How do I cope with the fact that i'm probably genderfluid?
For years now ive constantly been conflicted with my gender, wanting to be a girl but also wanting to just be a femboy. Ive been told by many that im likely some type of non-binary, but I dont want to be. I just either want to be either a normal trans girl or a femboy, but if I identify as genderfluid then I fear that people wont see me as a real transgirl or as a real femboy, so it would be like I just dont get to be either.
God, whats wrong with me? Why couldnt I have just been born as a normal gender-binary-fitting person? I dont want to be genderfluid.
>>5209What are the things that make you want to be a "boy" and not a woman? You might still have some hangups related to your view of womanhood, that you need to work through. Keep in mind "femmen" currently aren't a real thing.
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