What is something that a Cis-Het-Moid like myself or any non-queer person for that matter should never say to a queer person? I’m not talking about slurs or hate-speech because that’s goes without saying, I’m talking about something that doesn’t have bad intentions behind it like a bad joke, Like for example a hetero man saying “Wow me too!” After a lesbian tells him that she is attracted to Women or an uneducated question Like someone asking a trans woman “When did you decide to stop being a man? also I am aware that most of this is personal preference.
>>6953>a bad joke, Like for example a hetero man saying “Wow me too!” After a lesbian tells him that she is attracted to WomenI think most people would find this heartwarming, honestly. It's like a supportive dad joke.
"I don't want to fuck you with me big straight cock"
Also, if someone mentions they have a same-sex partner (as in not telling you explicetely, but he/she is talking about their partner and references to the partner's gender are made, like pronouns or the word "boyfriend" or "girlfriend")he/she will probably feel the best if you make no reaction when they say it, no questions, no facial expression, no congratulations or anything (but if in the future you have some question you don't have to pretend you didn't notice, just don't do anything at the moment)
>>7059I guess it is a matter for personal preference
>>7063>I don't want to fuck you with me big straight cockYeah maybe people should put it less bluntly
>>6953Asking (read: demanding) that they explain “why” they are or behave the way that they are or behave (or why they don’t be or behave otherwise, e.g., asking a trans woman “why can’t/don’t you just be a feminine man”)
https://juliaserano.substack.com/p/prejudice-and-the-unmarkedmarked "I could tell you were gay from your voice/the way you walk"