>>8632The amount of transphobia you'll experience irl largely depends on your class, ethnicity, stealth, country, city and how well you pass. For example if you're a white westerner living in fucking Canada who started HRT at 18 you'll probably be fine, but if you are a working class American trans woman or a working class person from the third world (Latin America, Africa) then it's very likely you'll face some discrimination and violence at a certain point.
However online transphobia IS fabricated (mainly by the American ruling classes and their bootlickers). In my experience most people irl won't care about you at all, that is unless you are too "visible" or do something the cissies don't like. So either the online transphobes keep their mouths shut irl or there aren't as many transphobes as social media tries to make you believe.