For years, ive been questioning my gender and my "egg" still hasnt cracked. Im constantly switching between wanting to become a girl, and just wanting to be a femboy. No matter how much time i spend thinking about it, I still cant figure out which I want to be.
I honestly don't know what to do. I hate gender so much, why does it have to be confusing. I dont think ill ever figure out if im truly trans or not at this rate, and every second I wait my body permanently masculinizes more.
It feels so hopeless
>>4135same pretty much
i think i concluded that i'm just a femboy and i want to have a feminine role in a relationship with a man and be a "boywife"
i don't have an interest in being female or being seen as a woman outside the context of relationships with men
>>4137I want to wear feminine clothes in public too, but I want to do it because I'm out with my boyfriend.
cunt.
>>4138Gender kinda are boxes though, atleast society treats it like such. Even most of the queer community treats it as such. If I aimed to be both a femboy and a transgirl, then I wouldnt be welcomed in transfem spaces for being a femboy, but I also wouldnt be welcomed in femboy spaces for being a transgirl. I wouldnt fit in anywhere. So im unfortunately forced to choose one.
>>4137>all boys are masculine! Femboys dont existYou sound dumb
>>4140>If I aimed to be both a femboy and a transgirl, then I wouldnt be welcomed in transfem spaces for being a femboy, but I also wouldnt be welcomed in femboy spaces for being a transgirl. I wouldnt fit in anywhere. So im unfortunately forced to choose one.Sounds like a twitter thing. I've seen people straddle / mix both all the time.
Solution is find healthier spaces, rather than seek conditional acceptance in spaces that require you shatter yourself to fit in. I suggest fedi and the personal websites scene.