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You know how whenever there's anime primarily aimed at male audiences with romance as a core element, there's always some quotient of dudes responding to it like this? I've long held that these sure are some joyless ghouls, but after some deliberation, I think it's even worse… Most of you are hopefully aware of how much denigration romantic content aimed at women has seen through the ages and even today. Because if women like something but men don't, clearly that something must be of "low value". The whole thing is obviously deeply rooted in misogyny.

Even today, romance in fiction is a very "girl-coded" interest. Thus if a man happens to like romance, eventually they're going to run into toxic masculinity denigrating them for it. How they'll "get no bitches and stack no paper". A mere interest in romance makes them "weak". And it's incredibly obvious how surface level these kind of judgments are. These dudes see "romance" and just refuse to look any further due to toxic masculinity and misogyny.
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>>23741
you don't have to be a jerk just because everyone else is

Only ever see that on algorithm sites. People don't act like that without artificial clout incentive.

>>19466
Oh no the chvdjak exception on the soyjak ban backfired, now they're just using chxddy even when it doesn't make sense.

>>19444
Crazy to think about the shift in culture in the west around slice of life anime lol. Feel like 15 years ago even bocchi would be regarded as "the problem with anime".
People who only consume shounen jump works still exist and are very loud but there are way more people open to the idea of "cute girls doing cute things" these days.

>>23870
The stigma has now shifted to romance anime as OP points out.

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>>23871
>Repeating OP's premise unironically.
The stigma hasn't shifted to romance anime, OP is making shit up based on a snarky twitter post. Multiple anons ITT have explained that there isn't a stigma with romance or romcom fiction, including anime, citing examples. The OP's premise is built on a deliberate misinterpretation of a social media comment by a random person. It's petty E-Drama.

>>23874
you clearly dont talk to normies

>>23875
>Muh normies
NTA but you clearly haven't read the thread, and are a newfag to boot. Anime was niche and wasn't even close to mainstream for decades, it's only recently that anime has become more widespread in public eye, and most people that don't watch it just don't care about it, a few edge-lords might talk shit, but like in the OP image, it's usually just poking fun or is inter-fandom trash-talk, not a 2 paragraph butthurt rant, unlike OP.

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I really started to lighten up on the Nagatoro manga once I realised what a fucking creature she's like in it.

>>23919
Better thread for this >>7100

>>19444
These shows aren't "bait for lonely dudes" because they revolve around romance, but because the characters are embarrassing adolescent fantasies. It's the same with most romance tbf thoughbeit.

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>>23922
>It's the same with most romance tbf thoughbeit.
It depends, a lot of older stuff was not like that. Take Iketeru Futari for example. It's a comedy-ecchi series but it works because underneath the silliness are more mature themes and aspects.

>>23922
>fictional stories are filled with fantasies
holy fucking shit!!

>>19444
it really baffles me especially with boku no kokoro no yabai yatsu and people calling it incel bait, they clearly didn't watch more than 5 minutes as it's a quite realistic and cute romance between two awkward kids, not to mention the author is a woman (it's good, watch/read it)

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>>23952
eyy. don't frequent here but nice to be greeted by a bokuyaba post. still have to finish the anime. first time following an adaptation of something i've read and it's lovely.
>>19707
>tonari no oneesan
nice to know. it's in my radar thanks to lostinanime. i believe it's the same author as that fluffy megane girl and it's already adapted, but i'll be honest that i'm just more interested in おねショタ.

I'm back again after reflecting on this. While romcom is still not my genre of choice since I'm not much of a romantic person, I realized that the problem with romcoms is not romance itself but rather their often male-oriented nature. And I'm not talking about BOOBA or pantyshots. I'm talking about storytelling conventions. Even enjoyable male-oriented manga like the picrel has some shoujo feel to it. This male-oriented writing seems to be especially egregious in shounen, bearing a few exceptions (like picrel). Seinen romcoms seem to also be closer to shoujo. Of course, I'm not saying that shounen manga is bad in general (I like KonoSuba and FMA) but it seems like whenever a new shounen romcom comes out, it's bound to be overhyped hot garbage. Even Toradora isn't that bad in comparison, even though I'm not into tsunderes.

On another note, why are manga demographics so segregated? Does this segregation imply the segregation of merch and fan material too? Why aren't there any mixed shounen/shoujo/seinen tankobons? Just have seperate sections for action, romance and thrillers. Why regurgitate the same expectable trash to your audience just because you think they want it?

>>26016 (me)
I must clarify that genre conventions are not bad (battle shounen is based if the amount of filler is reduced). I'm saying that certain genre conventions are rather lame and boring and make the work less fun.

>>26016
>>26017
so you like rape, got it
a solid +90% of shoujo/josei romance is about rape and coercion against the female protagonist. kabedon for example is as common of a trope as pantyshots is in shounen, and notice the violent and coercive undertone and subtext it carries

>>26019
>a solid +90% of shoujo/josei romance is about rape and coercion against the female protagonist
JAPANESE WOMEN WTF!?

Do teen girls read that crap!? I know that this weird shit happens in yaoi but THIS!? Jeez… Ya know, maybe teen manga is shit in general then.

>>26020
I mean, look at the recent anime seasons, right now the one shoujo romance is about a girl that gets killed by her husband, reincarnates, and then falls in love with a guy that abducts her at age 10 (ten)
last season it was another isekai but the girl fell in love with her murderer (that she is completely scared of)
before that it was that one about a girl that liked to make pastries and fell in love with her bodyguard (a fairy or something) that tried to kill her at some point
there is a scene in watamote were tomoko makes a male voice actor repeat cliche phrases, most of those were about rape, that was the joke, this is common knowledge to the point of self-reference

>>26023
Wow, hibristophilia is that widespread in the female fandom? Or is that male otakus infiltrating shoujo? Why would women enjoy this? I don't understand.

>>26024
internalized misogyny

>>26025
>internalized misogyny
What? They hate themselves?

>>26026
not necessarily, hate is too strong of a word. we all are conditioned by the misogynist society we live in, it conditions our perception, from our beauty standards, the stories we like to hear, the characters we like to self-insert as (in the case of anime), etc. etc.

>>26027
Well, misogyny implies hatred or contempt for women. I think you mean "patriarchal standards."

>>26029 (me)
Although if you think about it, rape is indeed connected with the contempt for women… I dunno.

>>26020 (me)
Okay, okay, but what about josei and seinen tbough? Surely they must be better.

>>26031
josei is the same as shoujo, and it is becoming increasingly rare to see anime for that demography. seinen is the same as shounen. the main difference is that seinen and josei don't include furigana and use more difficult kanji, but that's irrelevant if you are reading translated manga
did you watch giji harem last season? there is hamefura from a couple seasons ago too (although it eventually reverts back to the tropes). or the weird world of shounen but by female authors and with female protagonists
with that said, imo anime and manga are acquired tastes and one should learn to accept the defects of the genre rather than waste time looking for "good exceptions"

>>26032
>seinen is the same as shounen
Really? Then I especially have no idea why shounen works don't get published in seinen tankobons…
>the weird world of shounen but by female authors and with female protagonists
Male protagonists aren't the issue. It's how they and the female leads are written that is. Also, too much romcom leans too heavily into wish fulfillment I think, the female leads are idealized, and I'm simply not interested in this. And it's not because I'm a girl or gay or anything, it just feels a bit fake, this trick does not really work on my psyche. Maybe I'm becoming more demanding with age.
>imo anime and manga are acquired tastes and one should learn to accept the defects of the genre rather than waste time looking for "good exceptions"
You have a point. I'm not like Miyazaki or Anno, I even like some tropes and cliches. But even I have the limit. Funny thing: despite generally being somewhat of a "hipster" I seem to enjoy mainstream anime more. It's only when I delve into the niche stuff do I keep stepping on nails. Also, seasonal anime is my worst nightmare, and it's all overwhelmingly shounen romcoms and isekais that are wildly varying in quality (mostly mid).

In conclusion, I hate seasonals.

I like meganekko

>>26033
>don't get published in seinen tankobons
furigana. it would be hard to sell a volume to a high-school student if they can't read the text, and it would be hard (but not impossible) to publish an isekai -type fantasy for example as seinen because the genre uses kanji that aren't commonly used anywhere else and most people don't know how to read
if you read translations you have probably encountered dialogues centered around what seem to be rather self-evident words or phrases, but what is probably happening is that the author is explaining a certain combination of kanji and it obviously gets lost in the translation. in fact, I'm sure there are fan-made japanese-to-japanese dictionaries for isekai commonly used kanji

>>26035
>I like meganekko
Hehe, wanted to watch a female lead who actually struggles in life, like having a visual impairment. I wear prescriptive glasses too, she's relatable. Not in a self-insert-y way but in an "I understand you, girl" way. Her vision is shit tho.

>>26048 (me)
I'd also recommend watching Read or Die. Readman is adorable.

>>26053
I saw that as a kid on the TV, it's possible that it shaped my taste in anime women…

>>26055
Becky school idol, Stacy nerdy shut-in.

>>26056 (me)
Btw, hentai was better.
>>19445
>even more shy and timid
It's qute the opposite, the female leads take a more proactive role as confident and popular girls who rescue loser MCs from their maidenless status. The pairings would actually be more balanced if the girls weren't so idealized (by the writers at least, it's okay for the MCs to idealize FLs, my youth is a testament *sign*).

>>26062
reading comprehension. the first paragraph establishes a comparison between the anime listed in the now defunct OP image and anime in general. this is, the common trope in anime is that, if the male character is shy, then the girl(s) are at least as shy as he is; but in the anime with strong female leads, this trope either goes away completely (humiliation fetish) or it happens at a lower layer so to speak: the male character either turns out to be, or becomes, strong and redeems himself towards the end

in the end, the male character has to either be the lead, or enjoy not being the lead, which is humiliating in the context of anime/manga, but the character comes on top by appropriating and actually enjoying that humiliation. to be vulgar, in regular anime the male is the top, and in fetish anime the male is the power bottom or top from the bottom. these patterns also repeat themselves in homosexual relations, it is called seme/uke in yaoi and neko/tachi in yuri. note that these words are only used in the context of homosexuality because in heterosexual relations it is always assumed, as I have explained, that the male is the seme/neko

of course there are exceptions, but this is the common pattern. if you want exceptions, as a general rule I would recommend looking up the age of the author. older authors are more likely to try to subvert or ignore the usual tropes. young authors are usually in a more precarious position so they stick to the known craft

>>26069
>if the male character is shy, then the girl(s) are at least as shy as he is
I mean, are they? If they were as shy then there wouldn't be any plot since none of them would actually want to interact with the MC.

>>26071
they want to jump on his dick from second 1, and usually for some moronic reason like "I met him once when we were 5 years old and he was very polite" but they are too shy to express it so you can enjoy 12 episodes / 10 volumes of them being dorks

that's another very important trope, it has to be either the women themselves approaching or some extraordinary circumstance forcing the main characters to interact with each other. anime where it is the man that decides to approach are the exception, and curiously, it is almost restricted to porn (think of rance). the main character is supposed to redeem or assert himself later on

I have nothing but contempt for all of this, but it is what we have

>>26073
>anime where it is the man that decides to approach are the exception
<that's just shoujo romance
<that's just as unrealistic

>>19647
Bruh there's a lot of anime that takes place outside of school. Idk what you're watching

Just read yaoi manga.
Yaoi)BL is a lot more nuanced and sincere than hetero romantic anime

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It's really weird to hear people say that shy male protagonists are matched with shy heroines.

Do you not know the Manic Pixie Dream Girl? Do you not know the boisterous extrovert who lives only to coax the shy protagonist out of his shell?

>>26091
MPDG is not a bad trope if it's executed well. The problem with shonen romcoms is that the girl in question is usually a school idol or a gyaru. Make MPDG more "manic" and less "dream" and the character dynamic will be more balanced.

We should just collectively boycott shonen romcoms. With a few exceptions.>>26091

>>26092
I absolutely love whimsical,extroverted female characters who are determined to coax the cynical, withdrawn male protagonist back into opening himself to life, humanity and the world.

They should just not exist only for him. She should have things going on in her life that don't always center on him, and she has beliefs and dreams and desires that aren't all about him.

She is, in other words, a good romantic interest because she is a whole person in addition to being the one who will grab your wrist and make you, in the name of love, touch grass.

>>26094
I have nothing to disagree with here, you're right. Though I'd also say this person should be more realistic. Like one girl from uni I used to be friends with (we're not talking with each other at all anymore).

>>26079
Any romance that isn't shonen is better on average I think, with a few exceptions (usually more comedic like Shikimori or action/romance like Dandadan or something). Even hentai is better. And not like yaoi is not rapey compared to shoujo/josei/seinen either.

>>26142
Idk. Most romance kinda sucks because they try to hard to make it comical.

I actually prefer shonen romance though the more sincere kind.

>>26020
>Ya know, maybe teen manga is shit in general then.

Maybe because they look down on the demographic they're peddling to?
Also. Alot of that shit is just as common if not more so in adult manga

>>26027
>>26025
Stop patronizing female fans for not having tastes that align with your idealized impression of women.

I swear to God, gynophilia is a cognitive disorder amongst LeftyPol patrons.

>>19444
The average guy watching anime has never had sex let alone experienced romance. It's like asking why women aren't into stories about some guy that's a lonely nobody that aimlessly drifts through life.


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