/lgbt/ - LGBT

>>4638
Idk what did you expect when you typed all this, guess we'll just rant here

>the only thing other gay people seem to talk about is sex

Its disgusting and bitter for me. Sex is there seem to be an universal property of all men, thus men in general becomes indifferent to each other in this relation, and the 'homosexual' desire therefore is directed to a plurality of beings. It makes me nauseus if someone would talk about their relationship-s with the variety of 'partners', love as an union of two beings in that situation seems to be actually a definite thing directed to this universal property, thus then it loses it's being when the individual is loved only positively in relation to the sexual desire, is this his being's only worth for the lover? And why would them share their own special rite?

^ so, this is my feelings about it

>I feel like such a failure as gay guy.
>out of place in any online gay community.

Holy gad, you being a gay does not mean you have to follow stipulations of some presupposed path in your life just because a random other guy did. How would you judge if what those random people are doing is any desirable.

>>4638
try being me
t. 30yo gay virgin

So gay guys are just like straight guys then. Good to know

>im 19 and still havent ever experienced sex
You should be proud and/of happy for, casual "safe" sex does not exist, you have saved yourself from stealthing, STDs and rape this way. Being a virgin is nothing bad. The other day I had a wet dream and the anal sex felt so good, I woke up so happy, and mind you that the only thing that has ever entered my ass is an enema and 2 fingers, I can't imagine how it will feel when I try a dildo.
You should keep your male hymen intact and wait forma the pleasurable and safe sex with your boyfriend.

> havent even ever been able to get a boyfriend
Yeah, this is the difficult part, I have chatting with some guys online (one at a time and no sexting) and nothing has come out yet. Maybe you should try online (straggots will not understand the reality of only 2-5% being same-sex attracted and the impossibility for most of us of just running into our future boyfriend and so they will advice us to stop looking for one, you should not obsess with getting one but you must actively search for one)? Or on dating apps if you are REALLY desperate. Or do you have problems developing feelings?

>It makes me feel so pathetic and out of place in any online gay community.
Stop going there then, or go there less if you can't handle it and makes you feel out of place. You shouldn't feel pathetic for being a virgin (it is a goos thing) or being single (in the USA in 2013 60% of gay men were).

>>4657
Not really, getting gay sex is very easy (getting quality gay sex may be not).

>>4658
>Being a virgin is nothing bad
It is bad. It means im not pretty enough to be desired. I never have wet dreams, and im far too grossed out and scared of pain to put anything in my asshole.
>online
I cant even make a single online friend, so the chances of me getting an online partner are even slimmer. I am so fucking lonely, i havent truly socialized with someone in years and its driving me to the point of considering suicide, So of coure im gonna obsess over getting a boyfriend. I dont know if i have trouble developing feelings, ive never talked to anyone enough to develop any.

>>4657
Damn, so homosexuality isn't a cheat code for incels then?

>>4668
Apparently not. Imagine being a gaycel? It sounds truly hellish. They always seem to be more messed that a regular incel. At least I think they are

>>4638
Gaycels are fakecels, you fffffake-ass incel

>>4667
do u want to be my friend?

>>4669
am i truly worse than a regular incel? reading that makes me feel so bad :(
>>4671
How is it fake lol
>>4672
Sure, aslong as you arent doing it only out of pity

>>4676
u have a discord?

>>4671
Goycels

>>4677
fabulousrot_79886

>>4687
nvm i just got locked out of my account

>>4690
wut

>>4638
sweetheart i'm about to 30 and i'm still a virgin

>>4691
i logged on my fabulousrot account and I was just locked out of it. I got a friend request from some weird account with no pfp and a hour after accepting it i was locked out, but idk if that has anything to do with it. Cant even do shit about it since i signed up for the account with a fake email, sorry

>>4693
oh well

>>4692
same but 33

>>4638
Sex is not that important, it's just one of many enjoyable things to do in life. If they only care about sex, that's weird. Sex as a thing to brag about is so weird to me because it's just a way to pleasure yourself (not much different from masturbating, or laying in the sun or savoring a good meal) and possibly bond with another person. The second part is just between you and them, like why should anyone else care or it be an ego thing? Brag on your hobbies, brag on your friends, brag on your education, but sex can stay personal. Do it with someone you like and are okay feeling attached to, especially if you bottom.

JEWS INVENTED SEX TO MOCK INCELS

>>4711
Facts

>>4667
>It means im not pretty enough to be desired.
If you are 19 year olds there is an only supply of men in Grindr wanting to fuck your young ass

>>4668
>>4669
GAYCELS DON'T EXIST

>>4676
You are not an incel

>>4714
I am 100% a gaycel
33 kissless gay virgin, never had a BF, never gone on a date, never even been seriously hit on by a guy

Is there a gay Elliot Rodger out there?

>>4716
Eh kinda maybe? People say I look younger than I am. Though I could be taking better care of myself. Need to come up with a better skin care routine.

>>4715
Have you installed Grindr? Have you gone cruising?

>>4717
Okay so you had had sex? Then not an incel

>>4726
I installed Grindr but I think it's the worst app ever made. Microtransactions on everything, they want to track everything you do, and all the guys just post body pics. Even using it for a few minutes feels like shit. I'm not interested in a quick hookup. I know beggars can't be choosers and all that.
I've been trying to be more social lately and have been hoping that I could meet someone IRL but I dunno.

>>4733
> I'm not interested in a quick hookup
Okay so you are not an incel
Not fucking chad doesn't make you can incel

>>4736
If not a gaycel, then at the very least a hopeless romantic. Gay khhvs deserve genuine *romantic* love too

Who is goycel?

>>4736
By that logic there's no such thing as a real incel period because even the most pathetic virgin could find an ugly landwhale, or have sex with a prostitute.
Obviously standards go without saying.

>>4760
Yes, most incels are fakecels that won't fuck lonely cat ladies, crackheads/junkies, fats or prostitutes (maybe some can pay them)
Only trucels are mentalcels, people in LTR, or poor 1-2s

>>4772
the fuck is a mentalcel

>>4787
Incel due to mental illness(es)

>>4772
>>4787
>>4789
Menalcels are fakecels

>>4790
How is someone unable to have sex because of a thing (mental illness) they can't control and might not be aware of not an incel but a guy paying for sex or refusing to have sex with junkies an incel?

>>4792
Incel is a meaningless term anyways. Those definitions the anon gave are also meaningless. Incelism is just something you say you're in or not. Also it's just generally an insult that's thrown at people you don't like even if they have sex. Someone can call themselves an Intel even if they've had sex. It's just another term for a "low value" male.

>>4733
Honestly you just gotta be patient and selective. My worst experiences on Grindr happened when I was just looking for a quick lay, but I've met some really cool guys on there that I fucked around with a bit and stayed friends with afterwards. You just gotta seek out people you'd want to interact with even in a non-sexual context.

i think today a guy flirted with me. first time it's ever happened but since i'm a gaycel i didn't try to flirt back or anything. not sure how i'd even attempt to do that

>>4804
Honestly I don't even know what a guy flirting with me looks like because straight guys are super fucking gay-acting nowadays. They will say and do the gayest shit and then turn around and say something hyper-homophobic.

>>4804
How many times do I have to tell you you are not a gaycel?
You sound like a "femcel"
Today I fucked 5 guys but they didn't made me orgasm and I am a bit psycho, #femcelMoment

>>4836
Calm down buddy this isn't 4chan.