I have absolutely no sympathy for you and i will tell you why.
- You're whining about not having sex.
No one needs to fuck you, no one has any obligation to fuck anyone else. If you really cared about just fucking, you have multiple options, easily available to you, through both the internet and real life. You view this as something owed to you because you are a man of age. Millions of people will have been born and died without ever knowing the feelings of a kiss or sex or love, you are not special or unique or owed anything.
2.You came here to complain about it.
You wanna know what doesn't get you laid anon? Posting on an anonymous fucking image board about people not wanting to fuck you.
3.You are unwilling to put in the effort because of anxiety.
Everyone is anxious anon. Some more than others. But its not an excuse to not put the effort to try and achieve a goal. You posses the will and ability to do things, and you have used that will to sit here, complain and feel bad about yourself. You CHOSE to do that. You can choose to do other things. like making an effort to work on your anxiety so you feel better talking to people. No one's gonna show up with the magic 'get fucked' fairy to make you lose your virginity.
4.You care more about getting laid than you do about having a relationship with someone.
This one can be a bit more understandable if you haven't had sex. Here's the thing about sex. Its fun, or fine or meh. Its up to you and your partner to get the most out of what you want from each other. But at the end of the day, you'll just not be a virgin if you have sex. And its not really a thing you should even give a shit about. Anyone who is legitimately judging you for being a virgin or not is a person whose opinions you can discard, as it is a position taken up by mostly children who have little context for life. You will be much happier makeing yourself into a person someone else wants to spend time with and ALSO has sex with then you ever would just getting laid once to not be a virgin.
In short. Dont be a whiny fucking incel on the internet and go the fuck outside and talk to people.