/lgbt/ - LGBT

>>1791
thread sucked anyways, its just some chud calling feminism bourgeois or whatever

>>1874
>interclass movements based on ideals and rights aren't bourgeois because they just aren't ok?
Lol I'm literally trans, sorry I defiled your idols or whatever. Just zero critical analysis on this shithole as usual.

>>1873
>>1872
Proletariat women are not only oppressed for being proletarians, but also receive unique oppression in stuff like lower wages despite being in the same field – this is just material reality.
Recognizing their unique additional oppression is necessary since capital in general will exploit one sub group over the other to bribe the other, with an additional demonizing of each other – racism is a famous example.

This isn't to say that bourgeosis women are oppressed because they're women, they're so benefiting of their class that it overrides that – both of these things work together.

>The abolition of class society and property emancipates the proletariat, genius.
If you're going to be snarky, you need to do it right.
(Unlike me which forgets to add words).


>>1874
Thread sucks because it's a dead board, not because a "chud" doesn't get a now liberal movement that's constantly white washed.

>>1894
chud transhumanist. tale as old as time

>>1900
Is /lgbt/ just gonna be queer siberia?

>>1896
>lower wages despite being in the same field
This is only a thing in high-earning jobs. Not beating the midle-class allegations.

>>1896
>>1900
>>1874
Clara Zetkin was absolutely brutal when it came to tearing feminism apart for what it really is. Worth noting, she wasn't a feminist, and 'marxist feminism' isn't even a thing anyway.

>>1896
>>1900
>>1874
>>1905
This is Eleanor Marx about women workers, highlighting how middle-class women's interests diverge from those of working class women, and how feminists (women's rights-ers) differ from working class women.

Luxemburg's stance on feminism is well-known enough so not gonna bother posting that one.

>>1905
>Women's oppression serves to divide the proletariat.
>Emancipation within the capitalist framework leaves women in a class position.
>Proletarian women have more to gain from organizing with men than to fight an inter-class struggle.
While i think this analysis largely holds up, i find the wholesale dismissal of engaging with this intra-class competition very short-sighted. Is the economic discrimination of women, like those of racial minorities, not a very visible head of the capitalist hydra that can spur organization? Likewise the eventual disappearance of the need for such underclasses does not automatically result in the disappearance of related ressentiments. Need i remind you the emancipation from the family structure was fought for in the USSR, unsuccesfully. Feminism is a valuable tool for marxists, to a point.

Yet there is also another side to the issue, besides how women should organize with respect to their class. Gender ideology necessarily pervades every aspect of society and most apparently can lead to the trivialization of uniquely women's issues. I would argue bourgeois feminism is pretty transparent in every one of its incarnations. Proletarian women's economic marginalization and the gendered burden of childcare are a part of the wider proletarian struggle, as much as the working conditions of amazon warehouse employees or price gouging in healthcare, and, in addition to present economic conditions, they are both enforced by patriarchal notions of women's inferiority and predisposition towards mother roles. The enduring prevalence of such notions even among the working class is the reason women need to loudly advocate for their own issues, or risk being brushed aside.

Need a twink who can swallow anything

>>1931
Im sorry Im not the person I was when I wrote this

>>1932
Or? 😈

>>1933
Hmm nah. Im normal again

>>1905
Idk why this reply when the first image explains that proletariat women are unequal to proletariat men.

Also your second post ( >>1906 ), is just highlighting liberals in the movement and the sway/leading it has.

The problem I had was simplifying the contradictions of the struggle to just purely proletariat vs bourgeois, when it's clear that, even if they're extensions of the first dialect, they still exist.

You're misunderstanding me in thinking that I'm arguing for the solution to be derived from that liberal-feminist framework, or that a communist movement should work part within in it to satisfy those liberals.

And confused when I'm using the modern (water down) definition of feminism of being:
> When you're for the liberation of women and men from the patriachy
And saying that communism, a movement that logically incorporates it but to those less read in theory would not realize this (hence le "maga-communism"), would aim to liberate proletariat women more than just their status as a worker.

>>1931
>>1932
>>1933
>>1934
Get a room you two
you two would be cute together

I think I might be mostly gay or like only able to be satisfied in a monogamous relationship with a woman. But I'm in a relationship with a guy again and thinking of moving in together. I don't feel worthy of dating women and feel like a total creep in general, so ig I am somehow more comfortable dating men even if I feel unsatisfied. Also it's really shitty of me if I mislead my bf or see men as less desirable or precious or hurt his feelings by being crazy like this. I am pretty insane in general tho and kinda cope sometimes by being inappropriately flirtatious. Should I just become a monk and live in the forest and let myself become busted and alone or something?
Ok my actual question is wat do relationship wise? Should I break up with him? Give it time and maybe I will chill tf out and sort some baggage or get dumped but it's worth trying?

I'm not sure on which thread to post this but I need to vent and decided to dump it here in case anyone is sympathetic or interested in giving genuine first hand or second hand advice about my situation.


Recently I've been diagnosed with HIV during a health examination and will start taking PEPs this week after going through Third World healthcare bureaucracy, fortunately both of my parents are being supportive and not panicking after understanding how medication works which gives me peace of mind to some extent.

What is keeping me up at night is the way this is bound to affect my dating prospects as a Bi man who doesn't see much success with cis women to begin with but is fairly popular with transgender women.

For example recently I was talking with this pretty attractive lady who wanted to hookup for me to piss in her mouth before I was diagnosed and now is very reluctant about contact even if she says she still likes me and appreciates that I disclosed my status while explaining how becoming undetectable/untransmittable works and being eager to use protection for her sake, after being diagnosed instead of keeping it to myself in fear or ghosting her, just a few hours ago was in a call with her to discuss meeting for talking or having a few drinks together and apparently she won't be able to until next week despite being on vacation since a few days ago I'm not sure if she blocked me on socials or Meta is being dogshit and glitching out.

There is also a second trans chick who also wanted to hook up with me but we just started talking and I'm gonna wait to meet in person for talking and getting to know eachother before disclosing because this whole situation is making me very paranoid about being unlovable even if I become after taking my PEPs for long enough and using protection until and after that undetectable/untransmittable due to stigma

As for how I contracted it, or at least how I suspect it happened, a year ago while living by myself and working a job I fucking hated which made me hate my life every waking hour, I started getting into the party and play scene to cope and went into a 4 days meth binge with two seperate girls where I had unprotected sex where we nutted inside eachother, one which was a sex worker who had cancelled all her appointments to be with me and a few days later after the meth/sex binge I experienced fever, diarrhea and vomiting which I attributed to the drugs at the time but in retrospective it was the disease. Thankfully nowadays I don't have any symptoms and have a healthy weight.



TL;DR I got pozzed a year ago, got diagnosed recently while the health aspects is under control the relationship side of stuff looks grim and don't know what to do or how to cope.

>>3630
I wish I could help but I don't have much advice really. I think there are dating places for HIV positive people but idk if that's something you want.

stop normalizing boys kissing, homophobia makes for great angst stories

so… what is a woman?

>>3890
A miserable little pile of secrets. But enough talk…

>1ne chance at life
>afab
HAHA just fuck everything dood

Anyone caught up with Arknights lore know if there's queer themes going on with Mon3tr? I know Logos is explicitly trans, so it's not like they'd be in uncharted waters.

I'm not that concerned about spoilers since I'm already sorta spoiled on a bunch of stuff just knowing about Mon3tr's catgirl form.

>>4272
God, I want to look like him so badly. It makes me want to cry that ill never be him

>>4273
You can buy cat ears headband.

>>3630
Echoing S poster but you should seek out the HIV positive people for community and support in general not just dating prospects. Other people have been through it in your same community and may be able to help with all sorts of things.

>>3630
Sleeping around should be a crime.

>>3630
I asume this wouldn't be a issue for sides, and exclusive sides have a reduced number ofvoptions so less picky I guess. Maybe an online relationship, or someone with HIV as others have said.

>>4273
Diet and exercise Anon. Anybody can be a twink!

>>3630
At least you got to have sex. Gross though

>>4282
Not everyone can be an attractive twink though (or a twink at all if you are over a certain age).
You can't change your genetics and plastic surgery is expensive and unhealthy.

>>4274
It's not enough. I still wouldnt have the body, the cute face, the beautiful black hair.
>>4282
Im far too depressed to exercise or take care of myself. Plus my face will never be that pretty even if I exercised, my faceshape and body are too disgustingly masculine.

It's been two years since I've been off HRT and I don't think I'll go back on it (even if I wanted to I'm broke as shit.) Every night before I fall asleep I still think about what it'd be like to be a man with a wife living happily together. I don't think it will happen but I wonder if I should just dyke out already, I have a .0001% chance of scoring a dommy mommy but I'm going to take the chance anyway.

Sup SGMs.

>from the mainstream society perspective, I fit neatly into the 'cis man' category
>I don't personally identify with a gender, and I think the binary models of gender are ridiculous, but my non-binary identity has no real effect on how society interacts with me.
- Is it insincere for me to classify myself as non-binary or queer?
- Should cis allies lie on census and surveys to inflate the trans demographic?

bought some sex toys in the hope that they can alleviate my sexual frustration somewhat
got a cock ring set, a bullet vibe, a butt plug set, a bottle of lube and a douche

>>894
is there a word for cis "bi" dudes who have most exclusively attractions towards feminine-presenting ppl regardless of gender identity

>>5265
"Straight"

>>5265
straight

>>5269
The straightest guy I know has an ass like the right.
It comes down to how much you work out. More squats = more shapely dumpy

>>5265
If you have sex with self identified men and women then you're bisexual. Seriously wtf is this gatekeeping? Would you call a man who exclusively has sex with feminine cis men straight?

>>5284
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Are age gaps seen as more acceptable in queer relationships? I yet the sense that they're somewhat more common especially among gay men. Personally I don't see an issue with them as long as both parties treat each other with respect.

>>5337
Yes I would say they definitely are.

god i love being nonbinary

>>5344
What's so great about it?

>>5346
You're not hated by the right as much as transhumanists

im a disgusting fucking manmoder and i hate myself so much im thinking about getting a mastectomy instead of ffs just because of how fucked and ugly my body is. i hate myself