Anybody have any advice on using these? Which ones are best for meeting people like us (you know what i mean, tired, depressed , slightly autistic, etc)?
>>725478deadmoidsstorage.dead
>>725478>people like us (you know what i mean, tired, depressed , slightly autistic, etc)I dated a few ladies I met on Tinder. Fun thing is the one whith whom I shared those traits you listed was the one who lost interest the fastest.
Those cheery, optimistic and outgoing seemed to believe that my often dark moods and introspective ways meant that I was deep, inteligent, cultured, etc. and thought that was attractive.
>>725485Opposites attract then?
Isnt there already a thread for this?
Anyway, the dating app fad kinda went away, at least where I live. Theyre apps for hookups and the women to men ratio is 1:10 at best, so if you're straight you're in for a bad time.
Instead you should try to make IRL friends who you can hangout with, and then start making IRL woman friends if you find yourself in a sausage party (and again assuming you're straight). Then these women will hook you up with their other friends or at the very least put in a good word for you. But even if they don't, the socialization will mature you into a more confident person and that will help you to approach women you don't necessarily have any connections in common with
>>725486Not sure. Those did not last much, though.
>>725478dating apps are an unholy mix of hookers, girlbosses, sugarbabies and mostly male incels. There is nothing for any male there except exceptionally attractive rich males.
Grindr
>>725508>There is nothing for any male there except exceptionally attractive rich males.I am not an exceptionally attractive rich male and had some luck with Tinder. Years ago, though.
>>725529Grindr is 100% old fat men.
leftypol.org
sex and relationships general is 3 doors down uygha
>>725571i don't want to post in the incel thread
>>725566not surprising since that is the majority of the gay men population
>>725573We are all on the same boat bröther.
>>725575I get that there are much more people over 30 than between 18-29…but at least keep in shape and use Rogaine or some shit.
>apps
if only they didn't require you to dox yourself and your entire extended family just to sign up
<provide email
<provide email from approved email provider only
<provide phone number
<provide location access at all times in the background (DRAINING the battery)
<provide all identifiers possible
<provide access to other apps and usage time information
this shit is way beyond what is needed to ensure user safety
German above me
I recommend Bumble, I found many people there before I transitioned when I was 17-18 years old
I reccomwnd RL over any app. Both are dogshit, but on an app the women on them are there for antagonistic reasons to you. Desperate femcels aren't on there either.
I mean if you go through a trouble of setting up a profile on one, might as well copy paste it on all the others. Primary focus on IRL, but spending couple minutes a day on apps is a small time investment with small payoff, so why not.
I really don't like them, I used them for like a month then quit a while ago, it's not that I never got matches but that the girls you match with almost always ghost or unmatch you at a random point for no reason. Apparently women on these apps get flooded with likes unlike men so they're probably picking through 20 different guys for the best one at any point in time, it sucks. The one time I actually got to a real date from an app, she looked way better in the photos
>>725986>I reccomwnd RL over any apphow would one go about meeting people for LTR purposes irl?
common advice is through hobbies but what if the hobby field/the friend companies you find yourself in are heavily skewed towards one gender and/or contain mostly already taken people?
Dating apps suck if you don’t have the patience of a goddamn saint, basically. You can get results but it really takes a TON of perseverance.
Learning Spanish up to B1 level and using the language filter on Bumble allowed me to escape perpetual virginity and have a somewhat decent love-life. Can only recommend.
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