds the right one.
>>713936nah she's locked in with me now, it just feels like it's too late sometimes
>>714012You should have taken finasteride durasteride and trccned out if you value your hair that much, uygha
>>714130trans? that guy does not look transitioning he look androgynous..my favorite kind of cute guys
i just want to be buff masculine presenting but with long silky hair, and even before norwood my hair never grow to earlength, all upward like this
i just wanted to conanmaxx my look but genetics said hell no, no long hair or full hair for you
>>714133Then just take finasteride durasteride
>>714139Ew you put your dick into THAT?
>>714140she wasn't a libertarian
>>714143Yeah but liberatarian put his dick into that, so you guys are eskimo brothers now. You guys touched dicks of each other.
>>714139>and then got back togetherwhy the fuck do they still do this
>>714152it's called being retarded and not respecting yourself enough, if they cheat once they
will do it again
>>714153Its called open relationship. You are patriarchy brained. You cant own another person.
>>714156>You are patriarchy brained.historically most such "relationships" were harems of the nobles in ultra-patriarchial states
and by the way polygamy is an urbanite degeneracy
>>714157>the traditions of the dead weigh like nightmare or something on the brains of the living, or something like thatYou are a reactionary
>>714170no i hate reactionaries
<killing myself right now >>714174nooo don't kill yoursef you're so revolutionary haha i bet you make ho chi minh proud
>>714156he was actually very possesive of her, tracked her location at all times and once broke her cellphone
>>714145god damn you are right, I'm his cumbrother
>>714186She looks like a young woman who is wearing a masc, so she still looks young
>>714139Based. You should hook up with her again.
>>714153>if they cheat once they will do it againTrvke.
t. cheated and did it again
In approximately 10 hours, I will be balls deep in a crazy big breasted Thai girl who’s obsessed with me for some reason
>>714689So you couldn't find a regular woman, huh?
>>714689uygha had to settle for a gook
>>714691>>714693Asian women enjoyers are the most oppressed LGBTQ+ group
>>714695I pretend not to have a type to cope with the fact that I've struck out with every cute blonde (even the one I hooked up with) and keep ending up with ethnic girls that think dating a cracker will piss of their dad.
>>710057I ended up talking to him about it, then getting mad at him about it and breaking up with him and then asking to get back together today less than 24h afterwards. He said give him a week to think about it.
Why am I so fucking pathetic and flakey and a loser. :( why can't I be normal. I would not blame him if he wants to be far away from my crazy ass forever, I definitely would if I were him.
I'm seeing a therapist but for real how do I fix my crazy ass insecure brain from ruining my romantic relationships. :( I make good money and own my own home and have lots of friends who care about me, this is the only part of life I consistently fucking suck at.
>>714948Christ almighty. This kind of behavior is always so alien to me, reminds me of some women (and man) I've had to deal with. Never romantically thankfully. Just like, I don't know, try to have a healthy seperation from your immediate emotional state so you don't immediately turn the dial to 11 when you feel the slightest of unease about something?
>>714948>I ended up talking to him about it, then getting mad at him about it and breaking up with him and then asking to get back together today less than 24h afterwards. He said give him a week to think about it.Holy male BPD. You'll be lucky if he takes your flaky ass back, but he does know that he really cares about you and you're a drain on his sanity.
Why do socialist women go after right wing men?
>>714953They don't though…did you mean libs?
>>714948Who cares about romance you have your own house and friends. You won in life. Anyways you've have had romantic entanglements anyways so you've had it all. Just get what you can get and dip out when it's too much.
>>714949Yeah :( I think that's it :( I honestly just feel so guilty and awful that I did that to him idk if the relationship could even be saved if we got back together because he'd probably be (rightly) worried about me doing that to him again. I just flat out do not deserve to be with him honestly I've about given up all hope of him taking me back next week.
>>714952I'm female but yeah I have absolutely thought I might have BPD. I've heard treatment for it can be very effective though. SSRIs don't work well for me, all other aspects of my life are fine though aside from intense worrying and spiralling anxious thoughts sometimes. I can hold it together well enough to do well in my career, I exercise and I'm fit, and my apartment is mostly pretty clean. I take good care of my cat. I just cannot seem to be successful in love at all. Are you familiar with BPD, have you or someone you've known had it?
>>714957I don't wanna live that way, I want to be secure in a nice relationship and grow old with a husband. :(
>>714689I’m now tipsy redpilling this big tittied thai girl with folk punk songs. Don’t let your dreams be dreams
>>715017She will be the first Thai person to appreciate Apes of the State and Pat the Bunny.
I just tweezed a little black thing out of my testicles. It was inside a zit on my balls that was bothering me. I thought it was an ingrown hair but I'm not so sure now. Maybe it was some kind of bug or maybe I sat on something. Maybe I'll be dead soon. I don't know. I do feel a little relief but now I have more questions.
>>715072if it was a blackhead,then it's just oxidised sebum,it's black.
>>715011>Are you familiar with BPD, have you or someone you've known had it?I got diagnosed and that's spookily similar to the pattern of my relationships. I get mad at my gf about shit that's in the past or just doesn't matter and break up, realize I want to be with her, ask to get taken back. Sometimes we get back together sometimes not. I'm a guy btw.
gf said she would get on birth control months ago and hasn't… I haven't hit it raw in so long anons I'm so tired of condom "sex".
>>715232ehy not just have a baby? you'll have 9 months to prepare.
>>715231Things that make me happy to avoid this shit.
>>715232Lol same it sucks
You stupid fucking uyghurs need to stop responding to obvious troll posts.
>>715282I wonder what sexlesness is among 30+? I guess if you're not getting laid by then it's over.
foot fetishes are pedophilia.
>>715288Everything is pedophilia at this point. Just like the word incel means whatever you want it to mean not that it was a real word to begin with.
>>715290>i-i-i-it means nothing!pedo incel hands wrote this
>>715291Well foot fetishism isn't pedophilia anyways not that I believe that they're being serious anyways. I'm more of a bitter incel anyways not that it means much.
>>715230Yeah I'm gonna go on part time medical leave from my job to go do some "Dialectical Behavior Therapy" outpatient program. (There probably won't even be any Hegel…) I've read it's a pretty effective treatment for BPD, have you tried it? Or what kind of treatments have you tried?
I don't want to be a crazy person this fucking sucks not being able to control my own mind!!! Fuck this shit!!! :( I miss my bf so much. :(
>>715351>what kind of treatments have you triedhonestly being told I had crazy bitch syndrome was kinda liberating and helps me make better choices. Don't think I'll ever feel better. Innapropriate question feel free not to answer but were you sexually abused as a child too?
>>715393I'm not sure if I wanna fuck vidrel or be vidrel?
>>715284That's what I want to know, I was part of the 12% in 2010, but have since aged out of this graph.
>>715481I'd rather be then I could actually have sex.
>>715232there are male contraceptives
>>715526Yeah but he doesn't want to be responsible for that. You see the predicament?
>>715284>>715524I'm sorry to tell you,but between 39-73 it's 1%
https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.2418257122>sexless individuals were more educated, less likely to use alcohol and smoke, more nervous, lonelier, and unhappier. >>715528Pretty accurate actually. I also read that study beforehand or tried to anyways to much technical jargon but I got the jist of it
>>715528That's a huge range of ages. Well I'm part of some kind of 1%
>>715528This is about people who never had sex,
>>715282 is about no sex in last year.
>>715540At least you had sex. At least I hope you did
>>715541A few times but we were mostly long distance
>>715532from 2017 :
>Among participants (age =18–89 years), 15.2% of males and 26.7% of females reported past-year sexlessness while 8.7% of males and 17.5% of females reported no sex for 5 years or more. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5889124/There are also data from the gss :
https://gssdataexplorer.norc.org/variables/5049/vshow which shows around 30-40% sexlessness in the past year or something for 2024
Also this incredibly autistic blog about sexlessness in youth :
https://uncorrelated.xyz/incels-rising/#inequality-in-the-yrbss >>715554Isn’t that just cuz most people over like 60 aren’t having sex?
>>715559women are around 40% of sexlessness above 60,for men it's still around 20%. (data from 2022)
so no,old people fuck (outside of mariage)
>>715526we might wanna have kids someday so im not getting snipped and the pills arent available here yet
>>712801It's over for the beta, there is nothing left for him.
>>715598She clearly doesn't take the relationship seriously. So if he's the same then I guess it's okay. However, she could just be saying that for rage bait too.
>>715467Hmm that's fair.
No but I was in a sexually/physically abusive marriage for 5 years and got noticably more crazy after that, but I definitely wasn't 100% sane before.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, Anon :( I'm wishing all the best for you.
>>715540We're all gonna make it, friend. Spend some time with your friends and people who care about you, you have more of yourself to give them now. Watch a comfy show and go fully enjoy something your ex didn't like.
>>714948He just called and said we should stay broken up.
I knew he was going to decide that but it hurts so much anyway. I'll never find a guy who treats me that well again. I feel like my insides just got ripped out. I wish I wasn't such a crazy bitch.
>>715752You're a (probably) cute girl with your life seemingly put together, job, your own place, all that. You'll find someone quick once you've gotten over him. Knew someone in the same position and she got a decent bf pretty much the moment she stopped moping, not before hooking up with me then telling me I'd make a shitty bf though :/
>>715757At least she had sex with you
>>715797you use the strategy
I am knowingly walking into a huge mine field, please stop me
>>715981And no, not a literal mine field, before someone gets cute
>>715981Will you get sex out of it? If yes then I say proceed. Just be careful
I have a 16cm cock, should I go for a femboy I know who has a BBC fetish, or will he think I'm a fake black?
I developed trust issues from women behaving cute and submissive when they are into you but then turning serious and cunning when they are disappointed with you or you did something to turn them off. It‘s like I‘m getting comfortable with a kitty kat that wants to cuddle me all the time and then it turns out this kitty kat was merely playing an act and is more cunning and hurtful than I estimated. I can‘t explain it better than that. This has led me to keep my guard up with them.
>>715993Depends how much his possible disappointment would bother you.
>>715998maybe you should view women as people and not as pets
>>715981Based and self-destructionpilled.
>>716004Because then you might stop getting hurt by retards LARPing as an anime girl.
>>715757Sorry you got put down like that Anon, that must not have felt good. :( do you think her reasoning was accurate to reality at all though? Sometimes it helps me to get a big dose of reality when others are too nice to directly tell me to my face why I'm a problem. Which is why I scream into the void here. I just like being able to improve myself… is there anything you can take from her feedback?
Thank you very much for your kind words and encouragement, it really helps me. <3 I'm gonna do some healing and work on myself so I'll be ready for a good guy sometime in the spring. It will suck to go all of fall and winter without sex/cuddles but I really gotta set myself straight before trying a relationship again.
>>715998It's good to keep your guard up, at least at first. It might help you to communicate to her how you want to receive feedback on what you did to upset her, though. She should be bringing issues to you in a respectful and constructive way, so that you are both tackling problems as a cooperative team for the health of your bond/relationship. If she is more focused on wanting to get revenge on you or hurting you to make herself feel better, then women like that are not worth your time or love.
straight people are so weird
>>716003It was just a metaphor lol. I‘m sure a guy in the honey moon stage acts like a puppy or whatever.
>>716025Oh no, it wasn‘t like they wanted revenge or that they weren‘t communicative. I was just taken aback by the switch up that can happen when women go from infatuated to disappointed. It made me feel betrayed because of the contrast but now where I‘ve gained experience I can better estimate that sort of stuff.
>>716021>do you think her reasoning was accurate to reality at all though?we just don't have similar goals I still want to party for a few years do drugs and dance; she wants to settle down and have kids that frankly she won't be able to handle being crazy. We probably could have stayed friends if she hadn't tried to ruin things between me and my current gf after rejecting me.
Too many of you are purporting to have had coitus. At least one of you is the Lebron James of sexlessness, thereby being a big fat liar.
>>708795Gay misandrist anon is right, hetero males are the scum of the earth
>>716146I wouldn't want to date a reddittor either.
>>716148What, did you take out a ruler and measure it together?
>>716149Unironically yes, she was curious how big I was really and whipped out a ruler.
Thirty-seven. My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks.
>>716162damn bro, that sucks. its sad when women can acess sex more easily despite not being expected as the initiators..the only good side for this is she knows her techniques, her suck game is good
if you feel like your ego is in shambles perhaps you can lick 37 vaginas to be on equal terms with her
>>716158Do women really hate getting hit on? I'm pretty sure most like it as long as you're not too ugly or too annoying.
>>716150Did she only start thinking you're not big after that?
>>716170>you can lick 37 vaginas to be on equal terms with herProb like instant aids at 25+ pussies licked. Shame. Cause I love eating pussy myself.
>>716148>Who else loves reveling in their exes' failuresJust you, anon. You sound bitter and insecure. Why would you post something like that unless you haven't gotten over the ego hit that she'd leave you? Sounds like you don't have much going for you beyond an above average penis tbh.
>>716246I'll revel in your exes failures. It makes me feel better about myself.
>>716150>Unironically yes, she was curious how big I was really and whipped out a ruler.Women are truly evil
>>716272no, just given a pass for shit we'd call objectifying..usually some feel from birth that man can take any ego jab with ease
>>716278If they thought men could take it at ease, they wouldn't do it. The point of offenses is to offend.
>>716279if they're not doing it because they expect all men to be stoic and unbothered
then it got to be one of the few thumbscrews they try to twist..i recall hearing a female friend talk about anger with her human body, she thought men and women were equal in muscle and a woman can lift a man or kick him if she trains hard enough…knowing that's not possible for all, she relied on harsh words instead, small dick small man ugly poor all that stuff when she's upset
>>716291Obviously, which is why women manipulationmaxx to get their way in life.
>>716311i need to befriend more women, need to learn how to manipumaxx
>>716313gaslight gatekeep girlboss
>>716246She won’t fuck you bro
>>716198Nah, she knew I was packing from the get-go. She's just out of her depth thinking 6.5 inches isn't above average. One of her first comments after hooking up was about how I was big.
After she cheated on me and we broke up, she tried begging to get back together and stupidly said something along the lines of "you're only 6.5 inches anyway" as if that would get to me lmao
>>716246>Sounds like you don't have much going for you beyond an above average penis tbh.Speak for yourself.
I have every right to be bitter, she's the one that threw away something good for nothing. I had a ring ready for her, supported her financially during school and helped her land a job in her field while I was paying all the bills for months on end. I'd take her out on fancy dinner dates, hotels with hot tubs in the city, shower her with gifts, and she thought it'd be best to repay me by sending lewd photos to some dude that lives half way across the country.
Even after it all, I was still generous enough to her to give her a whole month to pack up and leave my apartment and take whatever she wanted.
>>716335Not looking to attack you, but I noticed that all the perks you‘ve listed are material. I learned from my father, not through him telling me but by knowing about his life experience, that you shouldn‘t expect people to like or love you just because you materially provide for them. Doesn‘t matter how many things you throw at them. You should have her wrapped around your finger even if you were a poor man.
>>716341Are women impressed by autofellatio?
>>716345Oh, don't worry, I get what you mean. But where I'm coming from is that I gave her plenty of love and attention. I'd spend 99% of my free time with her taking her out and spending time with her, doing things she wanted to do (like going on fancy dinner dates). She was just super materialistic herself and so was I, so we lived pretty lavish. I did a lot for her to show affection and that I cared and practically treated her like the only girl in the world. I was emotionally supportive too, of course and I'd always be by her side. So yeah I'm pretty bitter when she used the age-old excuse of "you weren't giving me enough love and attention" after I caught her cheating.
But better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all, I guess. I'm just glad I had the wherewithal to not cave and take her back (again).
All in all it was a toxic emotionally-manipulative and sex-based relationship that I'm glad I'm out of.
>>716345>You should have her wrapped around your finger even if you were a poor man.Impossible unless she is extraordinarily desperate.
>>716377I feel so sorry for that ugly blonde woman with a face like a spade, it must be living hell to be that repulsive
The one on the right is kind of cute
>>716384dude i get people are shitting on this sydney for that good genes shit but she is attractive as per social standarts, if only we didn't treat people diffrently on wether or not we find them attractive
>>716386Her face looks like a spade bro, she ugly 4/10 at best and I'm being nice
One on the right is maybe 6 or 7
>>716389Nah she's attractive. I wouldn't say the most attractive but I would if I knew how.
>>716390Well I guess it's natural to defend women who look like they used to be a guy, but come on son no need to be that politically correct when you're shitposting on /siberia/
>>716393I don't even have that high of an opinion of women generally but I find her attractive enough
>>716395So you're not attracted to women but you find that attractive? 🤣😂🤣😂
>>716397I'm attracted to women but I try to keep to myself so I don't hit on them. I appreciate from afar and yea I find her relatively attractive and I find many types of women attractive as well many more attractive than her that's all.
>>716399Good for you 👍
You're a great person sincerely and I hope you approach ugly women like her and tell them they're beautiful
Go for it champ
i don't know which gender is the shitiest to be ugly as
a guy, where you'll always feel like everywoman might be repulsed by you and the only thing keeping you away from sex or love is your own body and every movement you do towards the other sex will be creepy or lecherous without trying compared to a chad, or a girl who's entire gender identity is revolved around being attractive and that if you're not, guys will see you as every stereotype of ugly women, mad, mean, terrible. hysterical compared to women they ideolize more
>>716400Those women will respond defensively so they don't seem easy or a mark to be scammed/robbed.
>>716408Try this:
Walk up to that ugly woman you think is attractive snap your finger, say "I just want you to know you're beautiful" walk away without looking back
Just get used to approaching a woman at all, there's no need to fear rejection because you're not hitting on her, just flirting a little and paying a compliment and walking away
>>716424Russia prolly. Homey put up a good fight, but ultimately lost.
>>708795Exterminate all hetmoids and fascism disappears
I hate living with my conservative family I need to get a place so I can have sex every week. Having sex once a month fucking SUCKS and if one of us is not in the mood at the particular day and time we set up it's fucking over for the month
>>716497At least you have sex
>Don't date your coworkers
Is this a psy-op? I feel like more than half the girls I've gone out with were coworkers and it's never been weird
>>716424Im pretty sure she left him and went to London.
This is a common sentiment on imageboards but I'd rather have an active social life with plenty of friends than a single relationship.
>>716636Exact opposite for me. I had the former and it simply felt like work. Not much of a social person. Meanwhile a relationship fulfills deep needs I rarely get from a friendship, let alone many shallow friendships.
>>716636Why? I have like four actual friends and I'm already at my limit, I don't think I could keep up with any more.
>>716639>>716640It depends on the friendship. Some friends are just people you gossip with once every 3 months to catch up, or that cool guy whose small talk goes a little deeper whenever you see each other on accident in public, or that person who you like dearly because they're so darn cool but never keep in touch since both of you already have busy lives and enough friends. Other friends are like family where there's expectation of chatting and hanging out a lot and always keeping each other updated on their lives. Sometimes the friendship is not to any particular person but to a friendgroup such as a group chat of people in a videogame clan or old highschool friends who shoot the shit over text but never talk one-on-one nor meet in person. I often see people say "I only have 1 or 2 friends" but they're only talking about actual best friends, not casual friends who are good and have their place in one's life.
I’ve come to the conclusion that most prostitutes are either young, fat, and otherwise unattractive and acne-ridden, or old (or rapidly getting there). Actually attractive prostitutes are rare. Most prostitutes aren’t worth spending your money on. My sample size is like 80 prostitutes across 6 countries.
Also most prostitutes would be incel if they were men, not only because they’re generally undesirable but because they also comparably mentally ill.
There’s nothing worse than being very horny at 2am; scrounging through a catalog of unattractive prostitutes for one that’s tolerable; not finding one; lowering your standards until you do; and still ultimately arriving to a girl who’s uglier than her pictures and gives mediocre service. In a just world, prostitutes would just be incels. And who told prostitutes that tattoos and fake tits were attractive? We can all tell they’re fake, they look like balloons stapled to your chest. Just spend that money on a gym membership and naturally increase the size of your ass while shedding that gut. Also drink more water and practice skincare. You bitches can’t put in the minimal effort to be actually decent at your job, and it shows.
>>716808>>716809I guess I've never been this horny. Porn is good enough for me. You make some points I think but you should just learn to not use their services if you feel that way.
>>716837Porn doesn’t compare to good sex, but getting that from a hooker is an addicting gamble.
>>716882JFC, no wonder I'm an incel.
>>716882Know a dude like this. He only gets pussy if he‘s getting hooked up by a generous friend. Arabs don‘t have BBC status, they are not seen as having any ethnic positives.
>>716921mohammed your jihad will always be welcome in my bussy
>>716969you maybe have an urinary infection if you wash yourself correctly and still smells like death.
yes it can be the only symptom (more common with women tho,it's the reason people joke about pussy smelling like fish)
>>716882That look is malegazemaxxed, not a surprise
>>716349Largely no. It might impress men though, if that's your forte.
>>716377im so fucking tired of twitter and the way its built to keep you scrolling by promoting ragebait and encouraging its userbase to become increasingly more hateful and demented.
like, these peoples brains are so fried by the algorithm that literally anything they see becomes an ideological crusade or a matter of life and death, you cant just see a funny haha joke and move on, like, find any tweet, any tweet, as innocuous as it may be, and you will have swathes of those subhumans trying to somehow pick a fight on quote retweets or replies, those trad save evropa retards posting from some eastern european shithole, living in poverty while wasting their life away shitposting about how much they are attracted to children
and they do shit like this all day. i know the whole logic of twitter is to try and doompill you so you keep scrolling and become addicted to hating on things, but the fact that this actually works and gets so many people hooked is blackpilling in of itself. fuck you
>>716989We are gonna see videos pop up where a Norf FC caricature brutally mangles some twinky xitter chudcel caused by the chudcel trying to fuck with the Norf FC's food because its le foreign (hecking traitor!!)
When I see myself in the mirror at a strip club I look like a goofy ass cartoon character next to an actual human.
>>716982>try and doompill you so you keep scrolling and become addicted to hating on things"and where does that bring you? Back to me" (Lyotard t-poses to assert his dominance over the critique of the libidinal economy of capitalist pleasure/gratification)
https://criticallegalthinking.com/2024/04/10/clickbait-capitalism-or-the-return-to-libidinal-political-economy/ >>716969F. Shower before sex. Your dick has to be the easiest part of your body to wash. But since women frustrate me, it should be noted that you can always insult a woman by saying her pussy stinks or she looks old. These are universal insults across all cultures and age groups.
>>716921There is no difficulty in picking up guys. If you're under 30 and in decent (not even good) shape you are guaranteed to find someone who will suck your dick.
there's this guy I've been on a date with ten days ago, it went well, we kissed at the end, talked a bit by message, but he seems very distant and he didn't give me another date (despite giving date ideas), my ego is shattered
>>717138dang. time to move on though. imo you should never get invested because one or two dates.
>>717160Oh shit, have you broken up before?
>>717163Only half a dozen times. Next time will be permanent if I can muster my self respect. I really care about her but it's so exhausting being off and on.
>>717170Are you the one waiting on his girlfriend to get on birth control or you a different one?
>>717160Never in your life should you ever get together with someone you broke up with. I bless you with this now and onwards. Treat it as a curse if you must.
>>717199Some, maybe most, people have to learn the hard way. Sometimes it takes 6 times or more.
>>717181Same anon.
>>717199>>717200This time will be different because… it just will okay.
>>717213I wonder why we have no community? That rightoids explaination will be nothing but spooks.
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>>717213How about this dude takes a shower math and then goes outside math.
>>717213those graphs are starting to veer just a tiny little bit into schizo territory, i think. not quite disorganized enough but the density is getting there.
>>717379Yes and? At least provide a witty or degrading comment. Preferably both
>>717379The one in the black dress is going to have tons of varicose veins by the time she is 25.
I haven't had sex since I stopped smoking weed, 3 months, women are actually sick in the head and only want to use me for my penis and weed.
>>717405How long did you go without sex before that?
I got 57
So, is this an incel thread? Fuck it, I'll try my luck anyway. I feel very weird about relationships, mainly because it seems that I'm alone in what I feel. Incels keep moaning about dating market dynamics or some shit, but my problem is worse - I don't feel like there are any women that I would actually like. They are all too fucking boring and not remotely autistic enough for me to find them likable. At this point, I had like 5 different chances to start a serious relationship and lose my virginity, but every time it ended with me feeling fucking nothing to the women who would have liked to go further. And when I feel something, it all fucking collapses, usually because it turns out they are gay (happened twice) or asexual (also happened twice) or had a bf (happened once). I want to meet someone with whom I could share the world, but instead its all just stupid dumbfucks (and if they were moids, I'd hate them for their dumbfuck tastes even more so don't try to call my radfem ass mysoginist, I am a misandrist at best (male gays and fellow autists are cool tho) and a misanthrope at worst) whose only hobby is to listen to the most surface level popslop and go shopping like that was a real fucking hobby. Incels keeping whining about running out of likes on dating apps. Bitch, I don't recall the last time I ran out of fucking likes, but every fucking day for a month now I've been running out of women to swipe. And don't get me started on motherfucking tinder. I FUCKING GUARANTEE THAT PIECE OF SHIT APP HIDES ALL THE WOMEN WHO DON'T MAKE AN ARTISINAL INFLUENCER TIER PROFILE TO PROMOTE THEIR ZERO-PERSONALITY WORTHLESS ASSES BEHIND A TIDE OF FUCKING WORTHLESS BROADS WITH SO MUCH MAKEUP ON THEM THAT I COULD ROLL EM OVER MY LAWN AND GET SIMILAR EFFECTS AS USING ROUND-UP. Anyway, I feel like I am all fucking alone and the only people who I'd actually want to have a relationship with are all gays and transwomen for whom I simply don't have any sexual attraction to, even if they are amazing to talk to. Maybe I should have went to some artschool instead of getting a fucking stem degree, maybe there women would be such that I could actually see a relationship with them. Sonetimes I feel like there has to be someone, or maybe a lot of women who dream about someone like me, but fuck if I know how to find them. I imagine such people just don't use dating apps and, likely just as me, find it way too akward to do any irl searching. And you know who I blame? Fucking patriarchy. Fucking scumbag piece of shit toymakers and other retards that made women girly and denied them equal access to gaming from childhood. I blame fucktards who gatekept mathematics and engineering from women by making these subjects "ungirly". Hope they all fucking burn in hell as scumfuck moids and housewife slavewhores they are.
>>717485As an asside, can we men fucking finally start a male liberation movement?
>inb4 incel shit about MRAsI mean actual liberation and not complete and total surrender to fucking reactionary views of gender. We deserve a right to have no gender norms attached to us, because we are living sapient beings. I am a feminine man and I am fucking proud. I am proud that I don't need to concern myself over what other moids will think if I dress fruity. I let myself cry. I refuse to do things just because "but you're a moid, you should do [insert retarded moid expectation]. We need to normalize becoming male versions of unshaved armpit feminists. I refuse to be tough and macho just because you want me to be. Are you a weak willed bitch whose minge gets wet over me being willing to drive you around? Go fuck yourself, I'm not getting the boondogle that you call a car just for your sorry, non-independant ass. If I keep fit, its because I like to look at myself in the mirror. If I am fashionable, its an accident of my current choice of clothes that I got from second hand store or poundland (its cheaper and the quality is just as good). My phone is 7 yeard old and I refuse to change because it just works. If you think amy of these things are bad, then you are a sorry ass loser that can't live free from the judgement of others retarded opinions.
>>71747719
I really deluded myself into thinking I'd get cyborg at least 🫤
>>717492holy hell gandalf
maybe there is hope for you to touch grass and dismantle yourself of your magical powers? i feel bad for you bro
>>717485>usually because it turns out they are gay (happened twice) or asexual (also happened twice)damn misantropy anon
perhaps you could try the bisexuals?
also do you believe that most of the fuck up and lonliness in dating come more from women being extremely picky or from dudes? you're a dude, a straight femboy. i figured dating for femboys is easy as talking
>>717477>>717492Also, for shits and giggles, I had my sib take this test too, and they placed 71.
> 1 month away from turning 25
> spent basically my entire life alone
> about lose the last bit of hope I had left.
>>717544Better to lose it now than later. I think 25 is the cut off for changing your life maybe 30 for some.
>>717494For dating in general? Both I'd say. I hate myself for giving false hopes more than once, thus I can't really blame anyone for doing it to me - usually its a case of me feeling that "nah this ain't gonna work but I should try" that leads to me eventually ghosting someone, so I can't blame others for it. Mostly its a case of people not knowing what they want or not being able to communicate it out, leading to failures in dating and wasted time. For e-dating? Its definetly neither, but the fucking platforms that are making it shit. Tinder, and it took me way too long to realize, is a place for lowest common denominators (intellectually, if not looks-wise) from both genders, and mostly focused on hookups - if you don't want that, you're in a wrong place, if you do, then maybe its actually somewhat decent? Couldn't say because for me using Tinder was just swiping left 99% of the time. Another thing, and I think its not only Tinder, but other apps that do it, there is definetly an algorithm that punishes you for not uploading new pics of yourself, and even though I know this, I can't fucking bother making photoshoots of myself every few months. There are smaller apps, for instance now I settled on Bumble, which have different kinds of generic users, so maybe other anons could find this helpful - didn't help me too much, as I am searching for someone as autistic (well, not medically but you know what I mean, another kind of "too many words" person who would like to talk about marxist analysis of shrek and gnosticism with interest) as me, but yeah Bumble is way better as its average user seems to be someone that entered professional managerial class, while Tinder is for those who flunked highschool or only went clubbing during university.
>Easy to date for femboysWell, maybe that's true for getting laid? Again, I had many chances where I could have gone further in a relationship but decided against it because I didn't think I could see myself in a relationship with them that was on any deeper level than superficial. Idk, maybe I am just a rarity in men due to me not just wanting to settle for sex.
>>717551there is no cut off for changing your life. Back to /r9k/
>>717551I don't think it's possible for anyone to like me, that ship has sailed i never got to the right dock and I was holding a counterfeit ticket the entire time.
Life feels bleak and I wanted to vent but I don't see the point
>>717565Not in a meaningful way anyways. The younger the better the older you get the more concessions you have to make in order for the changes to be worth it. I think any improvement especially in regards to dating and sex is more hollow as you get older. I guess it's better late than never but if it wasn't worth it in the end it's best not to try. Distract yourself with something else.
>>717560>Tinder, and it took me way too long to realize, is a place for lowest common denominators (intellectually, if not looks-wise) from both genders…What the actual fuck are you talking about? You are not getting anything off of Tinder if you are not a highly photogenic conventionally attractive male or a female.
>>717485>I feel like I am all fucking alone and the only people who I'd actually want to have a relationship with are all gays and transwomen for whom I simply don't have any sexual attraction toGenuinely sounds like you just need friends anon. I go over to my homie's house we cook a meal, shoot the shit, smoke a pipe together and it kills that loneliness feeling. I only ever got that once out of a girl and it was a weird casual situation where she didn't want to date me and it made me feel even worse :(
>>7175741) I meant lowest common denominator mentally and socially. Aka young adult dumbfucks who barely skirted by not becoming drop-outs because they were too busy sitting in instagram or smoking cigs while skipping school
2) Might be my taste, but every promoted top-tier profile for women looked fucking grotesque. Its all instagram-addict tier shit with faked photos and snouts irradiated from the use of 100 different skincare products that succeed in only making a women look like slightly younger versions of disgusting Fox News hostesses. I guess, to use incel shudra terminology, these "staceys" are somehow supposed to be desirable? Idk, I think if you find them hot you need to check yourself for mental damage. Also literally not single one of these "10 out of 10s" will EVER have any interesting hobbies besides "city breaks" (honestly if you think this is a hobby that defines you, you might need to be put into some kind of eugenics list) at worst and hyper-unspecific "music" (we all know its Weeknd, not that I have something against him - Hurry Up Tomorrow might be the best worst film I've ever seen, even better than the Room) at best.
3) I can only assume same kind of vapid retards are the "top tier 10 out of 10s" on the moid side
And with that answered, can we just appreciate how mindbroken incels are? That they geniuenly think "10/10" is desirable to both be like and to fuck with when you are unironically just aiming for the most degenerated Time Machine Morlocs evoking, Idiocracy-tier mutherfuckers and fatherfuckettes possible? Insane. Makes you really ponder the future of humanity.
>>717584Well see, that's the problem. I want a long-term romantic relationship that would feel like a male brolationship with a fellow autist (and in case of friends, don't worry, I have them, but I just always feel sad when I leave them). Yet god cursed me to not be gay NOR trans, sadly. Like I see at the tropes of boomers running away from wifey to watch the sportsball and I'm like "bro, thats so pathetic, damn, imagine being a relationship where you wouldn't both go watch spartsball and nerd out about how Sweany Burgerman, the ballfucker on Fourth or whatever you burgers say about your sportsball roles, flunked the game by not emulating the Ohio twist good enough with his bat". I listen to family stories how grandpappy lived a loveless marriage out of innertia and social pressure and I am mortified that I'll end up in one, having to settle for some traditionally attractive dumbfuck broad that watches romcoms and listens to local equivalent of Taylor Swift (or just Taylor Swift) and who does the "nothing to worry about kitten" meme when I talk about politics instead of joining me in 2 hour discussion on the morality vs pragmatism in relation to the use of political violance in third-world spontanious revolutions
>>717636>any interesting hobbies besides "city breaks" (honestly if you think this is a hobby that defines you, you might need to be put into some kind of eugenics list)just casually roasted most of the high-value women 2000s VHS pick up artists go after in movies and games..their hobbies always have somthing to do with going to prague or studying modern arts or going clubbing each saturday
do people still go to the clubs nowadays? seems like the entire premise is just girls going there expecting a man to buy them drinks while crap music is playing
>>717477
>131yet I still feel like a fucking loser. seems unlikely I will never not feel that way.
most of my points just come from being tired/bored of feeling like a loser and spending my whole life trying to rid myself of that feeling (unsuccessfully).
>>717639>I want a long-term romantic relationship that would feel like a male brolationship with a fellow autistlower your physical standards and go to game shops to play TTRPGs, tons of this type of woman there that would probably be flattered at (sweet/positive/not creepy) male attention
>>716049she sounds really awful, ew :(
where do you go to dance? I try to go to rock concerts/shows to dance (could honestly never see myself in a club ew), but people in this area of the country are stiff as boards at every concert, and the most movement you see is some limp half-hearted head bobbing it's honestly harrowing. everyone seems either devoid of joy or afraid of being seen as cringe these days.
>>717662It's funny you'll probably feel like a much bigger loser than me when I'm objectively way more of a loser. Irony is it makes you try harder so maybe some people need to feel like losers to succeed but you'll never feel too successful. I kind of just don't care I haven't completely stopped caring but if I do nothing about it nothing will change so what's the point.
>>717643>do people still go to the clubs nowadays? seems like the entire premise is just girls going there expecting a man to buy them drinks while crap music is playingIf you like to dance and aren't picky about music it's a good time. Most guys are too insecure to dance, and it's easy to stand out. In a big city I can dance with a few interested girls in a night. I think a lot of girls that go out to clubs tend to have a type that either leans into ghetto player or latin lover, which isn't me but I still meet some who just like to dance. Objectively, it's dying. People are just less social. Music events lean older, and it's not just the cost of going out these days though that's a big factor.
>>717677manosphere youtube be telling me its a social reaction by men to picky club girls
but that aside i'm kinda sad about it dying, i always wanted to go to a club and dance up with girls..but from what's described they are closing down in many countries and the music aren't even that good, everyone's on their phones, and too much rules are being put on visitors like using a QR code for bathrooms and no puking.
i have no idea how did strip clubs not see the crash coming. 2020 covid hit ruining socialization, dating market clearly not working…rising prices means no more men coming to pay a girl for a lapdance when the rent is high.. meat space no longer being the same as apps take over
>>717677this is why you go to a metal event or a rave if you want to find a partner do dance with
>>717663I already do that, but granted its a new development for me to go to such clubs so I didn't have much time to find anyone. Problem is I feel way too akward to approach someone like that cuz I feel like I am tainting the sacred place where people go to run away from reality by womanizing. Well, that and the fact that most women at the local tabletop club are taken and come there together as a pair with their bfs.
>>717687Maybe you should stand on a street corner holding a sign saying you're looking for a boyfriend free woman
>>717678Manosphere is 90% ragebait, but that chick was so right. There's nobody on the dance floor and no point going out without it.
>>717679>metal eventlol lmao. Only ever seen one girl in the pit. She took a fall onto gravel, and it was honestly impressive. Danced with her again at a rave and would have gone for it if I was single. I love raver girls, especially when they share their candy.
>>717687Key is consistently showing up and getting to know people in the space. You gotta make time and keep putting yourself out there. And if you don't find your honey there, there's always a chance she could come thru a friend connection you make there.
Game shops/playing D&D are where I made 90% of my irl friends, they are a welcoming group. None have been bf material for me yet, I keep hoping for that, but at least they're friendly and easy to socialize with.
>>717698Why are people in these places so horny? I'm not even just talking about the guys because it's often clearly consensual as you see them and their no offense usually less than attractive gfs being uncomfortably horny with each other in public. Same thing with ren fairs and anime club (at least when I was in high school and it was more explicitly a weird kid thing, maybe it's changed because young zoomers/alphas love anime)
>>717698>but at least they're friendly and easy to socialize with.is it a common occurence for people there to make romantic advances towards single women?
>>717698>None have been bf material for me yetWhat is bf material for you? Do you consciously think about this in your social circles? Genuinely curious.
>social circle is organizing a hangout at a person's house
>host is an acquaintance/mutual friend of a good friend but not personally a friend of mine
>host goes to comedic lengths to avoid inviting me themselves, like outright refuses to invite me and dodges any questions i have about the party because they want our mutual friend to do invite me instead
>mutual friend invites me
>i feel weird about how rude and evasive the host is being so i politely decline because i have a feeling nobody really wants me to go besides my friend
>hear indirectly later on that the host got really mad at me for declining and started complaining about how i'm a flake and complaining about how i don't like them
>host continues to semi-ignore me face to face and pretend like nothing happened
Why are people like this? Was this some arcane 4D normie social ritual? Where exactly did I fuck up? What sort of 'cues' was I supposed to be picking up here?
>>717725nah no cues I don't think, sounds like that person just doesn't like you for whatever reason. not everyone will like you and that is OK!
>>717720is attractive (to me, and that is a wide net), taller than me, kind, intelligent, single, no kids, has his shit together in life, and DOESN'T DO THIS SHIT:
>>710043 And yes I do think of these things in social situations, as I am perpetually extremely lonely when I am single. I think that's pretty normal??
>>717717has happened to me a couple times yeah. they weren't creepy or pushy about it and we can still be pals and play make believe games n dollies afterwards anyways.
>>717701LOL YEAH can confirm it's an extremely horny environment. or at least sexually open. that's a great question though I haven't considered why that would be the case. predisposition to open-mindedness and fantasies perhaps? it's also usually explicitly a lefty environment (magas are not allowed to enter game shop I play at) which is also nice.
>>717698Yeah, that's what I'm doing naturally since the club is basically the only anchor I have to reality. I do hope some day someone cool will show up or maybe I'll get to invite someone I meet and they'll like the hobby, but as it stands now its more of my mental wellness space. But also I do feel very akward approaching people when not in a 1 on 1 environment, feels cringe, as as I said, feels like I am brining sin into the garden of eden, so to speak.
>>717751I'd say that lonelyness is completely normal, though it doesn't stop some people from judging you for it, like "blah blah, why don't you stiff upper lip and occupy your self with work". For me its mostly the feeling as if I just don't have a reason to live life for - like, I can have experiances, but they feel vacouous without someone to share them with, and that's to the point that seeing or making nice things make me sad when I'm alone because they only seem to exist in a vacuum.
You know what, this might be extremely emberassing, but would you like to try connecting, like exchanging some burner protonmail address to reach out and try chatting - perhaps we'll like each other? Heads up though, I'm an ocean away in Europe (and as I gether you're from US)
>>717768>I see memes and articlesThat is because it is considered a curiosity. It just doesnt happen often. Like what can you provide to a 35 year old woman?
>>717751>mfw catch all these checklists more or less>except for having life together and likely being tallerall of what you wrote sounds completely normal but oh my god being a 5'4 manlet sucks ass, i can try to organize my life but getting taller is impossible
femanon why do girls always want a taller boyfriend i never understood it..is walking around with a shorterman degrading or is it a fetish for habing a bigger man than you?
>tfw no le sex
I don't want sex, I want to knock up a girl on the first date.
>>717818Dummy. Thats still le sex
>>717753>has happened to me a couple times yeah. how often would you say this happened, out of every 10 guys for example?
>we can still be pals and play make believe games n dollies afterwards anyways.sounds pretty nice, but for myself honestly i would be rather uncomfortable being around those people after that, especially one on one (it's manageable in a group setting though). i should probably just get more social experience to get around those feelings ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
>>717768>got along well with the nerdy (usually Asian or Mexican) alternative women who are currently in that age bracket. what stopped you from proceeding further, if you already got well?
>>717797>femanon why do girls always want a taller boyfriend i never understood it..is walking around with a shorterman degrading or is it a fetish for habing a bigger man than you?i don't quite get the preference either, however the shorter men that i've met (that were single and open to dating) tended to be overly self-conscious about their height and tried to overcompensate by leaning into traditional gender roles way too much and be incredibly reactionary in general, i'm also rather gnc and they constantly felt the need to "one-up" me in imaginary "masculinity" which was obnoxious to deal with
>>717820>tended to be overly self-conscious about their height well yeah,that's the worst part of it,if you're ugly/dumb/fat/short,you probably on top of it are mad about it and end up with shitty coping mechanisms,whereas being pretty just means you're better socialised and confidant lol.
>>717822not really, i think you're overgeneralizing in this case. some coping mechanisms can be productive
>end up with shitty coping mechanismsthe particular coping mechanism i've described was especially unattractive even if the guy in question had a genuinely cute face and body
the reactionary machism ruins all possible attraction for me
>>717751>I am perpetually extremely lonely when I am singleFunny my experience is the opposite. I'm happier single most of the time. I think I just need a reliable FWB situation to deal with the horniness.
>>717725They didn't want you there. Had a similar experience where I was the guy's gobetween and I straight up told him "It's not my party to invite people to" instead of inviting like your friend did. Eventually he nagged the host enough she invited him. He came, finished a fifth of vodka (that he brought himself and hid in the cupboard) and inappropriately hit on a girl who was high af.
>>717819The point is just sex with cuckondom on is unsatisfactory. I want completely irresponsible reproduction after date 1. Especially if she has a bf that she's looking to break up with (or not).
>>717843Irresponsible sex is the only real sex honestly
>>717835With the way the word asexual has been diluted, what you said would 100% happen because the person consider themselves asexual for not liking nude scene in movies.
>>717781Now prompt for her to do breath play with it
>>7178353-Chord Dorks in the big 25 🌹🌹❤️🩹🔋✅
>girl says shes a "femcel"
>find out she just has an average looking boyfriend
>>717768uoh i want to cuddle and watch invader zim with a 31 year old pharmacy tech
>>718017>water is wet>>718039me too that was the real point of that post
gf is over and I'm still so lonely
>>718240Go look for a second girlfriend?
how do I even have sex if my parents are home all the time and I had to abandon my room to sleep in the living room floor because of mold?
>>718285Well the real and most common answer is you don't. But if you don't mind violating your parents living space, don't mind potentially getting kicked out and have a sex partner willing to overlook your living situation you just go for it. Sex is inherently risky anyways so just take a risk. Alternatively try to see if your sex partner is willing to fuck at their place. If they're a woman then they may not like that or get the ick but who cares just go for it and see what happens.
>>718299Shoot your veggie omelette into the team leader
>>718303Apparently prostitution is bad for women or something. The real problem well of everything is existence just existing causes trouble and problems. Theirs really no solution to this other than not existing to begin with. Best we could do is cope
https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/regret-belittling-men-63-ended-up-alone-3569366I regret belittling men; at 63, I’ve ended up alone
>It wasn’t the first time something like this had happened to me. I have always taken the driving seat, been determined to get the last word and was too busy with books to master the art of charm.
>I’m convinced that the reason I’m still booking a table for one at the age of 63 instead of having settled with a significant other is because, like so many women of my generation, feminism has ruined my love life. Instead of empowering us, those ideals of the second-wave feminists made us believe marriage and domesticity were to be avoided like the plague and that men were competition rather than partners.
>I might have a successful career as a writer and broadcaster, but I have never had children or been married, and my longest relationship lasted eight years. I regret this; I had always imagined I would end up married with two wonderful children and living in a house in the countryside. I have paid a hefty price for my so-called liberation.
>I was 17, and a pupil at Godolphin and Latymer – one of Britain’s most academic institutions – when I was introduced to the Women’s Liberation movement. It offered such hope and excitement, and we spent our lunch breaks soaking up the feminist mantras of Germaine Greer and Betty Friedan: “Act like men,” they cried as they burnt their bras and demonised housework and the family.
>By the time I was 25 clutching a degree in French and Italian, I was a bright, confident feminist, keen to flex her intellectual muscles and to never let a man get the last word. I read Nietzsche for fun and my bedside table has always buckled beneath the weight of substantial, intellectually challenging books. At first, men loved my wit and intelligence. “You’re such a breath of fresh air”; “I love talking to you”; “You’re the first woman I’ve met who stimulates me,” they’d trill.
>That was until I had lectured them for the umpteenth time on the virtues of modernism. “You’ll never win an argument against Kate,” one man said as he watched me outsmart yet another potential lover. Subtext: don’t bother.
>Men have called me “intimidating”, “scary”, and “opinionated”. I now see that not only was I trying to prove I was their intellectual equal – or superior – I was treating every encounter with a man like he was my adversary.
>If a date bought me a bouquet of flowers, instead of smiling and putting them in a vase of water. I would bite their head off. “Can’t you buy me some nice olive oil or balsamic vinegar?” I said with an eye roll, to one hapless suitor as he stood wilting faster than the fragrant offering he held in his hand. He had bothered to think about making me happy and I crushed him for it.
>I placed so much importance on finding a “strong man” who could match me, that I forgot men are people with feelings. Indeed I forgot I had feelings and hid my softness. I now see that I longed to be loved but I was too scared to be vulnerable. I was using my sharp mind to protect my all-too-soft heart against yet further rejection.
>Another thing I regret deeply is my tally of one-night stands when I was younger. I distinctly remember thinking it would be uncool to say no to the men I met at parties, or dated but I struggled to enjoy it. There was always a disconnect. This was abundantly clear the morning after. As I lay there waiting for a sign of affection, he would be singing the triumphant “had her” song in the shower. A quick cheerio and he was gone.
>While I pretended to enjoy it, I felt uncomfortable about sex so early on. I felt empty and used. >>718336The male version of her probably had to pay prostitutes for a lot of his sex or probably never had sex. She would've probably seen him as a cuck and would've gotten the ick and never dated him.
>>718336>old person has regrets over life choicesSlow news day in the UK I see.
>>718336Rightoid propaganda
>I read Nietzsche for funIs that supposed to be impressive?
>>718357Most regrets people have are usually over missing out on uncertain prospects.
>>718336Typical white suburban cultural patron with the “woulda coulda shoulda”.
Had this lady got to have the family life she felt like she missed out on, she’d by a miserable wine mom.
>>718378>Had this lady got to have the family life she felt like she missed out on, she’d by a miserable wine mom.I've realized how many people are like this, they'd just be unhappy no matter how things are set up. Liberals are not really incorrect when they point out how miserable a lot of traditional relationships were/are, and i can see it with my own family, but obviously this laissez-faire environment of sexlessness for all but a few men who won the genetic lottery and constant bombardment of gender war propaganda has not worked out at all because no matter how many times you can repeat the word 'entitled' humans need companionship. It seems like everyone except for a happy few who fell in love early or on a chance encounter are doomed to be miserable forever. Yes alienation etc and im sure the phones have ruined this like they ruined everything else but I am not so sure this would not be the case in all societies. Is there any solution?
>>718395No tits but what dat ass like?
Is it okay to date young girls as an older guy when you are mentally stunted, googoo gaga?
>>718473An American guy having a racial meltdown about an Indian guy dating a white chick in Poland??? Wtf. It was Poland right?
My girlfriend turned me down for sex on saturday and I'm still crashing out about it. Might break up with her.
>>718486We had mid condom sex right after I posted this. It's always when I'm seething the most that she initiates sex. I'm beginning to suspect she picks up on that and just does it so I don't leave but isn't that into me.
>>718497Whatever you do, don't talk to her about it.
>>718532Glasses are sexy.
>>718486my gf is super frisky i only need to kiss her all over her body to get her on the mood, it's awesome
>>716158< took me 19 years to realize a fairly straightforward plot pointalso this gender-bent johnny bravo feels too fetishy, was this aired 19 years ago?
>>718534literally how does one fuck with glasses on
>>718551You know it's funny but there was a recent study that I believe was posted in this thread that said early use of glasses was one of the many signs that someone who is an older virgin has. There were other things that were common depending on gender and so forth but I most remember the study going use of glasses.
>>718572>>718570ieng sary too
<the genocidal Pol Pot-Ieng Sary clique>>718567was it correlated with that for both sexes? considering that bad eyesight is hereditary and (anecdotal bullshit) i see very young children in glasses also have spectacles wearing parents, either one or both
>>718532Bourgeoisie bullshit, glasses are the true working class prosthetic.
>>718570also its impossible he was a fan, in his end years pol became a unabomber and lived in a hut with a radio, don't think cambodia would play elliot music on its shortwaves
>>718570>>718577picrel is trve, brother number 1 is nightcore and lolicore/kusoicore enjoyer ( ˘͈ ᵕ ˘͈♡)
>in his end years pol became a unabomber and lived in a hut with a radioit was after his domestic arrest by ta mok after a show trial, nate thayer reported on it with video footage
in comparison, ta mok had a mansion for himself. not going to post more kampuchea stuff to not shit up the thread entirely
>>718580
i think stalin is based as fuck. need more noise though
>>718578of course hitler is a burzum neofolk head
i really vibe with mao, plastic love by Mariya Takeuchi is the only album i know
god i feel uncultured for only knowing burzum and plastic love of all covers any anon got a full list?
>>718573https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.2418257122Here's the study I just kind of skimmed it but I didn't see anything about differences in the sexes in regards to glasses.
>>718584>Hitler<Burzum - Filosofem<Mayhem - Dawn of the Black Hearts<Kanye West - MBDTF<Korn s/t<Paul McCartney II>Castro<Buena Vista Social Club<Silvio Rodriguez - Al final de este valle<Clube da Esquina<Pescado Rabioso - Artaud<Victor Jara - El derecho de vivir en paz>QaddafiI only know Todd Edwards - Prima Edizione on that one.
>Stalin<My Bloody Valentine - Loveless<LCD Soundsystem - Sound of Silver<Have a Nice Life - Deathconsciousness<The Avalanches - Since I Left You<Talk Talk - Spirit of EdenDon't know the rest of the Mao albums :(
Pol Pot has a Sewerslvt album and Goreshit - my love feels all wrong, don't know what the rest are.
t. lapsed /mu/tant
>>718578castro always on top huh
>>718679How do you avoid ingrown hair? Cant shave my legs because of it.
>>718693nta. i used to use a spray called billie which helped avoid ingrown hairs in my crutch but not fully so i dunno
>>718698Try to experiment with different hairstyles and facial hair. It is amazing how much better my face looks since I grew my hair. Real game changer.
>>717999I think about my ex and how he ruined my life. Lost basically everything. And now I don't trust anyone and have nothing left to look forward to.
I wake up multiple times at night, and the first thing I think of is utter dread and wanting to kms.
I know people who want to hook up but same with sexting it only makes me feel more lonely, used, worthless and empty. I don't think I can take another year of this.
I ran into him at a previous low point in my life, and I was the happiest I've ever been when we were together. But after a few years he ghosted me, disappeared (for ~6 months), and I found out he was just using me. Lied to me, stayed with other people behind my back (during previous times he'd gone missing), and many completely fucked up stories I only learned of this year. Including stuff he'd previously denied.
Ended up tens of thousands of dollars in debt (most pissed away on his gambling habit and drinking/drug use) , lost my apartment, lost most of my stuff, lost my job, health problems, lost touch with ton of people and risked my life for him more than once.
Fuck my life…
>>718699i think about the hairstyle a lot but i am not sure what i'll do; i got an afro since my hair is curly-ish and i wanted to try something different (not that i dislike it or anything, just curious of how i'd look with a new one) but almost every haircut would look bad on me because is not that curly for it or simply not for me. i'm afraid of shaving my head again if it goes wrong lol
about facial hair, there isn't much i can do. i got a moustache that i make sure is trimmed and evenly leveled (not sure if that's the right word choice); the rest of my beard isn't fully grown but i'm trying to "fix" (or fill) it by using a dermaroller
>>718752jesus. i know this isn't much and it probably doesn't mean anything to you but i really hope you get out of this situation and state of mind. all the best
Even finding hookers is tiring at this point, I stg there’s got to be more to life than this. I called for an Asian hooker to come to my room and her pictures unbelievably fake. Like normally they just send a random girl that doesn’t even resemble the picture, but this time I could tell the pictures were actually of her but so edited that they shouldn’t have even bothered. The only thing that matched were her tattoos. Her skin was lightened a ton, she shaved off like 10 lbs from her gut, she filled out her tits, she added some curves to her hips and an ass, and she hide her gross looking bulging eyes. On top of that, she was wearing blue eye contacts for some reason. The eyes were the worst part though. Bitch had the nerve to come to my room looking like a tanned JD Vance. Obviously I turned her away, but I still paid her some of the agree upon amount because I didn’t follow security best practice and told her my actual room number. If not for the fear of retaliation, I would’ve just sent that bitch packing. She was extremely undesirable, even as an incel I know my SMV is higher. I’m surprised she makes a living as a sex worker. I guess old white guys and Indians will fuck anything Asian or something. Mongering in 2025 is so cooked. The internet has ruined fucking hookers I stg.
>>718698I basically have no pictures of myself. I avoid cameras like a superstitious person from the 19th century. I'm not actually thin, but not fat either honestly. I'm also
>>717018 >>718786Worst is I'm told to move on by people close to me as if this were just a bad fling, but I'm still broken from everything that happened.
But thanks anon, it does help. Because I feel insane when people act like it isn't a big deal.
I also hate the fact I'm probably never going to be able to trust someone on that level ever again. Which makes me feel a lot more suicidal than everything else I've lost.
>>718792> I guess old white guys and Indians will fuck anything Asian or something. Mongering in 2025 is so cooked. The internet has ruined fucking hookers I stg.I swear to God people really have no historical literacy of anything pre-Internet. They blame the Internet for everything wrong. Let’s forget that Asian courtesans were a thing for white men in the colonial era.
Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world so it will have a lot of people fucking it up for everyone else.
>>718752How and where did you meet?
And how did he leach that much money out of you?
>>718845He was working at a restaurant. I was walking through the city I used to live in one evening, and came across this pizza place I wanted to check out. We ended up talking, I started visiting regularly, we became friends, roommates, and then more than just friends.
He had health problems, which he wasn't faking. And I helped him pay for meds and surgery. But he also had a gambling problem he hid from me and lied about several times when confronted. He was also an alcoholic which I figured out quickly, and tolerated at the time. He later also lied about quitting drinking.
But he always had problems aside from that, and he'd always ask me for my "help" to fix them. It was a few hundred dollars worth here and there. But it was never enough. And once my own health got worse and I wasn't earning as much (and eventually nothing) and nobody was willing to loan me money anymore (for his problems) he became increasingly distant and desperate.
Until finally told him I couldn't do it anymore and had my own medical bills to take care of and was already in debt, and asked him if he could help me pay them. (after spending tens of thousands of dollars helping him) After which he disappeared.
After he returned we spoke a few times on the phone; didn't apologize, and stated I "needed" to help him again, and also wanted for us to live together again.He did admit his gambling problem eventually, and that he had to pay off numerous debt.
I realized he had also been pitting me against others, telling me I couldn't talk anymore to certain people, and talking about how other people owed him money (which wasn't true - it was the reverse). But I always trusted him over others.
The last few times we spoke he also told me we could talk things out later or the next day, but then he'd leave me on read and never bother calling or answering. By that time I learned he was already staying with others. But I think he wanted to keep his options open, but wasn't interested when I let on I wasn't going to help him again.
After the last time he did that (I wanted answers) I called him one morning, but he didn't pick up. And I wrote him he was pathetic and a coward, and asked whether he felt he owed me an explanation for how he ruined my life. At which point he deleted my messages and blocked me.
>but why anonLove makes you do retarded things…..
>>718878>which he wasn't fakingwait, people fake health problems now?
>>718693I'm ta, I pry them out with a sewing needle.
>>718956
Is she good looking? What could go wrong?
>>718956
Have sex with her. What else can you do?
>>718956
Let her give you a footjob.
>>718392> Yes alienation etc and im sure the phones have ruined this like they ruined everything else but I am not so sure this would not be the case in all societies. Is there any solution?Actually, phones are over blamed for social-personal problems. Not saying that they haven’t shifted the playing field some, but let’s be real, a lot of this shit has been going on longer than people realize but it’s only now because of social media do people really realize it.
> but obviously this laissez-faire environment of sexlessness for all but a few men who won the genetic lottery and constant bombardment of gender war >propaganda has not worked out at all because no matter how many times you can repeat the word >'entitled' humans need companionship. It seems like everyone except for a happy few who fell in love early or on a chance encounter are doomed to be miserable forever. The problem is, people cannot appreciate each other platonically. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a BF or GF. So did I.
But I also realized at a young age that I wouldn’t have much to provide as a partner. Also, reading about so many stories of crime due to broken families or marital spats coupled with being a ethnic minority makes me realize it’s better to not want it.
There’s a difference between “liking” and “wanting”.
There’s more difference than similarities between “liking” and “wanting”
Our liberal society promotes consumerism through idealism. Makes people think what they want is what they like or what they like is what they want.
Why else do so many people end up in student loan debt?
Why else do we have religiopolitical extremists?
>>718872This. I totally agree with this.
Have been since puberty.
Why is male sexuality always pathologized within itself? It’s not even just the left. Even the right pathologizes male sexuality.
You’re not allowed to be an object of desire nor cuteness.
Yet, young women, if they were to pout over not being ogled at, society would crucify young men for not ogling over her.
It seems that worst thing you can do to a young woman in the west is merely treat her as just another person.
Not ogling nor degrading her. Just simply seeing her as another face in the crowd.
But this mentality is not even primarily innate in young women. It’s more the fault of paternal figures.
Again, feminism is the prodigal daughter of patriarchy.
>>718878>Love makes you do retarded thingsSometimes I regret that I've never really been "in love" but when I read accounts like this it makes me feel a little better. I think the closest I've been was a couple months schizuationship with an insane anonette. It ended badly for me and she made things with my current gf a lot more complicated.
>>718517I know anon.
>>718997Why because he said he was a communist, while being "treatlerite"?
>>718679>>718693all around ingrown hairs from brand new razor, fml
>>718845If I’m paying for pussy, it better be pussy I can’t ordinarily get. Not interested in landwhales and otherwise unfuckable whores
>>719559They look like they dream of the "inevitable" day they get to kill a uyghur that tries to mug and rape them.
>>719564you're making shit up but you're not far from the truth, met neo-nazi girls on anon.cafe, european too, british..they had a thing for hatefucking black and arab men, or fantasizing about and im using my foggy memory here, "enjoying getting used by burly beasts and finishing them off one by one when they came and tired themselves"
never stick your dick in crazy, like i don't get the hots you feel from surviving a grape, yall right wing women are crazy
>>717797I dunno I guess it's just about feeling protected and safe when walking and being next to tall bf :( just turns me on I guess. I'm sorry anon, I know it sucks to be short as a guy.
>>717787> like, I can have experiances, but they feel vacouous without someone to share them with, and that's to the point that seeing or making nice things make me sad when I'm alone because they only seem to exist in a vacuum.YES Exactly. having your existence "witnessed" is I think a big motivator for many to be in a relationship. I really envy those who can completely live without it.
> feels like I am brining sin into the garden of eden, so to speak. Yeah I get what you mean. but it's normal and human to have feelings for people you're attracted to and spend time around. I think there's room for people to be adults about it if feelings are not reciprocated but I guess that depends on the individuals and situation. there's no way I could ever be upset at a guy for respectfully shooting his shot, it's just human. I think it's brave, too.
(sry about ur other question anon I'm kinda shy and withdrawn recently and not feeling very social in general, but possibly another time)
>>717820>how often would you say this happened, out of every 10 guys for example?I guess it's happened three times now so maybe 1 time out of every 10 guys? usually only when you play with the same people over and over and they get to know you. I think that's the key to not making it weird and creepy.
So I think I figured out why I felt so shitty in my recent relationship with my bf, it's because he had at least two friends who I think could possibly be considered QPRs or a bit more than friends:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queerplatonic_relationshipI think I've learned that the only guys I work with are guys who want a borderline codependent all-consuming relationship where we both want to live in each others' skin and combine our bone marrow.
my ex's emotional energy was already spread thin between me and his two other very close friends so I did not feel like I could ever get intense emotional closeness to him, which is a shame and made me very miserable.
>>719131congrats Anon I wish you much happiness!! :)
>>718199This is so cute :') I hope you find ur anarchist lover <3
>>719565>>717796>Zoomettes brains are of course fried and I always felt attracted to and got along well with the nerdy (usually Asian or Mexican) alternative women who are currently in that age bracket.Methinks you’re basing your attraction based on memes and old timey erotica stereotypes.
Also, there’s no much maturational difference between the twenties and thirties and early forties.
If anything, you’re better off with going for over fifty because they’re lonely and would probably give you more conversation due to not being able to get around as much.
>That is because it is considered a curiosity. It just doesnt happen often. Like what can you provide to a 35 year old woman?More like the other way around.
Thirty five isn’t as established and stable as you think nowadays. At that age, they probably have a lot of personal baggage from relationships and unmet goals.
And more likely she may be a single mom.
>>719576This is why I prefer bromance with benefits
>>719575>>717787Methinks that teen dating shouldn’t be so stigmatized. Or maybe have courting classes so that there will be less romantically-deprived prime years for people.
>Methinks
Newgene got a new verbal tic lol
>>719576>I think I've learned that the only guys I work with are guys who want a borderline codependent all-consuming relationship where we both want to live in each others' skin and combine our bone marrow. >my ex's emotional energy was already spread thin between me and his two other very close friends so I did not feel like I could ever get intense emotional closeness to him, which is a shame and made me very miserable.This isn't healthy anon. Also QPR is genuinely queers trying to claim normal deep friendships as their thing.
>>719582I was trying to clarify that it wasn't put into my head via stupid memes if anything, hence the mocking of LE MOMMY DOMMY AWOOGA garbage.
And idk about maturational difference but in terms of attitudes and being influenced by media most of the people in their late twenties and early thirties (male or female) have been the most pleasant to talk to. Maybe it's because I have old parents and was always culturally like 4-5 years behind even as a kid, idk.
>>719588How is it stigmatized? Well maybe now with age gap discourse but I can't see that having as much of an impact and frankly the seniors who dated freshmen were usually quite suspect people. High school romance has been a focal point in multiple countries pop culture for a while now.
Then again I graduated high school a bit before gender war stuff really kicked into overdrive in the way it did after 2021 or 2022, so maybe it's changed dramatically in the past few years. People were definitely dating and having sex when I was there
>>719564nothing about them suggests han chauvinism
killing rapists is based regardless of their race, nationality or religion
>>719575>YES Exactly. having your existence "witnessed" is I think a big motivator for many to be in a relationship.i tend to lean towards thinking it's a big motivator for the exact opposite. in fact it would be pretty nice if i was able to share a friendly (not romantic) experience with someone without them remembering me ever again, the fact that people actually do construct an idea of you in their mind and constantly shape it with their (un)conscious perception does not sound very neat, especially when expectations start to arise
any sort of positive description of your "personality" and praise (even if deserved) is rather grim because that's also an expectation for your future behavior and a benchmark to run against you in the future
>same people over and over and they get to know you. I think that's the key to not making it weird and creepy.that's one part of it i think, people can still behave creepy around you even if you know each other long term (for a quick example if they start hinting or straight up admitting to paying "special attention" aka stalking). thank you for answering
>>719582>More like the other way around.trvke. for most of this board's userbase (in terms of their current social culture's conditions) the "provider" stuff is a meme from ye olde times and those women that do fall for this are either too young with daddy issues, insanely reactionary or both
>>719632I wrote the n word originally. They want to be assualted so they can legally kill a uyghur since they don't want to actually act out the Turner Diaries because their McMansion and Chevy Suburban are too comfortable.
The last person I had sex with is my sister.
>>719657i know about the word filter, i was arguing there's nothing about their appearance that would suggest racial driven hate to me. like another anon said you're probably making things up, unless they did post something racist along those pictures or somewhere else it's just pointless
my point about killing rapists still stands and i support armed women
>>719627You sure?
Because I find them no different from teenagers.
Also, what does having old parents have to do with that?
>>719628Bruh there’s only a three year difference between freshman and senior. How is that suspect?
>>719661>implying I am against armed womenBut when I see whitoid gun nuts I assume they want to kill me, since I am black (mixed and the other half isn't white either).
>>719644happy for you ^_^
>>719663if it makes you feel any better i posted that pic (god i love femme fatales with slit dresses) and i took it from an online shop for guns, there's a high chance they're posing for the camera with a thousand yard stare to flex the product holster, not itching to kill a big bad black
>>719662A lot of people whose parents had them relatively late seem to say they feel a cultural disconnect from those in their age group, thats why I mentioned it.
I think it's ridiculous to compare it to someone in their 20s dating someone in high school but I'm just saying in my experience it tended to be the sleazy douchebag types who did it. A lot of age gap hysteria is overblown but I'm just qualifying it with that because a lot of people also seem to share the same experience as me here.
>>719663i understand the personal undertones, still don't see anything in their pictures that would suggest they hate black people specifically only because they have white skin. i am not personally familiar with american culture so take all of that with a grain of salt, i could miss some dog whistles or something along these lines, i'm sorry.
>>719666she literally ghosted me months ago and now this, wtf is going on and do I not spill my spaghettis right away
I'm a gaycel and have resigned myself to never finding a bf
grindr is possibly the worst designed app ever
I want to fuck a hooker but I know it’ll be extremely unsatisfying. I’m a hookervolcel now
>she messages me on Facebook
>I tell her I don't use Facebook and she can message me at my number
>she says no
it's over
>>715797First step, have enough money to take up crafting, the second step is to mind what form you enjoy most, are into knitting, cross-stitching, if you have a bunch of old clothes quilting, etc. and then you go out and make friends with the old ladies that do that at the library or whatever. Or less linearly, become a fan of a social activity that takes you out of the house and that's how you make friends, which is always harder than it sounds
>>717835what's more useful is to think about the loneliness of the aromantic which is not about the lack of sexual touch, and i think is more prescient a consideration for the people in this thread. mainly it's an issue of limiters on what are acceptable amounts of intimacy, or expectations of commitment outside of the sanctified monogamous relationship, and the feeling that one is chopped liver next to that dangling t-bone steak of "the one". it's about feeling disposable for not being in the single kind of relationship people expect real, undying commitment from.
>>719768Yes, just scratch out "optional" and write in "mandatory" instead.
>>719632>young with daddy issuesGenuinely the only hopefuel for men over 30.
>>719832why do you think so?
I‘m shooting my semen into an autistic bitch one way or the other.
>>719841Been there, done that, not worth it.
>>719659How was she? Is she hot? Does she have daddy isues?
Does anyone else who livsurrounded by right-leaning folks and isnt super social
by nature start talking about right-wing stuff to befriend them? It feels hypocritical, yes, but I keep thinking i can "save them". Sigh, I hate this fascist state
>>719921Literally why would any person with integrity do this? Unless you plan to convert them or something.
>>719921No. But I also wouldn't really talk to left leaning people either to befriend them. It's more an issue of not liking people as people rather than politics. Actually some people are alright and I wouldn't want to let them down so I'd rather not get to know them further.
>>719842Depends on a lot of factors.
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