Where are my fellow lesbians/sapphics at? How's life going for y'all? I'm afraid to start dating and depressed as hell. Anxious about what a broader crackdown on LGBT folks might look like. Yes I'm from burgerstan.
>>8237mountain west burger dyke here. our last sapphic spaces are disappearing rapidly. its become too expensive to flock to queer loitering places… yet dinner parties and book clubs are on the rise! i miss my lesbo bar, but the return to small communities has brought some old friends back into my life. Instead of meeting up at the bar once a month, we hang out partaking in common interests. idk, i guess we are doing ok
I am a rare Bulgarian lesbian who struggles to have girlfriends because all the other girls are straight and attracted to idiotic Chad-like men instead of a gentle, hardworking woman. And heterosexuality is propagandised in the media so that all women would see being a housewife with a nuclear family is their only option for life.
Velichie and Revival don't want to see me carry a Molotov and destroy GERB headquarters anyways
>>8246what do you do for work, nona? any les spaces over there? How do you meet your ppl?
>>8247Currently a NEET but i applied for a chef job at a restaurant. Can't find any les spaces and it is pretty rare to find other lgbt people
>>8257i hope you get it! the culinary arts are so cool. being able to cook is deffo a plus to your social market value
>>8263Thanks for the motivation! Also, cooking will actually allow you to actually eat real food instead of highly-processed slop made by scientists to make people addicted to said slop at the cost of the customer's health
>>8271agreed! i typically cook 2/3 of my own meals from scratch and reach my fiber goal daily. i exercise often and work is laborious so i tend to stay leaner than my peers. although i have that good baseline, im still weird, nerdy, and have no sense of style whatsoever…
>>8273I know. But I'm glad that you're taking care of yourself. :-D
I only just learned of the carabiner thing after meeting this girl…
>>8280Not me with a carabiner literally on my belt loop rn oop
I have a question for schizonymous: do you know any slavic equivalent to sapphos? Is there any native word akin to sapphic?
>>8313I don't think there is a Bulgarian or any Slavic equivalent of Sappho, unfortunately. :-/
>>8320No, not that I know of, sorry
>>8329Feeling alright. Life has slowed down but it's not over yet! :-D
what do people talk about in these /lezgen/ threads
I think she is having sex with men but I really like her and I don't care if she has sex with other people as long as I am the most important person to her but idk if I am.
>>8393Why would you think that
>>8394She posts it on her NSFW social media. I am just scared to talk about it because like she is really into partying so maybe it is normal to her and also I think she likes me since I don't drink and I am cottagecore and I put effort in. So maybe it's wrong for me to care.
>>8395You should talk to her about it probably
>babe my babygirl I saw you posting stuff on your nsfw page that makes me think you're having sex with men are you having sex with men? not to judge I'm just curious and I won't leave you if you are I just wanna knowEtc
I'm still a virgin because all the other foids in my area are breeders or straight and childless
this might be more specific to transfems and idk what the cis/trans ratio is here but has anyone else been out for a long enough time to no longer be a babytrans/gay and #nooticing that everyone is bad at sex? I haven't really dated anyone in like five years and the last two girls I fucked last year both came off as like projecting their mental issues onto the whole thing and trying to pressure me into things I didn't really wanna do because everyone is a pornbrained weirdo now that thinks it's normal now I guess for everyone to do very specific kinky stuff without any conversation or establishing trust or whatever. it's very weird and offputting and makes me feel like I'm probably gonna continue to not fuck or date again because loneliness is preferable to what feels like rolling the dice for whether some bitch with poor socialization is gonna rape-lite me or like be a sex pest because it's apparently heckin wholesome to objectify women now as long as it's fagwashed.
>>8401No this is a real thing. Transbian spaces have a problem with sex pests and you can’t say anything without looking like gigahitler and getting socially kirked. They love taking advantage of insecure babytranses. Everyone thinks they’re f1nnster now. It’s all gone to shit
>>8403I've been kind of despairing over this for the past year or two after somewhat getting over some individualized neuroses around sex and then pretty much immediately regretting it after seeing that
this is what things are like now. like these problems with t4t were always a thing but they were more of a specific species of loser that was quarantined in specific spaces and that a lot of people eventually grew out of, but it's like over the past few years this shit has metastasized where now
everyone is at least spiritually a sex pest tenderqueer loser and there's almost no traces of how t4t used to be this kind of radical act of choosing to love other transfems. it feels like it's become this sort of thing now where we've systemically excluded from public life so much that t4t isn't a choice anymore so much as the default, so everyone brings their own baggage into it by default with no critique of any kind being done about how transfems are treated in patriarchal societies as sex objects, and then this behavior reproduces itself in the same sort of way as brainworms. like as far as I can tell these days t4t is a democratization of raping transfems.
I know this probably is kind of a vibe killing thing to post in the lesbian thread but holy fuck it feels like there is literally no alternative anymore to rape if you're transfem besides being celibate.
Pretty shit other than living with my girlfriend in an area full of chuds who stare at us any time we go outside
>>8412That is because religious society wants the chuds to hate gays and label them as "confused" - as if we are all desired to be straight.
Remember this, homophobia is a reactionary tool to try and brainwash normies into the chud ideology
I'm lonely but I've got plenty of people to talk with online, so it's not all bad, I'm hoping to get diy sometime soon.
My wife and I left burgerstan for fear of the crackdowns, and it was a good decision, even if it may not have been the difference between life and death for us. It was, at least, the difference between freedom and the constant cloying hatred that seeps out of every pore of that sad excuse for a country.
>>8455Set fire to Burgerstan! :-D
I just got my chef application accepted and i will no longer be a NEET from next week! :-DDDDDD
>>8455I fucking wish I could leave but there's basically no path out for me and especially not if I tried to bring my not-wife with me.
>>8397I did, and I think I've learned to live with it even though it's really lonely because she spends all her time with other people and not me. But there's nobody else in my country except for men and transmasc enbies who will put up with how argumentative and needy I am.
if a girl goes to jail on account of an underage girl, does that mean she is a pedo?
>>8466I'm sorry, friend. Shit sucks. I hope it sucks less soon.
>>8478Pedophilia is still a crime, no matter what sexual orientation.
>>8456Nona! We need an update! Hows the mew job been?
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