/CDR/ - Child Development & Rearing Anonymous 06-12-24 23:20:18 No. 23053
<Proletariat from Latin proletarius 'producing offspring' Please share any studies, cost savings approaches, sites, child psychology, useful media, and history for rearing future revolutionaries
Pregnancy studies, histories, sites, media and care are welcome
https://supermemo.guru/wiki/SuperMemo_Guru A few pointers
>Children hear what you say not what you mean >Corporal punishment breaks trust and creates antisocial tendencies >Filter cartoons and most media for children, especially Disney >Filter out sugar, corn syrup, and other similar substances >Marketing is especially targeted at developing minds; limited to no exposure is ideal >Neglect is a form of abuse >No social media, no bigger brother >Pet plants > pet animals. Otherwise the animal your responsibility >Screen time has to be extremely limited or nonexistent; this creates poor eye sight and attention deficit disorders >The vast majority of sexually abused children were by someone they knew feel free to criticize and add your own
Anonymous 06-12-24 23:25:51 No. 23055
#1 lesson is kids learn by example. You are not going to teach them how to behave by "do as I say not as I do." If you want to raise kids to be a certain way, you need to be that way first.
Anonymous 07-12-24 08:34:49 No. 23062
Adults nedd to stop whitewashing/euphemising things to kids.
Anonymous 07-12-24 08:44:12 No. 23063
>Screen time has to be extremely limited or nonexistent; this creates poor eye sight and attention deficit disorders
Anonymous 07-12-24 08:45:09 No. 23064
>>23053 Teach your kid musi from a young age. Be an Asian parent about it. Focus on making your kid enjoy it but forve them if you have to. Also insist your kid takes up a sport of some kind maybe multiple.
Anonymous 07-12-24 08:48:16 No. 23066
>>23055 this is whete most adults fail.
Adults, oarticularily men, feel entitled to break code of conduct in front kids because "Im an adult".
Yet most adults lack any life skills to pass off to kids
The real reason why schools are compulsory is because most parents are too tired, klutzy, or lazy to raise kids actively.
They want the schools to do everything but exoect schools to conform to parental demands.
Anonymous 07-12-24 08:49:24 No. 23067
>>23064 wrong.
never force any sort of activities onto kids.
that creates rebelliousness more than anything
Anonymous 07-12-24 08:53:05 No. 23068
Adults need to stoo imoosing their generational/cultural imoressions of childhood onto kids.
Anonymous 07-12-24 09:29:51 No. 23070
>>23069 ok boomer, now tell me how harry potter is satanic
Anonymous 07-12-24 09:33:06 No. 23071
>>23070 do your own research
zoom zoom bitch
Anonymous 07-12-24 10:03:35 No. 23076
>>23067 >never force any sort of activities onto kids. So you don't force your kids to brush their teeth, bathe, go to school, do their homework etc?
Anonymous 07-12-24 10:12:11 No. 23078
lot of opinions here without any proof to them
Anonymous 07-12-24 10:35:01 No. 23081
>>23080 I already posted
>>23054 Anonymous 07-12-24 10:42:16 No. 23082
>>23081 anon, you need to atleast hook us in with excerpts like
<Genius = Labor + Luck <Happiness = Labor + Luck + Love + Freedom <I am neither in favor of iron discipline nor too much freedom. I ask for rational and self-directed discipline, whether in a child or an adult. or give some interesting information on the author or your favorite part of the book
Anonymous 07-12-24 10:52:43 No. 23083
>>23082 It's written by the father of Judit Polgár about how she and her sisters were raised.
Anonymous 07-12-24 17:45:06 No. 23085
>>23084 NTA but two of them became Chess masters. Their father essentially conducted a long-term experiment on how to turn his daughters into geniuses, and he pretty much succeeded. The last one is still great at chess, but not as good as the others, and iirc she's more of a socialite now.
Anonymous 07-12-24 19:10:10 No. 23086
>>23069 ive heard about the rumors of subliminal sex messaging in Disney but never this.
In fact, if anything, I never got hat vibe from Disney movies at all.
But ok, if you feel that way, what about adult media that promotes misopedia
>>23071 "Do your own research" is often quoted by minimal-effort conpsiracy theorists
>>23076 Lemme rephrase that: forcing kids into non essential activites like socialisang with their siblings or teamsports.
Also, theres no need to force kids to do essential tasks if theyre not being defiant.
Anonymous 07-12-24 19:12:39 No. 23087
>>23077 this. Physical punishment should only ever be for when kids really are out of hand. Most adults are too quick to do for when kids are struggling with tasks.
The problem with physical punishmentis that adults think it stops juvenile deliquency.
It doesnt.
Alot of delinquents grrw up getting the belt and it didnt stop them.
They get stomped in jail and it doesnt stop them.
Anonymous 07-12-24 19:15:41 No. 23088
vast majority of parenting articles objectify children as vanity projects
Anonymous 07-12-24 20:29:44 No. 23089
>>23075 There's basically 2 ways to learn things. The first and the better one is through repetition and positive feedback. That's what video games use, and is why kids would rather play video games than do homework. The other one is just trauma. You punish errors in the hope that fear of failure will make somebody work hard to avoid failure. The problem with the latter is that it doesn't actually help you learn or develop the skills, and the anxiety it provokes makes it harder to learn because the fear response suppresses the functioning of higher brain functions at the neurochemical level.
Anonymous 07-12-24 21:41:55 No. 23097
>>23087 Corporal can work in it's aims if you do it right. That said I don't even like disciplining my dog except if they do something dangerous or something.
Anonymous 07-12-24 21:54:33 No. 23099
>>23097 >Corporal can work in it's aims if you do it right. Literally all evidence to the contrary.
Anonymous 07-12-24 23:10:18 No. 23102
>Nearly half of all pregnancies in the United States are unintended >in the US. We have the highest rate of serious pregnancy-related complications among developed nations, resulting in about 700 deaths a year nationally. >2 health issues unique to pregnancy are Preeclampsia and postpartum hemorrhage >Pregnancy acts as an ongoing stress test that taxes body systems and generates unique health risks. It changes how the heart, lungs, and kidneys function. It also alters the immune system, and changes metabolism through effects on various organs. It increases blood flow throughout the body. The impact is greater for anyone who already has high blood pressure, diabetes, or other health conditions. Additionally, pregnancy can also deepen existing mental health disorders such as depression and anxiety, often exacerbating symptoms. >Unintended pregnancies occur even when people use very effective contraceptives. With perfect use (which is very hard to achieve), fewer than one in 100 women taking birth control pills for a year will become pregnant. With typical use, seven in 100 will become pregnant. >Research shows that women who seek an abortion but are denied abortion care are more likely to have health problems during their pregnancy and to experience financial difficulties or live in poverty years later. >Patients over 35 had better prenatal care, pregnancy outcomes than those slightly younger https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/is-pregnancy-safe-for-everyone-202301252881 https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/hsph-in-the-news/study-patients-over-35-had-better-prenatal-care-pregnancy-outcomes-than-those-slightly-younger/ anons, please help.🔒article
> Depression around time of pregnancy may raise risk of cardiovascular disease <https://www.health.harvard.edu/womens-health/depression-around-time-of-pregnancy-may-raise-risk-of-cardiovascular-disease Anonymous 07-12-24 23:12:49 No. 23103
>>23099 >Literally all evidence to the contrary. Most of the world has been raised with corporal punishment since time immemorial so I think the evidence is overwhelmingly on the side of it can work.
Anonymous 07-12-24 23:26:42 No. 23105
>>23104 Well yes in a sense. You could make all the moral arguments about how slavery will destroy society and cause cataclysm blah blahh and try to make the argument that slavery can't achieve the ends it sets out to create.
Like you just sound retarded when you're like corporal punishment leads to criminality. We easily look at all the countries where corporal punishment is the norm, where the rates of criminality are much lower.
I think there are much better ways to get the desired behavior. I look at education being the solution. If the other person internally thinks as you do, you don't need to keep disciplining them for doing things you think are wrong. We don't have to train humans as we would an animal because we're verbal creatures.
Anonymous 07-12-24 23:34:21 No. 23107
>>23106 How would it be cherry picking? It shows that there is no correlation between criminality and corporal punishment, let alone a cause and effect relationship
Anonymous 07-12-24 23:48:46 No. 23111
>>23110 Was it all the ass whoopins your daddy gave you that made you this way?
Anonymous 08-12-24 00:15:17 No. 23113
>>23112 Are you now going to start dumping your corporal punishment fetish folder?
Anonymous 08-12-24 00:29:44 No. 23118
>>23115 I think my mom was super iron deficient because she's a damn vegetarian.
Anonymous 08-12-24 00:31:51 No. 23119
>>23118 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6367879/ >The goal of this study was to review published data on iron status among vegetarian adults. Thirteen original articles met the inclusion criteria. Among female vegetarians, the percentage of the sample with ferritin <12 µg/L or <12 ng/mL ranged from 12% to 79%. An inadequate hemoglobin concentration ranged from 6% to 30.3%. Among males, the range of ferritin <12 µg/L across studies was from 1.7% to 29%. The prevalence of hemoglobin below deficiency cutoff ranged from 0% to 15.3%. A higher percentage of vegetarian females, compared to nonvegetarian participants, had ferritin below deficiency cutoff in all but one study (34% vs 0%, 47% vs 42%, 18% vs 13%, 27.8% vs 6.5% among Catholic nuns and 19.4% among college students, 79% Indian, and 56% Caucasian vegetarian vs 27% of nonvegetarian). Serum ferritin was lower in male vegetarians than male nonvegetarians in each study (11% among vegans and 21% among vegetarians compared to 6% and 7% among high and moderate meat consumers, 3% of vegetarians, and 25% vegans vs 0% of nonvegetarians, 29% vs 7%, 9% vs 0%). Vegetarians have a high prevalence of depleted iron stores. A higher proportion of vegetarians, compared to nonvegetarians, had iron deficiency anemia. This is especially true for premenopausal vegetarian women. Anonymous 08-12-24 01:32:29 No. 23123
>Screen time has to be extremely limited or nonexistent; this creates […] attention deficit disorders This is incorrect.
>No social media Neurotic. Great way to raise an outcast. You think your kid will be integrated with their peers when they don't have messaging apps and social media? The correct approach would be to limit their use and monitor it until a certain age (like from 12 to 14). And of course, educating them on what to watch out for. I didn't get into trouble in the internet because my mother taught me the basics.
>never post your full name, address etc >never ever ever post pictures of yourself or your family >watch out for pedophiles >watch out for scammers, free givaways etc >never click an ad, never try to buy anything >>23055 This is correct. Don't be always watching TV or on your phone around children.
>>23077 Also very important, but it's worth noting that physical violence in fact does not help. The effect is either very negative or mildly negative. It is known.
>>23103 Idiotic line of reasoning.
>>23063 >>23062 >>23064 >>23065 >>23066 >>23068 >>23086 >>23088 You have brain damage. Contain your retardation to a single post please, this is straight up spam.
Anonymous 08-12-24 01:45:39 No. 23124
>>23123 >You have brain damage. Contain your retardation to a single post please, this is straight up spam. Is this first day on an anonymous message board? Not everyone with the username anonymous is the same person.
Anonymous 08-12-24 01:51:43 No. 23126
>>23124 Newgene is easily recognizable by his writing style, incessant typos, talking points, and tendency to doublepost. It seems you're the new one here if you don't know this much.
>>23125 It's not a line of reasoning, it's a statement of fact. This isn't the sort of thing that can be proven with tautology, you should instead look up the scientific literature if you doubt it as it is not my job to teach you shit.
Anonymous 08-12-24 01:54:22 No. 23127
>>23126 >It's not a line of reasoning, it's a statement of fact. This isn't the sort of thing that can be proven with tautology, you should instead look up the scientific literature if you doubt it as it is not my job to teach you shit. What a convoluted way to say you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.
Anonymous 08-12-24 01:57:15 No. 23128
It's funny I don't agree with Newgene all the time, but he is like one of the only human beings on this board. Most of you are souless bug men NPCs for real. Literally don't think about anything.<But why >AHHH I DON'T KNOW GO READ IT YOURSELF!
Anonymous 08-12-24 02:47:06 No. 23131
>>23126 Put some respect on my name.
That wasn't me but I do agree with their line of reasoning.
And I'm sorry that you find that post very irritating.
>>23130 Irony is, they said the same about TV and movies and magazines.
The real problem with social media is that it amplifies the bad side of the human condition.
Social media doesnt make people inherently toxic.
It allows them to spread their toxicity is all.
Anonymous 12-12-24 09:02:29 No. 23161
I seriously think the real crux of the problem of modern parenting is that people focus far too much on kids academic potential.
Anonymous 14-12-24 20:31:25 No. 23169
Heckin Bumperino
Anonymous 14-12-24 21:53:31 No. 23170
>>23161 Do they become software engineers?
Anonymous 15-12-24 08:07:29 No. 23171
>>23170 those are the lucky few
Anonymous 18-12-24 00:42:05 No. 23175
children don't have nothing about them. they're just impressionable blobs of flesh and blood. we mold them from clay to be what we want them to be, however, CPS and public schooling has subverted any and all parental upbringing into their woke, psychotic agenda. jesus said to always "turn the other cheek" not only was he a pedo, but he is a degenerate faggot, spreading the other cheek, so that whoever fucks him in the ass the first time, he allows it to happen again. Wake up, brah. i'm not trying to be cynical or pessimistic. i'm trying to be real. religion is just a crutch for the unknown. that's all it is. as humans, we need to evolve from that 2,024 year old ideology and be smarter and better than this
Anonymous 18-12-24 01:54:20 No. 23177
>>23176
Anonymous 18-12-24 16:01:31 No. 23190
>>23175 You can't mold children like they are totally void of any traits from birth, read Robert Plomin, kid come with some inborn traits and tendencies to behave a certain way.
Anonymous 19-12-24 15:16:40 No. 23192
>>23175 >children don't have nothing about them. they're just impressionable blobs of flesh and blood. we mold them from clay to be what we want them to be thats dehumanising thing to say.
Children arent clay dolls
They do have preset abilities that need time to be unlocked.
Also impressionability is more due to social conditioning.
Innocence is not absolute nor universal in youth
Anonymous 19-12-24 15:17:15 No. 23193
>>23190 this.
even conservatives knew tabula rosa was dumb
Anonymous 26-12-24 16:57:27 No. 23264
>>23254 More reason to not procreate
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