/siberia/ - Off-topic

As an American, no.
Most women over 30 here behave like 18 year-olds, so what's the incentive of starting a serious relationship with a woman that's been run through?

It’s far from worth it. I developed an interest in older women as soon as puberty started. As soon as I was of legal age older women became my entire life for several years. The media/social media probably said you’ll be having the best sex of your life, and finally getting that PS5 after she buys it for you. I was walking through dirty ass houses, and paying for some of their lifestyles. And for some of them, affection was a foreign concept. and others were stalker levels of obsessed. You’ll rarely find an in-between balance.

it fucked up my innocence. I shouldn’t have been dating women in their 50s and 60s while being 18/19 and beyond. I might actually be too far gone as it’s actually impossible for me to be attracted to young women now. So short answer— no, it’s not worth it.

how do I meet them? how do I learn this power?

>>737241
You just got to be born with the right stuff or get lucky. Pretty much like anything else in life

Where the fuck do I even find cougars lmao?

>>737243
As a former degenerate (degenerate is putting it nicely) who did it multiple times, no, most definitely no. I've done this with women of every decade and I promise it's not worth it.

Most men who seriously do this are desperate. Imagine if you will, you're dating some cougar whilst you're in your 20s, but then the perfect similarly-aged girl walks into your life? Well now you have to leave the cougar, which will hurt her, and now you have to explain to that younger girl that you used to date hags "oh but I'm totally over that now."

You can't ever have kids with them, you'll never grow old together (she'll just croak first), and if you ever seriously live together, you'll have to deal with all sorts of awkward financial situations. If you genuinely fall for her you have to realise you could never practically marry her.

Take it from me, I've done it multiple times and regret it. The last time I pretty much had the, a crazy hot, smart and rich (widowed) cougar who genuinely desired me. Sex was basically on tap and this woman treated me like a king better than any girl my age could. The result? Painful breakup, I've destroyed my innocence, and now I can't look at women my age the same.

The only upside is that the oldest ones did actually care about me and gave me lots of motherly advice about marriage and life. Their advice was actually supremely based and useful, and it included a note to not marry women much older than me. Older women were very direct in explaining what women actually want and this was very useful.

Otherwise, don't do it. get jacked and get a normal gf.

>>737251
You're making it sound like he should do it. Even if you regret it it doesn't sound that bad. Most of life leads to regret anyway at least in my opinion.

older women are completely worthless except as a novelty and then she has to be exceptionally hot. i fucked a 19 year old as 30 year old dude and you basically can never go back, you'll always be looking for as young as you can score. blame evolution.

>>737255
>>737251
two faces of the same coin
>my anecdotes are applicable to the entire human race

>>737255
>>737251
Anon should do what both of these guys have done and either regret it immensely or enjoy it supremely. Either way you you die anyways so it doesn't really matter.

>>737262
>>737253
>>737268
Do what thou wilt

>and she can’t get pregnant
Thems quitter talk

>>737262
>>737268
dialectical threads are my favorite

One of the hottest lines I've heard in porn is "I'm old enough to be your mom" and I don't care how freudian that sounds.

>>737227
did you have kids with them? how'd you develop bonds? and stalker levels of obsessed?

>>737211
I am homosexual

They don't want me either