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I had an argument with my anarcho-radlib autistic adhd CPTSD nonbinary GF and we live in a rental unit. The toilet broke and I put in a maintenance request for the landlord to send a repair guy to fix it.

She said I should fix it myself and if a repairman came they might rape her and she was psychologically unsafe and also I was being classist by expecting to have a repairman repair my shit and exploiting their surplus value, and also racist because the repairman was likely going to be latino or black.

I said its normal to call the landlord to repair shit when it breaks rather than fix it yourself and also some shit you're not even allowed to fix yourself because if you fuck it up you can get in alot of trouble or at least lose your security deposit and possibly have to pay even more and its safer to just let the landlord send a repair guy.

Then she started crashing out and then she went to an internet cafe.

Am I the asshole here or is she right? Is using repair guys directly or indirectly exploiting them? Am I being a petit bourgeois or something by not repairing shit myself using home depot and either eating the cost or just trying to get the landlord expense that shit after the fact?

She's testing you to see if you're a real man. Of course she sounds really crazy so I suggest trying to move out. Story sounds fake too though.

>>734196
<Story sounds fake too though.
If only

I'm sure you can come up with something better than this

>>734200
bro im sure it sounds like a parody but this literally happened, shes still at the cafe and isnt returning my texts

>>734193
Your themfriend sound mentally insane and you should do yourself a favor and leave them. But you probably got your own issues if you're dating them and even going so far to cohabitate with them.

Ask that bitch why they can't figure out how to fix that shit since they're nonbinary. They're not even the woman in the relationship so why should they should it be on you to do the man-chores?

>>734219
Most cases of "non-binary," just a quirky impression of femalehood

>>734193
I have a handyman fetish

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>>734220
I know, my niece is a they/them and she's mostly the girliest girl imaginable. I could say at most, some tomboyish kind of traits? But not really even. Of course she only identifies with female characters, she throws stereotypical fits about spiders, she loves pink and Hello Kitty and pretty dresses and makeup and jewlery. I mean she could hardly be more stereotypically female.

I had my suspicion and then she basically straight up confirmed it, that it's all about being able to not feel a part of "Women's Issues" or anything like that. Like she told me about some kind of language issue the feminists are trying to push in her country like the Latinx thing, and then she said: "But I don't care about that because I'm not a girl." Very funny that the endpoint of the feminist gender-war thing is that women no longer want to be woman just so they don't have to be a part of it.

>>734193
>>734197
>>734207
I believe you OP, out of curiosity how did you end up dating and living with this woman? Like I mean did you not see any other redflags before now? I'm sure you got more funny stories.

gf is clearly a plant working for the landlord to trick you into violating the lease

>>734224
its a long story but we were in activist circles together back in the day. Im sort of regretting living with her now.

>>734223
It's just wanting to be relieved of the typical social assignments that patriarchy forces onto them but still wanting treats.

If most self-proclaimed non-binary folk were truly that, they wouldn't have a problem with masculine expression or male fashion.
Instead, they deify female physiognomy.

>>734223
This is why I never take a young white woman's word in anything when it comes sociopolitics. Not without hearing it from secondary sources or seeing them demonstrate what they really mean
It's especially peculiar that femininity is defined primarily by suburban white women's behavior.

>>734207
post your toilet and carefully explain what "broke"

>>734239
it was the lever/handle and the internal thing that yanks the chain - it was rusted as the landlord hadn't updated it in a while. I bought a replacement one from the home depot for around $22, but the repair guy came even though i cancelled the request so now i have an extra one.

>>734241
basically it wasn't able to be flushed

>>734193
>being classist by expecting to have a repairman repair my shit and exploiting their surplus value,
what. thats not even the meaning of surplus value. youre not even profiting off of this transaction. your gfs retarded anon sorry to say

>>734234
>It's just wanting to be relieved of the typical social assignments that patriarchy forces onto them but still wanting treats.
Yeah definitely that as well, but that's like 100% of women nowadays. "Chivalry is dead!" But suggesting that the concept of chivalry and notions of men's gendered responsibilities always came with corresponding gendered expectations of women is misogyny. Women been like that since before I was born but there were no they/thems when I was growing up.

>If most self-proclaimed non-binary folk were truly that, they wouldn't have a problem with masculine expression or male fashion.

I don't feel like she has that kind of thing going on.
>Instead, they deify female physiognomy.
Nor that, not exactly sure what you mean. Never heard her say any man-hating kind of stuff. Like I said, kinda tomboyish it seems more that she doesn't want to be on "team women." I would say I hear less "men are like this" "men suck" "men are evil" kind of that toxic feminism kind of stuff from her, by that I mean none. Honestly can't hang out with most young women, including my family, for more than half an hour without them going on about "uhhhh guys suck, why do guys do this, guys have these failings."

>>734248
>Honestly can't hang out with most young women, including my family, for more than half an hour without them going on about "uhhhh guys suck, why do guys do this, guys have these failings."

Wait until they hit their thirties and forties.
That's when they really let loose their contempt for the opposite sex. Men are the same way too.

>>734253
Because that’s when they start to lose their pretty privilege and discover their entitled antics are no longer toleratee

>anarcho-radlib autistic adhd CPTSD nonbinary GF
do you know how i can get one of these just asking for a friend

>>734193
>Am I the asshole here or is she right?
Shes retarded in a child like way.

she is either sexually unsatisfied with you (your dick can't make her cum) or she is too satisfied and your dick is too big and thus she is becoming crazy, either get better at sex or get worse, your call.

>>734281
Chivalry, smh


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