/lgbt/ - LGBT

Literal bottoming as in getting fucked in the ass? Training by inserting progressively bigger things up there and not neglecting lube hasn't done it for you?
If you just mean sexual submission, if you don't like it you don't like it.

>>1876
>>1879
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Regarding sexual submission, I'm a soft dom top but I've bottomed. It can be pleasurable without the sexual submission.

sorry anon, bottoming is kinda heteronormative and fascist :/ under communism the top/bottom hierarchy will be abolished and everyone will frot

>>1879
>Training by inserting progressively bigger things up there and not neglecting lube hasn't done it for you?
I mean that feels kinda nice but feels different and less pleasurable when actually getting fucked, don't have that many toys tho
>>1881
shut up

>>1882
You also need to take it very slow. Is your partner just ramming it? They need to start slow with a few fingers or small toys and work their way up during the session.

Also you need to get used to the feeling and learn how to relax etc.

>>1879
you don't need bigger objects, you can reach the prostate with your index finger

>>1876
find a better position or a better top

>>1886
>you can reach the prostate with your index finger
actually that too is a problem, getting my prostate punched directly gives me discomfort not pleasure

>>1888
Well is penetrative sex enjoyable for ya at all? If not then look into non-penetrative stuff, i.e. frotting.

>>1886
>you don't need bigger objects, you can reach the prostate with your index finger
But he's probably not getting fucked by people with dicks that thin, is the point. It's about training to accommodate real sex.

>>1881
Nah everyone will form gay circles and everyone will fuck and be fucked.

>buy new dildo to try the tips you guys gave me
>8inch tgirl who was supposed to top me stops replying
is god trying to tell me something?

"Bottom" and "top" are marketing labels used by financialized neoliberal platforms such as Grindr that turn humans into easily sortable commodities to extract revenue from. Its like that psyop they invented: "are you a side???" (i.e a normal human like 80% of people)

Its like a toy store that sells "girl toys" and "boy toys"…bitch where are you shoving that Rubix cube??? Most toys are just plain old "toys", but capitalists need to market their bullshit in the most pure ideology fashion (fascism)

>>1924
>sexual preferences are (online leftoid buzzwords)
lol pseud thinks hes submitting an article to medium

the only real problem is straggots taking the top/bottom dynamic out of the context where it makes sense, the bedroom, so now you have people thinking its some fucking personality trait

>>1924
t. seething side
sorry sweaty, most guys do actually enjoy and want to fuck.

>>1888
that's odd - do you have any other sexual or urinary symptoms that suggest something is wrong? if so you might wanna get checked out

>>1876
i like the idea of bottoming too but have been struggling to get around being a porn addict and so used to jerking off that other stimulation isn't as pleasurable, has anyone else dealt with this