>>3825Well, everything is 'performative' until it isn't. What it looks like to me, and I may be wrong here, is that this is the tendency for people to keep on complaining or something to that effect. It is the equivalent of "not left enough/not far enough" in terms of queerness/sexuality, or mapped on that. Some people will complain about your queerness until you, masc dude for example, suck a dick publicly (vice versa for bi women).
Point is, can't win with some people so I for one won't try. But I'm not a pro queer, more on the amateur side of things.