>>27532>Wasting awayWere you wasting away there on purpose?
If yes, why? What are you avoiding?
I personally was avoiding an essay assignment when I browsed 4chan these last few weeks…
>>27643>>27644You went from a discussion right to just insulting yourselves and getting nowhere…
Kinda overreacting there with the 'kys' and 'schizo'.
I think you both made some good points.
>>27631Minors are rather sexualised in anime and yeah, I also think it's a problem. People sometimes conflate sexualisation of little kids with that of teenage high schoolers, which to some may make it seem like it's a bigger problem than it is and others that those people are wildly exaggerating. I think in the case of Made in Abyss it's pretty clear that those characters are children though and that if you somehow miss the sexualisation, you can have it pointed out and understand why it makes people uncomfortable.
I don't see why there would be anything wrong with pointing it out, unless you're trying to rally people to harass the author or something. That's certainly crossing the line and I think it happens too often that people get that worked up to stoop so low.
Kinda like when you're in an internet argument and it escalates to asking the other person to commit suicide… Sth must've gone wrong there…
>>27638I think that depictions of violence are often gruesome and over the top and people who rally against pedophilia in anime don't seem to mind that, which can feel kinda hypocritical… Especially if some people can't seem to tell the difference between hard violence for the narrative and gratuitous violence for the spectacle… Or sexual reasons, although that one tends to be a bit more obvious.
>>27639I think both pedophilia and other violence on children can be put in a story in a respectful fashion. For example, if it's a story about a survivor of said violence and it's more like a dark shadow in the background than something that would be explicitly shown. The focus would be more on the impact of violence and how it affects people later on, highlighting their narrative and not that of a voyeuristic third party who gets to watch as someone is passively exploited. I watched One Piece as a kid and the flashbacks of the characters had an emotional impact on me and it did involve children getting hurt. But it wasn't really about how they were hurt but how it affected them and how these things changed them as people. I thought it was well done and made me emphasise with the characters.
I've heard the LiSA games were kinda about (sexual?) violence on children, but I haven't heard of it being exploitative or disrespectful to victims in that way.
>>27640Yeah, I think some people overdo it with conflating pedophilia with preying on high schoolers. Both is problematic, but in different ways. The younger a person, the more vulnerable they are and the worse such a crime is. I've heard people call a 20 year old a pedophile for dating a 17 year old. That's just silly… I think you can agree with that and still be uncomfortable with the oversexualisation of minors in media to adult onlookers who fetishise high school uniforms… I've never been harassed as much as I've been harassed during my late teens tbh.
>>27641>society has too much sufferingYeah…
>pedophiles are often portrayed as normal, good guys, acceptableSee, do you mean pedophiles preying on small children or those who prey on teenagers? Because a lot of people tend to view them differently.
I can't really think of a good show in which an actual pedophile was portrayed as a good guy, except maybe Mushoku Tensei but that's such a garbage show and if you go there, you'll soon have slavers and sex offenders portrayed as normal, good guys- wait a minute… There really are a lot of shows that are problematic in this way, you're not wrong. But I still think actual pedophile characters preying on pre-teens being shown as the good guys isn't really that common… I hope…
>>27642>It's child abusers who are portrayed as good.Yeah, that also happens, although I think it's more often about how it's framed. Like in Erased, with a serious tone in which a small kid is being beaten by her parents vs Detective Conan where Shinichi in his 6 year old body is just casually hit by Kogoro and it's depicted as harmless (I can't think of a better example rn). You get both situations, with people who hurt children being depicted as good people… B
Both is problematic I'd say, although I don't think it makes it impossible to still find something of value in a piece of media like that. I wouldn't blame other people for drawing a line there and not watching media like that because of it though, that's their decision. It only becomes a problem if they ask other people to do the exact same.
>>27641>stop making excuses for your willful acceptance of pedophiliaI don't think anyone was wilfully accepting let alone supporting pedophilia here. Just acknowledging it as problematic.
It seems like there was a misunderstanding here.
>>27643>you live in a fantasy world. take your medsI understand being frustrated when there's a misunderstanding and it doesn't seem like the other person will listen, but this is going a bit far, don't you think?
>>27641>>27643>>27644>>27645>just admit you are a pedophile>just kill yourself>You're a schizo>now i actually hope you kill yourselfOkay, don't you think you both crossed a line there?
Like, if you were in a room with me, I'd ask you to reconsider and try to understand the other person and what they were actually trying to say, think about how you responded to them and whether it was actually warranted and then… Apologise to each other maybe? Like, come on, we don't need to be attacking each other like this… Aren't we all adults here?