>>741540That's even dumber. What weird essentialist magic is telling you someone's good to hang with or not?
>>741544>Most of them just find someone and settle down for the sake of it.Irrelevant and debatable.
>How close? Are you sure it's not the force of proximity? Would you talk to them over phone for 2 hours?Very close, we've risked pur lives for each other.
What do you mean force of proximity? If that created close bonds it would still disprove the OP statement.
And no, I wouldn't talk to anyone in the phone for two hours, I'm not a teenager in the nineties.
Your thesis just assumes that relationships are stagnant and never changing from the begining. That says more about you as a person than you think, and it probably contributes to whatever mental health issues you very obviously have.