/lgbt/ - LGBT

Why do people love to use the bisexual colors for lighting?

Favorite x files episode?

>>753
it's the best combination
what others are there


>>770
the one with that serial killer that escapes every 10 years or so, early seasons

Who are the hottest Star Trek characters and why is it a 3 way tie between Dr. Crusher, Dr. Bashir, and Commander Riker (without the beard)?

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BiGODS rule the world

This isn't a real thing. Stop trying to make bisexuality a thing.

I am for sure 99.99% gay but sometimes I see a woman and am like "huh". I've never actually jerked off to a woman though.

>>3213
Im the opposite, I beat off to women all the time but actually sticking my dick in anything besides my hand feels wrong

>>3212
In the sense of being perfectly 50% attracted to both and other sexes probably not. I think most bi people go through phases.

>>3216
You have in this world
>Breeders
>Gay men, and some of them have sex with women
>Lesbians, and some of them have sex with men

There's no such thing as Bisexuals really, it's made up bullshit for college girls to feel special

>>3217
I've slept with exactly the same number of male and female partners. Which one am I?

>>3217
It’s real in autistic men

>>3213
I consider myself gay but I have several fetishes which involve women. Femdom, pegging, gay guys having sex with women and a few more

every thread is a bisexual thread given enough time

>>3217
Silence biphobe

im like freud, i think everyone is born bisexual and everything else is a pathology caused be childhood trauma

I don't get biphobia, everyone's on a spectrum
Like i'm basically gay but if the hottest woman in the world started advancing and kissing me of course i'd at least try to have sex with her

>>3217
If I put a gun to a gay man's head, and forced him to eat pussy, would that make them bi?

>>3340
That's hot

>>3313
Exactly, right?
I call myself a lesbian, but I am not immune to jackhammer cock. So realistically I'm technically bi. Realistically, surely most people are. Like always, black and white concepts, like gay and straight, mostly exist for the sake of simplifying a more complicated truth.

>>3313
>>3594
But there are obviously different modes of sexuality, e.g. enjoying the stimulation, fulfilling fantasies and fetishes, being attracted to their perceived value or desirability to others, stuff like that. When it comes to actual physical attraction felt toward the other person, i wonder how many people are bi? I think most bisexuals don't have the same kind of sexuality for both genders, where they have genuine chemistry with only one gender. I wanna be proved wrong though

the urge to leave my partner for a dude grows stronger everyday. what do

>>3313
Most biphobia seems to just stem from insecurity (atleast from the "I wouldnt date a bi person" crowd) They feel inferior and thus they fear their partners would leave for someone better, so the idea of dating a bi person who has twice the options makes them doubly insecure. Atleast thats just my theory, either way biphobes are pathetic.

>>3312
I partially agree, although I feel like its moreso caused by society teaching people how they feel attraction while their brains are still developing. In ancient greece it seemed like bisexuality was the norm, as being straight or being gay werent concepts yet, homosexuality was just something you did instead of something you were.

>>3820
I went through the same struggle. The only thing I can say is that if you choose to stay it should be for the right reasons, i.e. because you actually want to be with your current partner. Staying in an existing het relationship just because it's convenient, you don't want to cause a fuss, or you're scared to come out (assuming you're straightmoding like I did for years) won't turn out well in the long run.

>>3313
>Like i'm basically gay but if the hottest woman in the world started advancing and kissing me of course i'd at least try to have sex with her
This means you are bisexual, and not everyone is bisexual so stop projecting.

>I don't get biphobia
The other day I read a story about a gay guy whose bisexual boyfriend left him to raise a family with a woman, then I read some more where the bisexual feels like he is now old enough and has to settle down, and many people were saying to never date a bi guy for long-term relationships. Honestly it would be so hurtful to be with a man who then lefts me because I am fundamentally not enough for him. It is not the same as a young bisexual guy leaving me for a girl he genuinely likes, it's for raising a heterosexual family because his youthful homo playing years have ended.

>>3827
It would be somewhat understandable if you were biphobic because your boyfriend left you to start a family with a woman, but to be biphobic because you heard a story about someone else's boyfriend leaving them is absolutely laughable.

Biphobia is purely illogical. Biphobic women are convinced that all bi partners would leave them for a man, while biphobic men are convinced theyre gonna leave them for a woman. Even though those two views are so clearly contradictory with eachother, biphobes still stupidly continue on with their beliefs

>>3833
They're not contradictory because what women fear about dating bi men is infidelity, that he'll cheat and have sex with men behind her back, while men fear abandonment and being left for a woman.

>>3833
Well I just didn't heard "a story", it was multiple ones and multiple people agreeing, also, see picrel.

>>3834
>what women fear about dating bi men is infidelity
Straight men cheat all the time yet I never see anyone talking about how they fear straight men because of that. It's totally rational and not delusional at all to fear bi men because of the chance of infidelity while never even considering the possibility that a straight man might cheat.
>men fear abandonment and being left for a woman.
The same thing can be said for gay men, just instead of leaving for a woman they leave for another man. Its actually incredibly common among gay men.

>>3835
>Multiple people experienced the same thing!? It must be a universal fact of life then!
lol.
also that pic proves nothing. Of course theres gonna be more bi people in straight relationships simply because of the fact that straight women are much more common than gay men. The statistics dont prove anything about bi men leaving their previous partners for other ones.

>>3836
I don't say it is a universal fact of life, but it can happen, and being wary is Okay, specially if the bisexual male has some internalized homophobia.

>Straight men cheat all the time yet I never see anyone talking about how they fear straight men because of that.
It's because of homophobia, they find it disgusting/emasculating/dirty that his man has had sex with other men.

>The same thing can be said for gay men, just instead of leaving for a woman they leave for another man.
Again, most of them would worry about him leaving them for a woman because she is a woman and she can bring him a family, because he feels his playing years have ended and now he has to "settle down". It is not simply about cheating.

And I guess you are right about the statistics pic I posted.

>>3837
If you are gonna be wary of bi men, then you should be wary of all potential partners too. Anyone could cheat on you or leave you for another. Although I agree you shouldnt date a bi man if they have internalized homophobia.

In general im not really sure where your going with this. It seems like you are trying to justify biphobia, yet you condone women being biphobic since it stems from homophobia? Are you trying to say that biphobia is okay only if your a gay man?

>>3838

Why can't you understand that it isn't a fear to be cheated on for anyone but for being left for a WOMAN because she is a WOMAN who can give him a HETEROsexual relationship and a BIO FAMILY. That isn't possible with a homo (only with extremely high levels of autohomophobia).

>Are you trying to say that biphobia is okay only if your a gay man?
Not at all, for example, denying the existence of bisexuality would not be okay, or thinking they are more prone to cheat, or not wanting to have sex with him if he has touched a vagina (the legendary extremely misogynistic gays radfems like to talk about). Not all biphobia is made the same. A woman asking for STI status of a bisexual man but not of a hetersexual man would be okay too (only if he has had sex with men) (idk if you would consider this biphobia).

>>3824
Biphobia stems from the fact that bisexuality fucks with the linear way of thinking that homos and heteros impose on the world. Homosexuals are monsters who like sameness. Heterosexuals have an obsession with otherness. The obsession with sameness is why homosexuals tend to be narcissistic and morally questionable. Morality is about ethically coming to terms with an 'other,' with someone who is not like yourself. Homos fail at this. Its why they are hostile, misogynistic, and extremely self-centered. Since people organize their entire lives around being straight or gay, then someone who fits neither calls into question the truthfulness of the entire system. Homosexuality and heterosexuality are founded on a negation of bisexuality. And bisexuality can only be tolerated when its a niche thing a minority of weird people do rather than, as history and Freud show, has been the dominant mode of sexual expression throughout most human civilizations. This is the real source of biphobia.

>In ancient greece it seemed like bisexuality was the norm, as being straight or being gay werent concepts yet,
This seems to have been the case in most pre-modern pre-capitalist cultures. In less developed societies like Afghanistan its still common. Something seems to have happened which destroyed it. An ideal society should abolish these kinds of distinctions. In an ideal world, there would be no gay, straight, bi or other buzzwords that chop up society and make us fight.

>>3827
>Honestly it would be so hurtful to be with a man who then lefts me because I am fundamentally not enough for him.
How is this different from any other relationship? People break up for reasons all the time. Since I want children and a family (not just an inverted clone of a hetero family, but an actual one) and a gay male can never give me this, then such a long term relationship is impossible. The problem here is thinking in bourgeois terms that all relationships must lead to a happy mommy-daddy-me nuclear family. In other times and in other cultures, you could be happily married and still love someone else or love someone and its not connected to an idea of marriage. Western culture is fixated on monogamy and the nuclear family, but most cultures (Chinese, Japanese, Islamic, Indian) have practiced polygamy and marriage was about tribal alliances, not who you love.