looking for suggestions on clothing/outfits that are androgynous and preferably not too expensive. got any ideas anons?
i tend to like tighter fitting/heavy clothes (autism?) but don't want to be perceived as a woman
pictures please!
im enby and i usually wear womens leggings or skinny pants and mens t-shirts/hoodies and sneakers
>>5041playing g*cha games is one of the last things i want to do
>>5041Is there a name for the kind of jacket as in your picture? I need to know what to search for.
>>5168Could look at them on boorus. I just mention them because they seem pretty consistently good at fashion.
>>5169Looks like a double-breasted trench coat.
>>5175Thanks. I looked up some pics of people wearing them and the conclusion is it looks like absolute shit unless worn by a tall lanky woman.
tunic universalism
>In the Bible, a tunic (or ketonet in Hebrew) was a basic, knee-length undergarment worn by both men and women, made from two pieces of cloth sewn together. It served as the primary layer of clothing, worn next to the skin, with a more significant outer cloak worn over it. The tunic's significance is highlighted in biblical stories, such as being a priestly garment for the high priest, a symbol of unity for Jesus' seamless tunic, and a personal item mentioned in Jesus' teachings on non-retaliation.
>>5175I love capes and cloaks so much I wish they were more common
>>5241ren fair everyday everywhere!
>>5040are you amab or afab? if you actually want to look androgynous you have to really style yourself for your facial/bone structure otherwise you'll just look like your sex
>>5241i think they're pretty overrated
>>5980I feel so ashamed for wearing the amazon basics as a femboy, i just dont have any sense of personal style
>>5986I mostly just wore sweatpants and a t-shirt during my school years out of depression, So I never really had the oppurtunity to experiment and develop a style or sense of fashion
>>6002well how come you gravitate towards amazon basics shit? you ever see cool clothing in media you like?
>>6005>you ever see cool clothing in media you like?I do, but I feel im not pretty enough to wear the kinds of clothes i find cool.
Meanwhile I dont really value amazon basics clothes that much so I feel deserving of wearing them.
>>6014if you're ugly you'll look bad in amazon basics shit too, if you're pretty people will probably ask you where you got it, such is life, no reason to wear it either way
what stuff do you find cool and in what way are you ugly anon?
>>6016The kinds of styles i find cool are mostly j-fashion stuff like lolita and jirai kei. But those styles all require immense amounts of effort and natural beauty to pull off.
My facial boneshape is incredibly masculine and gross, my skin is acne riddled, my hair looks shitty since im too depressed to take care of it, and im too stupid to figure out how to do makeup. All of these things come together to make me look incredibly ugly.
>>6025if by immense amounts of effort you mean money then sure kinda. also you think the average woman into lolita is conventionally attractive? lol
>>6025are you on hrt? i used to have acne before i started mine
i cant give too much advice because im quite ugly as well, and the kind that you can't really fix with surgery either, but i think you just need to focus on taking care of yourself more at least anon, as hard as that is
also like the other anon said a lot of the women into lolita stuff are not super attractive or anything and it mostly just costs a ton of money
also if you're above the average woman's height you probably won't be able to do it
>>6027>i used to have acnehow long before you noticed anything?
>>6028as soon as my testosterone was suppressed enough
>>6026It requires immense amounts of effort in the sense that id need to learn how to do makeup and then have to get extremely good at makeup, and id also need to get a flat stomach, aswell as style my hair a certain way. Its very hard for me to even do simple tasks as a result of my depression.
>you think the average woman into lolita is conventionally attractive?Ive never seen a picture of someone wearing lolita clothes who wasnt super conventionally attractive.
>>6027>are you on hrt? i used to have acne before i started mineIm not on hrt. I unfortunately cant bring myself to do it.
>i think you just need to focus on taking care of yourself more at least anonI know I do, ive tried so many times to focus on taking care of myself more, but each and everytime i failed to keep up with even just the basics of self care for more than a couple days. I just cant do it, no matter how hard i try.
>also if you're above the average woman's height you probably won't be able to do itim 5'9 so ill probably never be able to do it then
>>6031you sound annoyingly insecure
>im 5'9 so ill probably never be able to do it thenlmao unless youre asian theres plenty of cis women who are this tall
>>6031Get some adderall and stop making excuses for literally everything.
>>6031>I unfortunately cant bring myself to do it.why not?do you need help
>im 5'9 so ill probably never be able to do it thenyeah well f u lucker lmao at least you arent over 6
>>6032>you sound annoyingly insecureyes i am and you being a dipshit doesnt help in the slightest.
>>6033>Get some adderall and stop making excuses for literally everything.I TAKE ADDERAL EVERYSINLE FUCKIN DAY OF MY LIFE. its not excuses its literal mental illness. Ive tried so hard to fix myself and recover, ive taken all kinds of meds, ive tried different therapists, I tried helping myself. nothing worked. You have no fucking idea what ive gone through you ignorant piece of shit.
>>6067not much anyone can do if you just refuse to take hrt because you can't be a 4'9 princess loli
>>6067lol ok retard, i dont think adhd is to blame for you not wanting to take e bc of your retarded ideals
>>6068lmfaoo
>>6069I never even mentioned adhd lol, it has nothing to do with my problems you retard
>>6068No i cant take hrt because im not trans, i dont want boobs
>>6077>you retardthis insult
really loses weight considering all the shit youve posted itt that makes you seem like a barely functional autist who cant even tie their shoes together without bemoaning and giving up lol
>im not transsure thing buddy
>>5076>>5240I have been through different phases with clothes in a non corporate context (I'm a caregiver so I don't need to dress up). Typically loose shorts, tees, accessorised with headsock or bandana. Leggings under shorts. Small personalisation like nail varnish or pendants can feel "right" at times. I like the idea of a tunic or djellaba type dress shirt but I'm not ready to take on this expression just yet. I did wear a long grey skirt for a while but it wasn't super comfortable - too tight waist! I would experiment again with skirts and try kilts in the future.
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