>>7009>I have BPD so I get a bit weird with my emotions sometimes and it makes it hard to make connections with people, even if I'm very clear about my boundaries and stuff I feel like my local groups treat me like a special case
Sorry anon, all but political groups are social clubs, anarchist affinity groups especially so. If you want to hang out with the cool kids you have to be either likeable to them in some way or indispensable for some practical reason.
So you either have to work on your personal skills (Just be fun and nice to people it's not that hard fam) or make practical/theoretical contributions of value. If you can learn to do both I guarantee you will be valued and respected even if you have some quirks. Everybody has quirks and issues.
If you try your best and really can't make a connection with anybody then I'd suggest taking the initiative and working on a personal project or learning a skill that might be useful for the cause/scene on your own. Do a zine, make jewelry, screenprinting, music, hacklab…
>>7012>I thought such movements would have people with more empathy.You can't guilt people in to liking you. Simple as.