1. You are dating a minority who has much less institutional power than you
2. Admittedly this is just my personal observation but a lot, a lot of transwomen i've seen has some form of crippling attachment complex. This makes it way harder for them to exit the relationship than it is for you
3. Also personal observation but a lot of transwomen i see online are also economically dependent on their partner. A lot of them has just date people just so they can freeload a house or enter some form of rent sharing agreement. This is already bad in a normal relationship much less when you are with a vulnerable minority
>>743169why would you get into a relationship with them its too risky
>>743169Therefore t4t is the only ethical one. Yeah? Or are all relationships involving ts unethical? If so
>muh ethicsTranswahmen dont care about ethics, they are all stirnerites or something
>>743174The reality is that stirner won
>>743173You should date a trans woman.
>>743199Not doing it because of the third point, I am poor
dont worry chud shes into that
>>743207chuds are all into trans women
What do you think of Iron Felix?
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>>743211stirner isn't against a vanguard as long as it's "voluntary"
I dated a trans gal and one day I woke up to like 17 missed calls and tons of messages just because I woke up at like 2 pm on a Sunday after playing a racing game all night
Never again, at least I crossdressed a couple of times with her.
>>743242what happened? how did it end? did they play games with you? are they that clingy?
>>743244I started dating a literal 10/10 cis woman and used her two last text messages to make this cis girl jealous, worked wonders
As for the trans gal, she called me on the morning after new years while I was with my gf, even after I asked her not to call me anymore, so I sent her a text apologizing to her for wasting her time and asking her to not call me again, she had this idea that i "used" her to satisfy my fetishes but we dated for like 6 months and only crossdressed twice, the truth is I tried to have a relationship with her but I just didn't see any future on the relationship.
>>743254> As for the trans gal, she called me on the morning after new years while I was with my gfAnd you complain about something, being a cheater?
>>743256How am I a cheater? I am in no way interested in going back
>>743256I'm pretty sure they had broken up by that point. This is very common with people who have BPD or other form of attachment disorders
>>743254Did you guys break up officially? Do you have any where they are now?
>>743271Definitely this, I have low trust in people with BPD
>>743241Being against the idea of a vanguard would be a spook in and of itself
>>743278I did, I told her I wanted to end the relationship.
>>743291Why would they still be mad at you later on? Did she block you or do anything bad?
>>743242You are upset that she missed you?
>>743293I think she had emotional dependency, I asked to go to therapy with me but she always refused
>>743297No, I am upset she refused to stay as friends after we broke up, I genuinely enjoyed her company but she wasn't any good in bed. We never never officially a couple either, I was the bottom and she never cared about my needs.
>>743211the unique is a spook. embrace that you should be creating and adhering spooks at any and all opportunities bc it is
FUN Dating a woman has unethical power dynamics
Dating a man also has unethical power dynamics
>>743457dating a non-binary is the only ethical choice
fuck ethics, trans women are cool END OF STORY
>>743462wait a minute. non-binary people can also be trans! that means there is no ethical dating! the west is doomed!
>>743479The world was doomed from day 1.
>>743479Ah, but have you considered that to be able to not consent you have to be alive in the first place? A sperm can neither consent nor refuse consent
>>743319Did they have top surgery?
>>743211Why does this depict trans girls specifically believing in a vanguard
>>743169>[…] a lot of transwomen i've seen has some form of crippling attachment complex. This makes it way harder for them to exit the relationship than it is for youi can confirm this. i dated a transwoman for about ~5/6 months and she was utterly attach to the point i thought she was mocking me (i admit i have some self-esteem problems but still)
she'd constantly text me, compliment me to the point it sounded like lies (maybe just my head fucking me over) and when we went out/went to trips together she wouldn't leave my side for nothing.
when we eventually broke up she was devastated to the point i was afraid of her committing suicide. we tried being friends for a while after we broke up but she couldn't shake the feeling she had/have for me and it didn't really work. at least she started therapy after all of this
we still talk (even though i don't really like cause it seems im talking to a brick wall most of the time) and rarely have casual sex and sexting. shes nice and beautiful just not my vibe i guess
i wished i knew about this attachment complex beforehand though, since i need a time for myself after interacting with people for a long time and she couldn't understand this
sex
>>743498I think it's an edit but they kept the t-girls shirt unchanged because it'd be funny.
>>743498Trans people are like that
>A lot of them has just date people just so they can freeload a house or enter some form of rent sharing agreement
Lmao. Seriously? Well, least the transwomen can live out being a 1950's bachelorette.
>>743169>partnerAre you a cop?
>>743959So even after you found out she had attachment issues and you broke up with her, you keep leading her on?
>>743169What about a transwoman’s mother?
>>743169>2. Admittedly this is just my personal observation but a lot, a lot of transwomen i've seen has some form of crippling attachment complex. This makes it way harder for them to exit the relationship than it is for you>3. Also personal observation but a lot of transwomen i see online are also economically dependent on their partner. A lot of them has just date people just so they can freeload a house or enter some form of rent sharing agreement. This is already bad in a normal relationship much less when you are with a vulnerable minorityboth of these are addressed by #1. trans women are paid less than pretty much any other demographic and subject not only to constant ambient stresses from being made into a hypervisible culture war pawn by the far-right to the point that it's become basically impossible in the last five years to exist anywhere on the internet without seeing violent transmisogynistic rhetoric on a regular basis, but also a lot us also just experience all sorts of abuse throughout our lives both before and especially after transition. so yes, lots of us have problems and very little resources to address any of it while also constantly treading water barely managing to survive, especially with how things have been going lately in the US in particular.
though also there's no ethical
sex under heterosexuality tbqhfam
>dont date trans
<youre transphobic
>date trans
<its soooo hard muh unequal powa dynamicsss
It's all so tiresome
>>744002no. most of this happened ~1.5 years ago. after we broke up i said we should try being friends (despite everything that happened she is a good person so why not). she tried but couldn't shake the feelings for me and the "being friends" thing didn't work out. we sporadically talked (i didn't want to seem like i was nurturing her feelings nor abandon her amidst everything that happened) and after a bit she found a new boyfriend. at that time i decided to talk less and less to her given the fact she still loved me and i didn't make her new boyfriend jealous/unease about this situation. after all of this we only chitchatted in special occasions (we both sent each other "happy birthday" on our respective birthdays, happy christmas and happy new year. nothing more nothing less, just quick messages on holidays and such). then, a few months ago they broke up and we started talking again (mostly me helping her get over him). she now got a much healthier attachment to people and better control of her emotions due to therapy
>we still talk (even though i don't really like cause it seems im talking to a brick wall most of the time) and rarely have casual sex and sextingthis is the most recent bit. we began sexting and casual sex a few weeks ago, not because we are in love with each other but to satisfy ourselves and we are both fine with this
>i wished i knew about this attachment complex beforehand though, since i need a time for myself after interacting with people for a long time and she couldn't understand thisi was referring when we were together. i get tremendously tired when interacting with people for so long and she couldn't understand this; she thought i was giving her the cold shoulder when i was just really tired and in need of rest
>>743169>infantilizing trans folks but make it wokei hate assholes who abstract something as simple as "is there abuse or not" into this pseudo-HR bullshit so much man
>>744037>trans women are paid less than pretty much any other demographicnot true
>>744037>there's no ethical sex under heterosexualityumm can we test that real quick? 🥺
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