I can't seem to keep a gf proper… All they want is something casual, convent-dick, non-committal but sexual.
All my friends have GFs, but then again most of them have been together for 5+yrs.
I'm meeting women on apps AND in-person (meetups and events)… They just treat me as a repeat-hookup rather than someone who wants to date them.
Gay retard bait, dont engage, sage in all fields.
Yeah probably
The answer is no. They only want a relationship with Mr Right. But they have the boomer take of having premarital sex unabashed then being entitled to find a good man after the fact. True love waits. You might be attractive enough to fuck but it's clear you don't possess the qualities in a man that will make a girl want to clean up her act.
Meanwhile that's the only energy I out out there. You have to be prepared to be single for years at a time. You cannot have both in your 20s.
Are girls in general just scared of a 7/10 long-haired white boy who likes experimental hip hop and jerks off to furry porn?
>>734532Luck you. That's what I want but they all get attached to me and I feel guilty when I have to tell them I am not interested in cohabitating or marrying.
You‘re just not boyfriend material. The problem that most men have is that girls eventually expect you to settle down with them.
You are too poor for them, sorry OP. Commitment to a long-term relationship is a financial decision, not a romantic one.
Hoeflation is real + expectations have skyrocketed. Combine this with rising rate of manchildren and we have situation where 60% of men are not dating even if they wanted to.
>>734610Could also be his personality. People prefer hooking up with people they are only physically attracted to so they don't have to worry about "catching feelings." And if they start "catching feelings" they won't want too hook up.
>>734611>Man childrenAs if though women aren't part of the maturity problem
>>734610An unfortunate but real truth.
Most long term relationships are for keeping the kids safe and/or economic prospects
>>734532How's anything you said bad. They still want to fuck and that's all you really need. Frankly constant casual relations might be for the best as long as you can keep getting them and as long as no one gets knocked up.
>>734614'Bad personality' is just secularized American predestination theology repacked, lmao.
>>734633You are right, bad is the wrong term.
Whatever their preferred personality isn't objectively good. Just saying, it could be they aren't attracted to your personality. They find you attractive enough to fuck but they don't have feelings for you. The fact they don't feel any emotional or romantic connection with you both makes them more amenable to hookup with you because they feel they won't "fall for you."
>>734635Yes bad personality means in this context: not being aspirational enough and 'not knowing what you want in life' which are two coded expressions that just means that you are too poor and have a shit job.
>>734636I am a bum and women still get emotionally attached. To be honest, I think most women are looking for a daddy and you just don't got the daddy vibes. Women very quickly want you to start dictating their whole life from my experience. They want to be controlled.
>>734539>You might be attractive enough to fuck but it's clear you don't possess the qualities in a man that will make a girl want to clean up her act.This guy gets it.
>>734637And the "shit tests" are often like a test of if you will just let them do whatever or you have the power to control them from whatever hare-brained whims and impulses they have.
>>734637That's why they go for older men because the age advancement makes women feel like an eternal daughter that doesn't have to do anything to prove herself.
>>734638Men are not innocent of this. We feed into it with displays of machismo to amuse them.
>>734637>I am a bum and women still get emotionally attached.My uncle's cousin's maid's son has had his two legs and arms amputated and lives under a bridge hunting rats, yet he is able to maintain a stable relationship with his 5 girlfriends. You see, thanks to my anecdotal evidence I am able to refute the claim that under capitalism relationship decisions and le personality of people are scrutinized under a status-infused and financialized lense. It's all in your head you are not only poor and ugly but you see you probably are actually a shit human being too on top of that ! In fact you are a sinner and are burning in hell and your life situation comes down to be a sinful being in the first place. Yes, I am a materialist.
>>734640I didn't say that money isn't a factor. Definitely didn't say looks. That is not relevant to this thread because OP is clearly attractive enough to fuck but the women never get attached to him. Chill the fuck out sperg.
>>734640And I already took back "bad" and explained, from my experience what women get attached to. But I am biased too because all the women I have been involved with pretty much always have daddy abandonment issues.
>>734642>>734637>>734610<Tom Brady reportedly believes Gisele was cheating for a long time<MacKenzie Scott, formerly MacKenzie Bezos, divorced Jeff Bezos in 2019 after 25 years of marriage.<Elon Musk has been divorced multiple times, notably from Justine Musk and Talulah Riley, with whom he married and divorced twice. His relationships have often been high-profile, and he has faced significant financial settlements as part of these divorces. kek
>>734645So divorce is as much of a financial decision as marriage or entering a committed relationship? Wouldn't have thought otherwise.
>>734647How was you family life anon?
Kinda pearls before swine kinda situation. You guys are weak and women hate weakness. That is the simplest way to explain it.
>>734649Pretty great my parents have been married for 40 years and successfully raised me and several siblings. However what has that to do with analyzing gender relations under a materialist lense in late-stage capitalism?
>>734650Lame and empty truism
>>734651Interesting. So what caused you to not follow in your daddy's footsteps? There is literally no woman you could have wifed up? I guess for myself I am a very choosey beggar.
>>734652Are truisms not true? Most of you are broken weak men looking for your mommy. That just isn't how things work.
I think that the following phenomenon has to be studied further:
Middle class white Westerners, even those that would view themselves as leftists have an extremely mystified view on romantic love life and relationships that is mostly informed from capitalist media consumption and will react with outrage if you just apply the mildest critique. It's actually crazy how strong it mirrors the way deeply religious people in other cultures. There are various defense mechanisms that are the same. One for example is the unc just so story/anecdote and the total obsession with the place-holder concept of 'personality' that is basically a secularized version of predestination, similar to the whole concept of karma.
>>734655Pure incel schizophrenia
>>734653Why are you assuming I am not? I have been in a stable relationship for the past 3 years.
Yet, pussy didn't stop me from being a materialist and try to negate away the socio-economical system we are all living under by trying to evoke vulgar psychological pathologizing.
>>734656I am neither celibate, nor is that involuntary, sorry.
>>734657Well because you would know you don't need a single dolkar to fuck lol.
>>734660> You know some of us are speaking from very intimate experience with real human beings. Lol at the projection.Disney movies, anime and video games are not real lives experience and to transmit how relationship dynamics work IRL, sorry.
I know a number of jiggalo bumass mooch men.
>>734662How is anything I said remotely disney you fag? Disney and qll media promotes the exact opposite. That's why so many of you are so confused.
Cigar guy has a crazy crash out once you apply lightest pressure to his corporate-informed mystified idea of romantic love, call out his fake unc just-so stories and point out that 'personality' discourse critique basically reveals that it is just another place holder for pummeling humans for their immutable characteristics, so effectively similar in form of predestination theology, or even maybe very related to the concept of racism. Which would be worth exploring as well, since racism is a huge factor in this whole topic as well.
Anyways I am happy for you newgene. I have an inkling but you haven't talked about adults and youths being whateverized yet so I don't know for a fact you fucking weirdo.
>>734666I honestly think you have like a light form of schizophrenia.
>>734668Lol, dude who sees random board ecelebs thataare after him behind every post accuses others of schizophrenia.
I mean if this manages to kind remedy your hurt little ego after you just lost this argument, then I go ahead. The only person projecting here is you, dude. Go ahead call me a fag or uygha again if that makes you feel better after having your fragile worldview shook.
I am not seeing your YouTube videos because I have embedding blocked since I block different types of google tracking. Just say what you want to see instead of engaging in passive aggression.
>>734680 Scotty Doesn't Know
>>734681Who is Scotty? Btw, you were supposed to either have the cigar or the proxy on for your samefagging, not both at the same time.
>>734683We are two seperate people Newgene. I know a lotbof things about you that you blogged in the past.
>>734684>>734685I have been posting on leftypol since the Rojava threads, maybe even a bit earlier and I do have to honestly confess that I usually completely ignore any post of someone that mentions any namefag (or moderator name).
Usually most of them are gone after like 6 months and they have completely forgetable personas, so what's the point. In addition I also never engaged in any of the matrix chatrooms. Imageboards that turn into the subchats of certain cliques subposting about each other turn into boring and very normal forums.
I will keep it that way for next decade like during the previous one.
>>734687>T. Newnene kekI know who the fuck you are. Many do. No denial lol. Bruh we are all tired of you, fuck off. Seek help
>>734689I thought I was Scotty
>>734691I told you these we were two seperate people. I know who you are.
>>734692Now that I think about it you guys who come to imageboards because you like the whole namefag soap opera shit might have invented a persona for me because I have been posting here for so long (however I don't really consider my posting style very characteristic), the same way a circle friends give a strange dude hanging out at the gas station they frequent a funny name. So to you people I might be this Scotty person or newgene person or even both at the same time, lmao , still won't make me care about your namefag drama.
>>734695> (however I don't really consider my posting style very characteristic),But it is objectively and scientifically. I can always sniff you out almost immediately. Schizophrenia. Like I said tour most obvious tell is your rants about youths and adults. Tbh I highly suspect you of being a pedophile. Do you work with children?
>>734699Who knows? I can't tell if you are newgene himself from that post. You would have to say more.
>>734706>No denial that you are newgeneOk. So what?
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