/lgbt/ - LGBT

>>8178
trans people aren't a monolith just by being trans, there exists solidarity amongst them over shared oppression and a large amount of overlapping experiences, but there is no one "trans experience" that you can attach yourself to. are cis men or cis women monoliths? obviously not. if you feel like you don't fit in with other trans people that you know, that is okay. there will be people there for you that may not even necessarily be trans, as long as they make you feel supported that is good.
now as for whether you are "actually trans," i think fixating on whether you need a label is more harmful than helpful, but i recognize that it is important to feel like you have a cohesive identity.
have you also thought about if you were potentially nonbinary? this would probably help you figure things out internally. you should also try thinking about how you would/if you want to/what steps you would take to realistically transition in the case that you are trans. you don't need to hate your body to be trans either, and your feelings on your body and how you feel about yourself will change over time if you pursue transition as well (you may realize that you were actually extremely uncomfortable pre transition and you just couldn't imagine what anything else would feel like!)

>>8193
Thank you for your kind words. I thought about being nonbinary before, but a lot of people are saying that it's just a fake sexuality and that they just want to invade trans spaces, and this made me very unsure and confused.

The last part about me being uncomfortable and not realizing it is a very interesting thing, I'll think about that.

>>8193
>>8222
i mean sure trans is an umbrella term but if you arent actively transitioning or plan to eventually then why even bother using the label lol, is this like a fandom to you

>>8178
No, you are not trans

if u have to ask

Imma piggy back off this

Am I trans:
> Own and wear sometimes a thong, programmer socks, and a skirt
> Got an erection when buffing my nails
> Got an erection putting on makeup
> Got hard twice over the idea of being called a she
> Fantsize of men holding me from behind and inserting themselves in me
> (When masturbating) Fantsize being fucked so hard that they cum into me and I get impregnated
> When chatting w my boyfrind I imagine myself kinda as the girl in the ship
Idk maybe it's porn brain and heavy sexism lol, plus I feel very under developed socially.

Think I'm atleast gender fluid or maybe non binary – hard to say since the next info to really chew on in figuring this out will be a year away from nao

(When answering, please dont respond in riddles, unless they're simple enough for me to solve :> )

>>9482
agp

>>8178
I don't think merely idly fancying being of the opposite gender occasionally qualify as being trans. Dysphoria imply at least some level of discomfort brought by the gap between birth sex and prefered gender.

>>9525
Thanks
If it was trans, how long can I rep before my brain produces the suicide chemicals? Hypothetically

>>9482
Does it ever make you uncomfortable when people treat you like a man?

>>9605
If you are trans you should not let your body masculinize and get on hrt as soon as possible. Do not listen to anyone who tells you to rep, they want you to kill yourself.
If you’re non binary there’s no harm in microdosing while you figure yourself out, see if you like it and if you figure you’re not trans just throw it away.

>>9482
Idk. I think you’re just having an AGP phase.

>>9605
Why are so many gender dysphoric people wanting to feminize?
Are there any gender fluid people that don’t have any AGP affinity?

>>9617
I just never thought about it
Honestly recently until I took shrooms I was just mostly numb except for finding things kinda funny or being angry.


>>9619
Maybe it's a phase
Idk recently I've been fantasizing of wearing a maids outfit, not even ina sexual way, just like my heart is being weighed down and wearing it would take that weight off.
I then shake back to guy, feeling uncomfortable, weird, despair about the clash

Idk even understand this gender stuff
Everytime I think about the girl thing, I think of something that's exclusive to one gender, but then like why?
The spectrum is more blurred than I thought so I feel even more confused :/

>>9777
Just get on with it, do not let your body masculinize

just take the fucking E retard

>>9777
> Maybe it's a phase Idk recently I've been fantasizing of wearing a maids outfit, not even ina sexual way, just like my heart is being weighed down and wearing it would take that weight off.
>I then shake back to guy, feeling uncomfortable, weird, despair about the clash

There’s plenty of cishet men that cross dress without ever wanting to be a woman.

>Idk even understand this gender stuff
Everytime I think about the girl thing, I think of something that's exclusive to one gender, but then like why?
The spectrum is more blurred than I thought so I feel even more confused :/

I’ve read your posts. You have a gynomorphic bias. You say the spectrum is blurred but you are contemptful of masculine cismen and don’t even register masculine ciswomen

>>9798
>>9966
I'll try it.
I'm gonna get the pills, sugar pills, 2 pez dispensers, and do a blind test to make sure.
I've been reading through genderdysphoria.fyi first to think about it more, which has been kinda painful and validating to get through, (cried for the first times in 6 years yesterday while reading it, and felt a warmness in smiling I never felt).


>>10045
I didnt think women had to be weak, I think opposite and it's overblown how weak women can be, I just used it as a strong example of arbitrary gender division, which makes me confused of what being a woman even means.
Should've used some airquotes or somthing.

Regardless, femboy or related is possible – idk why, I just feel kinda good thinking of being a girl.
It also explains stuff like why I had anxiety at 5 years old