/lgbt/ - LGBT

>>4774
Just stop eating and at least you won't be fat. It's really that simple. You have a mouth hole. Stop inserting food into it.

>>4775
Not exactly that simple, you can't really lose weight effectively without exercise. But yes it is changeable.

As for the other things, just try find a job where those aren't an impediment

>>4776
>Not exactly that simple, you can't really lose weight effectively without exercise. But yes it is changeable.
I wouldn't know, I've never been fat in my life. I don't eat a lot. I can't even picture "over eating." I eat whatever I want when I want, but I often don't eat. I probably undereat. Just don't be fat. Jesus Christ. It's as simple as not eating. For realsies. I mean I'm probably fucked up, I'm a midget, but I'll never be fat.

>>4777
I mean, I honestly hate eating things like cake and stuff. The sugar tastes disgusting in my mouth. It makes my saliva feel unnaturally syrupy. Beyond that stop fucking with all those chips and those phytotoxins and etc.

Fuck, grains. Just eat your greens and meat and dairy.

>>4778
And that grain slop is the same slop they feed to the cows, that they sell to you at a higher price because the flesh of a cow raised on grain slop is worth more than grain slop itself. That's valued added.

>>4775
>Just stop eating and at least you won't be fat. It's really that simple. You have a mouth hole. Stop inserting food into it.

Just stop having sex with men and at least you won't be a fag. It's really that simple. You have an asshole. Stop inserting dicks into it.

It's interesting how we draw the line between what is an innate part of our personality and what is not.

>>4780
Alright chill fatass, you were the one that described yourself as fat to begin with. Ok that's like your sexual identity or whatever I get it. You identify as a can't find his own dick under his stomach folds sexual.

>>4775

You're very intelligent and that's a very clever and original hot take, we are lucky to have insightful brilliant minds like yours in the LGBT community please stay in it and never leave we really want to be your friend.

The key part of the post that nobody here can seem to pick up on is "conforming only made me even more miserable, I felt like I lost myself and didn't even know who I was anymore." That's kind of a big deal, or at least it's supposed to be. Do you not have any sense of self? Are you just a chameleon that takes whatever form suits you best in the moment? I tried to live that way and I couldn't do it, it was mentally and physically killing me. I don't know how you sociopaths can live that way your whole life, never being yourself, never even knowing who you really are, always trying to be someone else. I've never wanted to be anyone else.

>>4777
It depends on your metabolism. Some people can gain weight very easily and some people‘s urge to eat can also be stronger.

>>4774
have you considered going to the gym
it will release happy chemicals and make you feel better about yourself, the hardest thing is just going

OP here, I think you're missing the point I'm trying to make here, which is about the very real human need for authenticity.

I know this is an utterly taboo idea in our extremely superficial media-oriented capitalist society, but some people are just naturally supposed to be fat, it's part of who they are and changing their bodies and becoming thin to better fit in with mainstream society doesn't make them happy, it makes them miserable.

It's just a matter of self-image, no different than things like gender identity - you see yourself as a certain particular kind of person, that is your internally projected self-image. If you see yourself as a person who is supposed to be thin and you are fat, you will be experience feelings of dysphoria because your body does not match your self-image. Conversely if you naturally see yourself as a fat person but you are pressured to become thin by outside influence, you will experience feelings of dysphoria because your body does not match your self-image. You are who you are.

I feel like we live in this culture/era where authenticity doesn't seem to matter anymore, this "fake it til you make it" social media influencer/self-help ted talk sort of culture where people have no inner sense of self at all, they don't see themselves at all, they see themselves as blanks or wildcards and only think about how they are seen by others, they allow themselves to be defined entirely by outside influence and they live in fear of "cringe" i.e. exposure, having their genuine repressed self publicly laid bare for everyone to see. People see themselves as a broken incomplete work in progress and they put everything in their lives on hold until they are "fixed" and they can conform to social expectations.

So, of course, if someone like me were to come out and say something like "Yes I am fat but that's who I am and I'm perfectly okay with that and I'm not going to change to conform to society; society should change to conform to me." - people who are putting themselves through all this psychological torment by believing they are broken/incomplete and toiling away their lives in vain trying to fix themselves are going to be baffled and likely outraged to hear something like that, to face the possibility that all of their sacrifice and hard work and alienation and depression and pain and suffering, that all of it has been for nothing.

Authenticity, figuring out who you really are and just being yourself, is important. People can't live inside of a lie, they need authenticity, they need to be themselves or else they'll be miserable and they'll go crazy and probably kill themselves or something.

>>4778
>It makes my saliva feel unnaturally syrupy
worker bee nectar enzymes

>>4800
the modern obesity epidemic is a result of capitalism brother
authenticity is also not a real thing btw, as a living breathing human being you are in a constant state of change
you can choose to be happier and healthier for your own sake rather than needing to impress anyone else
though I would say we have the exact opposite problem in the modern world, too many people (especially powerful people) do not value the opinions of others and do not need to engage in any kind of self-criticism or reflection
under socialism that kind of unflinching individualism would fade away

>>4823
>the modern obesity epidemic

Is this really an epidemic? People have always been fat. There's quite a lot of fatties in the world, billions of them in fact. There have always been fat people, always will be.

Usually disease epidemics eventually end at some point. When is this one going to end? When will I be cured of this disease? When will people who look like me finally be exterminated from the world?

>>4823
>authenticity is also not a real thing btw

Yeah nothing is real this is all a simulation right?

>as a living breathing human being you are in a constant state of change

Yeah, a constant state of change that is largely outside of your control. Sure you can make small adjustments here and there in your life to improve your wellbeing like exercising, moderating your diet, seeing a doctor, deciding whether to transition if you are transgender, etc. but that doesn't mean we have the ability to completely redefine ourselves as we see fit and become avatars. Convincing yourself that you are completely different person is not change, it's just a personality disorder.

Even in the trans community, this kind of thinking is now generally discouraged by gender therapists as outmoded and psychologically damaging, the idea of "re-birthing" and repressing and erasing your pre-transition self and pretending like you never existed. Pretending you don't exist is not healthy, it's psychotic. Authenticity actually matters, regardless of the weird post-truth social media dystopia we now find ourselves living in.